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If a man were to say this even as a joke. His life would be ruined. Double standards of this gender

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Hello brother, did u get rid of the starlink so far

Discountsempai:
It had nothing to do with Onan spilling his seed, and the verse in question had nothing to do with masturbation (and no, I am not excusing masturbation...especially as I have never engaged in it, because quite frankly it does not make sense).

Onan was supposed to marry his late brother's wife, and under the customs of that time, the first child he had with his wife would be counted as his brother's child (strange to us, but in a society with high child mortality, and a concern over keeping lineages alive...).

Onan refused to do that because (as the verses imply)...he hated his brother Er. So, out of bitterness, he denied Er THE RIGHT TO KEEP his lineage alive.

Essentially, what Onan also was doing was

1. Denying Tamar the right to have a child...in a society where barreness was a BIG STIGMA. (See how Jacob, Onan's grandpa, wife Rachel felt about having no kids...and later on Hannah. And even Sarah, Onan's great-great grandmother).

2. Essentially telling his father that he wanted both his and Er's inheritance...ie greed. If he had done what he was supposed to do, then when Judah died, his (Onan's) firstborn son would have gotten Er's portion of the inheritance. By having no kids, he gets a dobule portion.

3. Essentially commiting an injustice to his late brother and dishonoring his memory.

Thus..as the bible put it in Genesis 38 vs 8-10

8 Then Judah said to Onan, “Sleep with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to raise up offspring for your brother.” 9 But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 10 What he did was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so the Lord put him to death also

So, nothing to do with seed or with masturbation as the OP thinks it does.

At its base it is a story about how harmful greed and resentment can be. And how wickedness also can provoke resentment (Er is described as a wicked man, so it is obvious that he was wicked to his two younger brothers, breeding anger and resentment).

Well said

Its scam.

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CasNova:
Wonderful.

How exactly are they going to effect that? So, men who sleep with their wives without the intention of impregnating them will be committing illegal act!

That means using contraceptives will be illegal.

What about those who just need 'to jerk off'?

I think that proposed law is the dumbest in history!

What about condom.

Opmic:
Please who knows how I can get to Epe from Ikeja. Urgent please

If driving use google map. If not enter bus to oshodi and find the park there

Women are narsicisstic in nature

Most fat people are caused by oveeeating and unhealthy eating. Simple and short. It can be worked on but their mindset is lazy especially when it comes to what can be achieved on the body

ceejay80s:
which investigation again,
lion chop person. abi u wan go interrogate the lion?
which kin police we get for this country

its needed, maybe someone made a bet ora dare,maybe someone said I dare you togo inside and feed it. that's why investigation is needed, they are trained to find clues if they are any

sex IS marriage.

thesicilian:
If one's score is low on a list full of bad behaviours he/she need to get a life? You're the one who actually needs to get a life.

Yeah the op is probably a degenerate kid

Biodun556:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/fresh-outbreak-of-covid-19-hits-benue/amp/

It was a scam, dont be fooled by psuedo science

ayjay45:
Please advise

i assume you want some form of personal self defence

Madups:
can you listen to yourself? Seems you are destined to be f00lish.. Dont bother replying me cos i wont even read it. Orishirishi.

you this worthless piece of garbage its obvious your comprehension is on a retard's level. have a nice life. dumb rock

MASTAkiLLAh:
you see such ridiculous demands and don't take them as a red flag then you're a mugu and deserve everything that comes your way in that relationship. I've been around long enough to know that true love can never be bought with expensive gifts. Any lady who starts crazy demands for a relationship to kick off is purely out for your money, spend what won't hurt your pockets or leave her alone and you should treat her as what she is, a girl for the streets .
Like the famous philosopher Dr Dre said in his epic poem, "you can't make a whòre a housewife"

I don't get it, why respond to my comment with the same point I was making, did you read the comment I was responding to?

Madups:
na u be the mad person here. Any banny don use gun collect iphone or get alert for brazilian hair before? Well, i know your type all this one wey i dey yarn no go fit make sense.. Na inside grave sense go finally fall on u.

while it is true that gifts are not demanded at gun point, but you seem too stupid to realize that there are multiple forms of manipulation and coercion that provides the same result maybe even more effective than direct force. it seems ur IQ level is really below 6feet. i will stop responding to comments. child.

Afrobasic:
Do not tell me for one second that you believe what you just typed?

who cares about telling you anything. go and do your own research

jeromestarks:
Josh. 10 Verses 11 to 14
[12] Then spake Joshua to the LORD in the day when the LORD delivered up the Amorites before the children of Israel, and he said in the sight of Israel, Sun, stand thou still upon Gibeon; and thou, Moon, in the valley of Ajalon.


Astronomically, the sun doesn't move. It is the earth that revolves around the sun. So, it is logical that it was the Earth that stood still and not the sun so that the light of the sun can keep shining on that same spot where the battle was going on.


What do you think: was it the earth that stood still or the sun?

Which one did Joshua commanded?


nlfpmod

or maybe the science that you were taught from birth is all indoctrination and the earth is flat and the sun rotates around the earth and bible is literal in its meaning. that the sun should stand still

Madups:
There is everything wrong with it.. Must u associate with broke ass leaches. Even if u must.. Why allow someone play you like felele... Why not give only what you can afford to loose?

what a stupid point of view, its the same ladies that claim their must get human hair or iPhone 35 pro pro max 59 plus as birthday gifts to show proof of love. sothe woman should be allowed to be a parasite and receive houses, cars , phones while the man should always just accept the loss after its obvious that the parasite beggar woman used him to acquire resources. e be like say u don dey mad abi.

MASTAkiLLAh:
I recently read (didn't bother watching the video) about a guy who collected an iphone and wig he bought for a girl who refused his proposal and I just shook my damn head
You guys and even ladies have bastardized the meaning of love and turned it into a sexual transaction. That scenario mentioned earlier clearly showed the said guy had been trying to buy the affections of someone who didn't love him at all but could give him a few tumbles in bed once in a while. If he had style, he would have noticed her type of person from far off and treated her accordingly instead of embarrassing himself by collecting back gifts. Poverty is really a disease especially mental poverty.
When you love a woman or man, getting gifts should be an act of love and affection, getting gifts will automatically be because you know this will look good on your partner or they'll surely appreciate it. Getting them gifts is a thing of joy to yourself especially because they make you happy and you want to appreciate them. If you know you'll take back whatever you bought just because of an argument then don't even bother buying anything and disturbing us on social media whenever you're angry please .

beggar mindset looking to leech off others

natedensel:
Is it just me or it's same with other guys, the embarrassment I feel is as if I'm the one doing something embarrassing, and I can't help the feeling, because of that I shy away from buying foodstuff or other stuff that will make me bargain.

Most times I ask my sisters or girlfriend to accompany me so she can do the bargaining or get the stuff for me.

My older brother bargains alot like he can't do without bargaining and for that I avoid going anywhere with him.

Incase you're wondering how I survive without bargaining, I just use people close to me when its something I must bargain for, but if it's something like clothes, I know the standard price for stuff like that so I just make an offer, and for basic things like packaged groceries I buy from supermarkets in more than one quantity.

Abi this one dey mad ni?

using nairaland to promote your youtube channel

propaganda

obedience4:
BLOOMBERG REPORT
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2024-06-09/russia-ukraine-war-africans-forced-to-fight-and-die-for-the-kremlin

https://kyivindependent.com/bloomberg-russia-sends-students-from-africa-to-fight-in-its-war-against-ukraine/

propaganda

AK481:
Fine girl like this ... wetin go make am still dey single ?

feminsm

Testiebobo:
Is sex before marriage a sin?
Because Adam and Eve didnt marry and they had sexual intercourse with each other. And God didnt forsake them because of that. So what is really the superstitic idealogy of sex before marriage as a sin? Do you think it is actually a sin?
Marriage experts and geniuses

Sex IS marriage..

mimyselfai:
Hi everyone. I damaged one of the cables on my Fibreone modem. I need an installer this morning to help rectify it. Location is Surulere. Thank you.

I don't understand. Why are you posting your issues on Nairaland when you can call customer care or email the company?

Thephilosopher1:
Ok sir. Obviously, you are one of those I am talking about. Let's see how it goes with you in your marriage.

Another fallacy, you don't get to decide who someone is in a post as you have no evidence of what you are saying. I could be a married woman with 10 kids or a married man with a wife and kids and so on. So this stupid reply that "obviously you are one of those that I was referring to" is a philosophical cop-out that shows your inability to defend the points that you typed, so you rely on playing the victim. You wrote lies and are salty that someone denied your claims to abuse a gender because you cannot defend or remove it.

you expect people to click your dubious link. that will steal peoples information and details

Thephilosopher1:
OP leave women alone.

no one is holding them ransom, the OP is free to make opinions about any topic he wants to. no matter how you feel about it, it is of no concern to the OP or others. get over yourself. you don't get to dictate what people choose to comment on.

I don't even advice men to marry under 30 girls.

this topic is of women not men, its a different age range thats best suited for men. men marry when they have acquired resources, status , wealth, wisdom and power which comes at a later age. women marry when the acquire beauty and fertility which comes at 18 to 24 at its peak.

At their 20s they are still exploring their sexualities,

[for women] you mean they are sleeping around like wh0re.s and racking up ab0rtions and std's

it is normal, nothing wrong with that.

it is not normal and its a degenerate society, a worthless cesspool of disgust and filth. this culture of endless sexual filth is only as old as feminism

From 30 most of them shall have gotten to a higher level of maturity and understanding of life and so better able to welcome and stay in marriage.

maturity in this case is by having slept with multiple random men with ab0tion and std and trauma and single mom...is that what you mean. check the stats women initiate 70% of divorces they dont stay in marriage they are always looking for the more penis to jump to

Most men who seek to marry under 20 girls are perverts

baseless statement. you cannot control what men want by tagging a name to it. men want youth, beauty and fertility not used, aged, and multiple used women trying to offer that to accomplished men as a wife. thats not a wife thats a pretending wH0re.

having all kinds of sexual fantasies in their head to try out. And these category of men always fall below 30, with little experience and maturity in life.

another statement that has no merit in reality but stupidity, men want what they want and you cannot tell men what to want. most men want younger, tighter, pure not older, used, stained, std, ab0rtion

Men who marry at 40 and above are most likely to have a happy and lasting marriage

true

because at that age they are willing to accommodate and overlook certain issues in marriage.

nope, because at that age, they understand women and know women nature and how they are opportunistic in nature, parasitic in nature. all they do is take and take and if you cannot give them again they would look for the next person to take from

Moreover, at 40 and above most men must have acquired wealth thus better able to provide and cater for the family.

true