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Earthbound:
Most first daughters are usually very academically sound and it rubs off on their siblings.

I've seen this severally and I'm sure you have too

The bad side to this is, if your first child is a girl and subsequent kids are girls, they will most likely build their characters around hers. I have seen a family where 4 sisters are confirm hoes, and by calculation and observation, the first daughter was the root of that evil.

that will depend on the kind of training given to her. but I like them their bossy attitude.

Why do some men prefer a female child as their first ?
yes I think I fall in this category too.

at last

let them exchange so called American youths or bring youths from developed nation down here to Nigeria and see if they can survive these hardship even for half a day ......#Spitandleavthreadwithanger# useless government ..

The person below will have something to contribute. for me I thought this is the venue to drag Buhari back to daura.

@Op you need to divert your attention away from her , your thought everything . or probably a slight distraction . move with your cocky friends and get yourself a girl to flirt with each time you miss her . Don't call her please, I repeat don't call her. if she didn't come back in 4month duration PLEASE MOVE ON.

To All APC A*s*s lickers and El rufai ...


This is the key to ASO Villa come 2019 ...
come and have it

Chelsea 2 - barca 1

I was expecting to see more reasonable comment from sound minds ......but this our secondary school guys on nairaland have taken over the thread with 10mb free data booking space. WTF


5b for grazing reserve like seriously!! can't wait for 2019

not fair

AlBaqir:
# Who told you Prophet didn't "celebrate" his birthday? For a fact, he did mark his birthday every week in a form of worship and praise to his Lord, by fasting. That was what limited document recorded.

# As per the bold, did your salaf ever used " radi'allahu anhu/ha" for themselves during their lifetime? Why are you doing what your Salafs didn't do by saying that phrase after the mention of anyone of them?





# You want to define Islamic sharia for us?

For a fact, nobody has ever come out and claim "Milad" is an obligatory act in the equivalent of Salat, Sawm, Zakat and Hajj.

And for a clear fact, Qur'anic order which we are not even observing dutifully is this:

"That you [people] may believe in Allah and His Messenger and honor him and respect the him and exalt Him morning and afternoon" Quran 48: 9


# And how's the fact that Shia Fatimi of Egypt were the establisher of Mawlud Nabiy made it forbidden to "celebrate" Mawlud?

For a fact, this same Shia Fatimi were the first to establish Islamic university - the prestigious al-Ahzar in Cairo that has produced many Sunni scholars. Why was that not seen as forbidden act?


# Observing Mawlud is a good act in many ways - it honour the Prophet, it brings all Muslims together (where we put aside our differences), its a dhikr (remembrance) of our Prophet etc.

Surah Al-Anaam, vs 160:

"Whoever brings a good deed, he shall have ten like it, and whoever brings an evil deed, he shall be recompensed only with the like of it, and they shall not be
dealt with unjustly.


Imam Muslim documents this Hadith:

The Prophet says:

He who introduced some good practice in Islam which was followed after him (by people) he would be assured of reward like one who followed it, without their rewards being diminished in any respect. And he who introduced some evil practice in Islam which had been followed subsequently (by others), he would be required to bear the burden like that of one who followed this (evil practice) without their's being diminished in any respect.

Hadith # 6466
https://sunnah.com/muslim/47/26





# So, is this really a reason to tag Mawlud a forbidden act?

Anyway, for a clear fact, most widely acceptable date is Rabiul Awwal. Other dates do not have reliable source.





# Are we celebrating the pagan way? Whenever your Saudi masters are celebrating Al-Saud state anniversary with giant cake designed with the picture of King Salman, that obviously is Pagan way and we wonder where were your fatwa manufacturing scholars (starting from troglodyte Mufti of Saudi) to declare it Haram but they are too quick to carelessly declare Mawlud an Haram act.


# For a fact, in Sura Maryam, Allah specifically made mention of 3 days in human life: his day of BIRTH, DEATH and RESURRECTION.

* And practically, our Lord "sends" His abundant salam upon His Prophets Yahya and Eesa. Were these two blessed anbiya devoid of Allah's blessings outside these 3 days? Why did Allah specifically mention those days?

* If that could be done to Yahya and Eesa, why not for Imam of anbiya, hazrat Muhammad, salallahu alayhi wa ahli?!

* Believers are commanded in surah Ahzab: 56 to send Praise and Salam upon the Prophet. A specific dates (of birth, death and resurrection) were mention (in the case of Yahya and Eesa), so how's "celebrating Mawlud" with lots of salawat wa Salam upon Nabi a forbidden act?!





# So in your belief, anything not mentioned by these two sources is not Islam?

Neither Qur'an nor Hadith ORDERED the believers:

* to say, radiyallahu anhum after mentioning any Sahabi

* to place your forehead in sujjud upon rug or carpet, on the contrary Nabi only placed and emphasised on doing sajdah upon the EARTH, DUST.

* to perform 20 rakat tarawih in Jama'ah after salat Ishai, for 29/30 days. (The closest submission you could bring is that Prophet only prayed his usual qiyam layl of 11 rakaat, and not after Ishai 20 rakaat. And for a fact, those 3 or 4 days that sahabah prayed behind him uninvited were documented to be 23rd, 25th, 27th midnights of Ramadan).

* Lots of examples to count from.

I concur with you bro ....

Allah S.W.T a knowledge this 3 significant day for us...

the day we are born
the day we die ..
and the day we will be raise again

15yrs and the baby did not decay and still fresh like this...hmmm

Allah SWT has the knowledge of the unseen and what's to happen ahead, that's why he design a way to guide us from been err if we follow it we are safe.

1). Drinking......... you can agree with me that drunkard loose part of their senses and can jump from a cliff when dared or sleep with their daughter. that's why any intoxicant is forbidden.
2)Premarital sex........even bible is against this. if avoided youth will be eager to settle down and be responsible for themselves and the society.
3)Gender equality......we all know this can't be equal. let a man peace walk and woman do same I comment my reserve.
4)pornography.......I need not to say again that it destroy life.
5)Hijab..........their is modesty when you dress properly , hiding your treasure is one of it.
6) Helping the needy .......this is where zakat comes in and make others millionaires like themselves.

Muslim countries that follows this guide leave in peace and harmony .

Reader1988:
According to Tijjaniya, Khadiriyya, Shites, Akbardeen, etc, they celebrate Maulud
but Izala, Salaf, etc don't celebrate it. Maulud is the birth of prophet Muhammad
just like Christmas is the birth of Jesus Christ. In the Bible, shepherds went to
present their gift just as Christians do on Christmas day. But why now people not
asking questions about Maulud that 55% of muslims only celebrate.
Besides, Some Muslims thought Old Testament is a Bible on its own and new
testament likewise. All Christians must believe in Bible (66 books), 37 old
testament and 27 new testament, totalled 66 books. Muslims must believe in
Qur'an, Hadith, TARIQH and Fiqh. But Kala Katu and Shites don't believe in some
Hadith, TARIQH AND Fiqh. So people should know Maulud is not celebrated by all
muslims

There are different factions based on their believe just like the Christians , there some who don't celebrate the birth of their prophet while some do .

mind you this thread is created for those who truly celebrate this historical day THE BIRTH OF THE NOBLE PROPHET S.A.W.........thanks

Happy Maolud nabiyy to Muslims all over the world .......

may Allah's blessing and barakah be upon the best among the creatures .

Allahumo soli ala kharu li bariyyat S.A.W.

Ameeen

I was like WTF! somebody cannot carry key around in peace again but ...


Really WTF!! WHEN I saw all the keys that belong to a whole city my mind cut WTF!!!!!

wharis dis .......OhLawd

sainty2k3:
Isn't it better to be fucing someone than to be getting fuced here and there? Just thinking

imagine one sharp object drilling you ...lol

dollytino4real:
i will remain girl even one trillion times, as the lasty of the house.

Am sure you just saying the opposite..

I would have chose to be a girl but there is something I couldn't stand I won't be able to arrange a guy for myself ...which means I would have to keep my desire to myself and wait for guys to read their tales for me.........I prefer to be guy jare.


If there is a chance to choose,would you prefer to come as Opposite sex and what's your reasons.

ok

wehdon I saute throwey for una

For the guys......

Move to a location with affordable rent..
Get something to do when main job isn't coming....
Reduce your spending....
Save Save and Save.....

For the girls ......

reduce your standard no time

Nice sneakers....

This is what happen when you start singing Davido's song....
.. Banana fall on you
...aeroplane fall on you
...trailer fall on you .

SMH.

Okk nice research...

Sorry where is the Intership?
Where is the job?
what's the company's name?
I need answers .....

nice outline...

opt out then abi.....then tie u rope

na warri girl?