₦airaland Forum

Phelixblaq:
Empty barrel make the loudest noise

Ghaniyul:
I said it, only a lowlifer who is not well trained talk trash about peoples parent i dont blame you, what do you expect from an unreasonable fellow who ruined the life of her blood sister because of a jobless lowlifer like her?? do you even have a job>?? i notice you are always here 24/7 to check your shameful thread... and be ready to reap your fruit in 17 to 18 years time when your daughter will do the same to her kid sister career and all your children will be like a wall-nut seed.. Kama is a bitch, just watch it play out till you are doom

Ghaniyul:
You no dey shame??

Phelixblaq:
You are a stupid girl, last last the guy go still leave you and your Brain go reset. I spit on the day you were born chai!!! Evil

kingphilip:
sorry about the loss of your dad.

Blood they said is thicker than water and the family's bond is supposed to be so thick that nothing should be able to break that bond. A family is very important and very very dear.

To be a peace maker, you don't have to be the one who caused the trouble before seeking for the peace between you and another.

Continue apologizing and stretching out the olive branch until she sees the need to make up with you.

malvisguy212:
you must keep on begging, and hoping God will soften her heart, even if it take you to beg for 70 times 7 times, do it. Happy Sunday and have a blissful week ahead.

adeakin777:
I'd followed this topic from inception and initially, i'd wanted to reach out to the OP for a piece of advice. She seemed so young and dare i say inexperienced that she could pass for a baby sister or even a daughter.However, going by the way the whole situation has spiraled out of control, i decided to halt my initial action.

That being said, my only grouse is with the boyfriend who took advantage of a naive young woman(i bet she differs on this as she's in love) and has impregnated her for the second time, without a home to call theirs. Young woman, this is not an insult, but, your boyfriend, even though has a job washing cars and is fending for you and your baby, was irresponsible to impregnate you for the second time while still squatting. The reality of this will set in when the children starts growing, demands are mounting and maybe your boyfriend's friend wants to settle and would need his space.

I wouldn't say you are strong-willed to advice as you did take some step to confess to your sister which was the right thing to do and i commend you for that. However, when it comes to your boyfriend i guess you are all in. A ride or die chick. That is fine. People like you are so young and will only learn from experience. I just hope such experience is not so indelible that it mars you for the rest of your life. My parting advice for you is this: 'The true colors of a man is evident when he has money and not when he is broke'. Know this, the moment your boyfriend situation changes positively, if it does that is, there is a tendency he will leave you high and dry. You can take this to the bank.

I wish you Godspeed in your future endeavors and don't forget to equip yourself to fend for your children. They may be all you have at some point in life.




he will never leave me even if he becomes richer than dangote he will always be there for me and my kids. If that’s what you did to your baby mama or your girlfriend it doesn’t mean my guy will do the same thing as you. All our I know is our love is stronger and nothing I said nothing will separate us we will grow old together and jalous people like you and others will be in shame

malvisguy212:
my dear ifyjos, you are wrong, please don't find this offensive, your sister have the right to be angry, she lost everything including her husband and her job, went into depression. Am not saying she is right not to forgive you.. What am saying is that you should not given up in making peace with her cause it seems you have already given up in putting an effort for peace with your sister, the Bible says faith without work is dead, you must show the evidence of a savings faith. Likewise if you say you are a change woman you must show the evidence of change in you. Show her that you have changed for good. Please ifyjos, don't give up in making peace with her.


By the way, how is she? Has she been able to herself in perfect condition? How is her life going?

malvisguy212:
not at all. Don't you think a boy who care about the future will not repeat the same mistake of pregnancy?( am not saying the second pregnancy is a mistake, but at least you guys are not ready yet) Baby, I know he love you and you love him to, but the future matter. Secondly and the most important thing is to put more effort in making peace with your sister, this is were my concern is.
Please keep us informed of your relationship with your sister. This is important. Thank you

Ginaz:
Nobody is mocking you. You the one who feels mocked cos you don’t understand and won’t understand what people are trying to make you see.

Goodnight . Don’t talk much... let’s settle for peace . Sorry if you felt mocked . Safe delivery.

Ginaz:
Urgggg!!! Don’t think everyone who gives you advice is jobless . It’s so boring when you talk like that. You call people jobless a lot and it’s very much pathetic and doesn’t tell how intelligent you are. Someone who is emotionally intelligent and psychologically advance won’t talk that way.

Any small thing “I won’t beg, you are joblesss and bla . It’s so pathetic you don’t wanna see how urgent it is for you to make drastic and life changing decisions. Even more so pathetic you reason like a naive person. Well, bye and safe delivery of your child .

malvisguy212:
why do you talk with bitterness? That lady, she is only trying to help. God will answer your prayer when you ask BUT remember the bible say we should ASK WITH WISDOM.

Ginaz:
You can get more than the little you have to take care of your kids . Don’t settle for little or less. Expand your dreams and vision.

You want to live a “we will manage and little we have life?”

Will that kind of mentality take the kids through school? Pay rent? emergency money nko? You will be running from pillar to post to sort finances? What have you put in place to make sure the kids have a sound education as possibly could without interruptions ?

Ginaz:
The matter is not about begging , stop being sentimental. This is a serious issue ifyjos. You’re too talented , beautiful, filled with blessings and potentials to limit yourself to be a baby mama , living with your baby daddy in his friend’s house with no vision for a better future and you’re obviously satisfied with all these with no passion to exceed beyond this stagnation you have put yourself .

You can be better, live a better life , you deserve more than you currently are right now . If you can’t go to school, you can learn a skill, or a trade to give you a secured future babe .

Do something with your life other than being a Baby mama and waiting for your baby daddy to take care of you all.

Ginaz:
Well, If you ask me I would have said you’re better off with one child for the main time till your baby daddy is strong financially to rent his own house and take properly care of you and your first child.

No house yet, no financial means to make life better than the way it is currently so why bring another child to this struggle life?

When you were busy having sex tournament with him after leaving your family’s house, you both should have made plans for the future, go to the hospital for family planning .

Na wa o babe . You should not do this to yourself cos you’re still a young girl . You want to turn to a baby machine at this young age ? No financial backup, no school, no job, no vision , no actions for a better life at all!!

Na struggle life you want ? Pity the kids small and yourself too. Stress life is not good, it makes you age faster than your mates . Well congratulations... what do I know? Cos I was thinking after this your first child, you would go back to school or learn a trade. ... not to get pregnant a second time .

nuban07:
You still need to beg ur sister, she wanted the best for u. Though she might ve hurt u doing that

Ginaz:
You’re pregnant again? Na wa o. Which one be unborn baby na?

nuban07:
Your sister never hated u or ur guy. She was only trying to create space between u and ur guy so u won't get pregnant again to a jobless and homeless guy.

May God forgive u and ur guy

Diiiamoond:
You will never know peace, what your sister is facing today yourself and your foolish boyfriend will get it back in million times.what a wicked soul you are

James289:
If anything should happen to your sister remember kama will find you sooner or later. Better look for her fiancé and correct what you started