₦airaland Forum

WeRblessed:
Sorry to say this as a woman, but please my brother, don't marry a woman without a job or handwork. If all she can offer is sex, cook and clean dump her!

omoharry:
You guys on nairaland are really confused bunch of people .. Wetin una want sef?
Women dey financial independent, una go run away & call them feminist ,una go sey they are too independent minded . Then una see student or unemployed ladies with no money ,una go still complain sey they are olosho or leeches .Wetin una want ? One thing has to give .. Its either you have a liberal mind to date an independent woman where there is no master and slave relationship or go for the one that has no money that will be totally submissive to you ; where you can be the man of the house .
Most men prefer when they are in charge of all affairs in the home, especially in the areas of finance.They don't like it when thier women earn more than them...It makes them highly insecured and less relevant..so they rather date a woman they earn better than ..So guys what do you people want?

CHoccolaTE:
There is no benefit to marrying them oo, only men benefit from marriage, the children a woman bears answer their fathers name and add to fathers lineage,
Even companionship you spoke of na scam because the idiots will still cheat on their wives or attempt to cheat on her.

The only thing they used to do before which is provide, they cannot do it again and these days many women are the ones carrying the family.

Very useless people.

CHoccolaTE:
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.

Liposure:
I blame the traditional upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

muhakeem:
That's it, but some ladies can just so difficult sha

muhakeem:
That's it, but some ladies can just so difficult sha

muhakeem:
Do I need to take permission from her..
I will just breakup, love no be something to manage. If you both are not compatible, don't force it biko

davidhobo:
Me and my ex used to talk all the time. In a day, we could talk for 14hrs...she used to tell me everything- if she was cooking, going out, in an uber,(mostly video calls), if she was coming in, going to the market etc- without prompting. We enjoyed it and it was mutual.

There werr times, when we would talk from 10pm till 5am...nonstop. While i was away from her, abroad.

When its not mutual, it becomes obsession

Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

DamolaDamola:
Sounds exactly like my story, only that she's a girl and she's not a sex freak that much. But she's already in my house from 7:30 to 8:00 A.M. She's a Muslim too so, the church part doesn't apply to me. She already knows all my place of hangout, even places that my family doesn't know. She just shocks me every time as if she already injects a GPS tracker in my body

otemeh01:
wawu. you sure say u no jazz this guy. lol

crackhaus:
NO, it never gets past the usual questions; Why do you want to end it? Why are you doing this to me? What are you saying?

Probably because I made it a necessity to never date women with mental health issues.
No matter how pretty or well put-together a woman is, I can usually tell.

But now that I think of it, I'm still friends with my exes surprisingly...

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

melbet:
You already on it since your fagot useless father gave birth to you and you being useless for your poor family that resulted you to be writing in red letters.

Quote me one more time, your generations will not reach 30yrs. Fagot like you.

melbet:
Leave him, his name alone confirmed he is cursed and jobless.

meetme01:
Please, I have a very big issue. I got a text that my loan has been approved but my BVN is wrong. I just visited NIRSAL office in my state and was given a number to call. I called, no response. Please, whoever can be of assistance is sorting this problem should kindly do. Thanks

melbet:
Use this link and replace the xxxxxx words to your bvn number and fill your account details

http://guarantorform2.azurewebsites.net/?status=loan_offer_aggrement&id=xxxxxxxxxx

darlenese:
You can't wash pant with your hand but you can wash kpekus with your tongue .

How this life go take balance sef

thesolutions:
If I'm joking, you would be laughing by now. This is the real reason no pant and bra movement began. Ladies that cheats are too smart for the men. They are very creative. They no longer want to eat and cover mouth that will result to stain and smelly mouth. They just eat and clean mouth and open it wide for fresh air to drive away any odour.

adioolayi:
See hypocrites.....Most of them even use their mouth wash wetin the pant they cover...Now they are castigating someone using his hand.

Nonsense!

thesolutions:
Some men takes note of the pants worn by their wives and takes responsibility of washing them just to detect cheating. They become suspicious if one is missing. You will here them say 'Horney, your pant is not complete?'
Most pastors does this.

Nuel4:
I mean how does her dirty pants spend enough time on the ground for her husband to wash it? I have never seen my girlfriends' dirty pant. That fabric is so small that you can wash it immediately it leaves your waist. She just proves to be one of those dirty girls who heap dirty pants in one corner and wash them after a long time

ogbonnachrys:
Must you embarrass the man in public?
That's how social media kills celebrity marriages.
Talkative

DisLifeSha:
Why can't a man wash the pants of the punna he eats There's nothing wrong there

LordKO:
Personally, it's not a big deal, provided that he's done it voluntarily - it could be part of him being a conscientious husband. However, only a conscientious wife deserves such treatment, so if you aren't a conscientious wife, shame unto him.

GreatResearcher:
THe mumu man no shame to dey for background of the video dey shout 'it's ok to wash pant'.
I give up on some men.

Newman20:
Dat one na husband?

She bought a housemaid or should I say a houseman and called him a husband.


Mumu woman