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RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 1:34am On Sep 05, 2022
okoroemeka:
if our Lord jesus Christ can forgive Mary Magdalene a confirm olosho and husband snaicher,who are you to bear grudges,if you are looking for a virgin you risking going to prison for defilement because you can only see virgins from 16-17 yrs down,90% of girls that finish secondary school are no longer virgins in Nigeria,good luck on your search
Forgiveness was of sin not marriage bros. Nobody says oloshos cannot be good ppl. It is possi le but not probable. If 100 olosho should marry the stats show that over 80% would end up in damaged marriages. The mary magdalene example does not negate the fact that a woman that openly sleeps around is not a good fit for marriage compared to virgin in comparison. Whether a virgin can be found or not is besides the point of the topic. Fact is that virgins are better and most women fall into wh0re category
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 1:28am On Sep 05, 2022
After all is said and done, women want to be able to sleep around and have no consequence for it. They will always tey to shame or dodge because most cannot meet the standard.
No one can determine what comes his way but at least men should be qble to understand why virgin are better than open wh0res
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 1:27am On Sep 05, 2022
LadyD22:
What is this one saying?
What kind of worthless mention is this. Dont mention if you do not understand how to read and understand
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 2:53am On Sep 03, 2022
Sweetvie:
M not disputing that it not in the bible i said that was 2000yrs ago guy not now
Go marry 100 wives and try to live comfortably like it was then okay... We're in 21st now ok things are different... Don't be referring to something u didn't even experience. Now you wh0re around your wife do the same... who do you want to give disease? las las divorce go follow, nothing like divorce back then, then all the unmarried girls are virgin but now? Lol.
Don't get marry now and say you're looking for a virgin ok come back and tell me how many years u wait for smiley
This is feminism at its finest talking. No man will marry 100 wives today because women of today have proven themselves to be parasytes rather than a helpmate, to marry even 1 is a challenge because almost all have been used and dumped and vomited, does that mean i should select from the vomit...maybe ...maybe not...but my answer is no as at now. Wh0res are only good for playtime.
Like i said b4 if a woman that i am with chooses to wh0re around she wont be my woman....another man can have her.
Divorce..lol men of today have studied the divorce rate women initiate 80% of divorce according to american data and stats. The stats increase much more the higher the body count accoding to stats. Only a fool will sign a legal document binding himself with a woman and the govt when she cannot even keep her legs closed. So marriage with wh0res is a no go
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 3:06am On Sep 02, 2022
Sweetvie:
Smile... The lol ain't for u it just my expression at that moment so don't stress.
Fact? So you mean to tell me it's written in the bible, quran n other books that a man can wh0re around? A woman can't do the same? That's was 2000 yrs back. Now, you wh0re around your woman will do the same tit for tat smiley Don't persuade urself with some old silly scripture ok
Well read your bible , men had multiple wives and concubines. Women were stoned to death for such. A woman cant do the same , one of the many reasons is that she has a high tendency to birth a bastard child. If the so called my woman chooses to wh0re around she wont be my woman anymore. You cant control a womans action however you can control the relationship status. The important thing is for the man to be the type of man that is valuable in society so if she decides to be a wh0re, just replace her with a virgin that has good character. Women of today are fighting for the right to be wh0res...i never see...na wah
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 4:37pm On Sep 01, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... M not convince yet but I just take it like that.
Okay. Its not an lol thing. I am not cracking jokes, i also aint trying to convince you. I am just stating facts that God, the bible, the quran and all religious books states, what our forefathers stated and did.
A wh0re is to be cast aside, used only for fun but never near a home or wifely duties. Only weak men take that vomit in their homes because they cannot get access to sex anywhere else.
While a man that can do this is rare and valuable to most women
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2022
Sweetvie:
No I don't agree
It suppose to be for both gender grin grin
It's not a i dont agree kind of statement. Its reality. Take it or leave it.
The world is full of double standards few favour men majority favour women. There is nothing you can do about natural double standards
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 2:39pm On Aug 31, 2022
Hayee:
grin grin grin

Shout from now till the next one thousand years non virgins will still continue to marry every Saturday cheesy cheesy cheesy

It has been happening before your mother was born, it is still happening now and it will continue to happen forever and ever cheesy grin tongue tongue tongue

Nigerian men don't like good women
Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers cheesy grin tongue tongue tongue
the issue is majority of men are simps, wh0res and simps belong together. this is why divorce and infidelity is unmatched in today's society. the best men In every society don't wife wh0res. dangote would never marry a girl that has had 500 joysticks inside her for fun and exploring her truth. men are adddicted to the allure of the gold digger women for sex only, after men fvck them he should send them back to the street whence they came from, its the dumb simps that are plentiful that gets entangled with these whores
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 2:34pm On Aug 31, 2022
Sweetvie:
I hope it's applies to both gender smiley
NO, virginity standard only applies to women
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 5:12am On Aug 31, 2022
women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gate keepers of marriage and commitment. we each set the standards here.

a man will try to bed a woman and the woman has to resist or tell him to marry her before he gets sex. This way she can keep her virginity until marriage…simple.
The difference between a man and woman sleeping around is this

Man: a man has to work and put in a lot of effort to get a girl to have sex with him. He must be tall, fine, intelligent, sleek with words, make her laugh, buy her stuffs, appear rich, appear confident….a whole lot of things all to get a girl to give him sex

Woman: a woman has to take a bath and just stand there and look pretty.

I hope you can see the reason why men are praised and women are shamed.
If as a man I could just open my d1ck and women would be begging me to give me BJ and please me sexually then men would be shamed because it is EASY….
WOMEN ARE SHAMED FOR FVCKING AROUND BECAUSE IT IS EASY FOR THEM…..THE HARD THING FOR WOMEN TO DO IS TO RESIST….WHILE THE REVERSE IS THE CASE FOR MEN IT IS EASY TO RESIST SEX AND HARD TO GET SEX (FOR MEN). THE ONLY THING YOU CAN RIGHTLY SHAME A MAN FOR IS THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE MONEY. IN ESSENCE MEN ARE VALUED FOR RESOURCES AND WOMEN ARE VALUED FOR FERTILITY
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m):
virginprincess:
Then you guys are not serious,you people want a virgin wife but yet the same people go around sexing everything on skirt, sorry sweetheart,it doesn't work that way,only a virgin man deserves a virgin wife.
yes, it does work that way. a man can sleep with 1000 women and still demand a virgin wife. as long as the man has the things women generally value in a man. this is life and its realities. a woman doesn't really care how many women a man has slept with, in fact most women admire it because it shows that the man is a catch and it validates the woman choice that she made a good choice.

the reason for this is simple, for a man to bed multiple women (take note I am not referring to HOES) normal ladies is definitely a catch, women do not sleep with any man, they select the best and a man that can do this is rare. men that can accomplish this tend to have money, height, power, fame and security all these are more important to a lady in a relations to a man compared to bodycount.

but men do value bodycount.

in summary the most likely combination is a man that meets all the characteristics that women desire in a partner (regardless of if this man has slept around with 100 girls) she would not mind. she would mind about his job though, and his height and finances, as long as he meets this criteria he can demand his virgin easily and he will get it, but WH0res of Babylon belong to the street or to simps
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m):
Thonia69:
Why?
because men and women are different and they are valued for different reasons.
the conditions for a man to have many women are different from the conditions for a woman to have had many sex.
one has to be worked for one has to be there.
no matter what women try to say a man and woman sleeping around cannot never be valued and seen in the same way because of the law of demand and supply.

short version
the answer is NO.

"if Dangote says he wants to marry a virgin of 22years non-virgins will complain and insult him but i bet you he will get thousands and thousands of offers" alas he only uses girls of low virtue who claim to be slay queens as concubines

long version
Women like to gaslight themselves to think that men want the same thing that they want from men. women want resources from men, men want chastisty youth fertility. so it stands to reason a well accomplished man can "Demand" a virgin because he has built himself to a high quality in society. therefore such a man does not need virginity to ask for a virgin. the virgin girl will even throw herself at him because he can provide a lifestyle that she desires. the woman gets a new life the man gets youth fertility and healthy children. women also love pre-selected men, women have a hive mentality in the sense that they believe if a pretty woman chose to be with a man it shows that he must be a catch and they will want that man. so in essence if a man has many beautiful past girlfriends and bedded them, many women will choose that man over a virgin because he was pre-selected by other women. men do not function this way, once a man has entered a woman she becomes repulsive to other men as a wife, but a good option for free sex

typical example is ned nwoko and regina daniels. regina will never marry a poor virgin or managing/struggling virgin as compared to ned because in reality what women hate to admit is that all they want out of marriage is a man's resources and the life that he can produce for her and her offspring. they like to gaslight themselves that men must want the sam thing, however this is not true.

the flip side is that women at 18 -27 are very attractive and have multiple suitors at this time, so they can choose a high quality man if he presents himself at this time.

as a man of stature and means a woman's money means nothing to you, it's worthless. you already have enough money. her most valuable possession is her purity and chastity which Wh0res gave away for free. a woman thats not a virgin should not be wifed up except she is ashamed of her past and tells her man the truth of her wh0redom...and the only man that can do this is a man of high value.
RomanceRe: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 12:16am On Aug 31, 2022
virginprincess:
This should better go both ways and not limited to one gender.
no it applies only to women
RomanceRe: Co-parenting by ibkonekt(m): 11:13pm On Aug 20, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Oh, oh, oh. This is even more beautiful.

So it's not that you even hastily condemned without reading, it is that you condemned WITHOUT being certain of the gender behind the post. undecided Abi did the post said it was a female before it was "edited"?

It is what it is? No. What is what?

Now that you know it is a male, does your opinion still stand? Do you still hold the 'crushing clapback' for your dear brother?
yes i made the assumption that it was a female, the reason being that statistics show that most people in this scenario and this type of situations are of the female gender. i do agree its unfair, but if i were to guess 7 out of 10 times it would most likely be a woman.
now for the clapback. the simp should get back with his baby mama.
RomanceRe: Co-parenting by ibkonekt(m): 7:27pm On Aug 20, 2022
faithfull18:
Hanhan, someone says he's male. Uncle, let go of these hate for the female folks.
The male part was edited in later. The dude probably lacks integrity to admit that and edited his post
RomanceRe: Co-parenting by ibkonekt(m): 7:26pm On Aug 20, 2022
Magnoliaa:
In your haste to be a misogynistic POS, you've gone ahead to disgrace yourself without properly going through the post now. So, atink, what you'd mean to tell him is to go back to his baby mother? I think that would still be your advice. I'd take this one ray of sensible comment from you amidst the slush of the anti-women rhetoric you posts.

I commend you for looking out for a 39-year-old single father and fellow male like yourself who doesn't mind an evening newspaper for a partner.
Its a shame i did not quote the writer. This person went and edited his initial post and put the edited parts in bold but it is what it is.
RomanceRe: Co-parenting by ibkonekt(m):
Go back to your baby father.
Well this op went and added some details to his post to make my initial post seem off. This op lacks integrity
RomanceRe: N by ibkonekt(m): 5:17am On Jul 01, 2022
chineydu:
A friend to a girl out on a date, he told her that he would like for them to be in a relationship. The girl asked him what he sees in her. My guy said that he like her look (slim curvy sgao), her respectful behavior, kind hearted nature, God fearing behavior. Aunty say all these nah watin she dan dey hear tire from different guys, say she wan hear something different. Watin be the the something different wey aunty wan hear biko?
at that point you should just walk away, but simps will be simps
RomanceRe: Bodycount:does It Matter For Men? by ibkonekt(m): 10:40am On May 16, 2022
Men it is obvious that women know the answers to the questions but they just dont want to listen or want to hynotize themselves into a fantasyland...or maybe its just clout. My advice is this to men just make all effort to be a man that these women will sell their belongings for i.e be wealthy. Be fit. Be well groomed and put together. Then watch how as a man all these women will become worthless to even waste your time on.
Foreign AffairsRe: Blood Red Sky Blankets City Near Shanghai Sparking Armageddon Fear (Pics, Video) by ibkonekt(m): 11:56am On May 10, 2022
Project blue beam
RomanceRe: Is There Really Omnipotent? by ibkonekt(m): 4:03pm On May 06, 2022
So this question that can an omnipotent God create something more powerful is a contradiction.

1. There is no existence outside of God. You could say Without God there is nothing that can exist. So the problem with the question is that it is asking God to create something more powerful than the being God which is like asking to create something outside existence. Such a thing more powerful than God cannot exist because the concept of existence is within the law of God
RomanceRe: Mike Tyson Offers $10million To Any Man That Will Marry His Daugther by ibkonekt(m):
Nope
CelebritiesRe: Women Threw Their Underwears At Burna Boy At New York Concert (Video) by ibkonekt(m): 8:23pm On Apr 30, 2022
Thats the only thing women have to offer anyone
PoliticsRe: Lagos Traders Protest ₦600 Million Loss To Ponzi Scheme Matthew Agbaje by ibkonekt(m): 10:36am On Apr 25, 2022
Its greed and deception.
I am pretty sure there were not explictly told it was a ponzi scheme. It must have been markwted like a legit investment. You have to be financially literate and street wise.
RomanceRe: Beauty Get Levels! by ibkonekt(m): 11:11pm On Apr 24, 2022
Make up and filters. All fake.
RomanceRe: The Truth About Bride Price In Igbo Land by ibkonekt(m): 6:55pm On Apr 24, 2022
Personal opinion

Virgins should get the full bride price

Non virgins should get reduced or zero bride price (depending on how much of a simp the man is)

There is nothing like hymen got broken by mistake or i was raped or born without hymen. Thats all cap and lies

If this was the way of things watch how women will suddenly start keeping their bodies for marriage. The ultimate goal for women is marriage above all else in this world.
RomanceRe: The Chameleon In Nigeria Girls by ibkonekt(m): 1:11pm On Apr 24, 2022
2007- before bleaching, before attention seeking

2022 - after bleaching, attetion seeking disorder.
SportsRe: Tyson Fury Knocks Out Dillian Whyte With Brutal Uppercut, Retains WBC title by ibkonekt(m): 2:31am On Apr 24, 2022
Proper flogging.
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