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No he is not gay actually the boys were telling him that they are the ones dating my sister , so he should leave her alone or they will kill him. My guy is a car washer he is hustling for a better future for us nd his plan is for us to get married one day. My plans is to get married, I also want to learn tailoring and become a successfully business woman.
quote author=bukatyne post=85589850]

Wise people said 'Success is the best form of revenge'.

Yes, your duster did bad however, you should have channeled your anger into making you & your boyfriend worthy of her respect.

Go and undid all you have done.

Your baby father smokes, drinks, has no money, uneducated and knows thugs.

What are his plans for the future?

What are your plans for the future?

You made a terrible mistake however it seems you want to remain down there.

Right now, you have your sister and parents support you so you might not be bothered.

When your parents think you are fit to be on your own and your elder sister washes her hand off, then you will understand life.

@your sister's bobo: did he investigate further or you guys just threatened him and he backed off? How can 7 boys and 2 girls call a man that his fiancée's sleeping with their husbands. Are they gay? Is it not in their best interest for the side chic to even be married so she leaves their husbands alone?

On second thoughts, is this story real?[/quote]

Thanks I wish I could tell him that everything was a lie but am afraid to do it because by telling him , my family will come to knows too. my family will hate me forever.

quote author=ojun50 post=85586614]what you did is very bad but if you want to make amends you should start with yr sister fiance, by opening up every tin to him and what lead to yr action..

seriously you wen too far[/quote]

My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Very nice

Grateful for life