Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:11pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Actually I loved your comment that's all that was why I asked who said it. ok no problem |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by mhisbliss(f): 11:12pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0:
Ar tire for u oo abeg make money jor lol I will intimidate you first before others |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by mhisbliss(f): 11:13pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
ouzo1:
Abeg make the money for two no guy will chop my money o, ayam not a sugar mummy |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Mhissgaga(f): 11:14pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:
That's a lie. Refer to LORDKO's comment. It's a smart, intelligent financially independent lady with good character that's the prize, many have character flaws.. I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house" Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 11:14pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:
how does on do this? i actually don't imagine most nigerian ladies have good character,....in all honesty recently i meet one in church on a sunday, when i met her outside the church on the way to show i marvelled...two different personalities
Many families don't consdier character in the homes, so i can'expect many well-trained people in this country, in all honesty. Not in the case were one partner is an absentee parent Hmmmm na wa ooo! Well honestly speaking you can't know about a woman true character untill she drops down a child for you.. Women can do anything I mean anything to present themselve to look appreciated . Women are secretive human beings u know!and it not easy to really know the true them so we are only by chance or lucky to know their character or know the true them! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by MissWrite(f): 11:15pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:
Intelligent people are difficult to correct. They are not aware of their conditions, when a person can't be corrected or don't listen to make corrections, how can they make corrections and improve. I've always maintained intelligence has a downside, that's the tact to appl with intelligence,intelligence is like a fast speeding train, it needs sound character, to tame it. It's a roaring fire and without control mechanisms, it will destroy its owner...Intelligence is a subtle curse. Ignorance is bliss !
Not jut with women, whenever i have to choose between an educated professional and an uneducated one, i go for the unlearned one, intelligence is a problem, irt's always looking out for errors, insecure, unsafe, always scheming, I'm ashamed for all intelligent people, males and females. It's not intelligence that makes it difficult for a person to take corrections. It's arrogance. When people have an exaggerated estimation of their own importance they feel that no one can tell them anything. Sure, intelligence can make a person prideful, but money or beauty can have the same effect on a person. And before you know it you would be dealing with ignorance as well as arrogance. So, just look for humility in a person. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by ouzo1(m): 11:15pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
mhisbliss: no guy will chop my money o, ayam not a sugar mummy Na wao.. Is that hw u use to do?? |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:15pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Mhissgaga:
And you think we aren't managing you guys too The truth is that most of you are boring and there's nothing really exciting about you guys lies! !! Truth is that, you guys can't live without us and our money. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
I know i created this thread..but I really don't want to debate with anyone. I'm sorry, I'm just tired this evening. Maybe tomorrow will reply the mentions. Goodnight. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0:
Hmmmm na wa ooo!
Well honestly speaking you can't know about a woman true character untill she drops down a child for you..
Women can do anything I mean anything to present themselve to look appreciated .
Women are secretive human beings u know!and it not easy to really know the true them so we are only by chance or lucky to know their character or know the true them! Lol..Brotha...easy oh ! Hence why many men use money to control women, or rather to tame ! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
mhisbliss: lol I will intimidate you first before others Go read my story ooo Those are not threat.. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
mhisbliss: no guy will chop my money o, ayam not a sugar mummy You get money before? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by ibkayee(f): 11:17pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Blackfyre:
The emboldened just to be clear, are we speaking of independent women or men?
I'm saying Nigerian guys don't mind if the woman is independent/successful only on paper without the 'firmer' character traits that tend to come with it |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 11:19pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:
Lol..Brotha...easy oh !
Na u need to easy ooo
Me don arrange my plan down they wait.
I get my strategy for them!
Hence why many men use money to control women, or rather to tame ! .
Na their way me nor dey plan use this way atall |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:19pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Mhissgaga:
I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially
In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"
Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful
Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation
They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy
It's a societal conditioning, many guys now want a chick that is presentable, smart, intelligent, hard working...But the little thing guys want is don't nag us...This is the mind of many upcoming chaps...Don't nag ! It's too much to bear nag alongside pressures of life. While many women work work may have strong finances, they don't know what it's like to have huge burden of debts, and negative issues, the pressure is on men, not on women, women can have as many medals as possible but pressure, nah that's for the man, perhaps pressure's the anchor that keep men from sinking, financially independent women are a strong turn-off thesedays, may God help ladies, the way men run from them ! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:19pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
ibkayee:
I'm saying Nigerian guys don't if the woman is independent/successful only on paper without the 'firmer' character traits that tend to come with it Okay...Misread it the other time. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:20pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0: .
Na their way me nor dey plan use this way atall What's the way out ! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by MissWrite(f): 11:22pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
pocohantas:
He should keep running. The loyalty of a broke man can never be trusted... Words on Marble. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:23pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Gerrard59:
Maybe in less developed societies like India and Nigeria, but in developed nations, it's a crime to pay a an individual less than the market's rate due to gender.
- Ladies generally earn more than men during the early stages of employment. But as they progress, get pregnant and become mothers, the males have progressed at a rapid pace. When these women come back, they have a lot of catching up to do.
- If the gender pay existed, companies will employ only or majorly females as it will cut costs - since they earn less. However, businesses don't.
- There are less females opting for fields where individuals are paid more; IT, Business management, Advanced engineering etc. There are more males in a typical Computer Science/Physics class than females, these grads are needed in these fields (where they pay very well) and as a result earn more than females. Yet again, if businesses were to discriminate against women, they will employ them to cut costs. But then, do these kind of businesses see them? Yes, but very few. Resulting in more men earning than women in the same sector (remember more men than women). The field where women come close and are more than (according to a study) is the medical sector.
- How come we're not seeing similar agitation for equal pay in fields like truck driving, fire service, nursing, teaching, daycare, fork lifters etc? What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
- Men due to nature and evolutionary development are built for excessive competition, and this result in them striving to earn more and work longer hours (this also result in earning more by being promoted quickly above others; women work less hours than men). Women also will not want to date men they earn more than (probably by a wide margin) (this is nature, however, things might be changing; but slowly). The average bartender cannot date a lady working in a bank (they might even date, but she won't desire to marry him). As a result, we see more men entering fields where they pay more and don't mind working longer hours to achieve this compared to women. Remember, men don't procreate. So motherhood doesn't come into their way.
Trust me, should teaching as a field start paying practitioners more than oil workers, more men will flock to teaching and we'll begin to see agitations for equal pay for both genders in teaching (even though to Marxists, there are 88 genders ). Good news is: Market forces determine industry pay not emotions. The problem is: We've the third wave/generation feminists asking for what is illogical and making arguments that don't hold water talk more air I believe in equal pay for equal work and you maybe right when you said we have men in tech Careers more than women.I am sure you have heard of STEM for women.There are some women in technology who have foundations built for girls,there is this particular woman I think she hails from the middleast I can't remember her name she spoke at The recently held misk global forum encouraging girls to participate in STEM related courses.You may say the pay gap is not possible but what about the women in media this year BBC released it's pay for workers and the pay made no sense.And I don't believe a woman should be paid what she did not merit.But the people who support the equal pay have good reasons to as they believe that some women are actually qualified to get such pays.Apart from motherhood being the reason equal pay might not be possible for some, there should be no other reason why they should not be paid equally.And believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Jman06(m): 11:24pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Safiaaa: Yes some love dependent women. Very few love independent women, realistically speaking. But most if not all of you claim women have nothing else to offer but pussy? Can you please explain this? It means that when many of you are with a man, all you think the man needs is your pusszy. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:25pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: I believe in equal pay for equal work and you maybe right when you said we have men in tech Careers more than women.I am sure you have heard of STEM for women.There are some women in technology who have foundations built for girls,there is this particular woman I think she hails from the middleast I can't remember her name she spoke at The recently held misk global forum encouraging girls to participate in STEM related courses.You may say the pay gap is not possible but what about the women in media this year BBC released it's pay for workers and the pay made no sense.And I don't believe a woman should be paid what she did not merit.But the people who support the equal pay have good reasons to as they believe that some women are actually qualified to get such pays.Apart from motherhood being the reason equal pay might not be possible for some, there should be no other reason why they should not be paid equally.And believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than. BIG DEAL @ believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than. Can they marry such a man and not make his life a living hell ? |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 11:25pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:
What's the way out !
The way out to control women or ?? |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by ibkayee(f): 11:27pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Blackfyre:
Okay...Misread it the other time.
Missed out the 'don't mind' part in my response to you, but I'm sure you understood anyway |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:27pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0:
The way out to control women or ?? Na, i don't believe in controlling/manipulating people...What's the way out for having a stable, healthy relationship ? |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:27pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
MissWrite:
Words on Marble.
can the loyalty of a broke girl be trusted or isn't that "words on marble" I am asking as a member of broke men association |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 11:28pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
pocohantas:
He should keep running.
The loyalty of a broke man can never be trusted...
Poco poco na wa oo ur way eh!
I dey suspect u oo |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:28pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Msteeew..
As if it's the Nigerian men's fault.. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Jman06(m): 11:29pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
pocohantas:
He should keep running. The loyalty of a broke man can never be trusted... You see ! This is how many of you fill your heads with too many unfounded opinions that prevent you from getting what you want. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:29pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Mhissgaga:
I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially
In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"
Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful
Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation
They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy
Na big hypocrisy. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by WebSurfer(m): 11:30pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Mhissgaga:
I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially
In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"
Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful
Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation
They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy
It’s like you are from delta |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 11:32pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
ibkayee:
Missed out the 'don't mind' part in my response to you, but I'm sure you understood anyway Didn't even notice you missed it. Yeah i did. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:32pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:
BIG DEAL @ believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than.
Can they marry such a man and not make his life a living hell ? It is the one's you have seen not all of them are like that.Okay a man that earns more than a woman can he not also make her life a living hell? |