₦airaland Forum

0taPiaPia:
If I understand what I just read.
1: this is just a kinda get together
2: this amount is to be blown away just to inform the public of their activities abi achievement ( we all know in actual sense there is no achievement ).

And you guys say there is hope for this country.. I strongly believe otherwise

I did not really take my time to read it because i know it is a rubbish. They should please by the mercy of God keep the information and leave the money alone. They should not bother to inform us about their achievement.

Olunmercy56:
God bless the man that wrote the article he sabi them wella. Stop crying Mr Koronu

We need to watch this lady carefully. Did any Ibadan man or woman cause you depression or put you in your present state of hate.
These words of hate is too much. I am so confused because it is coming out from just one person and not your whole community or state.
In the light of these i beg on behalf of that Ibadan man or woman that have put you in these depressed state. Take heart my sister

Cacawa2:
That is really bold. Well, we are getting close to the date now, so all fingers crossed. I will keep everyone informed.

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Hello, i am also interested.

Shelumiel:
When I see writeups like these I begin to question the sanity of the writer. Should we be celebrating academics who have nothing to offer our society ? Things like Big Brother should be celebrated because they have at least contributed to society (at least in terms of creating jobs ) , but what has getting distinctions achieve in Nigeria? Nothing!

It is your own sanity that should be questioned. Your priority needs to be questioned.

yabatown:
YOU ARE INVITING TROUBLE.
ACT LIKE A PASTORS WIFE AND NOT AN ATTENTION CRAZED TEENAGER
RESPECT YOURSELF AND YOUR CONGREGATION
THERE IS NO NEED FOR THIS TYPE OF TRASH, WOMAN
IT IS NOT PROPER AT ALL
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE: PASTORS WIFE OR STEPHANIE OTOBO.

Please how does a pastor's wife act. Is it too much for her to appreciate and gush over her own husband.

She can be d only Stephanie otobo of her husband. I hope loneliness and boredom is not affecting you.

Is his family aware of this predicament ?. If yes good there will be no pressure. They will support you in working it out. If no, i agree God is a miracle worker but when the pressure comes you will blame yourself. Tell both families and then look for solution. Good luck to you.

Blaqsmith:
Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?

Believe it or not God gives and God Takes. You are alive because u have a purpose to fulfill and also the death of your brother does not mean that God did not answer your prayers. God is God even if you decide to be a sango worshiper. that u don't believe in him does not make him less God. What if after your fervent prayer your brother is alive and he is in a state that u do not like i.e a liability to u. thank God he is resting.
What are u doing to personally help the hungry and homeless children on the street. God created us to be our brothers keeper.

CaroLyner:
she's right about the husband looking more and more like her driver though.

What is ur own. The success is for the family. na u sabi. the man is a good husband i just pray olajumoke will be faithful and not Bleep up

ZeeAfrica:
What you are saying is good, but are you aware that even top pastors do divorce and others do suffer abuse in marriages? Have you of the Pastor Chirs and Pastor Anita of Christ Embassy saga? I bet u most ppl looked up to them, but for various reasons half of their dignity is now spoilt

My point is just that before divorce we need to explore other alternatives (e.g Separation) very well so as to avoid regretting of past actions. The man can still change his mind. If she opt for divorce immediately the man will have a strong point against her and in future he will tell the children the story in another form which is totally different from wat happened. Separation for a year or two before divorce is still better. Both families will come in and we can't predict the outcome.

Hello madam, it is well with your soul. I don't normally comment but i have to because i am also a pastor's wife. My dear sis wisdom is profitable to direct. why did u decide to have 5 children plus anoda pregnancy for a man dat does not love u haven't u heard of family planning. Your husband is not a pastor don't ever call him dat again. who is his mentor and role model i hope u will not say Jesus because if u say dat u might receive a slap from him. I hope u are clean in this matter as in u don't have any fault or hidden secret that u believe in ur mind dat ur husband does not know but unfortunately for u he knows. So then if there is no secret pack ur things and that of ur children and look for where to stay. I will recommend separation for now and not divorce until d 2 of u get it right especially because of d children. Make sure u find a good means of providing for ur needs without relying on the man and pray for him. maa duro di igba ti o maa fi pa e sile o. Omo wa ko ni di omo olomo o. i cherish my life and children more dan any thing. no worker in our church dares dat stupid nonsense with me holy ghost fire will reconstruct his life and family like dat of gehazi. Pastor's wife need to carry fire. If the holyghost fire is in u no stupid girl will dare want to ruin ur marriage nor one stupid worker disrespect u. Go and settle this matter on ur kneels. The God of signs and wonders can still do it.

i pity the guy but the guy no try at all. after 2 gud years (730 days) u suddenly discovered u are not compatible again.
Every body in her family already knows u n see u as the prospective husband. she must have ditched several serious minded guys for u.
can u restore d wasted years capital NO wen u are not God. Two months is enof for u to know. why can't he convince d sister not to invite her.
To top it all u might even be fronting ur new babe for her in d party. The guy is not wise at all. There are many people who are still friends with their ex because dey are wise n know how to go abt it. I cant even imagine ur breakup line (story or reason) to dt fine babe. Pele. I am not justifying what d babe did but individual threshold for pain differs. Be very careful next time.

pls keep d baby. you will be happy u did. i am enjoying mine now. they look like twins.

End Time Ministry indeed. God please uphold your children from falling victims of end time pastors. Opin aye ti de tan

Bro, i feel ur pain. My advise to you if you truly still want your home back cos your wife has done to you a very strong thing and it takes the grace of God for you to forgive her:
1. Find ur wedding ring and knack am for hand (cos she might feel u removed it because u want to cheat on her)
2. There is a vaccum in her life dt u need to fill sharp sharp ( if not she will not go back to d ex and hook up with a strange man again)
3. Take her out and speak to her about d whole issue from genesis to revelation (let her know u need to pour everything out so dt u can av peace of mind)
4. Give her the chance to explain herself and make up your mind dt no mata what she tells u abt how deep dey have gone in the relationship you will not get hurt.
5. Pray for d grace to forgive, forget and truly love her back like before.
6. Make up your mind to be her best friend give her enof time, love and attention so dt she will not do dt again.
Marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured
(I hope u are not cheating on her )

The Lord shall keep her safe where ever she shall be and she shall be found safe.Amen

whatever it takes for me to feel good

how much do they charge per course? Thanks

wow. orobo, the way you insulted this chick is not proper o. See as you embarrassed her anyhow. Would you guys kiss and make up and go back to the original topic. Let's share the word of God not insults.

Peace