₦airaland Forum

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

Mynd44:
*sighs* someone else falls to societal pressure.

Before you turn on me, societal pressure happens if pressure fromthe society makes you take actions/decision solely based on the overwhelming influence of your society.

A man who has slept with a lot of people (male or female) is not a stud, he is merely a man with a colorful sex life.

A woman who has had (or has) a lot of people(male or female) she sleeps with is not a slut, she is simply living out her sexuality.

If you allow society corner you into taking a myopic decision, you are not doing me or society, you are doing yourself

If you find a man that you like and likes you but has a "colorful" past, it is not a big deal as long as he is willing to be faithful and understand that he is with you now.

The same way if a man finds a woman with an active sexual past(or present sef) she is not a slut.

As ling as you are happy, stay happy with the person you find happiness with. Dont allow the bullcrap society says get to you.


*goes back to sipping Lipton*

komododragons:
that's why we men CHEAT!

go outside and enjoy yourself and forget about your STVPID wife. when she started suspecting you, just relax she will open her leg 24hrs for you.

kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

Ecoterrorist:
3/10

Chukzyfcb:
Even if it happened in Edo state, it could be at a local government....Our local govt chairmen do virtually nothing while governors gets the tongue-lashing............DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU READ ONLINE!!!

pretydiva:
show us pics of ur own state or stfu

akinszz:
You knew and you didn't tell us.

DaBullIT:
A day will come when all these bloggers and liars will be picked up one after the other and jailed indefinitely


Upfront payment for what ?? Existing oil marketers import on their own, Government pays subsidy to help them , any form of payment is either sent to the refining company or through NNPC officially

Kachikwu and Buhari have nothing to do with direct payment or upfront payment


Just so we are clear

Dfinex:
money fell out of a bullion van.. How??
For Christ sake these moneys are bagged or put in containers like canisters, so how e want take fall? ok let's assume one bag or one canister fell off....the amount we'll be talking of will definitely be more than 5M. ....
and many a time they don't move solitarily...that's to say the other vehicles in the convoy would have seen the money when it was falling off..
Lastly people stay inside the van with the cash, if we are assuming that the cash was not bagged ...so where the money want pass fall..or where they sleeping inside the van ...?? Nna make we take am easy for the kind of lies way we dey blow for this country na....na wao!! what I see here is a clear case of fraud, greed, inability to arrive at a working sharing formula and blackmail.
Well...what more can I say....anything and everything is possible in Naija!!! May God help us

MadCow1:
Wailers at Work



If solving Nigerias problems were so easy, PDP would have solved all of them over 16 years ago..





#iStandWithPresidentMuhammaduBuhari..

#FuckThelWailers.

Slimzjoe:
Why did that N!gga Drink Sniper By the way?

To Anyone out there who thinks Suicide is the Way out, You're So Wrong! Nobody has any idea What The other Side of Life holds For us.

Keep Calm and Strive On till Death Takes You.

dunkem21:
He was never in control .. Now, channel your grievances, properly ..