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Baba God abeg hear my prayer make Atalanta

no score so that OP will end up penniless

I am a hater incase you haven't noticed

What is with the women today and their receded hairlines?

Just take a look at the pic below

Even Papa Jennifer head never bald reach this level

Winnin009:
Come on now, somethings do deserve to be equal. We have to admit that women are actually paid less than men for doing the same job men do. That is just one major aspect where equality is necessary.

Women simply exist to give birth.
Everything else is nothing but commentary.

Cardi B is nothing but a used up hoe.
I would still love to burst a nut on her back though.
It feels like hot candle wax

joseph1832:
it doesn't matter what she did or did not do, you never raise your hand on a woman, never.

LOL!!
Words like these are what gives the poorly raised women today in the world the impetus to speak and behave anyhow towards men.
Luckily,that rubbish does not work on me.
Let any BASTARD woman speak or treat me anyhow...insha Allah...I SHALL BEAT HER TO DEATH

37 years old Nigerian man here.
I have zero interest in marriage,children,sex and getting into any sort of relationship with anyone.
They are all an utter waste of time,effort & energy to me.
I live my life relatively comfortably and in peace & quiet.
MGTOW for life.

Zeal0000007:
guy why will U even allow Ur wife to go under blades or knife if she's not ill, what if she dies on the process. Nawao for some people. This just to impress her husband

You're so naive

Sparrk007:
This is the reason I don't want to see any man close to my wife, be you neighbours, church members and co workers infact I had to stop her from her hospital work and open a chemist for her. Stay away from someone wife bikonu

See this one
Me wey don fucck that your wife for that chemist tire

Hezmatosky:
Wetin sef you go take satisfy woman for this life? Which means you did not copy anything from your mothers? Lubbish

As a man?
NOTHING...ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!
The human female is born miserable and shall die miserable

ubunja:
its not about what you do. Its what your body looks like.

Lust is about the flesh and the flesh is about the body. Get that body that women will pay for. And which body do women pay for? Well women pay male strippers in bachelorette parties. That's the body you get via the gym - six packs and all that shiit.

Visit Youtube or Xvidoes and watch male stripper vids and see

A man has no business walking around with a potbelly and a face shaped like a football.
How have I been able to get in physical shape?
--I don't drink alcohol,I don't drink carbonated drinks(coca-cola,fanta,Pepsi etc)i don't consume fast food,I eat lots of natural fruits and vegetables (oranges,garden eggs,carrots are affordable and available to virtually everyone in the Nigerian environment)i eat medium food rations and prefare fish than meat and I drink alot of water

What is my daily exercise routine like?
--20 sit ups
--20 push ups
--20 squats
--5 minutes of skipping the rope

I have maintained this routine for six years.There are no shortcuts.All that is needed is personal discipline.As a man,you are either getting better or you are getting worse...GET BETTER

Now I have seen everything,a pro-marriage manosphere thread
Anything involving Nigerians must always have k-leg
Always talking the talk but never willing to walk it

luminouz:
You would sooner or later get stereotyped as a [b]philandering[/b]married man.

Whether married or not,a philandering man is very attractive to women.It is an indication of pre-selection

luminouz:
*sighs*

Seems the whole redpill philosophy is lost on you or something...kindly ask OP for clarifications. I'm out of fuqs.

@Emboldened
Funnily enough,i have felt the exact same way about you that's why I kept seeking for an answer knowing very well you did not have it
The redpill philosophy simply doesn't tally with marriage

luminouz:
Surely, if most African and foreign men behave like you rightly said, the women would be crying out on SM.

Redpilling doesn't mean that u won't marry..its understanding women at their primordial level

At least that's what the OP is passing across...

Maybe what u mean is MGTOW...

@Emboldened
How can a man truly understand women at a primordial level and still desire to marry one or more?
It seems Nigerian "redpillers" want to eat their cake and have it

Zabiboy:

Well...
That's the best advice i could give someone who can't unlearn what the female imperative society taught him and is hell bent on getting married...

@Emboldened
I finally got my answer

Zabiboy:

Even after the marriage contract is signed and sealed, she is not still yours....
That's why i tell guys getting married to ALWAYS give their wives the impression that they have other options( whether they do or dont)
If not, why do married women deprive their husbands of sex and then go outside to cheat?
The Redpill is a continous cycle..even after marriage...
The moment she notices that she's not competing with other girls for your attention/commitment, it becomes boring

@Emboldened
For how long can the man keep that up?
A man constantly draining himself physically and mentally for some p-sleeve?Why? Cos it's special than the rest?How?

COOL10:
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A wise man once said "It's impossible to love women once you understand them." This doesn't imply hatred, it's simply an awakening to the truth and following it accordingly

100% correct

Mystiquefia:
Guy you're right about the manosphere forums in other climes not being in consonance with marriage. i just left reddit now and there seems to be a constant regurgitation of the cons of marriage, which the overwhelming majority of members seem to concur to. but isn't this perception of marriage somewhat of a defence mechanism against d stringent divorce laws that seem to favor women in europe n america?

@Emboldened
Very good.The stringent divorce laws may not exist in Nigeria as they do in Europe and north America but do the redpill and even laymen in Nigeria not realize what a bad deal marriage is for them?From financial pressures to nagging,spousal stubbornness,unnecessary domestic arguments,extended family drama,mate guarding etc.This is because they believe NAWALT and many even view such issues as normal

luminouz:
And so?

He never said marriage is wrong,did he? And when did likes or shares ever show the veracity of comments? This ain't Facebook...I hardly ever like any comment or share it on NL.

Some men these days are anti-marriage,based on personal choice. Being a redpiller doesn't teach you to hate women or marriage.

I have gone through many foreign manosphere forums and there always seems to be an anti-marriage stance amongst its followers.This isn't the case with Nigerian males who label themselves "redpillers" and still believe that they can get married to some unicorn,hold frame for five years straight and pass all a woman's sh.it tests.How possible is that?I believe there are many Nigeran males calling themselves "redpill" because it is considered "cool" or "hip" and not really instilling its tenets.
"Likes" ,"Upvotes" indicates approval/agreement of a comment online.
Why would a man who calls himself redpill (understanding the unfiltered,true nature of women) still desire to marry one?

Trex4:
I agree. I've read it but I just wanted him to compile it again for easy reference as lot's of people will archive it. Also I wanted to hear the places where he feels he would improve more

It is really not his job to do that.He has done enough already.Simply read through this thread and his posts.You will discover the information you seek

Trex4:
Can you please list all the ways you feel a man can "improve" himself. Like the ways you improved yourself, and the ways you would want to move up that hierarchy in general. I'm sure lot's of people here need that information. Like me

It is unfair to him to continue repeating himself over and over again.Read through this thread and read his past posts and you'll get all the information you need

pansophist:
I don't know about you, but for me, the reality of marriage is not a natural state. Marriage certificate at best should be like a drivers license, to be renewed after a few years. If both of the couple are truly happy, then renewal won't even be an issue, but something they eagerly do. 

#randomthoughts

Do you notice how many few "likes" this post of yours received compared to the others?On a thread about the manosphere with majority male readers and they are still pro-marriage

CHIMAOBICCU:
where can I learn this games

It is called Game in the manosphere but it is technically called self-improvement .It encompasses;
1.Exercising and keeping your body fit NOT walking around with a potbelly like most Nigerian men and calling it "a sign of good living"

2.Getting a hairstyle that suits your face NOT cutting your hair in the typical Nigerian man fashion:skincut/low cut/mini-afro

3.Wearing clothes that suit your physique NOT wearing oversized or ill-fitting attires and footwear like our brothers

4.Saving the money your work hard for NOT spending vast sums of money trying to buy female attention and sex from women like many of our brethren

Instil some of these actions in your life and you'll see how your life will improve for the better.There are many more that the Nairaland monicker Pansophist always discusses in his posts.Read through them

CHIMAOBICCU:
pls is proper as a Redpill kneeling to propose to a girl
And how can u have a young girl who is still a virgin u intend marrying in future

1.It is an act of supplication for any man to kneel down to propose marriage (which is the ultimate indication of bluepill conditioning) to any woman.It is simply bad frame.

2.If you want quality women(virginns,young women etc)to desire you,study game and inculcate its tenets into your life.There is no shortcut.Be ready to apply yourself or drop it

ubunja:
we could not let a thread go to waste because you NL ladies never really support each other's threads. You don't contribute

Men generally have an interesting and unique perspective on a multitude of issues.Hence their contributions on this thread which men actually made a worthy read.

BetWinners:
BODY HEAT---1981

This is a sexy neo noir mystery where a lawyer gets romantically involved with a married woman.The affair leads them to plot the demise of her husband.Will their plan succeed or fail?
The events in the movie occur during a heatwave in Florida so expect steamy,sweaty scenes

Me,after watching BodyHeat

Skepticus:
To understand this deeper, one need to look at it from an evolutionary perspective.

Women are more adaptive and conditioned than male species for survival from genetic, phenotypic to environmental changes, right from the embryonic stages (about 70% of miscarriages are male babies).

From the environmental part, women will adapt to anything you bring to the table if she chooses you. You get more options in them if you are on your purpose as a man and getting results for it.

I always refer to the relationship between men and women with the "cups and water" analogy.Men are cups while women are water.Water always takes the shape of whatever cup it is poured into

ubunja:
lyrics I hear. But did you see the WAP video? Hence I said "pornography". Plus kh.ia,missy and ice cube were not as big as Cardi B and Megan combined. The views on that video on YouTube are staggering.

Even Celo Green voiced his disapproval but had to apologise when they came after him. The west is done at this point. Feminists themselves are complaining about that video. How it sets back female empowerment decades.

I have watched the video and listened to the uncensored lyrics.I must admit it didn't surprise, neither did it shock me like Nick Minaj==Anaconda music video and lyrics.Madonna did hers too with the Justify My Love video in the early 1990s.Very explicit stuff.
The west has been done for the past 25years

ubunja:
that Cardi B song WAP with Megan thee Stallion is a strong case in point. Pornography in a music video. Smh. And all the respected mainstream media outlets are defending it. The future is bleak.

I think the publicists of those female rappers really worked hard to push that song.There have been more songs in the past by female artiste with more explicit lyrics
Kh.ia==my neck,my back
Tweet==Oh my
Missy Elliott==One minute man
Lil Kim==How many licks
Ice Cube & Ms Toi==You can do it

ubunja:
I've never been to Nigeria but the Nigerians I meet here in SA, the way they're so quick to open their wallets wherever a woman is involved is rather worrying Your culture has tied money and love together so tightly only a deep deep understanding of female nature can enable a man to succeed with women without leading with money. Even girls this side consider Nigerians as an ATM of sorts or people to deal with when they need quick cash. And it's such a shame because Nigerian men have so much to offer besides money.

@Emboldened
It is a pathetic situation.Young men growing up and being conditioned to believe without money,they are nothing in every facet of life.No confidence,no self esteem,no personality

olaboy1:
The problem is Nigerian women have so tied their sexuality and horniness to money that it’s become a Herculean task to unlock their primal desires.

Nigerian women may be slightly different culturally from other women in other countries but they are still basically women.Female nature is universal.The financial transactional nature of the relationships between nigerian men and women was caused primarily by the men.Which is easier,spending months or even years studying and applying the tenets of game and improving yourself with women or buying a woman's attention in 3 days?The majority of Nigerian men chose the easier way.Unfortunately,shortcuts do not lead to long term benefits/stability/dividends

ubunja:
that is why Men must only deal with women who like lust them. If you don't make a woman's pussy wet just don't bother with her. If a woman's vagina doesn't tingle when she sees you, you're wasting your time.

If a woman finds you a turn on, she'll fvckk you now. Nevermind she's married or you're ugly. Most men have never seen their GF and wife's Lust side. Because they don't turn their wives on since women date and marry for money not sex. Women don't marry men who turn them on. They marry men who can provide. And I'll say about 90% of men in relationships don't know what their women look like when in Lust. And they'll never know. Because the women don't Lust these men. Men marry women they Lust over. But women CHEAT WITH men they Lust over.

Many guys have seen a woman talk to a great guy and she gets tongue-tied, and struggles to breathe and coughs a little. She's overwhelmed by the man. And only if the men knew what is happening between her legs!! That pussy is pulsating like a living breathing thing. When a woman feels this way, for a stranger, it won't matter he's a stranger, or she's married etc, she'll fvckk him. NOW. And chances are she'll fvckk him raw. Women in lust have 0% self control and 0% reasoning.

And tomorrow she will say, "I don't know what came over me!"

The Lust of women need to be studied more and watched out for.

To create these lustful desires in women,men need to study and inculcate "game".In Nigeria the competition in terms of "game" is virtually zero.My personal experiences with women's lustful desires have been stealing of glances,nervous giggling and vocal incoherence