Chamber10:



I hope that the man looking for a virgin girl to marry is a virgin too.

If you are smart you should have also told women that since they are looking for men who have money hope they also have money too? Equality with no financial equality is no equality at all. You now see how fuuuulish u sound

iampeterben:
Where are they getting this statistics from?

DNA centers

ruggedtimi:
i remember when i first met one of my friend with his current wife, then they were dating and i was like "Guy na your mother be this?"..She is actually younger but looks older than him.
....Fast forward to three months they got married,omo when i got to the wedding venue i say "guy where you get this money from"...two weeks into marriage my guy dey drive lexus Es350 2020 model. Later i found out the chubby wife is from a wealthy family and his father inlaw bought the car for him and secured a well paying job of 800k for my guy and his wife. Na so my friend life change. No dey allow us rest for whatsapp status steady balling every weekend.

na so life supposed be, na person wey no get sense go dey suffer for life.

How on earth will you as a man take all the loads of responsibility on your head as a man without breaking down?

1Sharon:
I'll give you the same advice men tend to give women that complain about bad relationships:

You should have chosen better.

Not every time you exude fuulishness in the public, if you got nothing to say just take a walk. Accountability is something you all don't ever like you are not an exception

RealityKings:


Games women play

The dude never stretched that game by testing her in real time, those who fake it will fail like park of cards.

Sunmolar:


I don't know men can be deluded by emotions.
So, if he married his ex because of immediate solution to financial needs from her... All marital problem solved?

You are not smart to know that the guy is sarcastically taunting women who usually say that line, it's ladies who usually make that statement whenever they want to ditch a man , so the dude is joining them in echoing it . You are the one showing emotions from your response and not the dude who is sarcastic

imustsaymymindo:


Here you go advising people not to rush and you are failing in your own advise the second time rushing to want to get married to an ex.

What I am certain of is that your ex would deal with you more than your wife.

Why don't you use this period of pain to build and upgrade yourself? Cut off your ex. Stay away from sex from your wife and her money. Use the time to learn as much skills as you can and own your life. Choose yourself. Live like you are single and do the things you love that'd make you stay off sex(it's just for a while till you become a man who is perceived to have options). Sports, gym, chill with your other male friends, network, get updated.

From my experience, "people love those who love themselves". And that is why your wife doesn't love you.

And after he does all of these the wife will then love him and run to him? Let's say he starts earning more like a million nàira monthly after then the wife starts professing love to him and then he accepts him back? This is why it's risky to marry a woman who is struggling financially because you never know her intentions, she can fake to be caring because in her mind you are doing better than her. I loathe selfish people, they can never see my money not even a kobo.

Successtube:


Imagine this was someone during our dating days I would give money when she visits me and is about to leave, but she will refuse to collect it. She will be coming to my house then, she will buy foodstuffs for me with her money and when I want to refund her, she will tell me I should forget that we are one.

Omo this is total deception, them scam you . What then happened when she started seeing little change of 300k? That means if them pay her 2m monthly wahala dey.. God help you

ItisWell22:


After a year and three months of dating.

It’s well.

Successful marriage has nothing to do with the length of dating, I'm sure your parents didn't date up to that time. The problem is that the OP didn't ask the right questions during dating let me give you an example. My last relationship was just months into when I I called my partner to ask her some sailent questions that will make or mar the relationship, the reason I asked these questions was because I wanted to push the relationship further. It came to the section of finance and her response was worst than that of the OP's wife mind you this is a lady my earning potential is 30 times hers (though not fully aware because I wanted to check the gold digging innate in her to see through her character). I asked her again I will be the one to open a business for you from start to finish and you say that money from the business I opened won't be channeled into the family if I get broke? She replied it's your responsibility my money is my money and your money is our money that was it.

Even other sections of questioning she was average but the selfishness in the finance section was all I needed to know her selfishness and self centeredness , God forbid I lay my life for such humans.

I can assure you the OP never had finance discussion with his wife and then he becomes surprised after sacrificing his life to make her better, most ladies are selfish so it's the duty of the man to detect the selfish ones and trash them in the bin, they deserve no place in marriage.

LilMissFavvy:
The guy did it just to hurt her. He has hurried into marital journey with just another lady available, and such a marriage will not work out. Let her watch and see.

You think life is a Nollywood movie?

The dude already saw her red flags and ran away to someone else hoping she would change but to no avail he had to go to another lady. You think when a guy withdraws from a woman he is the one with the red flag? ask yourself what caused the withdrawal? Definitely something must have triggered that reaction meaning that lady at the time isn't his first priority any more.

Marvieduke:
I guess the guy was the first to spot those red flags but was just quiet until she made the stupid move of breaking up..... Na those wise brothers I dey respect....

You may be correct, this scenario has happened to me.

We dated few months and is a was ready to move things further but was very observant , detected some red flags and call her for discussion but was surprised that she affirmed and was very adamant to change. Called her the second Time same thing then I started withdrawal, stopped stuff I was doing before and that led to her complaining that I was changing and all that then boom she broke up after one month.

She was happy she was the one breaking up but never knew my soul had left already a time ago. That you are the one doing the breakup doesn't mean the other person is the one with the red flag , only the smart minds know this

Cassandraloius:
Na where una dey see these kind men? Hmmmm.... So terrible!

Which kind men? You cook breakfast and you cry

Women like to feel eurotic while been the ones to break up relationships don't know why women feel that way but when it's a man doing the breaking all hell gets loosed. A man doesn't have issues with women breaking up but won't be same when the man is the one doing so.

80% of relationships are broken up by females why shout when 20% happens? It's still amusing to me till now.

slimfit1:
Expect divide and rule tactics soon, they are Igbo or they want to develop the land or set the place on fire.

Bigot how are you?

Ennyjude:
If them never kill one motivational speaker,others no go learn

u b yeye girl

But on a serious note every adult needs to think like an adult for a relationship to work, I can't be the one to take your responsibility when you are an adult it doesn't make sense to me. This is why a liability is a no no for me.

WannaHowzit:


Hilarious that Japagerians were REJECTED in caps lock 👎🏾🇳🇬😂😂😂

Read a book once in a while and realise SA has millions of whites - sometimes they'll become Miss SA. Sh!tgbo ingrates are a minority hence thrown in the bin, plucked out by shambolic Miss Universe Nigeria and ordeaned as the winner (who's not actually the winner) 👎🏾🇳🇬💩💩💩💩💩💩

Who then is the winner Mr. Chairman of Miss Universe Nigeria? Won't you keep your ignorance away from public space ?

Wawelexy:



If it's 3, then she's a minor, cos according to the story, the girl should be 20...


Well, thank God for your last paragraph, atleast you know the act is bad no matter how we try to twist it, no need for arguments...

It's bad but in the context in which the writer puts it I can say it's a reciprocity to the first evil. Both are bad , the man's own isn't a more evil than the woman's.

JOSCOFELIX:
do you know what they call indiscriminate bombing I am very sure you do not know

I will leave you for your kindergarten teacher to do justice to your critical thinking skills that has been obliterated in the last few years.



https://www.amnesty.org/en/location/europe-and-central-asia/eastern-europe-and-central-asia/ukraine/report-ukraine/.
https://www.reuters.com/world/europe/un-probe-finds-new-evidence-russia-committed-war-crimes-indiscriminate-attacks-2023-10-20/

Loverofpeace:
Its surprising you are all celebrating world war 3 instead of Russia to be humiliated in this war she would rather nuke Ukraine nothing will happen.

Hahaha u are delusional

Tell Russia to continue fighting, invading a neighbor that has not a you for once is something else. The expansionists tendencies of Russia to annex lands that doesn't belong to them, what consign Russia in eastern Ukraine? Do they have the powers to invade a nation to them there are ethnic Russians in Ukraine stupid logic. There are ethnic Germans in Australia and other European countries, had Germany invaded any ? Just like there are Northern tribes in Niger, did Nigeria invade Nigeria to protect the those tribes?

Putin should go and nuke Ukraine let's see how it goes.

nnatobryno:
Why is he targeting civilians. These are soft targets and amount to war crimes, what do we get? Americans control ICC

It seems you don't know what Russia has been doing in Ukraine for 30 months, it's indiscriminate bombardments on Ukraine. All the apartment housing in kyiv that went down are they military fields ? Russia should taste a little of what they have been doing in Ukraine for 30 months and counting.

shivisee:
It’s even more scary the Ibo’s are doing everything to cover it up! They first tried to gaslight people by saying she was a Yoruba woman masquerading as an Ibo person,people quickly counter them by demanding for her arrest,they become boxed to a corner! The next lies from them now is amaka was provoked!!! This Peter obi people are satan from hell that needs to be dealth with! Show us how she was provoked, they brought out a blurry images to fool themselves! Una never know anything !

You are a bigot, I may not hail from either Yoruba or Igbo extraction but could see all the loathe you have in your system.

Inst it on this forum we watched and read articles of people from the Yoruba extraction threatening to obliterate the IGBOs ? From the likes of MC oluomo and other Tinubu Loyalists, what did they do against them? What was your opinion as regarding the genocidal calls against the people from the South East region? Same thing happened with the northern folks issuing genocidal threats against the IGBOs in the last decade.

Most of you have allowed bigotry to eat deeply into your critical thinking thought process to an extent you don't know evil from good. Selective justice is no justice at all, a situation where different people from the Yoruba ethnicity committed same crime and nothing was done about it even when plethora of evidence abound is appalling.

I will never support persecution of a person by based of his ethnicity that's evil and a bad precedence for future generations.

hakeemhakeem:
She could get the man kill rather than allowing her daughter marry him not to talk of having a kid

Just the way the man killed her for training a child into adulthood that isn't his? So her crime isn't worth that but his is worth to kill? Do you know what it is to train another man's child for 20years plus thinking the child belongs to you? That 20years could be used to Mary another woman and birth children for the man but she wasted it for him , the only way she could do restitution is to allow her child birth a child for the man she denied having one from for decades.

Wawelexy:



Na true ooo, because he said for years he had been thinking he was sleeping with his daughter, which means he started having carnal knowledge with her when she was a minor... And nothing is more dangerous than a scorned woman... she will follow up with the case and make sure he ended up in jail to get back at him.... She's already a wounded Lion after the man's revelation, she will put all she has to take back the lead of the scores they are settling....

As a man, try everything possible not to get into the trap of a pained/scornful woman, if you mistakenly do, you are a goner

When some one said for years it means plural years and there isn't any where I'm the OP sentence that specifically said the number of years. It can be 2 years it can be more , assume it's 2 years or 3 years will the girl be a minor? If no then there is possibility of her starting the act as an adult.

Though even if the relationship of the girl and the man is now a step dad step daughter relationship it's still not acceptable

gbadexy:

Very distasteful. If the wife didn't inform him, he would be sleeping with his supposed biological daughter and everyone doesn't seem to see the wrong in this.

Why duel in the man's evil? Is his evil more evil than the woman's? Both were wrong and can be said to be a reciprocal clap back for the other party.

Graysons:
Neither of them, it's a win win for the man and his ex wife

If you know women you will understand it's not a win for the woman, she will soon be the mother inlaw to her ex husband and also the grand mother to her ex husband child , you aren't getting the picture clearly

CrushObituaries:
If a court tries this in Nigeria, those bitter grievingory obi people will start bickering and grieving like bereaved monkeys, calling fire and brimstone for trying to avert chaos of fake news and propaganda churning idiots, the unpatriotic elements will start their mourning

Why Una no dey get sense? Old age supposed come with sense but u say no say ur mumu na follow com. Pathetic

EreluRoz:
It's the wife. I dislike men who drag properties with their wife.

No sensible woman will contribute to her husband's building, the wisest thing to do is to relieve him off some budden so that he can be financially ok to buy a land and build himself. She should have simply sell the land to him and get another land in her name.

A man can come tomorrow with kids from other women who will start dragging space with your children and insist they also have right to their father's property but what is yours as a woman solely belong to your children, nobody can drag it with them.

My deal breaker in marriage is having kids outside our union, no apologies on earth will ever make me stay and I'll never speak a word with you again till we go back to our creator, this is one thing I'll warn my future husband about. As tolerant and forgiving as I can be but don't ever dare that with me.

Your deal breaker should be been a liability as an adult to another adult

JovialJune:
Lol so Nigerian men don't mind being simps to other African women and spending lavishly on them, but cry blue murder when it's their own women calling Nigerian women all sorts of names, it's the hypocrisy and stupidity for me 😂😂😂

Home and abroad Nigerian men are not known for anything worthy to emulate, only negativities, a shame, A VERY BIG SHAME.

Go and work, you are an adult take charge of yourself and leave Nigerian men alone. Keep yourself busy and remove your mind from Nollywood fantasies, there is no saviour anywhere. The loathe in you exudes like sun.

Psychopatheko:


I borrowed her the phone and I told her she should use it for the main time

You should have collected it back when she formatted what doesn't belong to her but you refused acting thinking romance will go on. That's a big red flag

Badmashiii:


Being selfish can't be helped bro. As long as you're a living thing,you have no choice but to selfish otherwise your survival will be in danger.

We can only make effort to appear "selfless" so as to build necessary friendship and also function ultimately in this civilized world.

I understand you but one can't be selfish to another who is selfless to her that's a no no for me.

PerfectStranger:

You're right but he should have known the bolded rarely works. Majority of them don't like to share bills.

Pathetic situation we find ourselves, common sense should always prevail but common sense isn't common. We just have bunch of entitled irresponsible humans everywhere, adults wanting to remain as children forever.

muykem:
I want an expert to investigate this account. I am 100% sure that this account belongs to Igbo masquerading as Yoruba to cause confusion.

You are not different from the tweeter, this is appalling. How do you investigate when you already knew the outcome of the investigation 100% ? Only fools do this. You are giving credence to the poster that Yoruba indeed have deep loathe for those that come from the Igbo extraction, you are a big shame as one of these bigots parading themselves on social media. Shame

NCC fear God oooo, 100k lines

Them want show themselves say them dey work but this one too much