Stephenmoka4:
Toast someone that I haven't seen, how is that supposed to work.

Chii59:
People don't break up nowadays, they ghost.
Especially guys, they just leave you there to date yourself.

Silentgroper:
Lol. I remember lola dat yr. We were never in a relationship bt in her delusions, she thought we were, cuz her momma nd my momma be calling her my wife. Bt dat one no talk xay mke i no chop kpekus. Time reach, i tell am, wa dz thing we wey dey do, mke we define am, she xay bt we ar dating na, i b lyk 'u nd wu' tell am" go nd luk 4 ur own bf oo. She vex comot. I no send am.
lata lata sha, if she con see me wit oda girls, she go dey hala nonsense dy quarell wit dem chik. Me vex go confront am xay wetin dey sup na, shey bomb dy her head ni. Babe con dey yarn me bcuz i chop kpekus, xay na only she go have me. O boy me start 2 dy fear unto d girl na cele babe, mke she no go run white candle package on top my mata. Naim me dy do jeje until dem pack comot area. I don happy die. E tey small, naim one gel see me dy waka con talk xay 1n of her friend wan c me xay i luk familiar. I ask am her friend name she xay na lola. O boy my heart nearly cut. Naim me japa o

SolexxBarry:
In this case i was the one that couldn't let go easily i begged, cried for 3 months did all i could yet she refused

Then i let her go got another babe and things were moving fine for 8 months, then out of the blues last month she came back begging, till now i don't know what to do cause i really do love her and my current babe is also an amazing person

muhakeem:

That's it, but some ladies can just so difficult sha

Sameercarter:
na today

descarado:

He must have had a troubled past when growing up.
Look at how his family ordered him to come and he obeyed.
Sometimes, we have to look beyond what these people are doing and see if we can help them.

GodWrites:


If she left you before, she could do it again and again, and again. Don't ever make that mistake. Don't be a second choice.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

uckennety:


When your in a relationship or friendship and your not getting the joy of being in that relationship please my brothers and sisters abandon ship

SolexxBarry:


Its not easy fam, i think she would have learnt her lesson by now

Stephen2324:
Ever tried breaking up with someone and the person refused?
How did it go?

uckennety:


rubbish
obviously the ìdiot loved her but she didn't love him!

GodWrites:


Chai! You're already hooked. Anyway, go forth and learn another harsh lesson of life. Just pray you'll be able to handle it, to avoid reading a headline like "young man hanged himself because his gf broke up with him." I hope you're right, but the possibility of that is zero.

muhakeem:

That's it, but some ladies can just so difficult sha

ezenwajosh:
ONE NIGERIA IS A GOOD EXAMPLE

SolexxBarry:

it cant get to that, i am yet to make a decision sha, i want to give myself time, thanks for ya advice

Chii59:
People don't break up nowadays, they ghost.
Especially guys, they just leave you there to date yourself.

Psych412:
mine was 3years ago(when I was schooling in imsu). when I broke with him, he didn't do anything (he claimed nothing will make him beg me to accept him back).


but, when I went to school with my course mate(male). we were holding hands together, from nowhere my ex and his useless boys(his a cultist) stopped us, and started beating up my course mate. I had to kneel to beg him to leave him alone




he did the same thing to three other guys.



he told me, "if he can't have me, no one can"



my stay in imsu, he was the only one I had an intimate relationship with.


I never got into another relationship because of him(threatening to kill any guy am in relationship with)

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

Daum:
I feel I am in a toxic relationship and sometimes I wish am out. My girlfriend always has mastered the act of gaslighting.

Just last night I was on the phone with her
Talking and talking and she was giving me replies like it was an interview, den I got tired then boom....she says am acting like she is forcing a conversation.

I am already used to it, I knew the blame game was coming. She does it always. How can you blame people for your mood.

I love my me time die, but her own is like it's a must to talk for hours or chat. I get busy.

I even fear to spend days with her

adanny01:


We ended up married.

I was trying to avoid marriage. I needed to fvck as much and as free as I can but she wouldn't give me space.

Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

Ibrahiimo:
no LADY is difficult. It depends on your SUBCONSCIOUS mind!!!

GodWrites:


You're welcome boss. When it comes to the female specie, you have to reason with your head, not your heart. If you were enough for her, she never would have left. Suspend what you feel, and look at the whole breakup from a different point. I wish you the best!

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.