Shimran:


@ bold: Poor homes never wanted to be poor and the world can't afford to have all rich/wealthy homes .

Then why will someone from a poor home want to rub others? What he referred to as poor homes are those who are from poor homes but won't be responsible and content with the little they have but expect another to take on their responsibility. A poor home with responsible people don't behave like that

frazee:
I want to believe this man is not from her village nkporo that why they fired him that kind of list..
My friend from this same nkporo village got married to a lady from nkporo too... na mineral I see everywhere the list no much like this....
I have noticed once its outsider they will fire him bill but once na insider na small thing...

You are right, na that day relationship go end. Reapers everywhere. They don't care wether you eat stone or not after the wedding it's about their selfish interest only

boxypane:
Too much attachment to worldly things. Even if the man is capable, it sometimes diminish the value of the wife or family...

These are the reasons why most people are becoming irresponsible in the society. They now look everything using the lense of what they saw others doing to rate theirs .why won't guys just impregnate ladies than go through this stress? How many percentage of Nigerians have 500k in their account? 5% ,. Meaning only give percent of adults can contemplate doing this in today's Nigeria.

Karleb:


You go explain explain, no evidence!

T[b]o some women, vagina is a natural resources[/b].

Onyi22:
Clear road!!!!
Men dey
Men dey
Na Men dy run things

In ur small mind men dey, no go find job do

tuoyoojo:
Someone said such custom is our ancestors giving us "peer pressure" vibes

These things are what would make some men unable to marry

This very long list make it seem as though they are "selling" their daughter

But who am I to complain, If the man can pay, no wahala

Which ancestors?if you ask men in their 70s how they did in their time they will certainly tell you this wasn't the norm. These things keep changing with time

CyrusVI:
All these for a lady that looks like a cursed Lesotho deity from 130BCE

One of her laps be like wetin dem dey use flog mad woman for midnight


Its 2024 for godsake. People should stop marrying ugly women. The faces of the next generation of Nigerians shouldnt look like this

On her wedding day, they shouldnt refer to her as "The Bride", that will be too posh for her

She is already married, she is no longer a bride.

I guess you erroneously refferering to church wedding? This r who wed in churches are already married why are they referred to as bride and groom? We ain't ready for this discussion.

Creamypie:
When her own brother wan marry, na her husband go still finance am. I dislike girls from poor home

Its pathetic

DuttyChuks:
Did Hamas kidnapped half of Israel, them no dey finish nii!

Them distribute hostages to different locations around Palestine, homes, underground, hospitals, UN facilities etc. Very difficult to track everyone

[quote author=advanceDNA post=131733841]
U are right...he shouldn't expect wifey duties

but it's okay for her to expect wifey privileges. eating free in this economy, keeping her money, not being kind enough to help her host, bills free, still expect him to pay her rent....

There's nothing wrong in both parties expecting some advantage in staying togeda ....why u think e should expect nothing from her staying there is absurd ......but hey! I'm sure we will soon get to the "she ddnt force him" part....[/quote]

Na wicked , selfish, ungrateful, self centered people go fit make that line. This is why I no dey kpai myself for women my slogan is I do for u , u do for me once I notice you ain't doing for me I'm off.

Sirqt5:


lady in question was a virgin, na him disvirgined ha . where in Nigeria u for see working lady virgin . Same op opened thread last year abt his difficulty disvirgining ha . who knows the kain lies he told ha to disvirgin ha ? after sleeping with ha finish , na to find excuse

You still can't get it that both of them enjoy sex? How do you want to be explained?

What has virginity have to do with been responsible as an adult? I tite for una , so because he disvirgined her she shouldn't be responsible and accountable as an adult?

Afodot0022:
She is naturally lazy to the core. Despite her being around, I do my laundry myself, I clean and sweep, I cook attimes , wash dishes. All she does is lie on bed and sleep at day. What surprised me was when she just picked her cloth alone about of our both dirty cloths and left mine. That was when I knew she doesn't worth the sacrifices I rendered her. She hate spending her money and expect me to sort all bills including feeding on top say I be her boyfriend. What she say is that am her boyfriend so I should handle all of it. Anytime I bring the discussion of her getting her place, she will start crying and saying all emotional blackmailing words. Some girls can just be so irresponsible, you work and earn and don't want to spend your money. I told her, did she realize that if she got her apartment, she will start paying bills and feeding herself, so why is it difficult to do such now you live with me. I see it as been stingy, selfish and self centered, reason I want to kick her ass out. She doesn't worth the sacrifice

You see this bolded , that's how you know a lady who cares about you. Leave any eye love bullshit talk that comes out of there mouth, watch the actions and not what they say.

Anyone wether male or female that doesn't sacrifice her finances for his or her partner is the biggest test of knowing they can't be a permanent partner in the long run. Irresponsible, selfish and self centered humans should never be in a relationship.

I discussed responsibility and finances with my ex in the first 3 months of our relationship and I got I shocker , shw is the type that will spend 100% of her finances on her house but when she gets married will never spend a dime to assist the man. I missed this part pre-relationship stage and was lucky to have it in the first 3 months into the relationship that was it to me I withdraw every privileges and that was it.

Now I put forward finance discussion before relationship, if I don't like your view there is no need entering into one.

RealityKings:
Let's put the situation in perspective. Let's assume you were the one kicked out by your friend, would she take you in? If she took you in, would you contribute to the house ?

It's good to help others most especially when you are lovers but keep in mind not to let anyone USE you and move on to another dude. She's actually not interested in you(i knowyou sense this already sha). Don't assume the "father role".
Be hard hearted. Make it expressly clear you want her to contribute to the home expenses

You ain't far from the truth, it's nice to always reverse the scenario and see if the reactions will be the same if it's not then something is wrong definitely.

That lady can't host a man who is working and lost his accommodations for 1 day without him contributing to the house. The way I loathe selfish people is unimaginable.

PerfectStranger:
You wanted to eat free kpekus at anytime you wish now u don tire you want her to leave

He said he thought it will be beneficial to both parties but it's now a parasitic relationship and he is right to sell her away.

Don't get this mindset of some women z they are fine if they are the ones spending all the money in their sown house but once they stop Paying rent still find it difficult to plough back that rent money in form of assisting themselves in the new house they live by investing it in food and other home expenses that they majorly consume.

At this time and age no man should ever be with a woman that will become burdensome to him both in finances and otherwise. Irresponsible and zero accountability ladies should have zero place in relationships but dumb men won't agree.

We4all:


I am related to the Vice President of America and also a millionaire in dollars. You don't believe me, right? Then why should we believe the boldened just because you said so?

He asked a question if you don't have an answer to his question disappear and stop this fullish games.

AlphaNugget:
You are a stingy fowl......they for charge you 150k

Are you ok? You think everyone na mumu like u? Spending 100million to u mean good marriage? Get sens I say no.

Is the money yours?

Tightpussy2024:

Off point

Comprehension is difficult these days

AntiChristian:
Yet some misguided Christians are still in support of them!

Àwọn ignorant supporters!

Palestine is now Amalekite according to them!

1 Samuel 15: 1-3

Samuel said to Saul, “I am the one the Lord sent to anoint you king over his people Israel; so listen now to the message from the Lord. This is what the Lord Almighty says: ‘I will punish the Amalekites for what they did to Israel when they waylaid them as they came up from Egypt. Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy all that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys

Abeg wetin women, children, infants, cattle, sheep, camels and donkeys do them?

I thought Jesus is the prince of peace and his father should be the king of peace?

Tell Hamas to strike again after this war

You were celebrating on Oct 7 what changed now?

Una go learn

Zooposki:
No wonder Nigerians going through hardship. Imagine aiding a genocider country like Israel, so far as the money is flowing, right?

Which genocide? The one that happened on Oct 7 isn't genocide? Someone called for war and war is given to him and you are crying?

Next time tell Hamas to strike again, nonsense.

1Sharon:


Why shouldn't she drop you? Isn't it a yeye promise like this that made her a single mother to begin with?

Which promise? Nobody promised them. Some ladies don't like using condoms which is surprising to me because they are the highest hit when it comes to pregnancy. When this happens, you all will never take accountability to you it's always the man that is responsible carry on

Tightpussy2024:

So that you will start giving excuses when it's time for the child to join you? Many SM are regretting the decision of dropping the kid with their relatives for the first few years because when the time frame reaches,the man will not allow the kid come.

But SM nawa for Una,you gave birth to a child then drop the child because of man. Tufia!! Can't these women just focus on their kids and forget men? I hate the fact that losers and low lives get the chance to insult them every eke market day on top of relationship( men that on a normal day she will say "over her dead body ", if such men approach her)

If I were one,I will just focus on my child,that is a blessing alone.

Make una let this women breathe and focus on single childless ladies abeg

Who are the losers ? the one who refused marrying a single mother or single mother? Una no dey ever get sense no be small.

It's never in the interest of the man to marry a single mother, imhe married a single mother he is expected to train , educate and feed the children of another man while a a single father married a lady he is expected to also take care of his own child . In the latter he does it willingly because the child belongs to him while the former the child doesn't belong to him and he owes the child nothing but is expected to do it. How many single ladies can train the children of single fathers with their hard earned money? If you can answer this question then you will know show me fill by getting to marry a single mother.

Single mother relationship with a single man doesn't benefit hima but, it is a thankless job

Proserpina:
Products of second, third wives and concubines castigating single mothers

If them tell u to marry poor man u go say no why then do you have problems with men's preferences? Una dey think at all?

Nijimog:
abeg, give me the website

After the 6 weeks, did you go to the passport office to collect it or dem waybill am(passport) to your address

I went to take it up

Nijimog:
abeg, give me the website

After the 6 weeks, did you go to the passport office to collect it or dem waybill am(passport) to your address

Scroll down, I replied someone with the details

If you had used maybe Opay to transfer, these screened shot would have been uploaded to Opay complaint section, they will communicate with him to disprove the transaction if he can't your money will be reversed but for banks na long story. The only thing you have is evidence to nail him of fraud but you will spend in hundreds of thousands at bare minimum to bring him to book..

WriterNig:
Where are those 🤡 that swore that Russia cannot attack a NATO country?

Russian missiles and drones have been hitting NATO countries since 2022. And what does NATO do? They issue out statements telling Russia to be responsible lol

Even the Baltic Sea area have been experiencing severe GPS jamming by Russia, forcing Finland, Sweden and co to suspend some flights due to GPS interference. Ships on the Baltic Sea nearly collide into each other due to the jamming.

Those that know Russia very well, know that Russia doesn't rush into taking action. They play the long game, slow and steady. Russia will punish NATO for it's crimes for decades to come.

Punish NATO for its crimes , hard drugs no good ooo

Kevineleven:


That good Samaritan just bought that sales girl with ordinary 2m.
He is not at loss he bought a grown up girl for 2m
That's better than buying an iPhone sef.

Application fee you mean?


You go still pay transfer fee and then maintenance fee dey play. Man wey stay with paying go end with paying

Afonjatijati:
This can only mean that she is a hardcore stripper and she performed a live sex act on stage.


Any strip club patron knows this

And such huge cash will flow? People are just crazy....

helinues:


Is your success in life tied with government?

I thought you think like a child but no a child is ahead of you, do you know how many people this government has thrown into tumoil? It seems critical thinking skills are very far from you.

omowolewa:
Modular?

When one person single handedly built Africa Largest.

Selling a Car to buy Bic, which kin joke be that?

Federal Government needs deliverance from spirit of backwardness

Sell a car to buy millions of BiC , since they can't manage a car what's it's use if the car is parked inside the garage for 20 years? Why buy the car then

You are wrong, this setting is for a middle class of that era not the rich