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Politics / Re: 46 YEARS AFTER: Throwback Of Third Mainland Bridge, Lagos by idahme(m): 5:49pm On Sep 08 |
Burob: You are a big ignoramus to even ask this question , it's a pity I don't educate people who are lower than the low. You are asking me to mention federal government project in a place that has seen leadership of Nigeria for over 80 years?(1914 to 1991) , you must be really s big ignoramus. Do a Google search you can learn a lot I don't teach idiots |
Politics / Re: Yemi Adenuga: Irish People Attack Nigerian Vying For Post by idahme(m): 5:45pm On Sep 08 |
Makunnahatata: In your mind anyone who castigates your ideology is Igbo? Hausa , Igbo and Yoruba to these ethnic groups it's only three tribes we have in Nigeria what a foolish soul. I'm neither part of those three ethnic groups but your bigoted mind thinks it's an Igbo dude that is communicating with you, what a mentality. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Yemi Adenuga: Irish People Attack Nigerian Vying For Post by idahme(m): 5:30pm On Sep 08 |
Godfullsam: This story is needed for that lady contesting in Ireland, send this to her.. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Yemi Adenuga: Irish People Attack Nigerian Vying For Post by idahme(m): 5:28pm On Sep 08 |
Makunnahatata: Why are you economical with the truth? This same thing happening in. Ireland is what is happening in South west I don't see anything wrong with it. Same conditions same goal post. It's sweet when bigotry favours your ethnicity but bad when it doesn't, what a life. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Young 'Emergency Dad' Forced To Accept His Newborn Baby (Photos) by idahme(m): 5:29am On Sep 08 |
godofuck231: His parents not just his father, the duty of raising children is on the shoulders of the parents not just the man. |
Romance / Re: I Just Got Fired From Work by idahme(m): 5:24am On Sep 08 |
LordBiden: You are amongst dictatorial humans roaming the space called Nigeria acting as supernatural beings without any recourse to statutory labour laws of the land. Does a one time delay from work as a result of a natural phenomenon (rain) warrant a summary dismissal from work if that is the case does a boss have to use his ego to fire an employee who he hasn't given adequate opportunity to defend himself for an alleged minor misdemeanor ? There are rules in work place such a minor misdemeanor warrants a query. If boss issued him a query that's the opportunity to answer the query and then make appropriate apologies, how do you expect a worker that has been sacked to go begging? Is it how you expect people to crawl on your feet begging you for your uniforms rash decisions? You have a very big ego and huge problem , people like you will usurp laid down rules and regulations in the work place just because you want to protect your huge delusional ego. If this dude sues his boss in national industrial court for wrongful dismissal he would win, he should just claim wasn't given an opportunity for fair hearing the judge will toss this sham of a sack and award him penalties for wrongful sack. Nigerians are really pathetic, most employers of labour in Nigeria don't know basic laws governing employees employers relationship |
Romance / Re: I Just Got Fired From Work by idahme(m): 5:11am On Sep 08 |
PlayMaker14: Omo CIA agent 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ass Hole Licking by idahme(m): 10:42pm On Sep 07 |
tnerro1: Same way I feel about giving a woman head, if she likes put 1 billion on the ground that's a no no 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: 46 YEARS AFTER: Throwback Of Third Mainland Bridge, Lagos by idahme(m): 10:04pm On Sep 07 |
Throwback:Which state has 10% of the number of projects done by Fed government in Lagos? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: “We Are Going To Provide You With Insecurity” —Edo APC Candidate Promises by idahme(m): 7:01pm On Sep 07 |
Sonyboom765: No be edit ooo na live from d dude 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Bride Begs Best Man To Stop The Groom’s Trophy Dance (Photos) by idahme(m): 6:46pm On Sep 07 |
EreluRoz: Get a work and do, u need help. 5 Likes |
Health / Re: Update: I Finally Did This To Myself Due To Gonorrhoea by idahme(m): 3:16pm On Sep 07 |
2shure: Having a car isn't only the sign of some one with sufficient money, some with cars are still struggling.... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by idahme(m): 12:10pm On Sep 07 |
If you are a responsible member of the society where adults take responsibility for themselves you won't ask this question. How to become responsible members member of the society. Get a job, create wealth and take care of your responsibilities like taking care of your financial bills and paying tax to the government. By doing this you are contributing to the economy of the country. Only those who are irresponsible aka those who look for other adults to carry their adult burden that will keep asking these questions because to them life is a place to eat free food. N/B this is not to attack you in person but to everyone who have these ideologies I have enumerated. 3 Likes |
Business / Re: CBN Sells $20,000 To BDCs At ₦1,580 by idahme(m): 11:30am On Sep 07 |
SmartPolician: U get if u don't get forget about it....It's sad |
Romance / Re: Woman Single At 30 Doesn't Mean Is Not A Good Woman,This Is The Reason by idahme(m): 2:21am On Sep 07 |
EreluRoz: Meaning every 6 months they should be changing relationships and later you go blame men after having 25 relationships at 30 years say men no green but deep down it's 100 percent your fault. The main reason why some women are in this boat is choice issue, they leave people who will stand with them and run to someone already with six girlfriends and has plethora of options because he has a little change to throw out. Men who have refused to throw out money for these set of thieves but has insisted in showing character traits but in addition have plenty money will tell you the bitter experience of these two situations. Women are their own problems, when you are delusional and seek out what you can't ever do for yourself, this is what you get for been lazy and delusional |
Politics / Re: Tinubu To Nigerians: Fuel Price Hike Inevitable by idahme(m): 2:05am On Sep 07 |
RenaissanceGuy: Read don't scan, people who read will have answers to their questions but scanners will be confused as you are currently 23 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Election Losers Harrasing Our Staff On Social Media - INEC by idahme(m): 2:01am On Sep 07 |
yarimo: You don't want citizens to criticize thieves and criminals who have kept the country in chains , you always thick backwardly 24 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Gbonka Ebiri Threatens To Invade Edo, Kidnap Monarch, Rape Wife by idahme(m): 5:34pm On Sep 06 |
Nonny95: Abike ? You are joking? She will do nothing. You don't know the country you hail from |
NYSC / Re: New Minimum Wage: NYSC DG Promises Increased Allowance For Corp Members by idahme(m): 9:28am On Sep 06 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Asking An Employer The Salary Range Before Interview. by idahme(m): 9:25am On Sep 06 |
UrbaneHR: Go to indeed and see HR professionals posting jobs with salary range attached to it. This black mind mindset won't take you anywhere, you want to waste people's time and energy to seek for what isn't available. Una dey kolo for this country. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Asking An Employer The Salary Range Before Interview. by idahme(m): 9:22am On Sep 06 |
DesChyko:You are a typical Nigerian filled with deceit, have you seen jobs posted on indeed by foreigners? You wonder why recruiters over there don't have your mindset and are still better off that you folks in Nigeria? Every job seekers has the rights to know the pay of the job hile is hunting for from the word go. After you hid these information what happens when the job pays less than what the job seems is currently paid? You have wasted his time and money and other intangible assets just to make up the list of those coming for recruitment. The mindset of recruiters in Nigeria seeking to have hundreds and if not thousands of candidates for just one position advertised is sickening and should be discouraged outrightly. You all should do better 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Lady Reveals What She Did After Collecting Money From A Guy For Transport by idahme(m): 5:53pm On Sep 05 |
NoahHadNoArk: Ignorance they say it's not a escuese you know that? That act is a crime but illiterates, scammers and deluded people will think otherwise but will be the first to tell a judge it's their first time of committing an offense or was ignorant to know it's an offense. It's well spelt out in our relevant laws that obtaining by false pretense is punishable and most people who commit this crime interestingly are left off the because those who fall victim of these crimes just want to let it go. It was on this platform a dude set a precedence as regards to this crime by prosecuting a girl who collected 5k from him and refused to show up but people like you instead of looking at the crime committed was looking at the little sum . If you like encourage your sisters to to same line of thought, maybe they will be used as a precedence to make society better. Men should never foot the liabilities of women allow women take responsibility for themselves, any woman who can't pay her transport have no reason to be in a relationship 49 Likes 6 Shares |
Health / Re: I Have Just Infected 2 Girls With Herpes by idahme(m): 1:25pm On Sep 04 |
meobizy: Thank God for yourself, most ladies who ain't married don't like using protective covering during sex my experience . My Ex even gave my an ultimatum that if I don't do raw and head she will go and my reply is go ahead. People don't give a damn about their health these days 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lady Rants As Taxi Driver Offers ₦50k To Take Her Home For Flexing by idahme(m): 9:53am On Sep 04 |
gbadexy: Everything to you is ritualist, if he is he won't go for that megre amount. What stops him telling her he will pay and outrageous amount? Make Una think small na 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lady Rants As Taxi Driver Offers ₦50k To Take Her Home For Flexing by idahme(m): 9:52am On Sep 04 |
Gadafii: 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Fubara: Your Threats, Irresponsible And Unacceptable - PDP Govs reply Wike by idahme(m): 7:24am On Sep 04 |
DeeGov123:A chunk of the party is loyal to him...The dude is spraying money like something else |
Politics / Re: Fubara: Your Threats, Irresponsible And Unacceptable - PDP Govs reply Wike by idahme(m): 7:23am On Sep 04 |
Tjra: Continue to cry we love tage cries, since you can't walk around Rivers State to see bothe the capital project and human capital development going on in Rivers we love that tears that is flowing from you. You will lament for 8 years in PH, if you like think someone will replace Fubara you will cry more 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Fubara: Your Threats, Irresponsible And Unacceptable - PDP Govs reply Wike by idahme(m): 7:21am On Sep 04 |
CyrusVI: I dey laugh, it's not fat you will see what's up. |
Politics / Re: NLC Accuses Tinubu Of Betrayal Over Fuel Price Hike by idahme(m): 7:17am On Sep 04 |
Lanretoye: 7500 too big self, imagine just ten years ago minimum wage could buy two bags of rice but today minimum wage can't buy one bagg of rice |
Travel / Re: South Africa Denies Nigeria’s Basketball Team Visa To Participate In U20 FIBA by idahme(m): 3:23pm On Sep 03 |
vanbonattel: Ur head is gone.. |
Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by idahme(m): 9:47am On Sep 03 |
xammax: The deal breaker came through the section of financial responsibilities, these are the questions that came to my mind These are some of the questions I asked her 1. What do you think about being an adult? Is it worthwhile been an adult? 2. Do you think been an adult should comes with a great responsibility? What are the upsides and downsides of you been an adult? 3. Do you think everyone should be a responsible adult in the society? If yes do you agree to been financially responsible as an adult? I then moved it to relationships and finance, mind you so far I haven't had any reason to benefit financially from her even when I portray myself as been in her financial bracket. Invariably to her we are in same situation so hypergamy was checkmated by me to see her real life scenario experiences devoid of any lies while communicating. 4) What's your view on marriage? Are you interested in marriage? If yes when do you desire to get married? 5) How did your parents foot their bills while been married? (New she was a product of broken marriage when we started dating but I give people benefit of the doubt) Do you subscribe to that? (According to her the mum suffered financially during the pendency of their marriage but this looked not interesting to me because she already told me the dad is a an senior police officer and discovered the man only built one house and that house he gave to the wife and went to rent outside) 6) Do you think married couples should work together financially? She asked work how? I reiterated both of them ensuring that the home front is taken care of jointly? That what belongs to the man belongs to the woman and what belongs to the woman belongs to the man she answered, I don't think so and I inquired why do you say so? She said and I quote " my money belongs to me and me alone while your money belongs to all of us" that it's my responsibility as her boyfriend and husband to take care of all her responsibilities and that should never think otherwise. 7) I asked should I invest and open up a business enterprise for the family and mandate you to be the CEO of the business how will our family benefit from the business? She looked at me and said I hope you are not thinking that the money that will be gotten from my business will be used to run the house? The essence of asking these questions wasn't really to discard her but to make sure both of us were in same boat while heading forward into the relationship. She went further to say my business money is money is not for the house it's for me and I will determine what I will use it for but certainly not for the home because it's the responsibility of the man to take care of me and my children. 8 What if the man who has spent his hard earned money to open the business and becomes financially incapacitated? Who then runs the home financially? She replied why would you even think that way? He should be ready to bounce back because he has a lot of responsibility to cater for. That was it, I had to remove any little freebie she was getting and then called for another heart to heart session with seeing if I could talk to her on this issue but she was even seeing me as someone who shouldn't be saying this, then I called it quit but allowed her to break it up herself after one month of nonchalant attitude towards the relationship. I also delved into other areas like family history , childhood trauma etc and I can say I was glad to prove into the hidden realities in order to make an informed decision. I can say before we had this talk we have no major issues but those issues were ahead of us waiting to pop up, the level of selfishness and self centeredness was second to non and was glad to move out. My hand don pain me I go collect one billion from you. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
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