sex IS marriage.

thesicilian:
If one's score is low on a list full of bad behaviours he/she need to get a life? You're the one who actually needs to get a life.

Yeah the op is probably a degenerate kid

Biodun556:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/fresh-outbreak-of-covid-19-hits-benue/amp/

It was a scam, dont be fooled by psuedo science

ayjay45:
Please advise

i assume you want some form of personal self defence

Madups:
can you listen to yourself? Seems you are destined to be f00lish.. Dont bother replying me cos i wont even read it. Orishirishi.

you this worthless piece of garbage its obvious your comprehension is on a retard's level. have a nice life. dumb rock

MASTAkiLLAh:
you see such ridiculous demands and don't take them as a red flag then you're a mugu and deserve everything that comes your way in that relationship. I've been around long enough to know that true love can never be bought with expensive gifts. Any lady who starts crazy demands for a relationship to kick off is purely out for your money, spend what won't hurt your pockets or leave her alone and you should treat her as what she is, a girl for the streets .
Like the famous philosopher Dr Dre said in his epic poem, "you can't make a whòre a housewife"

I don't get it, why respond to my comment with the same point I was making, did you read the comment I was responding to?

Madups:
na u be the mad person here. Any banny don use gun collect iphone or get alert for brazilian hair before? Well, i know your type all this one wey i dey yarn no go fit make sense.. Na inside grave sense go finally fall on u.

while it is true that gifts are not demanded at gun point, but you seem too stupid to realize that there are multiple forms of manipulation and coercion that provides the same result maybe even more effective than direct force. it seems ur IQ level is really below 6feet. i will stop responding to comments. child.

Afrobasic:


Do not tell me for one second that you believe what you just typed?

who cares about telling you anything. go and do your own research

jeromestarks:

Josh. 10 Verses 11 to 14
[12] Then spake Joshua to the LORD in the day when the LORD delivered up the Amorites before the children of Israel, and he said in the sight of Israel, Sun, stand thou still upon Gibeon; and thou, Moon, in the valley of Ajalon.


Astronomically, the sun doesn't move. It is the earth that revolves around the sun. So, it is logical that it was the Earth that stood still and not the sun so that the light of the sun can keep shining on that same spot where the battle was going on.


What do you think: was it the earth that stood still or the sun?

Which one did Joshua commanded?


nlfpmod

or maybe the science that you were taught from birth is all indoctrination and the earth is flat and the sun rotates around the earth and bible is literal in its meaning. that the sun should stand still

Madups:
There is everything wrong with it.. Must u associate with broke ass leaches. Even if u must.. Why allow someone play you like felele... Why not give only what you can afford to loose?

what a stupid point of view, its the same ladies that claim their must get human hair or iPhone 35 pro pro max 59 plus as birthday gifts to show proof of love. sothe woman should be allowed to be a parasite and receive houses, cars , phones while the man should always just accept the loss after its obvious that the parasite beggar woman used him to acquire resources. e be like say u don dey mad abi.

MASTAkiLLAh:
I recently read (didn't bother watching the video) about a guy who collected an iphone and wig he bought for a girl who refused his proposal and I just shook my damn head
You guys and even ladies have bastardized the meaning of love and turned it into a sexual transaction. That scenario mentioned earlier clearly showed the said guy had been trying to buy the affections of someone who didn't love him at all but could give him a few tumbles in bed once in a while. If he had style, he would have noticed her type of person from far off and treated her accordingly instead of embarrassing himself by collecting back gifts. Poverty is really a disease especially mental poverty.
When you love a woman or man, getting gifts should be an act of love and affection, getting gifts will automatically be because you know this will look good on your partner or they'll surely appreciate it. Getting them gifts is a thing of joy to yourself especially because they make you happy and you want to appreciate them. If you know you'll take back whatever you bought just because of an argument then don't even bother buying anything and disturbing us on social media whenever you're angry please .

beggar mindset looking to leech off others

natedensel:
Is it just me or it's same with other guys, the embarrassment I feel is as if I'm the one doing something embarrassing, and I can't help the feeling, because of that I shy away from buying foodstuff or other stuff that will make me bargain.

Most times I ask my sisters or girlfriend to accompany me so she can do the bargaining or get the stuff for me.

My older brother bargains alot like he can't do without bargaining and for that I avoid going anywhere with him.

Incase you're wondering how I survive without bargaining, I just use people close to me when its something I must bargain for, but if it's something like clothes, I know the standard price for stuff like that so I just make an offer, and for basic things like packaged groceries I buy from supermarkets in more than one quantity.

Abi this one dey mad ni?

using nairaland to promote your youtube channel

propaganda

obedience4:


BLOOMBERG REPORT
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2024-06-09/russia-ukraine-war-africans-forced-to-fight-and-die-for-the-kremlin

https://kyivindependent.com/bloomberg-russia-sends-students-from-africa-to-fight-in-its-war-against-ukraine/

propaganda

AK481:
Fine girl like this ... wetin go make am still dey single ?

feminsm

Testiebobo:
Is sex before marriage a sin?
Because Adam and Eve didnt marry and they had sexual intercourse with each other. And God didnt forsake them because of that. So what is really the superstitic idealogy of sex before marriage as a sin? Do you think it is actually a sin?
Marriage experts and geniuses

Sex IS marriage..

mimyselfai:
Hi everyone. I damaged one of the cables on my Fibreone modem. I need an installer this morning to help rectify it. Location is Surulere. Thank you.

I don't understand. Why are you posting your issues on Nairaland when you can call customer care or email the company?

Thephilosopher1:
Ok sir. Obviously, you are one of those I am talking about. Let's see how it goes with you in your marriage.

Another fallacy, you don't get to decide who someone is in a post as you have no evidence of what you are saying. I could be a married woman with 10 kids or a married man with a wife and kids and so on. So this stupid reply that "obviously you are one of those that I was referring to" is a philosophical cop-out that shows your inability to defend the points that you typed, so you rely on playing the victim. You wrote lies and are salty that someone denied your claims to abuse a gender because you cannot defend or remove it.

you expect people to click your dubious link. that will steal peoples information and details

Thephilosopher1:
OP leave women alone.

no one is holding them ransom, the OP is free to make opinions about any topic he wants to. no matter how you feel about it, it is of no concern to the OP or others. get over yourself. you don't get to dictate what people choose to comment on.

I don't even advice men to marry under 30 girls.

this topic is of women not men, its a different age range thats best suited for men. men marry when they have acquired resources, status , wealth, wisdom and power which comes at a later age. women marry when the acquire beauty and fertility which comes at 18 to 24 at its peak.

At their 20s they are still exploring their sexualities,

[for women] you mean they are sleeping around like wh0re.s and racking up ab0rtions and std's

it is normal, nothing wrong with that.

it is not normal and its a degenerate society, a worthless cesspool of disgust and filth. this culture of endless sexual filth is only as old as feminism

From 30 most of them shall have gotten to a higher level of maturity and understanding of life and so better able to welcome and stay in marriage.

maturity in this case is by having slept with multiple random men with ab0tion and std and trauma and single mom...is that what you mean. check the stats women initiate 70% of divorces they dont stay in marriage they are always looking for the more penis to jump to

Most men who seek to marry under 20 girls are perverts

baseless statement. you cannot control what men want by tagging a name to it. men want youth, beauty and fertility not used, aged, and multiple used women trying to offer that to accomplished men as a wife. thats not a wife thats a pretending wH0re.

having all kinds of sexual fantasies in their head to try out. And these category of men always fall below 30, with little experience and maturity in life.

another statement that has no merit in reality but stupidity, men want what they want and you cannot tell men what to want. most men want younger, tighter, pure not older, used, stained, std, ab0rtion

Men who marry at 40 and above are most likely to have a happy and lasting marriage

true

because at that age they are willing to accommodate and overlook certain issues in marriage.

nope, because at that age, they understand women and know women nature and how they are opportunistic in nature, parasitic in nature. all they do is take and take and if you cannot give them again they would look for the next person to take from

Moreover, at 40 and above most men must have acquired wealth thus better able to provide and cater for the family.

true

well written, all facts

expired

NuclearWinter:
Another mRNA gene editing bullshit vaccine.

they aren't even hiding it anymore, the boldly said gene altering and i see some ppl celebrating. i swear sheeps deserve slaughter

they are probably lying to avoid panic. it was probably an explosive device

danzaki63:
Mr Ojiako, i have some few questions for you.

1. Did you ask her to delete her post soliciting for fund to pay her rent?
2. Did you ask her to pay for her transport and also the hotel accomodation?
3. Did leave her at the hotel at 4am?
4. Did you havs sex with her?
5. Are other no girls in Umuahia?
6. answering these question will give us an ibnsight into what happened.




As for the lady.



1. why will you leave your place to meet someone whom you dont know?
2. why will you pay for you tp and accom? that was a very big red flag.
3. what happened to your Guardian, parents or relatives?
4. Did you use your accomodation money to buy christmas wig?

we shall get back to you ASAP.

Do you know the meaning of hook up mr man. She is a wh0re peddler. She sells sex to whoever pays. All the story she wrote is for sympathy from mor0ns

Seun:
You have decided to disrespect your man by looking to other men for attention while you're living with him, because you feel he is not meeting your needs. In your mind, the relationship is over, but you won't admit it to yourself.

The red pill exposed men don't respond well to emotional control. They prefer blunt and honest communication. Stop playing "boju boju" with him. Tell him what you need, and why, and stop trying to play games of witholding physical and emotional affection to punish/control him.

The things you're doing sound as if you're done with him but you still want to enjoy the benefits. It's not healthy and cannot last. If you like him, forsake the other men, and start communicating and negotiating your needs more bluntly with him so he can provide them.

If witholding sex doesn't work, stop doing it. If the silent treatment doesn't work, stop doing it. You can't be doing the same thing and expect different results. Some men don't like to play games. Say how you feel when he does certain things. Be direct and honest. Repeat yourself if necessary.

Socially, focus on him, female friends, and the people you're related to by blood. Stop the emotional cheating with other men. If you want to leave him, leave him. If you don't want to, then you need to start behaving like a grown woman.

Women hate to take accountability or responsibility. In her mind she is blameless and the guy is pure evil

Doolove:
I've been dating a staunch Nairalander for two years, and he also introduced me to the site. While I visit once in a while, he can't go a day without scrolling through the site and at times he draws my attention to some interesting topics and we would go through the comments together. I told him that I don't like the site due to the constant bashing of women that goes on here. To my uttermost dismay he has been so influenced by the red pill movement and it has left our relationship in tatters.

I can't remember the last time I felt pampered or got treated like a woman because he doesn't want to look like a simp. There is no love in the relationship anymore because he is always too hard on me and treats me like a man. My guy hardly ever apologizes to me, if he annoys me and I try to give him the cold shoulder he ignores me completely and moves about his business like I don't even exist. He calls my two exs simps because I gisted him about how they adored me and was always scared of losing me. It hurts me that the guy I am dating doesn't value me and is ready to move on immediately as I walk out the door.

He convinced me to come stay over at his place for a while because he wanted to train me for a remote job that he got for me which I am supposed to start next month. I objected because I know how he treats me each time that I am around but he insisted so I caved in. It's been one problem to the other since I came over. He faults every single thing that I do, I wore a cloth that a guy gifted me on our anniversary and I got the scolding of my life. I got moody and told him to avoid me when he tried talking to me later that day, he simply said okay and disappeared from the house till late in the night.

He sees everything as an insult to his person, he said it's disrespectful to pick calls from guys in his presence, he would still accuse me of cheating if I go outside to pick those calls. Just two days back I was angry at him because of something he did that I didn't like so I flung his hands away when he tried to touch my cheeks and play with me, Oga stood up and started ignoring me. I was just expecting him to apologize and pamper me but he just locked up and left the house to God knows where. When he returned, I dressed up to go out with a friend and he told me not to return to his house if I leave. He treats me like a piece of furniture and won't still let me go out with people that are ready to give me attention.

This issue is making me lose my feelings for him and he doesn't even care. We hardly have sex because his touch irritates me due to his attitude towards me. If I turn down his advance once he doesn't bother to try again for days. In my previous relationships the guys always comes crawling and begging at night to have sex but this one doesn't even send, he can lock up for two weeks which makes me wonder if he is gay sometimes. He came back home very late on Friday night because he was avoiding me, I hid the food in the house because I was angry at him and he went to bed hungry. He woke up late at night to boil potatoes and woke me up in the process, I told him where I kept the food and he told me to eat it alone.

He left home by 7am yesterday for his football training only to come back by 10pm leaving me all alone in the house. I had to go out with a friend only to come back and didn't still meet him at home. He came back, took his bath and left the house again. He came back one hour later and slept on the floor. I woke him up to eat because I cooked with the money he left at home and he rejected the food citing the previous incident of me hiding food from him so I should continue cooking and eating alone. I told him that the food would waste because I already enjoyed where I went to. He just said I was disturbing him and should have gone home with the guy instead. He keeps making me feel like I am not wanted, he would tell me that he has the right to do whatever he wants because it his house but I must abide by his rules because I am a woman. He can go out and come back anytime he likes but I can't do the same, if I try it he would ask me to leave as if I am an IDP. All my complaints about how bad he was treating me fell on deaf ears, he just ignored me and slept off. He woke up this morning and is keeping to himself.

Please is this what the red pill is all about? I keep craving attention and love from my man and it's not forthcoming, I would have broken up but I really need the job he promised me while I wait for service. Is there something that I can do to salvage this relationship?
Please I am sorry for the epistle and errors, I just needed to pour out my heart somewhere.

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EreluRoz:
Exactly what I've been thinking, it clearly shows in his recent posts.

If truly he wants to stop misogyny in this forum, why is he turning blind eye to the redpill thread. I don't feel safe in this forum anymore

Then get out you troll, its obvious you are just an attention seeking wench, but just looking for clicks and likes. Roz or whatever u are

pansophist:
Humans are more animals than civilized, you guys are still deceiving yourself with this civilization thing.

If left without structures such as traditions, culture, and strong societal leadership, individuals will go astray, and babymamaism is a consequence of that. Same as agberoism, cultism, ashawoism, badbelleism, and so forth,

So the feature of a broken society is one where all these evils thrive freely. Just like you can tell the difference between a child from a responsible home and one from not, it's the same on a societal level.

In one word "feminism"