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DrDoc:
Complete blood and bodily scan would reveal the state of his system and organs and you can get expert advice and care from medical professionals. I do not think one needs to much money for a test. Stop leaving your nrother to suffer. Get him to any medical centre for tests

He has don more than 30 tests.
All his organs have been tested.

My brother used his bare hand to mix Force Up weed killing harbiside.
Unfortunately, he had a wound in his hand and I think through the wound the herbiside with an active ingredient of Glyphosate has entered his blood stream (I might be wrong but this is how we think the herbiside entered his body).

It's been about 3 months now and his kidney function test shows it has been degrading. He feels nobness in his hand and his eyes is also getting affected.
He has gone to many hospitals and they didn't believe it's the herbiside. After conducting many tests, they just leave him in limbo.

He has spents so much money at Evercare hospital in Lekki and they also just stopped attending to him.
We have been looking for Toxicology and Poision control centre but we have not seen any reputable one.

His body is geeting weak everyday and his organs function are degrading.... Do you know any good hospital that can handle this or any posion control centre we can take him to?
Thanks!

Football is messed up. Only goal scorers get the spotlight. KDB should win everything in Man City, he is the power house

This doesn't look like Salmon to me.
The body looks like it but the head is far from it.

kayo80:
Update.

Hake is an entirely different type of fish. The frozen food I go to have been decieveing me since that Hake is Salmon/Eja Osan. Or maybe they also don't know.

I went to a new frozen food today, and they actually had Hake, and Salmon underneath it on their white board. So, I finally am sure that what I am buying is Salmon�

Picture attached.

Irin Ajo and Seuontiose by Beautiful nubia.

White Christmas is when snow falls on the christmas day... Snow does not fall on every christmas day that's why it's not correct.
2 days ago was christmas and it didn't snow, so it wasn't a white christmas.

Bankowner:
The places you mention, are they not a part of the UK?

So what is not correct about white Christmas in the UK when the OP is not place specific?

This is the most stupid comment of the year

OldNairalander:
I will only take you serious if you relocate back to Africa

Bankowner:
It has always being a white Christmas in the UK so what is he yapping about?

As they always say, If you can't stand the heat then get out of the kitchen!!

It's a white Christmas over here too.

This is not correct... it's not always white christman in UK and snow doesn't fall everywhere in the UK. Snow falls monthly in the northern England and Scotland

Anyone can write Manifesto but Peter Obi have not written one after 4 years... SMH

Acidosis:
What are you even saying?

Anyone can write a manifesto. The bigger question is, will your presidential candidate come forward for a debate and other platform to defend what is written?

This is by far the best answer I've read in a long time

Fahvvy:
How do you forgive him?
By forgiving him na ...

Marriage is not relationship o that you can brezz in and out as you wish ...
Marriage will test and stretch you farther than anything else will ..

On a more serious note...
It's clear and glaring that you don't consider yourself as a team? ...

Let's look at your write up ...

I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that "we" should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller."we" did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

So even when "two have become one" you still act as if you guys are not a team ...

The only time the word "we" appeared there, it was because it was suggested by your hubby ...

So while he sees you guys as a team, you see yourself as competitors ...

Until you change your mindset, it's best you don't go back ...

I'm not trying to excuse your hubby's actions, however, if you intend to go back with this mindset of unforgiveness, disunity and distrust, just be prepared for everyday quarrel ...

And that too will affect your kids ...

Firstly, your husband messed up big time.
However, you've destroyed your home forever due to ego and lack of patience.
I am 100% sure your husband will live 20yrs longer if you guys don't get back together but if he naively take you back, he'll die before his time.
You're a big time trouble maker. You're considering to go back to him not because you've forgiven him or love him because of a your children... in other words, you're going back just to use him as a father placeholder for your children.
The man has used everything to beg you even his father came from the village but it's not enough punishment just because you want to flex your muscle of being the richer one between you two.
All I can sense is a selfish and egotistic woman, I pray your children shouldn't take after you, if not that man will live the remaining of his live being miserable.
I pray you don't go back to him and God gives him a better woman to help him live longer.

Unzerious:
Darn!!! He's the second man who the Igbo attire doesn't fit... PMB is the Chart Topper

I'm not an APC fan; to be honest the attire fits am die!

He does not look like a sickle cell o!

This is the best thing I've seen this year!

Jashub:
These women are just being foolish . Get your PVCs and vote out the murderous APC who hired mercenaries to kill your people. Staying there and chanting empty incantations to dead idols won't deliver you from the evil coming , neither will it bring you closer to justice

You're clearest the most stupid person here.

It's not embarrassing and it's actually a sign of strength than weakness. It means you're tough and nobody should mess with you. I gave you the gift because you're not a random person, if you leave the special position that led to giving you the gift, it's logical to take the gift back from you or better still, you return the gift yourself. You cannot reject me and accept my gift. Ko make sense

orohbiro:
You bought her gift then she break ur heart or u guys have quarrel or she rejected ur proposer u went ahead to collect your gift u are a weak man not a strong man.
In fact u not a gentle man u are not qualify to be a man in the ist place.
If u are doing that u should stop it is embarrassing

Supremedrizzy:
Someone gave me a simple job of making an existing static site template responsive within 24 hours and I blew it. A simple task that should take few hours, it looked all good on my localhost only to test it on netlify and it turned out to be a disaster. I'm just so ashamed of myself.

I've been learning web dev since mid last year though its been a case of one month on three months off, I've been grossly inconsistent due circumstances beyond my control. I haven't even coded this year because I come back from my menial hustles with battered bones and weak muscles. You can imagine trying to code after offloading a trailer load of cement all day. I even had to use bet shops around for the gig amidst the pangs of hunger I felt while working coupled with the noisy and distracting environment I was working in which contributed to my legendary blunder.

At the age of 30 and unemployed I've always seen programming as my way out of poverty but it seems I'm not good enough. I'm painfully watching that little flicker of hope fizzle out before my tearful eyes. Which other skill can I dabble into product design?? I suck at designs reason why my frontend skills is below average... should I try backend?? I'm just confused, frustrated and down casted not knowing the next step to take while time is no longer on my side.

Life currently has no meaning and direction to me, I just seem to be flowing aimlessly with the flow. My situation is giving me sleepless nights and I now rely on drugs to sleep for even three hours a day.

I really need someone to talk to, I'm really tired of trying to work out things on my own. I'm 30, broke, lonely and depressed, single has been a constant in my life's equation cos I don't even like myself for who I am presently so I don't expect someone's daughter to like me in this my miserable state.

Someone should please show me the way, this dark tunnel is fast turning to a maze that I can't navigate on my own.

Send me an email, I will like to employee you as a junior frontend dev

Take her to court and collect your Money; It's an investment you made and she should pay you back the returns from your co-owned business. You can sell all the equipment and facilities if she's not yielding then move on with your life.
Don't bother fighting anything for her because it'll be a great waste of time and if you eventually get her back, the wound would forever be in your heart and you can never trust her again, nar high BP go kill you because whenever you see her with a man, unconsciously you go dey suspect her. Abeg, just leave her alone but collect as much as you can from her.

Am I the only one that really don't care about this Ukraine war since I saw how they are treating blacks and other races badly ?

Today nar hin turn to lament, your turn would come tomorrow, may be your own go be mourning after one of those Idiots on the road kill you or your family member.
Idiot, if you don't have anything to contribute why don't you keep mum?

Ndibunna:
If you don't want to travel, sit tight where you

Stop disturbing our peace with unnecessary sentiments

Rubbish

She didn't grow up with them, I don't think thing is a nice Idea. It will be as if we've spoilt their child and now returning her

sisisioge:
Time for her to return to her base or parents. It's that simple....no need to beat or maltreat her. It's just time for her to leave. EOD.

I feel this could make her wild by the time she comes back, nothing would scare her again.

Romanoff:
She has become greedy and lacks contentment.

Her Ojukokoro will lead her to steal more, of not from you guys then from somewhere else.

If she doesn't steal, she will do anything to feed her lack of contentment.

I second the guardroom idea.

I am seriously confused and scared at the same time.

My cousin sister has been staying with us since age 5 and nobody knows she's not our sibling because we took her as one of us, she finished from the most expensive secondary school in our town and we gave her everything she needs.

She told my younger sister that her friends boyfriend is a yahoo guy and I noticed she has been misbehaving lately.

I received the shock of my life when my younger sister discovered her POS business money was not complete and she told me she suspected Toyin because of the clothes, Shoes and bags she buys nowadays. Lo and behold, she conducted search in her bag and she found 200k in her bag. She told the Money from there and after some days, My cousin started looking for the money but she didn't tell anyone but asked our maid if she found the money.

We confronted her yesterday and she confessed she took the money.
My brother is suggesting we take her to guard room but I think that's inhumane but I'm so confused at what to do right now...
I don't want us to maltreat her, I'm looking for the best way to treat this issue without causing any physical harm to her.

Since she has been with us since age 5, I feel sending her to her family won't make sense because she didn't grow up with them, I am suggesting a professional counsellor/therapist but my siblings are saying I'm behaving like Oyibo, they aren't buying the idea at all.

Please I need your advise on how best to handle this issue:

The right answer should be a question.
What do we pray for in this country ?
1. Job >>> Job plenty anyhow
2. Evil spirit (Village people) >>> Nothing like that over there
3. Good life (Electricity, water, good road, education, health care) >>> All these things are their on a default note.

Why the prayer ?

vankaid:
Cool.

Definitely not better than me though.

Harharharhar.... I'm available for your challege. Make we enter hackarrank ?

React (Next.JS for SEO ) >>> Frontend
Node.js (Microservices: Auth service, Post Service, Comment Service, Like service, Ads service) >>> Backend
AWS Auto Scaling ( Ducker + Kubernetes : Destroy unused servers when traffic is low and spin up additional servers when traffic is high) >>> Server
AWS S3 for media file >>> Storage
MongoDB + Redis (caching) >>> DB

vankaid:
Curiously, you included PHP in your tools section on your linkedin.

That's because I'm super good at PHP

NEVER LEARN PHP IN 2020

http://linkedin.com/in/mohemos

That's my linkedin profile.

I guess I'm the best person to advise you... After using PHP (Laravel, Smarty) for 5 Years and currently using Nodejs

TLDR; (The short answer is) : LEARN JAVASCRIPT then NODE.JS

I earn $20/hour working remotely using NODE.JS & REACT.JS

Long answer, picked from stackoveflow 2020 survey:
Similar to last year, we asked about many of the other miscellaneous technologies that developers are using. For the second year in a row, Node.js takes the top spot, as it is used by half of the respondents. We also see growth across the board in the popularity of data analysis and machine learning technologies such as Pandas, TensorFlow, and Torch/PyTorch.


https://insights.stackoverflow.com/survey/2020#technology-other-frameworks-libraries-and-tools-professional-developers3

A leader you people can easily bribe abi? ...just as they bribed so-called leaders in Akwa Ibom and Oyo state..... We no want! everyone is a leader.
The faceless leader thing confuse them

Kogi is 10 times the size of Lagos, why should a responsible government weep over a single hospital destruction ?
It shows the government is not serious and all those acting is just excuse for the looting to come in the name of repairs.

TecM0:





Majority of Africans in Nigeria still think they are dumb lower animals

He knows how many people would die for in-availability of this critical medical tools

Imbeciless without Health Insurance or Medicare are smiling and hailing the destruction while people who no better are crying for them

let's simplify it for you monkeys to get

*If you have head injury and internal bleeding in Kogi you would die painfully and slowly, because nothing to scan you with

*If you get stabbed or shot or in anyway loosing blood in Kogi, and you don't know your genotype , blood group , then just prepare for death as they just looted test centre equipment





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This your headline is stupid and misleading... did you see the peaceful protesters burning those buses?
In case you don't know, there's a clear difference between protesters and hoodlums or thugs rented by same government to destruct the peaceful protest.