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Oga Spyder, generally, are building materials less expensive in Onitsha as opposed to Owerri seeing as you mentioned going to Onitsha to buy stuff.

peachafrique1:
I called her few minutes ago and my calls weren't picked

Send her an sms and include your bank account details.

Jennylov, please do the right thing.O buru 70K ka i nwere ugbu a pay her first, call her and beg for a little bit of time to offset the rest. A good name my sister is better than all the riches of this world.

Heaven never release the saints now.
The senators should cooooool down.

graciousolo:
I'm not married. I just don't want to take this into marriage.

It's shallow to attribute a need for mental health care(addiction) to 'oyibo movies'.

I know what I need, and that's what I've unambiguously asked for. Thanks anyways.

You talked about wife and kids in your opening post as if they " were" .

Anyways, good luck with your mental case and health care. I obviously didn't know 'twas a mental case hence my " shallow" reply.

I don't like him but he made valid points.

The girl saw it coming and probably cool with the arrangement so what gives? Happiness is relative and I'm sure she will be happy in the marriage.

No experience hence no advisory @ OP.

Sorryo

What are we to do for you Sir?

In this yagayogo Lagos, u got a job offer of 60 K and u walked away , meanwhile u have no uncle/aunty in big places nor concrete job experience . You are a good dreamer too! How many executives built their own houses at age 30 ?

Well, enjoy your dreams and poems on NLD. When reality sets in, ogoro must jump.

keep busy.
You are married, how's the sexual life with your Misus? If either of you is uptight in the bedroom, time to honestly let go of pretence, stay real to ones healthy fantasies and desires.
Involve your wife.Be honest with her, tell her the way you want to be touched, take her hands and place them where u want them to be and teach her how to please you. Be ready to please her too. That's what marriage is!

There's nothing a professional will do for you here, forget Oyibo movies. You need to be busy in and outside the bedroom.simples.

BUbu boi boi don land ? Long overdue

Apt speech!

Covered nearly everything, no mention of his personal travails. I like.

The aide wey BUbu send from US with the ministerial list don arrive?

Meanwhile VP dey warm chair for office as BUbu no trust or value am enough as to leave the list with him before traveling.

This comedy Government sha

OP you can't be a successful blogger when u can't spell. It's " career" , not carrier.

Modify.

So Buhari could not even trust his VP, Osinbanjo , he had to travel with the list and send an aide to bring it back?

Na wao. And we wonder why peeps like El Rufai have zero respect for the person of the VP

This fine edifice na him " miracle/ healing home" get mind occupy ? Lol

Looks like a place I know sef, Umuduruoji .

Following . . .

Oga Spyder, thank God u are well married and a Christian oo cos assuming u were not, all these waka waka, u for don get 4 plus wives

Karleb:
Where are you going with all these propaganda?

The last time I checked, the only state where abortion is legal is Imo.

Are YOU OK at all?

@Bigolly, don't think of buying travel insurance from anyone offering u here or offline, ie second hand one.

Go to an insurance company or travel agent and get one done in your name and with your passport details. TI is NOT transferable!

And except you are over 55, 2 weeks TI won't cost more than 6K, depending on your destination anyways

This eniola and her nose ring sha.

You have issues abeg @ OP. Shuo. Take it easy with the " reporting and MIL wahala"

How did your MIL suddenly switch from your friend to fiend after marriage?


Your house was a stone throw away from yours yet you were looking for keke/bike and you were stranded?

MrsDoctor:
Few weeks has passed and i am finding it difficult to get by all the lies and all the pains. I went to her house after work, to say hello to her. It was raining heavily and since i made up my mind not to hate but to still care. I thought to myself what if it were my mom what would i have done, so i bought some fruits from the shop not too far from her house. I was at her door by 9.00pm on the dot and felt comfortable, since my house was just a stone throw from hers. I asked "ma how was your day", she called my name and said "I beg it's my mouth". I washed the fruit and laid it down on the table and i told her those will be good for you, they have lots of vitamin c in them. All that proceeded from her mouth was, "where is my son and when is he coming to visit me". I told her he was busy but i am here so i represent him ma, so she chuckled and i fell she was just fine with that. In my presence she picked her phone and called her son, telling him she is his pillar and life. I was looking at her in surprise but took my eyes off before she could notice. I know my husband was there two days before I visited and now she wants him to always come to her house to talk and eat?
Anyways i stayed for a while, i got on my way home and found out there was no keke or vehicle going my way, i had to walk home. It was late, the estate gate was locked and i was stranded. I had no credit to call my husband, i was left with N50 from the N1150 fruit and couldn't buy any recharge. I knocked till my knuckles hurt, at last the gate was open. After a stressful day i quickly prepared something for my husband to eat and to a shower. Two days later, which was on a Thursday, My husband started fighting with me after he dropped the call and said his mom said i don't visit. I tried to explain and ask if she would want me to come everyday, i will not be productive at work the next day and i just visited a day before and want to go again on a Saturday. He wouldn't listen to me and the next thing he said was, "I know you don't like her, you wish she were dead". I was short of words, i am an Ibadan girl and i was thought never to talk when you husband is talking. My husband is an Ibo man and you can imagine the tone from his my mother my mother, i couldn't help but cry and regret. I kept asking my self what have i done wrong? Did i hurt her by coming to visit late?
Did i say something wrong?
If it were my dressing but i never dressed flashy and one of her wrappers can buy all that i wear in 5 days. or was it the way i talked, was i too secretive, was it because i closed late?
O may be because i wasn't too cool with her in our house cooking for my husband, This were the thoughts that kept on firing in my head. Please what have i done wrong, my be i can adjust, i need your help!

There is something you are obviously not doing well/right.

Dont confront your wife, stage a surprise night, get and light scented candles, wear your sexxy boxers , groom your down below, prop the pillows and hide the v1brator somewhere handy. Once your wife gets in bed, seduce her, get the groove on and encourage her to use the v1brator so you can WATCH AND LEARN how to do it right.

And oh, the boxers must be red. Red works always.

teamchocolate:
He will always be better than Namadi Sambo the ghost worker and GEJ the clueless as vice president.. so pls shut it...

What is this thing that just quoted me?

What uncouth, hungry, lousy thing just quoted the very Beautiful Ify this blessed monday morning to talk trash?

Levels please.

Mercy, God.

Nothing new @ OP.

We are not kids here and know Airforce1 injects lies in his stories here but who cares really?

We love him just the way he is. No hating!

Airforce1, if nobody talk about you. . .

Sha, improve and drop the album like it's hot. That's all that matters.

Muna Muna.

Ugogbe Bekee.

She looks very lovely here.

Government of propaganda, accusations and lies.

Those two pictures of the VP cracks me up non- stop

Hahahaha. Gosh. See chair wey dem give the man sef @ Second Picture .

Dude holds the record of the most insulted VP . The most popular too, I daresay.

Your friend needs to GROW up.

If a dad does not bath his own child, who will, the ancestors.

30 years old and you still write like 190 in the romance section?

Kontinu o

Sighs.

How would you settle this if it were your own mother acting up? Handle it same way!

Try and ignore some things, you can't make your hubby love his mom any less. Your MIL is not your rival, concentrate on your hubby. Love him as a wife and allow his mom love him too as a mom.

Respect and love your mil but don't think you can force her to love u back. With time and arrival of children, everything will be fine.

Where is/are their mom/s ?

When you live in the west. . .

Kids are free to spank their parents, move in with their bf's whenever, abortion is legal and other weird liberties, I don't blame the woman.