₦airaland Forum

Konkoja:
Ibk, I sent you PM, you didn't reply. I was going through chats in Romance Section around autumn of 2008 and I can't believe the fun we had then on Nairaland with the likes of missyB, Chamotex, Moyola, Tgirl etc. I deactivated the account I used then. Anyways, hope you are doing good?

Hey dear, what was your previous monicker? I'm doing well thanks, hope you're well also

ChiefPiiko:
I showed my closest friend your foto, he's like you are too beautiful and then u are not on NL

Tell him thank you for me

ChiefPiiko:
Just so u know, I love you, now and always

Aww sweetie I love you too

ChiefPiiko:
is it me or you are kinda lowkey nowadays??

Yeah more than usual sha

ChiefPiiko:
She modified o, don't mind her her initial comment was different

Lol I saw the initial comment too

pocohantas:
Oh baby!!!

pocohantas:
Na only broke guys dey obsess over pussy mileage. Correct made guys look out for women that'll compliment and respect them. If she is a virgin, refurbished virgin, undercover virgin, fine...but, they have no time to bother over frivolity. I didn't say refurbished olosho, that one is a different case.

Where are all the guys that were bashing her on behalf of Ikechukwu?

See one above me
They are ready to turn prepaid meter and install themselves inside your pussy. That's why they don't have time to make money. Rich men know the secret, they chase bills.

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If my comment pain you, hide your face .

Lool poco!

Aww you can tell Davido loves that girl

ubunja:
not even one guy is buying this.

the only people in agreement are ladies.
and their agreement means zero coz u are not even lesbians and u will never marry another woman.


as long as u expect to marry a man you are screwed.men are waking up.

I understand some of the points OP made, I'm pointing out that men do it too, lol what's not to buy?

Sounds like the guy in the write-up would've engaged in the same thing if he'd actually had the opportunity to be honest, nevertheless I understand not wanting to feel used/manipulated, I wasn't good enough for you then but now that you want to settle down I have your attention.

Men do the same thing, sleep around recklessly and then start looking for chaste virgins once they're ready to settle down, it's a phase a lot of young people go through in general. I understand not wanting to be with a woman with a promiscuous past if you haven't either but if you engaged in the same type of behaviour you have no right to judge.

neahyo:
Funny enough, blacks (ladies) are not friendly, immediately you say a simple "hi", I guess the next thing on their mind is "he is an immigrant in need of a residence card".

Regarding the bills, I've been receiving mails to pay for TV and Radio which cost about 18€f but I don't own any of these appliances, is it normal?

lovelygurl:
You can't blame them. Blame the guys who caused it but I understand where you're coming from. Sorry


If you don't own them then I don't think you have to pay. Probably a scam. Sometimes we get those letters to but just ignore. You can also call the "Anbieter" to confirm

Blackfyre:
Okay...Misread it the other time.

Missed out the 'don't mind' part in my response to you, but I'm sure you understood anyway

Blackfyre:
The emboldened just to be clear, are we speaking of independent women or men?

I'm saying Nigerian guys don't mind if the woman is independent/successful only on paper without the 'firmer' character traits that tend to come with it

zicoraads:
Oh, well. Not quite. Stomach issues the previous day. Could barely eat on the Christmas day itself. I'm basically on a road trip, so that's the fun for me.

Wondering if you probably with one handsome British bloke who is pressing all the right buttons and making it almost impossible to really see you in these parts

Lol sorry o

Hahaha

Hotline Bling | Erykah Badu

zicoraads:
How was the Christmas celebration? You've been scarce, again

You sure you not

It was nice thanks, hope you had a nice time too

Lol I haven't now, I'm not what?

pocohantas:
LOL. It's not me.
I know her from way back...she has always had been that very ambitious chick. And she is beautiful, always had that body we envied.

LOL

She's beautiful

pocohantas:
Very well....

Let me find out it's even you

pocohantas:
LOL. Anthonia done reach Nairaland?

Issokay!

You know her?

Good beat, nice flow!

Yeah successful women tend to be more self confident, independent, assertive, emotionally stable, self sufficient etc than someone dependant on a man entirely financially and some find this intimidating because she can't be controlled as easily

They don't mind someone with a good career on paper and smart enough to not be considered stupid but they want that to be as far as it goes as the other traits give her more leverage to be able to challenge him

The other day one guy was telling me I have to accept that the man owns me because he feeds me etc and when I told him I have my own money he had no other argument

I've also met a lot of Nigerian men that don't have this mindset but the ones that do definitely outweigh them