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[color=#9900ff]Maintain figure at 20?
And after marriage, time to let go of the figure shey? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I don't phrase my own that way.  I tell the person, 'we can still remain friends or not'.  But he has to understand the friendship would be altered in some way.  I make sure to stress out that nothing would happen again (people need boundaries).  I don't really have bad break ups so I'm friends with almost all my exs. .  [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Bad telegram[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Is your YIM/Hotmail/GTalk/BBpin/whats-that-other 'go' thing/AIM broken?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol like people have patience or decorum to wait for invitation these days.

Imagine inviting a friend to a wedding and he comes with entourage wey you no even sabi. [/color]

Which is why the "strong sister girl" attitude is the reason (excuse for) why a lot of our men run off to other women

[color=#9900ff]They like to use it as a derisive.


Anyway.  People just like to blame everyone but themselves.  No sense of responsibility especially in this day and age.  Those 'drank too much but the alcohol is the culprit' type.  Did it jump into your mouth? Or by osmosis? 
But MzDarkSkin is right about our history.  Thing is for all the speech of 'nothing is constant/permanent except change', that's all it is.  Mouth.  No action.  And if the change dares happen.  Cobra fangs.

Bluidy species.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Na celebration na [/color]

OAM4J:
hehehehe really funny   imagine all of you claiming to be introverts  

from kobo, to tpia, to iice, to freecocoa even ileke and my celebrity girl Missy B claiming to be an introvert. Very interesting indeed  

At least people know am an introvert on NL  

[color=#9900ff]This OJ sef. Read the posts again. [/color]

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=835298.msg9880840#msg9880840 date=1325519753]@iice

Every (ok, almost every) pisces I've met is an introvert. Same here.[/quote][color=#9900ff]True.  Also moody [/color]

[color=#9900ff]So true Chaircover. [/color]

maclatunji:
^Tpia's advice isn't bad. However, I will assume that a change in school is not imminent and advice thus:

Your friend needs to let her child know that her colour is not a disadvantage or something she should capitalise on. She shouldn't expect people to treat her differently because of her colour- if anybody does that, it is they who have a problem.

I don't know if OP's friend is a single parent but if she's not, she and her husband have to build the confidence of their daughter.

As long as physical bullying is not involved, I want to suggest that the girl should be encouraged to make any taunting she receives because of her colour a source of motivation to be the best at whatever she does.

You might ask: can a 7-year old deal with such issues?

My answer: Yes they can, I as a 7-year could define relationships and how I wanted to handle them. The girl will soon have white friends who will love her for her and colour will not matter to them.

[color=#9900ff]Gbam!


BTW what's with all this 'beautiful' stuff? Like it's the only encouraging word out there? The only defense/motivation we can have?
We are so much more that our outward appearances.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Nails[/color]

[color=#9900ff]A lot of different series.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]If you enjoy having your jewels in a grip, then go for it.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]The Batman Season 4[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Ok just this time i will eat the cake and not bother you for one day about it

Nor worry about the teeth. I go borrow your own when i need am[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Chai[/color]

[color=#9900ff]And to you. Hope you had a great time.


Bluidly bin is taking too long.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes. [/color]

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But do i get more cake?

Vesc say this cravings nor get end credits [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Kai. Don't remember much but we called our principal Napoleon after the pig in Animal Farm. Always looking like she stuffed herself with puff puff. [/color]

Outstrip:
The issue with hair and black people is just too complicated. It is not as simple as what the woman wants or even what men prefer. The issues are also different in different cultures. I can definitely relate to changing hairstyles depending on your audience. My hair usually is in a very curly fro-like hairstyle but if I am going to see a potential client especially if it is the first time I will wear my hair smaller. Part of it is that I don't want my hairstyle to be the focus of a meeting and the other is that I don't want them to make an ignorant assumption and screw up a deal.
With African Americans the whole 'good hair" thing drives me crazy and that started from back in the slave days. You had "good hair" and light skin you might get special priviledges from "master". In Nigeria it is just a mess. People just walk around wearing wigs backwards or sideways and think they are cute. As long as they have fake hair it is okay. It makes them look more American. There are Nigerian men that will look at woman like she is crazy if she even wears her natural hair. I would even go as far as to say that educated american men are more accepting of women wearing natural hair than educated nigerian men

[color=#9900ff]Gbam!

I think MBJ is saying be the change you want others to be.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Lol. I'll wait for you next time [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes na. But i still wait my cake from am [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Ahahahaha.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Rofl you won't 'die' me

Thanks jare.

Yeah happy new year to Ajad.

And OJ [/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol. Oya come comb my own [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Watch more movies.[/color]