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livedit:
For most, to find out what type of man you are.  Then to them (us) it let's us know what kind of man you will be to us.  Granted she is serious about you. Some are just being nosey, to find out how experienced you are and some want to find out exactly like kokeye said: where we can place you and weigh/decide if you are worth our time and effort.

rokiatu:
Not only ladies, any sensible person would want to know a bit abt their partner past as the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This doesn't mean that people can't change, esp as they mature, but past issues of cheating, lying etc. Are a huge red flag and such behaviours are usually hard to drop.

mutter:
You need to wait till the bleeding stops and the woman is healed- Medically.
But I would advise you to wait also till your wife is ready for it.
Mot women get scared after childbirth and the pain to start again. Also the strong maternal instinct can sometimes even make a woman aggressive to the husband coming near her. This instinct overshadows the instinct for a mate initially.
What you could do to help her is show her love, tenderness and compassion. Make her understand you know what she is going through and are willing to wait. Introduce physical contact gradually and make it obvious it is a show of tenderness and not sexual. Hugs and pecks or just holding her in your arms. Also care for the baby, like changing or bathing it, that will make her see that you identify with her motherhood condition, she will warm up pretty fast then.
No point the woman doing it just to satisfy you.

mukina2:
ikamefa can kill persin with laff

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chika98:
I dey o. Decided to just sorta move on from NL seeing as there aren't anymore scandals since Plat wahala. LOL
Been very well. Wanted to say hello to you lot

Ha haaaaaaaa. Been busy with a new job really. How goes it with you?
I see you've been holding things down. NL is still the same ol.

spade:
BloodRayne (It was after seeing this movie that I realized the best job suited for Uwe Boll was at the bushy backyard of a public toilet, doing manual labour)

In The Name Of The King (It was after seeing this movie that I changed my mind, and decided the best job suited for Uwe Boll, instead, was at the streets of Oshodi, hawking bananas)

spade:
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snthesis:
Yippie!
I thot I lost U 4a moment