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Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by mudiana(m): 8:40am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:you don't believe there is God abi? but you believe you breathe in oxygen to live. have you ever seen oxygen ? those that died because of lack of oxygen(miners, asthmatic patients, hanging by the neck etc), why not blame oxygen that they didn't get... make you die first, then you go know whether God dey exist or not. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by horlumiday(m): 8:44am On Jul 08, 2016 |
oodua1stson:1.The Bible is the best selling book of all time 2.The Bible was written over a long period of time by various men(40) 3.The Bible is God's Word 4.The Bible predicted the rise and fall of empires centuries in advance. 5.The Bible is scientifically accurate 6The Bible is historically accurate. 7.The Bible has dramatically changed many lives including mine. _____________________________________________________________________ Continue telling your self the Bible is fake.. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith: Don't be an atheist because you lost your brother after fervent prayers. Neither should you be because there are homeless and hungry children. If there were a god, he probably wouldn't even care very much as long as these people have "surrendered their lives to his son." All of their troubles in the world will be transient only. So, that's not a good reason to be an atheist. Instead, be an atheist because you just don't find real, concrete evidence for the existence of a god, irrespective of how sweet or sad the world may be. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by dabunaija: 8:49am On Jul 08, 2016 |
A barber once asked a pastor 'does God really exist?' why God will allow all this dealth, famine, earthquake, war etc if he really exists. Then the Pastor replied and asked him 'does barbers also exist? why people are working on the street unbarbed with tartered hair like mad men? he replied 'they have not come now. do you expect me to go and force them to be barbed? pastor now replied is the same things to issues of God. one has to come to God in prayers and faith for him to have what he wants |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Time2Smile(m): 8:54am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Let me give it to you straight young man, You don't deserve her or anyone else, you don't deserve companionship or even love. In case you don't know, the feelings, emotion,love you have for her and enjoy and you fear losing were created by God as a mercy and blessing to mankind. It is the same God you deny. HOW DARE YOU? You want to enjoy the blessing of the one you don't acknowledge. Since you are self sufficient and in no need of God then you should not be in need of mere human. Some of your reasons for being atheist are just stupid and intractable. NONSENSE |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by macof(m): 8:55am On Jul 08, 2016 |
VampireeM: Yes Christianity just like just about everything is surrounded by mysteries but the problem arise when Christianity encourages ignorance. ..wanting to leave things a mystery instead of seeking knowledge and understanding of things this goes to show that Christianity has something to hide 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 9:13am On Jul 08, 2016 |
huh? Were you praying to someone's God or God Almighty? Do you think the air you breath is by your own making or what? You think its natural for you to sleep and wake up while others are struggling to take just one breath somewhere in the world? That you can afford to atleast eat once in a day doesnt mean that you made that happen. That you walked passed safely same place someone else got hit by a drunk driver doesnt mean there is no God...the earth is the Lord's and the fullness therefore...the bible says in Psalm 14:1 "a fool says in his heart there is no god"... if you have ever traveled by air, take a good look at the skies, is that your making? You are not the only who lost loved ones. I lost my parents at tender age but as the bible says "all things work together for the good to them that loved God...to them who are called according to his purpose"...whatever challenge you face in life didnt come to break you but to strengthen you...what happens when you fall matters - will you stay down or stand up, clean yourself and take another step? (Take a clue for a child learning how to walk).... Think about this! God will not come down from heaven to help the homeless and hungry children, that is why He has enabled you - Be that blessing - Be God's representation and help people around you! Note: if you do not take care of those hungry children on the streets, they will take care of you - its just a matter of time. This is not a matter of being a christian or anything - it's wisdom from God so be that change agent. I will strongly recommend that you pray to God and He will help you. He will guide you on what to do. You cannot live your life thinking "what will be will be" or questioning the existence of a supreme being - God. We live in 2 worlds, whether you believe it or not - the spiritual and the physical...I dont want to delve deep into this but I sincerely hope you will have a re-think and hope you will not loose your relationship. Stay blessed! Blaqsmith: |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Fastpace(f): 9:28am On Jul 08, 2016 |
HardMirror:I Wont bother explaining certain things to u because my bible said already 'The light has come but men still love darkness'.Ur heart is already hearden nothing i say wud likely mk sense to u & if harden d more,there is no repentance 4 d lyks of u.quote me not cause i'm done here. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Fastpace(f): 9:44am On Jul 08, 2016 |
freshcvvs:Huh!!You have still not made sense. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Blaqsmith(m): 9:46am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Time2Smile:And this is all your religion could teach you? Clap for yourself! you've made a lot of sense but I'm not accepting your god or religion. Is that a problem? |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Daniyomex(m): 10:09am On Jul 08, 2016 |
This one knows nothing sha, saying there's no God. U're living in good health and still say there's no God. Do you know what could have become of that u deceased brother by now if God had heard ur "fervent" prayer and kept him alive? He might have gone mad roaming the street by now bringing disgrace to your family. I am sure if that should be the case, you would surely wish him death. I'm sure you've believe in God at some point in the past but stop believing cause of the calamity that befell, it's good you go back to this God who has all power in heaven and health. He owns the heart of that girl. #My2Cents |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Daniyomex(m): 10:10am On Jul 08, 2016 |
This one knows nothing sha, saying there's no God. U're living in good health and still say there's no God. Do you know what could have become of that u deceased brother by now if God had heard ur "fervent" prayer and kept him alive? He might have gone mad roaming the street by now bringing disgrace to your family. I am sure if that should be the case, you would surely wish him death. I'm sure you've believe in God at some point in the past but stop believing cause of the calamity that befell, it's good you go back to this God who has all power in heaven and on earth. He owns the heart of that girl. #My2Cents |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Perfectionist11: 10:43am On Jul 08, 2016 |
@ OP..You've got to move on & let go of her If you aren't ready 2 admit the existence of the most high.. You can't d8 someone against their wish..& luv cannot be forced.. Sorry about d loss of your bro..I've been there and I know how difficult it is to maintain a positive mentality when it feels like all things are working against ye.. But your own situation z still better than some & believe me they still worship God... WE WILL NEVER HAVE PEACE UNTIL WE ACCEPT THATGOD ISN'T GONNA GIVE JUSTIFICATION FOR DOING WHAT HE DOES.... BUT I BELIEVE THAT SOMETIMES...THE BEST GIFTS FROM GOD ARE UNANSWERED PRAYERS.BECAUSE THE THINGS WE BELIEVE ARE GOOD FOR US MIGHT ACTUALLY BE TOXIC TO OUR EXISTENCE...we are just too short sighted to see it. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by mimopel(f): 11:09am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith: you asked where GOD is wen u lost ur brother after fervent prayers??....well...have got a answer for u, he was there right there with u and its the same GOD who u felt didnt ans ur prayers for ur brothers life, saved your life, u have hands to type and ask this kind of questions, i think u forgot there are pple who has got no hands to type and ask questions. pple on the street??......God is GOD, he ans to no one including u...if u choose to believe in GOD. its ur gain, whether or not u believe in GOD. he will always be GOD and he will always do wat he wants to do not wat u want him to do. clear 1 Like |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by matrix600(m): 11:11am On Jul 08, 2016 |
dankol:I tried many times to get back to christianity to make her happy, i tried to be a devoted christian, i realized i was just fooling myself. I tried to win her over all to no avail. I had no other choice than to move on. Even though we share similar stories, the way we handle them differs. But i think these are some of the things that makes life interesting. @blaqsmith, make a decision u wont regret in d future. Write your own story my friend. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by teamfrabidel: 11:13am On Jul 08, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by oodua1stson: 11:30am On Jul 08, 2016 |
horlumiday: 3 Likes
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Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by uzuri(f): 11:46am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Hmmm. I really thing it's best you let her go and find someone else. She is looking at her future. Some Christian girls won't mind, but she minds. She strongly believes in her faith and that means she fears you would go to hell (it doesn't matter if you believe in hell or not) she is also concerned about her children (in the event you marry) she would want them to be raised in christ and that's hard to do when you husband doesn't attend church. There is also the issue of inlaws and even the church wedding. Just let her go and find someone that would understand your faith. After all some Muslims marry Christians while some muslim/christians see that as an abomination. If she can't accept you non belief. You take it like that and find some1 who will. Cause sorry I doubt she would accept it. Wish you luck |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by BuhBye: 11:51am On Jul 08, 2016 |
cloudgoddess:Cloudgoddess, making sense even before aeons came. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Alegirl: 12:09pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
guy you made your choice on what you belief, she may truly love you but will not be able to marry a man that has a different believe from her,how do you intend to rise your children with different believe?? But one thing I know for choice is that there is God,The One that created the Earth and give us breath. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by CAPSLOCKED: 12:10pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith: GBAM! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith: Are you telling me you become an atheist due to the bad incidence that happened? |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by kikies(m): 12:24pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Nenejeje: In fact I've Neva read a better response |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by icecream2: 12:35pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith: Believe it or not God gives and God Takes. You are alive because u have a purpose to fulfill and also the death of your brother does not mean that God did not answer your prayers. God is God even if you decide to be a sango worshiper. that u don't believe in him does not make him less God. What if after your fervent prayer your brother is alive and he is in a state that u do not like i.e a liability to u. thank God he is resting. What are u doing to personally help the hungry and homeless children on the street. God created us to be our brothers keeper. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Shut Up And Change If You Want To....No One Is Begging You |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by bobkezel(m): 12:48pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Brainwashed fools. If you can't accept me as an atheist, to hell with you. |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by daproflinks: 12:48pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Oh so you have a conscience? Who put it there? Having a concience means you have a soul and that means you answerable to someone and that someone is your maker(God) let me ask you a question do animals have a conscience? Because they are not answerable to anyone that is why they are animals you to have a conscience means there is someone higher than you judging you 24/7.And that person created a variety of beings human being and animals .so please stop deceiving your conscience which you admit you have |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by freshcvvs: 2:10pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Fastpace: How can it make sense to a senseless person? |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Bwaal(m): 2:38pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Mehn GOD is ur strenght..... Only because ur brother died u blieve GOD no exist if ur papa and mama die unko?? u knw the 1 way worst pass if ur sponsor go die u go hear pwin.... Na that time u go sabi say God dey... shey bi u still get money buy sub dey post this trash no worry u go soon become pope |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by horlumiday(m): 2:50pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Eeyah |
Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by horlumiday(m): 3:06pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Hmm, not that you don't believe in God, deep down you do but you dont wanna admit,.. To me, you are just angry at HIM.. for letting your brother die besides you said you prayed, was it a prayer of faith or fear? ______________________________________________ The Bible predicted what's happening to ya long time ago... 2 Timothy 4 vs 4 - people will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths... |
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