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Foreign AffairsRe: Millions To Pay More As Energy Price Cap Rises In The UK by ibedun: 7:57pm On Feb 25, 2025
zero8zero:
Europe has alternatives
🙄 tell us about it, alternatives from where?
Foreign AffairsRe: French, UK Leaders Rush To Washington At A Historic Turning Point For The West by ibedun: 8:21am On Feb 25, 2025
Gadafii:
Trump asking zelensky to pay back the loans is crazy, that nigga or his country will never be paid, no more funding for them, Russia can now arrest him without the funding and armement of the NATO, a huge chunk of Ukraine will be captured, if not all.

In the end, Ukraine lost, America lost, NaTO lost, but Russia didn't, zelensky was led on by some war mongers who wouldn't face Russia directly, they promised him heaven and earth, and himself dey strong nyash, and some foolish people
Chop knuckles 👍
Foreign AffairsRe: French, UK Leaders Rush To Washington At A Historic Turning Point For The West by ibedun: 8:19am On Feb 25, 2025
CNN the biggest propaganda channel describes Ukraine as “sovereign democracy”
Oyinbo self hype, propaganda and false narratives!!!! Awon oloriburuku liars, manipulators, swindlers!
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 8:14am On Feb 25, 2025
ehemwhy:
ME IT'S MONEY O ! ,I CURRENTLY HAVE AN ADMISSION FOR MRES IN THE UK , I CAN SORT SCHOOL FEES OF LIKE 8 MILLION , THE PROBLEM IS I NEED MONEY FOR THE REST OF THE PROCESSING , IF I SEE SOMEONE OR A FIRM THAT CAN GIVE A LOAN TO COVER THIS I DONT MIND . I HAVE A PROPERTY I CAN USE AS COLLATERAL
Hmmm …. Do what you must!
I can confidently tell you for a fact that 70% or more of the people in UK do not have N8m in savings. This world no balance.
Same percentage applies in Yankee and Canada.
Good luck - look well before you leap!
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 8:09am On Feb 25, 2025
Tukor32:
I have a passport expires this year..I just needed only $1500 for school fees and I travel to Portugal
Kai! Portugalhuh
I pity your mama!
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 8:07am On Feb 25, 2025
Bishop92:
Japa ke, just 200k will solve my problem
Get in you with me 🙏
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 8:01am On Feb 25, 2025
proff010:
44, will be 45 next month.
Okay, go abroad if you so desire. BUT never ever ever in your life sell any landed property you own to finance travelling abroad. Never ever! You hear!!!
And don’t go there with your family. You will work until you die, just paying rent and other bills.
Abroad of 20, 30, 40 years ago is not the same as today. But oga, please go if you like oooo, I’m not stopping you.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:28pm On Feb 24, 2025
1Sharon:
Ewedan.
What’s Ewedan?
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2025
1Sharon:
Are you suited to it? Tell us. Address my points.
No I am not suited to it, and I can also identify people who are not so suited. You’re one of those.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:19pm On Feb 24, 2025
Kobojunkie:
To what? That marriage as a fraud is a fact everywhere and not just in the West. huh
It’s going global but it has always been well hidden in past eras.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:17pm On Feb 24, 2025
DaddyCoool:
Fact. You can sleep quite fine alone in a warm room in cold weather. But it feels better under covers cuddling with someone, watching a favorite movie or sport event
Haba! Personal opinion and preference, or veritable fact?
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:15pm On Feb 24, 2025
Kobojunkie:
A fraud in the West but not a fraud in Nigeria? huh
Open your eyes Sir
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:14pm On Feb 24, 2025
1Sharon:
See your mouth like mortgage. Who dash am? About 30% of homeowners in the UK are black. For an immigrant Nigerian, that percentage is even less.

If a Nigerian immigrant man is paying the mortgage, there is a good chance that his wife is helping him pay it.

Money stops nonsense, if women in Nigeria had the means, they'll also leave their marriages.

I always tell my little cousins in Nigeria to make money before marrying. A broke woman is more vulnerable than a broke man.
Sharon, please leave marriage alone. You’re not suited to it.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:09pm On Feb 24, 2025
DaddyCoool:
They make for a BETTER life
Personal opinion or fact?
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:05pm On Feb 24, 2025
DaddyCoool:
I googled it.
Women are naturally better at house-keeping, caring for things, keeping things organized


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gZIwtSfizM?si=rxnDiyyCUyrSk4pf
PROPAGANDA planted everywhere in the media. These are made up stories carefully choreographed to support a predetermined narrative.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:02pm On Feb 24, 2025
DaddyCoool:
So you just be by yourself? How about sex, companionship, etc?
When you lose your house, pension, savings and everything you worked for all your life, you will find that sex and companionship are not critical to your existence.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 3:00pm On Feb 24, 2025
DaddyCoool:
Easier, yes. Better, no
You will learn. Adapt to the changes, our mothers and the women before them ain’t coming back.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 2:55pm On Feb 24, 2025
eastOFwest:
First, its not pragmatic for an intelligent woman to marry for love alone in Nigeria. Nigeria is a very tough place with so many hazards and not a very female friendly place. A woman needs the protection of a strong or reliable man in a place like Nigeria. Marry for love and then experience abject poverty that will make her lose her sanity and dignity? The situation in Nigeria is not giving women the luxury of making love decisions like that. When the situation in Nigeria improves, the way women choose partners will improve. It wasn't as bad as this in the 60s and 70s when even an office messenger was able to afford to take care of a family and even buy a small Honda or Bentley motorcycle for small flex.

For men living abroad, no matter how nice your wife is, irrespective of whether she was raised in Africa or abroad, make financial decisions based on WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD ON YOUR OWN. Don't fall into that western trap of making financial decisions based on so called "family income" ie, your income plus your wife. No. Take out a mortgage based on what you can afford. If your wife wants to contribute to the deposit or furnishings or buy car out of her own free will, then by all means let her. Make moves based on what YOU can afford because if things go south, and trust me they often do abroad, you will be STUCK. Unable to move out and support yourself and your family at the same time due to high commitments and an uncooperative and sometimes hostile wife. Also, always keep your "vex money" savings handy and away from your wife so that you can easily move into a hotel, short let or air bnb without breaking sweat.
You make me laugh.
The only remedy in the WEST is to avoid marriage altogether. It isn’t critical to life and it’s now a fraud.
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 2:42pm On Feb 24, 2025
BloomingDale:
There was a social experiment in Britain where young boys and young girls were separated into different apartment for a week. The boys devolved while the girls thrived.
I see feminist PROPAGANDA!
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 2:39pm On Feb 24, 2025
DaddyCoool:
This applies to women too. But most of us don't have the luxury of time to do all that due diligence. Besides, many people can hide their ugly part till years into marriage.
So either way, it boils down to luck. Just pray you marry the right person - statistics say you won't but you might get lucky and beat the odds
Don’t marry! It’s easier 🤷🏾‍♀️
FamilyRe: Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Fail Abroad by ibedun: 2:37pm On Feb 24, 2025
NairalandVDM:
Alright. Aside from childbearing and companionship, marriage is of no benefits to a Man in Nigeria
What do you need childbearing and companionship for?
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 2:19pm On Feb 24, 2025
Orch1981:
Nigeria is a bad country ask I will tell you
Bitter man, stop spreading your poison against Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: IBB Confirmed 1966 Coup Was Igbo-led – Fani-kayode by ibedun: 2:16pm On Feb 24, 2025
It was a confirmed IGBO COUP grin
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 1:53pm On Feb 24, 2025
proff010:
For me I have done everything needed by myself and submitted but the only thing that remain is to pay the visa fee which is about 1.3m for my family of four.
How old are you sir?
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 1:51pm On Feb 24, 2025
REMEMBER THIS:

Your selfish and thoughtless parents put you in this position. It is wickedness to bring forth a child into the world with the financial means to set them up in life. That’s the tragedy of Africa and India…
TravelRe: What Is Stopping You From Japa? Let’s Hear Your View by ibedun: 1:49pm On Feb 24, 2025
NDSMELODY:
I wish to go to Canada, I would need 6-10M to migrate. Alternatively as you said, I have a business idea which is selling Electrical appliances in whole sales but I couldn't gather money to start up the business.
You will NOT have 6 - 10m in savings after 6 years in Canada. I bet you.

Please don’t sell any landed property to finance going abroad. You will never get it back (90% probability).
AutosRe: ✴️2006/2007 RX350 7.8M Nothing To Fix, Fastest finger ✴️ by ibedun: 8:46am On Feb 24, 2025
DMechyyy:
Available
Una too slow …… check your - rolling eyes 🙄
CelebritiesRe: Once A Woman Stresses Me I Leave - Timaya by ibedun: 5:32am On Feb 24, 2025
GanagiBitrus:
If you have that Timaya's mentality, you'll never settle down as a man.

You need wisdom & maturity to manage women and their stress to get the best in marriage or any relationship.
Settle down as a man? Who told you that lie? That a man ever settles down with a woman?
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie & Pregnant Judy Austin Expecting Baby Number 3 by ibedun: 2:57pm On Feb 22, 2025
Irresponsible couple
AutosRe: 2006 Toyota Camry by ibedun: 7:29am On Feb 18, 2025
More pictures please.
And can you bring to Lagos ?
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie & Pregnant Judy Austin Expecting Baby Number 3 by ibedun: 4:36am On Feb 12, 2025
treatise:
She needs to rush the number she they desire before menopause sets in.
The man is brainless. 3 children in 3 years in this times? Has he got millions of dollars in assets?
BusinessRe: Elon Musk Leads $97.4 Billion Bid To Take Over OpenAI by ibedun: 4:27am On Feb 12, 2025
capatainrambo:
he’s worth it it because the banks can borrow him and he can multiply the money. This is why banks will give him. In the true sense this is why he is worth so much. His worth is the ability of his mind.
Oga shut it up. His worth is worthless speculation. These are the effects of money printing by the USA, and the mumu world worshipping the worthless paper. We all living in a bubble.

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