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sunshineG:
OK I feel you sis
Same here
It the mentality of my village anyway
As one great singer always put it
Who you EPP , so who love EPP

Lool love helps o, but the others better pass

Gwaihir:
@ibkayee

Thank you for making it transparently clear, your points were cogent as was expected.

I also was of the impression that you could, since you said "yea I would" on the previous quotes but i believe we have got that misunderstanding out the way.

Lool

Ahh, when I said yeah I could I was responding to your question about having a level of intimacy with someone I don't love, no problem

Gwaihir:
@emboldened, this is what i wanted you to convey, i am not really interested in the hypothesis of other peoples lives but your own personal practical perspective on the matter. Please do take note.

If you would rather not discuss such things in public, please do say.

Ok, I wanted to make it clear that I was speaking hypothetically because of this part, I thought you were under the impression that I was talking about myself and wanted me to consider the scenario based on that:

Let's say you meet a dude you then love or got acquainted with, will that be fine to you since you can love without sex and still find nothing wrong with such scenario?

To answer your question, it wouldn't be ok with me since it's essentially a form of cheating, we may not be doing anything physical, but there are a variety of ways to express love other than sex and that would be me investing myself emotionally/romantically in another person. I may not be getting everything I want from the current guy, but that doesn't necessarily give me license to find it in someone else whilst still being with him else we'd all have several partners for particular things.

If the guy was providing love and sex without money, for example, it would be like getting acquainted with someone wealthier despite already being in a relationship, so I'd either deal with what I currently have or leave.

Wouldn't be ok if the roles were reversed either.

Piiko:
Are you related to Evans? Cos you just captured my attention

Haha

sunshineG:
please don't mind me for crashing in your discussion
But are you saying though you appreciate love but when push comes to shove (which is the whole point of the thread in the first place) you will choose sex and money
Biko don't mind my manners again, I am a village boy

Yup

Lol no problem!

Gwaihir:
Case scenario, you got a partner who had all three and somewhere along the line the love was lost and the remaining two are still firmly in place. Given your preference, it's all good.

Let's say you meet a dude you then love or got acquainted with, will that be fine to you since you can love without sex and still find nothing wrong with such scenario?

And if the scenario was reversed as your partner was the one in such shoes and you are certain he is not cheating but his love is with someone else, would that be okay to you?

If I had to choose out of the three options I’d take money and sex, yes, but I still value love so it’s not ‘all good’ sha lol

I think it’s possible to love without sex but I wasn’t necessarily talking about myself, I meant that hypothetically it was possible, so I’ve personally never experienced it and I don’t know if I will but other people may have.

I don’t think I could personally love someone romantically and not want to have sex with them so I wouldn’t be fine with that scenario lol, I acknowledged that they aren't the same thing, but they definitely go hand in hand.

Gwaihir:
Ibkayee

Can i ask you further questions on this topic?

Yeah sure

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As if anyone younger than 50 even has a chance

sukkot:
you right. well me personally I have come to appreciate skills over degrees. with skills you can create your own job. not beg another man for a job. independence is key

Depends what you want to do, some jobs require the theoretical background and won't even consider you without it while others don't and the degree isn't really of much value so I definitely hear you, I guess it's up to the individual to do the research and avoid just going to uni for the sake of it

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sukkot:
mayne am telling you, all these chine
se boys who are all over africa building the rail network and building trains all over africa did not go to school to learn these skills. all of them went to a technical school in china. meanwhile black man with masters and phd in mechanical engineering cannot even build a toy train. this university is 419 joor lwkm

Lool! Most of these universities favour theory over practice, academic preparation is still important but a combination of a degree and experience would be ideal

sukkot:
lmao, its very true bro. I think the white man went to third world countries to drum up the idea of universities so that all the third worlders will come and spend their money in his country. meanwhile amongst his own indigenes he promotes job based building and manufacturing skills. hence why they are first world. the white man has 419 us with this whole university concept

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Gwaihir:
I likened the scenario to a Fwb, wasn't talking about a fwb per say.

So basically your consideration is per as at now not the possibility of future outcomes.

Whatever scenario it is, if it isn't a serious/committed relationship it isn't cheating

I really don't know, life is a gamble, depends on the situation

FTrebirth:
i swear, you're missing! it took me one week+ to finish watching it because of work. 9 episodes in all...i was doing one per night.

try and get it as soon as you can.

Seeing good reviews too

Ok I'll start today

FTrebirth:
i want you to take your time and watch this season movie, that's if you haven't. the intro is boring so try not to sleep...but i assure you you'd find it addictive as you proceed to the next episode.

it's the best crime TV series i've ever seen...one of HBO's finest. so interesting you would think it's a reality show.

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i will recommend it to rosieluv too, and maybe she'll slip and fall in love with me.

cc rosieluv

I haven't, I'll watch it and let you know what I think

Lool!

Gwaihir:
Quite an imagination. Speaking of imagination, is there any circumstance whatsoever that could make you cheat on your partner?

I would like to think not

Well i dont know about 'a lot' but you have a point. In the scenario that led to this reply, what if he cheats on you while what is essentially not a relationship more like fwb, does it count? Because the idea here is lets just be fcking each other in the hopes it becomes something tangible

He can't cheat on me if we're fwb because we aren't in a serious/committed relationship. I don't think the idea of a fwb is for it to progress into something 'tangible', the point is to have sex with no strings attached

I meant the dude may be average and turn out a top shot later in life, and an above average may slump to average? Except if we are looking to family wealth or status which rarely happens. I think implies why you used Dangote?

Lol that's a different topic. You asked if money would influence me considering a preference and I said yes based on that question

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chic2pimp:
The remix with Jigga is one of my favourite songs.

Jammm

If she didn't cheat on you I don't get what the big deal is

Gwaihir:
So correct me if am wrong, inferring from you saying hypothetically, you haven't but you are opened to it?

It's not that I'm 'open to it', I was just imagining the possibility and it's very possible

So am confused here, it won't work but you are opened to it? At the risk of a more probable failure than without?

Eh, a lot of relationships don't start with the people actually loving each other and they're sexually intimate, consider scenarios like that, they're pretty common

what's average to you? And by that are you saying, at the least you can only settle for above average irrespective of change of circumstance for the average or the above?

Lol I won't be specific since wealth is subjective but just think Dangote vs regular smegular guy for general context. Can you rephrase your last question please, it's difficult to follow.

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