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More like she was writing her number on the album.........

Walai I won't

Make grandma die
I go con use 5m do the burial

#shikena

Share the same date with bovi..........awww



Happy birthday to me too

Today is my birthday......................

Even in his home ground.........




Before I forget

Today is my birthday
Nairalanders

butanep:
It gets to a time in a man's life you need evaluate your woman based on character.


If she has the offensive character and refuses to change. The next thing is to dump her.

No time for nonsense!

am starting to think maybe urs and mine are twins sef.......both I gat ur back on these......No shit

CSTR2:
I think her is rukevwe not rukayat.

it is rukayat

butanep:
I copied and pasted the link on my girlfriend whatsapp contact. She didn't talk to me all through the night.

Am just beginning to hate that girl. Her character is nothing to write home about.

I know the relationship will end this week shall. I stand to loss nothing.

bros take am easy o.......I knw how she will react so I no kuku copy am @all.......ladies sometimes sha

Despite the hug the girl no hgree drop the iphone...see as she hold am as if na her life....just saying o

klem93:
That girl Rukky Sandal or what did you call her is a fool #blackisbeautiful anyday... why did she expose her body... that is not our culture.... someone to tell her that

all these celeb will do anything jst to stay relevant. Imagine thee useless dress she wore compared to that beautiful black lady and her name is even rukayat a yoruba girl for that matter o all because of been a celeb shechanges her name torukky sandal.......#classless bit*h

Even if I still copy these post and paste it on my girlfriend wall, she won't still understand......this post define the type of a woman am currently dating.......

Everything is just speculations and PMB has already said he will look into it......And tinubu should mind his business in lagos as he his the Godfather of politics in lagos and nt entire south west and let baba obj be the Godfather of ogun 50/50.......bode mustapha though.....one of his errand boys usually use BM cars to disturb and chance all dose mapoly ladies in my area I wonder if BM become minister now what will happen

And she will end up been single........#shediot....

pyyxxaro:
Her daughter's booobì is fully ripe for consumption


Davido Wizkid what are you guys waiting for

Why those two men to soounch their ukwu na

why calling on davido and wizkid. Why not you abi u no get hope say u fit date her ni......

uselessgoat:
see their Igbo heads. WHY CANT THEY GO DEVELOP THEIR REGION SINCE THEY ARE SCREAMING BIAFRA WE YORUBAS ARE TRULY ACCOMODATING IN LAGOS. SMH

useless He goat

Basket mouth take 4days senior me sha..........September born........9th month......na true e Talk

This can be very awkward, as your manager is probably well thought of, or they wouldn’t be in the position they are.  And you can’t really go round the office asking if everyone finds them as difficult as you do!

But if other people have had a problem you will eventually become aware of it, as you pick up the clues dropped, then you can discreetly do a little detective work.

So once you have established this is a difficult person, you need to look at several courses of action, and take steps to reduce the impact on you both personally and professionally. At the very least working in this situation can impact negatively on your work performance, and can make your life miserable.


So you need to try to work out how to work more effectively with your manager.
1. Make sure your Performance is Beyond Reproach.
>You need to do this for two reasons- first; maybe you are not achieving the results they expect from you. Make sure you are clear on what that is. And secondly, to have a rational conversation with them you must be able to defend your work and show they are being unreasonable.

2. Try to understand them.
Maybe they are having a difficult time at home –divorce, illness, money worries? Maybe they are working under tight deadlines and what seems to you to be impatience is merely a reflection of what they need to achieve for their manager. Spend some time observing them and try to understand their motivation and reasons for their actions.

3. Don’t be intimidated.
Often, when we don’t get on with someone, we go out of your way to avoid a confrontation with them. But what if the problem is miscommunication? You need to communicate more, not less. Make sure you have clarified what is required each day or week, or before you start a project.

4. Ask for Feedback and Review.
If they express dissatisfaction, ask for an explanation. Be careful not to aggravate the situation or create a hold up if there is a tight deadline, but ask for a review of the issue later. Maybe you can uncover a misunderstanding

5. Make Yourself Indispensable.
Be the best support for them that you can, at least in the short term. If you’ve exhausted that route you need to consider your options, but give it your best shot first. Raise your level of problem solving and support. Ask for clarification before you begin a job to ensure you are on the “same page”. Better results from you may take the stress off them and things may improve as they become more reasonable.

6. Ignore the Hassle.
Maybe this is just a difficult job in a difficult department. As you get more adept at the job you may begin to enjoy the challenge, and be rewarded for your efforts!

7. Accept that You May Have Opposing Personalities.
You might expect to exchange a little small talk to build a working relationship. To them, that might be a waste of time. They may not be very outgoing or just operate differently than you’re used to. We all have our own personal style, and you may need to learn to live with theirs.

8. Stand up for yourself.
Once you have established yourself in the job and proved yourself indispensable then you can start to defend your corner, quietly pointing out that you have done as asked, this is an addition being asked for now, or that the time constraint given you simply won’t work for reasons A, B and C . Maybe they will back down. Perhaps they didn’t realize how much pressure they were putting you under. Maybe no-one challenged them before. You can begin to earn their respect by pointing these things out now, and get them to modify their behavior. You can turn a bad situation around, but it does take time and effort. Maybe you will soon work well together.

9. Find out how you can help.
Let them know you would like a more peaceful existence and see if the two of you can plan your way out of the problem. Maybe if you begin the week with an assessment of your workload and divide it up, you can work together better.

10. Take action.
If you have exhausted all of the above, then perhaps it is time to move on!

http://www.whatisacareer.com/ten-tips-on-how-to-cope-with-a-difficult-manager/

My name was not one the senate list what does dt entails and those that means those that saw their names are those to go for batch B

Are they deaf or blind not know that the economy was bad before they started making promises they can't fulfill......


Instead of blaming the past government why can't they re strategies and come up with a plan instead of pointing fingers

danbrowndmf:
I saw it jus now on twitter,like he took little shot on koredebello.

eyin aiye.....must u make anything out the post....shot ko pass ni

It’s very easy to conclude that any man that dumps the responsibility of taking care of his household on the society and goes about wining and dining as if he has no care in the world is irresponsible. But it’s amazing how the story changes when those perceived to be irresponsible are people in power, especially people that think they wield absolute powers to do and undo as their imperial majesties please. That is when one begins to hear different interpretations of a word as simple as irresponsibility. A very simple analysis is subjected to complexity and all sorts of interpretations and conjunctions come to the fore. This is what happened in Ogun State a couple of days back when a simple summary passage highlighting government’s irresponsibility in the education sector was turned to something else. According to reports, Governor Ibikunle Amosun of Ogun State took a swipe at some school officials for setting what he described as an offensive English Language question for public schools’ students in the state. The question was a summary passage in the State Unified Examination. The summary passage indicated that in spite of the money being spent on the education sector, there was little or no impact on the people. It noted that schools run by government had lost their prestige, forcing parents to withdraw their children and sending them to private schools that are better managed. For highlighting an obvious phenomenon that the students could easily relate with, angry Governor Amosun sacked all the top education officials involved in setting the question. To him, the workers were trying to bite the finger that fed them and therefore deserved no mercy. I guess this level of abuse of power can only happen in a country like Nigeria. Here, leaders are seen as lords and masters, emperors, kings and rulers whose authority is unquestionable. In all sincerity, I can’t see the difference between a government that impoverishes its people and is half committed to its responsibilities and a man who thinks his major task in life is to give birth to children that someone else would train for him. Nigerian leaders waste millions of naira on self-aggrandisement and do not care if the people they govern go hungry for days. In fact, we have become accustomed to being short-changed to the point that we celebrate mediocrity and call it excellence. A look at statistics of private schools in comparison with government schools in Ogun State clearly validates the summary question that Governor Amosun is complaining about. Ogun State has a total of 4,137 primary schools and of this figure, the government controls 1,490 while the remaining 2,647 are privately owned. And out of its 1,156 secondary schools, 474 are owned by government while 682 are privately - owned. It is no longer news that the best schools in Nigeria especially at the primary and secondary school levels are privately owned. Enrolment in public schools is dwindling every day while private schools are increasing. The situation is so bad that the country does not even have the figure of its private schools. Statistics from the National Bureau of Statistics only indicate that there were 54,434 public primary schools and 7,129 junior schools in the country in 2006. But a lot of people know that private schools are much higher in number. They are almost in every corner, especially in the country’s major towns and cities. Whether Governor Amosun likes it or not, the fact remains that many of these private schools offer a higher quality of education. They have better physical infrastructure and are better equipped than the public schools. Their teachers are better paid and more motivated to work. Their products perform better in external examinations and are admitted to top universities. Whereas products of public schools rarely do well in external examinations. You know a serious country by the attention it gives to the education of its people. Government remains the major provider of primary and secondary education in countries like Australia, the UK and the US to mention just a few. Even in Ghana, government is still substantially responsible for providing education at primary and secondary school levels. There are 24,372 schools in England. This includes nursery schools, state funded primary schools, state funded secondary schools, special schools, pupil referral units and independent or what we call private schools in Nigeria. But according to Good Schools Guide, only nine per cent of children being educated in the UK are doing so at fee-paying schools at GSCE level and 13 per cent at A Level. And unlike what obtains in Nigeria, enrolment in government schools is increasing in the UK with 32,471 more pupils enrolled in public schools in the 2013/2014 academic session. In Australia, government is the main provider of quality education for its citizens. In 2014, 2,406,495 students representing 65.1 per cent of student population in the country, were in government owned schools compared to 1,287,606 students (34.9 per cent) attending non-government schools, according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics. In Ghana, private sector share in schools at the primary, junior high schools and senior high schools, according to GH Teachers, is 24.5 per cent, 25.1 per cent and 26.4 per cent respectively. Worldwide, education is seen as a public good. That is why advanced nations of the world prioritise and invest heavily in it. Wise nations believe that their wealth is a function of the quality of education they provide for their people. As much as possible, they ensure that quality primary and secondary education is not only available but free to encourage literacy. They know that investment in education is advantageous in the long run, because, education among others, helps people in making better life choices which ultimately reduce pressure on governments. And when you find private primary and secondary schools burgeoning at the expense of the public ones in any society, it is a sign that government is abdicating its responsibilities. We all know how once upon a time public primary schools were the best in Nigeria. But this soon became history as the rot in the sector went on for a long time unchecked. Then only the children of the rich could afford private primary schools. But as the rot continued unabated, more private primary schools sprang up. Parents and guardians started sending their children and wards to private primary schools. Not long after, the rot caught up with public secondary schools and private secondary schools took over. It became so bad that even the poorest of the poor would struggle to send their children to private schools even if the schools are substandard and manned by half- literates. I recall a particular documentary on substandard public schools in Lagos which at a time had more enrolment than the state public schools simply because people had more confidence in them than in the so-called government schools. Now, private universities are gradually taking over from public universities .Of the 147 universities in the country, 61 are private universities, 40 owned by states and 46 by the Federal Government. Facilities in public universities are being overstretched day by day. And in spite of the rise in enrolment figures, infrastructure are rarely upgraded. No one is saying government alone should handle education especially at the tertiary level, but it seems to me that government at all levels is too eager to surrender its duties. This attitude can’t take us far as a nation. It won’t come as a surprise if our public universities, like our primary schools, become objects of scorn in another 10 years from now. Today, our public primary schools mainly cater for orphans or maids who can’t afford anything better. The rot in Nigeria’s public primary and secondary schools calls for urgent attention. Government should provide well -equipped laboratories, learning tools and upgrade infrastructure in these schools. So, rather than grandstanding and abusing executive powers, Governor Amosun should thank the sacked examiners for innocently telling him what he ought to have known. He should recall the workers and critically assess the education sector in the state with a view to making it better. He should work on restoring the glory of public schools in the state. After all, as it is, Governor Amosun is not likely to send any of his children to any of Ogun State’s public schools. Late Chief Bola Ige as governor of Oyo State and former governor Lateef Jakande of Lagos State sent their kids to public schools. There is no reason why that can’t happen again. If Amosun won’t send his own children to Ogun schools, he should at least make them decent enough for those who can’t afford to send their children anywhere else but these schools for now.

All the name mention above are people who have already make it in life, why not pick the one that is poor among the ruling houses to be the king....it is more like someone pouring water in to lagoon

C 6 pack

sseunth:
I went to use atm one day, after withdrawing 2k, one girl walked up to me...she said "pls sir, I am going to ijebu ode but I lost my tfare and I need 500 for it to be completed". So I gave her 340 change I had before withdrawing the 2k....so like 1hr later, a friend called me so we decided to hang out sha...so I had to use the atm again cus we going to bar and 2k might nt be enough...I went to the same atm...after withdrawing 3k...this same girl walked up to me gave me the same story...I looked at her face, that was when she remembered me...she said I'm sorry and she left

exactly like how it happen to me but these lady own it was a corper that met her @one GTB bank b4 cumin down to SKYE bank and I gave her 5h after she had left th corper now told me that was the same story she told her @gtb....scammers everywhere

All these people should just leave the work voluntarilycos if u are been sack by PMB den u are in trouble cos EFFC await you.....

Se omo leleyi abi iya e fi idi jo na....ladies would do anything for likes on social media....

Na God kuku dey help we guys cos na one innocent guy go marry dis one put for house .

Nairalanders mbanu....this man ask for matured advice not matured abuse na


Back to giving You advice o jere

In the first place did you need ur broda to tell u say make u give him small space abi

See as u dey brag sef "on my bed" like say na u get the house wey the bed dey

That devil wey push u com write dis for nairaland na him go push u comotfrom the house....agbaya oshi

THE Economic and Financial Crimes Commission has concluded plans to commence the probe of the former President Goodluck Jonathan with investigations into the financial transactions of his ministers and aides.

The PUNCH learnt that the Chairman of the commission, Mr. Ibrahim Lamorde, had already directed that all petitions against former public officers at the federal level should be forwarded to him to be acted upon.

Findings showed that former ministers, special advisers, heads of parastatals and those of other Federal Government agencies would be invited for interrogation by the EFCC in few weeks from now.

Our correspondents learnt that the anti-graft agency would focus on those whose establishments attracted huge allocations from the Federal Government when Jonathan was in power.

Such ministries and agencies, it was learnt, included defence, petroleum resources and power.

Three top sources in the anti-graft agency confided in one of our correspondents that Lamorde was “determined to expose any corrupt act during the administration of the former President.”

One of the sources, who confided in one of our correspondents, explained that anti-graft operatives had yet to arrest any of the former ministers, special advisers and heads of agencies who served under the former President.

The source said, “I am not aware of anybody who has been summoned or interrogated by the commission. Those to be interrogated would be determined by the gravity of the allegations against them as contained in the petitions.

“What happened last week was that a directive was issued to move all petitions against public office holders under the former President to the office of the Chairman.

“The files will be studied and assigned to units to handle the investigations. It is based on the petitions that people will be summoned.

“Most likely next week, action would be taken on those petitions…”

But the Head of Media and Publicity of the EFCC, Mr. Wilson Uwajaren, denied knowledge of such a directive when one of our correspondents contacted him on the telephone on Monday.

“I am not aware of the directive you are talking about. It is not to my knowledge,” the agency’s spokesman said.

Reacting to the development, the Deputy National Publicity Secretary of the Peoples Democratic Party, Alhaji Abdullahi Jalo, said the party was not afraid of a probe.

According to him, the party and former President Goodluck Jonathan have nothing to hide, saying all the party is asking for is that any probe must be within the ambit of the law.

Jalo said the PDP as a political party discharged its duty of providing leadership for Nigeria for 16 years and that it did so transparently.

He said, “I am sure Nigerians still remember that it was because of PDP’s desire to deal with the scourge of corruption that our government under the leadership of President Olusegun Obasanjo established the EFCC and the ICPC. The records are there.

“All we are asking for is that there must be fairness and justice, whatever probe they want to carry out must have respect for the rule of law, good conscience and the fear of God.

“Such a probe must not be carried out based on vendetta or simply because somebody does not like the name or the face of somebody.”

Jalo also advised the All Progressives Congress-led administration to pay more attention to providing leadership to Nigeria, “rather than dissipating energy in the pursuit of trivialities.”

The Senior Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Mr. Femi Adesina, had in an interview last week, said President Muhammadu Buhari would probe Jonathan’s government.

He had said that the present administration would recover billions of dollars, adding that “the world is too small a place for anybody to hide if you are running from justice.”

“It doesn’t mean that anybody that has ill-gotten wealth will not regurgitate it. They will. Remember when he (Buhari) went to Germany for the G7 summit, he met with President Obama and Obama told him to just give us information on where the loot is hidden and we will help you recover it and the government has been working on that. So, that shows that looters will never go free,” he had said.

Operatives of the Department of State Services had invaded the houses of Jonathan’s National Security Adviser, Col. Sambo Dasuki (retd.) on Friday forcing the former NSA to a house arrest for 24 hours.

The security agency in a statement the following day accused Dasuki of felony, misuse of power and possession of destructive weapons.

It said it recovered from Dasuki’s home seven high calibre rifles (high assault weapons), several magazines, military related gear and 12 new vehicles, including five bulletproof cars.

A top officer of the DSS had confided in one of our correspondents that Dasuki would face further interrogations this week.

Also, the ex-President’s Chief Security Officer, Gordon Obua, was being detained as part of investigations into the security spending at the Presidential Villa during his time.

A lawyer to Obua has raised the alarm about the detention of his client.

The lawyer, Onochie Onwuegbuna, said in a statement that Obua had been in detention since July 16 without being told what offence he committed.

http://www.punchng.com/news/efcc-set-to-probe-jonathans-ministers-aides/

Pope22:
The worth of that shoes will feed ur generations for decades.

including urs too abi....ode

That obama shoe though

Realist5:
Its on record... Sule Lamido, former Jigawa state governor was once remanded in prison for stealing...this means that he was once a PRISONER. #Stigma

which prison abi a 5star hotel including there daily meal......

An official of the Lagos State Traffic Management Authority, who slumped while controlling traffic on Ishaga Road in the Idi- Araba, Mushin area on Saturday, has died. PUNCH Metro learnt that the official, Kazeem Lawal, was brought in dead to the Randle Hospital, Surulere, where his colleagues had rushed him. Sunday PUNCH had reported that the official, who was among LASTMA officials on duty for an event at the Chapel of the Healing Cross, collapsed at about 1.30pm. It was also reported that Lawal, who was gasping for breath, was rushed to a hospital after he did not respond to preliminary treatment. Our correspondent gathered that Lawal, who was attached to LASTMA Zone 3, Iponri, died on the way to the hospital. The matter was said to have been reported at the Alakara Police Division. One of the colleagues of the deceased, who spoke to our correspondent on condition of anonymity, said, “He was initially taken to the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, but he could not be attended to because of the ongoing strike action. He was then rushed to the Randle Hospital where he was confirmed dead. “We do not have any insurance policy. We do not have any hazard allowance. It is very painful. “His family members are in disarray at present. We work round the clock, and we are usually overwhelmed. He must have collapsed from accumulated stress. “Since the government sacked some LASTMA workers last year, there has been a burden on the workforce. Work posts, where seven personnel were handling, have been reduced to one or two.” Our correspondent gathered that LASTMA officials, policemen and National Union of Transport Workers besieged the hospital on Sunday. “The whole thing happened so fast and so shocking. By the time they took him to the Randle Hospital, he had died,” another LASTMA official said. The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Kenneth Nwosu, said he would get back to our correspondent on the matter. He said, “I am still awaiting details on the incident. I will call you back when I have them.” The Public Relations Officer, LASTMA, Bola Ajao, could not be reached as calls put across to her phone did not connect. A text message sent to her also had yet to be replied to. Copyright PUNCH.All rights reserved. This material,