Family › Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by ifyalways(f): 12:56pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae: what can I compromise I dated him right from when I finished secondary school...till my final year in the university, my daughter was as a result of me being disvirgined by him...he said I should abort it I told him I can't cant,i have never done abortion and he knows thats,he insisted that this can be the first but I stood my ground my people got aware of my pregnancy and insisted the father must marry me,and he married me...would that bad why he is treating me this way....ever since we gave birth to my daughter he told me he is not ready for another child You can compromise in so many ways. Im not your mother nor know the level of your inner strenght so i cannot lead you in that direction. It is all up to you. Imo, there is no marriage or better still you are married to yourself,he kept you in his house so that you can take care of his child. I dont want to comment on the sex pre-marriage but no to safe abortion and/or pregnancy preventive measures since its a dead horse. Its your life, you either take charge or remain there. YOLO. |
Family › Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by ifyalways(f): 12:50pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae: I tried this with him..but he insisted that it must be me..that he has had an eye on me since year one..... Hmmmmmn This your problem tie gele  |
Family › Re: Deleted!! by ifyalways(f): 12:49pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Felixamos: Honestly there are so many mumu' s on nairaland... I wrote earlier that I was reading through a thread wen I saw his post and decided to repost it... If any of you had an iota of sense you would have noticed there was no account number attached even though he sent it to me. Just his phone number so you could reach out and if possible see him... I deleted the post because of your likes... So many people accusing me of conniving with him which is very ridiculous... If you want to donate should I be overwhelmed? Are you giving the money to me? Call the number if you feel like helping...below is the link to the thread where I saw his post...
https://www.nairaland.com/5474456/nigerias-debt-hits-n25.7trn-rises
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Family › Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by ifyalways(f): 10:53am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae: what do you think I should do? Is that Fed Govt job offer (the one that came with mistress clause) still open and you have a single gf that will be willing to play ball with you to achieve your purpose? If yes to both questions, go with your cute, well dressed girlfriend ( she must be prettier than you) to the mans office ,introduce them and subtly excuse yourself. If the man is a randy goat as you have painted here, he will make moves on your gf and your gf will drop the ultimatum:- he must give you your appointment letter before anything. Get yout appointment letter, be smart in the office, learn the ropes and plant yourself in firmly by getting to know the bosses and being on their sweet side so the randy man wont have any chance to come for you incase your gf does not play ball. Your mama no teach you how to corner men? This is Nigeria, you are already at an advantage being lady,whats left is how to be smart and act swiftly. Being married does not stop a street savy woman. Your husband will not change, you dont have to shift yout pant for anyone either unless you want to but you have to do something to change your situation. Take charge of your life. |
Family › Re: Deleted!! by ifyalways(f): 10:37am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Why did you delete your initial post? Im interested in knowing how out of the over 2M registered and fake members, you "just decided to check his posts and voila, you saw his suicide thread"  Out of all the suicide threads fa Biko iF anyone is checking or will want to check my posts in future please know in advance that my favorite red pata is torn by the sides and i will kill my cat if its not replaced.  |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 10:17am On Oct 16, 2019 |
@Gboliwe, Drsteriods is there any NHIS plan that will cover this surgery for this girl? Im really worried about her and open to all options  |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 9:55am On Oct 16, 2019*. Modified: 10:20am On Oct 16, 2019 |
kaykay1980: Go to St Mary's EYE (Catholic) Hospital Ago Iwoye, you can get it done with less then 60k have more than 10 friends and relations that got theirs done there. lanetrips: Gbagada General Hospital Lagos, it's about N70,000.00 Those are from Nairaland random threads. Pls Drsteroid where do you reckon will be cheaper and best for her or/and your general input? I spoke with Metroeyes clinic people and was told she was referred to LUTH because they dont do cataract surgery for toddlers. And please you can PM me @ Drsteriod if there is anything you'd want to say in camera. |
Family › Re: I Need A Job Please. by ifyalways(f): 6:24am On Oct 16, 2019 |
rawitools: Fam I need job fam. Am a graduate of public administration. I can do anything I just recently moved to Lagos am good at marketing, public speaking, traveling generally am a hustler please fam. Anything can go for survival at this moment. What's Fam? You need a job in a farm or  |
Family › Re: Rant Rant Rant!!!!!!come In Here And Rant About Your Woes. by ifyalways(f): 6:22am On Oct 16, 2019 |
This border closure i feel is doing more harm than good. I know many people affected and businesses are winding up. And i mean legal businesses not contraband people. Nwaneni, ndo.  |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 6:19am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Motirayo2018: Ma. We are told to go to luth because she need surgery Wow. When can you go to LUTH then? Pele |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ifyalways(f): 6:18am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Giddyperson: Why did Giddyperson cross the road 
Happy birthday to Adele @Kelizosuy Bad behaviour elimininates fear  |
Family › Re: Would You Marry A Woman Aspiring For Political Posts? by ifyalways(f): 6:17am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Women politicians in Nigeria are more beneficial to their families than their males counterparts.  |
Family › Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by ifyalways(f): 6:12am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae: it's being said that ...when your think too much and your not getting a reasonable, call another head to reason with you,then there might be a solution...I have cried alot,discussed with my hubby...I wish I know why am being treated like this..I have been a good wife..NEVER cheated on him...a top person in my university has promised me a govt job only if I be his mistress I turned it down....I dont know why am being purnished?is it a sin I committed in my former life....if I had done anything to him won't he tell me....do i deserve this...i dont have anyone to run to....my family can only boast of me as a graduate...i read with hunger ,blood and sweat in my eyes to make my mum proud and even more proud getting married..and it looks like my life are in limbo..... God I know you exist,and you are there...help me ... You said you have a four years old daughter but married in 2016 meaning you had your child before marriage  If your family truly went through hell to put you through school and then you went and foolishly got yourself knocked up, rushed in to marriage as opposed to finding your feet in life via a career path then you had this coming. Your husband will never invest on you because he does not want other men to look at you when hes gone. You have to compromise something to get what you want at this point. What would you compromise and will it be worth it? Your call. |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 10:11am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Motirayo2018: Thank you ma. You are welcome. The consultation fees has been paid for so wait for the receipt then proceed to Obalende. Let me know how it goes. Cheers. |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 9:58am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Motirayo2018: Yes ma,but am told I will pay here and take the receipt there okay. Hold on . I will have someone call them now. |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 9:55am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Motirayo2018: We are refer to ikoyi their head office to see a consultant i have seen your earlier post and will pay the consultation fees. The ikoyi office is at Obalende. Can you go today?Im about to go out so reply asap. |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 9:53am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Motirayo2018: ..
Amen.we are there They said we are to see a consultant at their branch in ikoyi,the fee is 5000 because she has cataract and the back to school does not cover it okay. So when will you go to the ikoyi branch?can you go today? |
Family › Re: I'm In big Debt, Depressed, Addicted To Drugs And Feel Like Committing Suicide by ifyalways(f): 9:01am On Oct 15, 2019 |
You went for robbery? I hope and pray you were caught and killed.  |
Family › Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ifyalways(f): 8:55am On Oct 15, 2019 |
dnawah: I thought you'll ask me to come and shine kongo to get it.keep ur money,I have both of them. I dont do dirty broke boys  |
Family › Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ifyalways(f): 8:30am On Oct 15, 2019 |
dnawah: a rubber sleepers,wat do I do to get it? You cannot do anything for me. Sell your leather slippers to get the rubber one. |
Crime › Re: Photos Of The Fake Islamic Centre Housing 300 Inmates In Daura by ifyalways(f): 8:21am On Oct 15, 2019 |
But these are men, not that i care  |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ifyalways(f): 8:19am On Oct 15, 2019 |
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Family › Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ifyalways(f): 8:17am On Oct 15, 2019 |
dnawah: to buy something,wat will I do to earn it? buy what? |
Family › Re: How Can I Advise A Serial Cheat And Failure Of A Father? by ifyalways(f): 8:14am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Does he look like hes going to change? Abeg the children and their mom need food help at the very least. Help them if you can and save your advice for who needs it. |
Family › Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ifyalways(f): 7:47am On Oct 15, 2019 |
xest: see how selfish you are. Now e dey pain una, u Don see as e dey be. Wen una ask na normal thing, now we ask una dey complain. Check my profile. I have been selling ice cold fish since 1770  |
Family › Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by ifyalways(f): 7:46am On Oct 15, 2019 |
dnawah: pls can u assist me with 2k?if there is anything I can do to earn it,I will do it. What do you want it for? |
Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ifyalways(f): 7:46am On Oct 15, 2019 |
kelizosuy: Dear mamas
It's your baby's birthday please say a word of prayer for her Adele baby. Happy birthday to her  una still dey battle hair?  God bless her |
Health › Re: Help Save My Daughter Sight by ifyalways(f): 7:44am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Motirayo2018: good morning ma. we are on way Godspeed and good morning |
Family › Re: Financial Help Needed To Save Someone's Life.. Please by ifyalways(f): 7:43am On Oct 15, 2019 |
LOL MBJ. Hes just a small boy looking for money to either play gamble or buy fake designer clothes to impress his peers on instagram. He has no sick brother anywhere. Onyeibgo: Please fellow nairalanders I've come begging on my knees at this hour, to plead with you to help me save my brother's life.. he needs to have a surgical operation for appendix removal..total costs is 47 thousand naira. Please I am left with about 31 thousand to look for.. please the urgency is what made me bring it to this place... I plead with everyone pliizzz...I don't mind being loaned it, I will try and pay back but please I beg of you help me out please..I have no hope again..I am exhausted 2115591509 chiemerie Daniel uba |
Family › Re: How Busy Are You To Watch Your Own Clothes Or Cook To Belle Your Stomach? by ifyalways(f): 11:02am On Oct 13, 2019 |
Mstick: OP how busy are you to improve your grammar?  |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by ifyalways(f): 10:57am On Oct 13, 2019 |
I am happy that Mercy won. She deserves it and played her game well and it seems she found a man in the game too. Congratulations to all the team Mercy, i was with y'all in spirit.  |
Education › Re: Sex For Grades: Sunday Ashefon Launches Name And Shame Method To Expose Culprits by ifyalways(f): 6:18am On Oct 13, 2019 |
It will be abused and rubbished unless its name and shame with proofs |