₦airaland Forum

Bolarge:
You's a clown u know?

Got me red shoes to prove it too

Gridlock:
Ok, maybe ishould have said "there is no such thing as a 'standard' wife material", as defined by the International Standards Organisation (Haha). Sorry, some men think a wife material is a woman who will obey and please her in-laws by all means, is willing to sit at home with the kids, and will never challenge the man on his decisions.
Each man's definition of wife materlia differs

That was exactly what i was thinking too.

@Douzy you are right that it is a subjective thing but i have heard men refer to some women as not wife material and usually the men who are together with the one who makes the comment of not wife material, all agree with the speaker.

ZuluNation:
LET ME CATCH YOU FIRST

Gridlock:
@iice: there is no such thing as wife material - except you subscribe to our hypocritical, culture-without-reasoning enslaved nigerian societal rules. If i think you as a woman will make me happy (with my own input considered as well, of course) for the next 50 years, then so be it - i can marry you. Every other relative can go and jump into the Lagoon

@Gettolove
You echo most of my thoughts, but i'm afraid i'm a little more rabid than you . . .

@Gridlock, i feel you but most or maybe a lot of men subscribe to the 'hypocritical, culture-without-reasoning enslaved nigerian societal rules' (borrowed your words ). They seem to have an idea of what kind of woman makes a 'wife' They think certain xteristics qualifies her to be a wife and i dont mean things like being eligible to marry.