₦airaland Forum

eastOFwest:
You are correct. Some men don't want children out of wedlock so they are more likely to marry a half decent woman who is pregnant for them. It's either she removes the pregnancy or he does something on her head/marries. You will be surprised at the number of families that have started under such circumstances. It's a gamble for the woman though, because a lot of men will just ghost her, hence the growing number of single mothers out there.

Also, it's not only because of poverty that women do this. In fact most women do this because they like or are infatuated with man and they want him (or a part of him) in their life permanently. Some women are lonely and bored, and just want something happening in their life.

I agree

FakeDoktor:
Is it not this Nigeria? I'm sure they're all aware but will block his conversion. In their mind "how can a common cleaner come and start rubbing shoulder with us!"

They gave him approval meaning the vice chancellor gave him that approval, they are all aware but the slots were shared as usual fortunately for this dude his story went viral

Dsholla:
Repeat after me....

I will stop being foolish henceforth...

U hash ooo , but the dude no read anything before typing that rubbish. Comprehension skills for everyone is not the same though that's why some have low grades and others higher

psucc:
Hmm I can relate to this o! Got ND in 2005 and applied for Conversion and was on target because the then Gov, Óbóng Attah declared Amnesty for those who went to school "Nicodemusly". But the then Dir of Admin in our Parastatal use it as an opportunity to swell his well of "Catch". A number of those lads who accepted to "doggy" him were converted leaving those of us without the kit.

Not until, 2016 after much fight, that I got it. What pains me most was a staff at the State Hqtrs who retired on SGL 07 despite parading 1st Degree for over 10years.

This guy got approval before going to school, his own is different.

psucc:
Hmm I can relate to this o! Got ND in 2005 and applied for Conversion and was on target because the then Gov, Óbóng Attah declared Amnesty for those who went to school "Nicodemusly". But the then Dir of Admin in our Parastatal use it as an opportunity to swell his well of "Catch". A number of those lads who accepted to "doggy" him were converted leaving those of us without the kit.

Not until, 2016 after much fight, that I got it. What pains me most was a staff at the State Hqtrs who retired on SGL 07 despite parading 1st Degree for over 10years.

What? That dude would have ended with at least level 12

Osariemen12:
But wait oh. Is he mandating the school to employ him after giving him the opportunity to work and study with them? Did he ask them why he wasn't shortlisted for interview?

Has the school management approved recruitment exercises?

Too many questions to ask.

He is working with the school(employed with SSCE) , applied to the school that he wants to pursue his university education and they approved and told him to go ahead, then he enrolled in his bachelor's and continued to PhD but refused to upgrade him from his SSCE they used in employing him as a cleaner. He then applied for an upgrade, he was invited for an exams , he wrote and then they only allegedly collected people they want instead of based on merit.

For the mere fact that the school gave him the go ahead to do his bachelor's and he did same in the same university they should recognize his certification and upgrade his employment.

Dijita:
From the information in the article, it appears the guy went to the same school to get his PHD. You are now giving another exam to be converted. Are you saying you don't have trust in the quality of PHD you awarded to the guy?

Na mumu them be

streetshuttle:
I don't understand what you mean by baby trapped. You mean juju something?

She meant she had sex with him during ovulation and made sure even if he used a condom she had to puncture it so that fertilization can occur. She did it then when she saw the man as a means to her poverty eradication but now she is established in her field(has her own money) doesn't see any need to be with hom or rather doesn't see any need to be with a man(hypergamy lost since she isn't looking up to him anymore).

This is a simple lesson, never you place too much emphasis on women who see you as her poverty eradication and empowerment scheme if you do so you are bound to experience issues whenever this condition changes.

adekolaelect:
Mumu tell Diri to enter fct then you go know who get power in fct. It is normal for Diri to ban wike but it is abnormal for Wike to ban Diri. Your partisan interest didn't make you understand that the influence and power of minister for fct is more than that of any governor in Nigeria . Every Governor must transaction with the fct .

Mumu go school u say na backyard school u go go, else this wouldn't be difficult to elucidate to ur frontal lobe but unfortunately it is.

Solofresh2:
Is Wike that powerful

Hebis not, this os a content

Salewa97:
Wike don show strength.

This is what we call authority.

When bayelsa Governor enter he should go and stop him lets see, Bayelsa is part of those sponsoring abuja not the other way round can your state do same?

Mariangeles:
She just didn't like you, and wanted to get rid of you.

Why do women hate accountability? Always looking for how to dodge when held accountable. Are you saying the ladies who supposedly interested in the men don't do this? If you don't like a man what stops you from telling him you don't like him?

Ladies who do this don't do it because they want the man to disappear, they do it because they see relationship as w poverty eradication scheme
for women where men should take upon themselves all LIABILITIES from women. If this that said guy goes ahead i bet you, she will go ahead and date him but only date him on the basis of give me money and i give you sex. A lot of women are prostituting in relationships and even marriage thinking that's how life should be, most can't differentiate between what they do and what prostitutes do.

ediko5:
Why would the law say a woman can't rape. We have many funny laws

By definition r*pe in Nigeria is defined aa aa forceful insertion of penis( man) without consent of the owner of the vagina(woman) but we know currently that vagina can be inserted by the penis without the approval of the owner of the penis. A man can be drunk by a woman but still have penile erection and sex can still occur through the use of cowgirl sex method The interesting thing is these laws were made by men.

When these offenses are committed by women you will only hear the words , sexual harassment , assaults etc , they carry far lesss punishment than r*pe which they committed.

We4all:
No. The victim was a non indigene, and the criminal was a tout. No one was compassionate enough to fight for justice or bold enough to point a finger. It was pathetic!

Wow...this country is really lawless. What a pity.

ediko5:
I hope this applies to both gender and not limited to a single gender

His statement depicts just one gender but it should be both ways, in Nigeria a woman isn't capable of r*pe unless the laws are changed.

davidtemi:
Embassy, u better no let dem recall or jail u o

Jail who? Una dey reason at all?

We4all:
Too bad! Nigerians and false alarm/ lynching are like 5 and 6. Everybody appears to be blood thirsty and looking for the slightest opportunity to unleash their demon. They lynch criminals not because they think they are guilty but rather out of anger, frustration and poverty.

There was a similar scenario involving a baby daddy and his ex girlfriend. He wanted the kid, but the lady kept denying him access. The guy she was dating at that time threatened him that the next time he comes around the girl, he may not be that lucky.

Unluckily, he made another attempt to forcefully take the child and that guy made true his threats. He raised alarm, a crowd gathered and the poor dude was lynched and burnt to death. The ex girlfriend was out of town when this happened and cried her eyes out when she got wind of the situation.

My advice to lynchers is to channel this energy toward the kidnappers that invade their homes to kidnap and kill them. Say no to jungle justice. It is so archaic!

Wasn't the dude arrested?

Sharpsharp00123:
everyone is not always igbo

Your bigoted mind will tell you it's always igbos, are igbos that populated in Nigeria?

You are amongst the f**ls who think Nigeria is nade up of hausa , yoruba and igbo? Pathetic

Sharpsharp00123:
are u Igbo or not?
hI canbiet u will deny

From my write up you should discern I'm not igbo, it was clearly stated.

I'm from the treasure base of the nation the goode that lays thee golden eggs if Nigeria, the reason your Governor has allocation in your state.

You better leave bigotry it will take you no where

Sharpsharp00123:
Igbos fueled the crisis on twitter n were even mocking them that they should run them with pig oil before burning them to go n meet their 72 virgins


That's d reason y the north attacked d Igbos in return cos na Igbos carry d matter for head pass

That's what happens when u can't keep quiet

Stop this nonsense ,i observe in most cases people use the south east as a scapr goat no wonder they didn't join us in the protest last year. I can evidently say you are from the south wrst part of Nigeria, fortunately yorubas are good people but bigots like you bring bad name to the beautiful tribe, you should stop this nonsense...

Sharpsharp00123:
Igbos fueled the crisis on twitter n were even mocking them that they should run them with pig oil before burning them to go n meet their 72 virgins


That's d reason y the north attacked d Igbos in return cos na Igbos carry d matter for head pass

That's what happens when u can't keep quiet

Stop this nonsense ,i observe in most cases people use the south east as a scapr goat no wonder they didn't join us in the protest last year. I can evidently say you are from the south wrst part of Nigeria, fortunately yorubas are good people but bigots like you bring bad name to the beautiful tribe, you should stop this nonsense.

100k I won't buy this trash

This is the difference between men and women, men sincerely remember sacrifices but majority of women don't. No woman will ask these questions when in this situation, they will just take a walk.

Please no one will tell you what to do, do what is in your best interest .

BUGOFF:
To avoid Chinese-American population tomorrow

Nope, to avoid classified documents from getting to unintended Chinese spies who work as ordinary people in the Embassy.

Americans who are working in china can marry Chinese but the ones in the Embassy can't why? Think.

SporaD8:
How will your regular girlfriend sleep with multiple partners in a day and you as the main guy will have not the slightest hint?
The signs are always obvious.

This question shows that either you are naive or haven't seen a scenario like this. How fo guys have sex with different girls in a different days if same week! That's same way ladies do, you think women are different? don't go there at all. You mustn't have sex in same day , sex within two days before and after ovulation is potent.

SporaD8:
Carry out pregnancy test. If it's confirmed she's 2weeks pregnant, congratulations o!
Anything more than two weeks... No be everything Dem go dey teach una.

This only correct on the assumption she has just one sexual partner who had sex with her on her ovulation. If she had two partners then this assumption is wrong. But for now he has to work on the assumption that he is responsible as long as the days tallied then other confirmatory tests like visual inspection and DNA can follow after delivery

What is the difference in days between ovulation and a woman seeing her monthly flow? the answer is 12 to 16 days but majority experience it at 14 days , so if you had sex on her ovulation day, 2 weeks after she will not experience her menses


N/B it 100% true you are the owner if you are the only sexual partner she has else congratulations papa juniour

being:
Yes... esp that small kobokobo girl who can be seen to be a junkie frm her comments

Na so small girl dey talk? Na old woman b dat

Kobojunkie:
Good move! Don't let insecurities keep you tied down in a loveless/unhappy marriage. It has never been worth it to do so.

Odumama no time have u ever said anything sane...u will love d whole world to be single like u...

yarimo:
Ehie Edison don't have any immunity he must be arrested

He doesn't but the court has given him immunity, go and vacate it then arrest him. Were you not the one praising the court when they brought in a drug pusher what is different now?

ezenwaez:
It's so sad that while some applicants are waiting to be shortlisted for the federal civil service commission recruitment examination, the federal civil service commission has given an applicant temporary employment offer (kindly see attached image below). Admin please push to front page.

This is not w nee thing for federal civil service commission, it's normal but pathetic

People shouting fake don't know how federal civil service do their recruitment....Any application online for federal cil service is majorly a waste if time judging from past precedence unless they changed in 2025.

No federal civil service recruitment in this fourth republic had gone the right way, just take your mind off it if it comes fine if it doesn't take an L and move to the next search. For those who don't have experience on this this will sound weird to them but that's the truth, do not put your thought on any federal civil service recruitment don't try it. There dome agencies that are a bit credible e.g NNPC but FCSC is not part of them.

You don't need s test or interview to be given appointment letter from federal civil service commission, if you doubt me, go to any ministry and ask the first 100 persons you see you will be shocked to know that not even 5 out of 100 employees were interviewed, this is Nigeria an ugly scenario and pathetic one at that. For sane minds take your mind off this if it comes fine if not move on...A word is enough for the wise