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[color=#9900ff]Yeah i think it will be a good one.  No knowing where i'll be or where i'll end up
Awww
I thought you were going home?


Laydee. . .i dey come, i go jam you for zonal 689. . .just have to branch erhhh [/color]

[color=#9900ff]You're welcome


_{Been watching transformers} [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Mashed potatoes with chunks of potatoes, heavy on the butter, milk plus cream
Spareribs cooked with spices


Yeah my belle dey tell me now [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Merry Christmas in advance @ Brash [/color]

[color=#9900ff]In a good are ye now?
Yeah, totally forgot about gambit, only remembered about sabretooth and deadpool.[/color]

Ex Inferis:
here is news to further ruin your day: Daddy Day Care in for a sequel.

[color=#9900ff]great, just great [/color]

[color=#9900ff]rofl
I think my sis almost had a heart attack when that happened

Weezy has graduated from tattoos to piercings eh [/color]

[color=#9900ff]FOX is the mouth piece of the government

BBC [/color]

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=210069.msg3251724#msg3251724 date=1229858286]Black Thought (The Roots)[/quote][color=#9900ff]Word word word!! [/color]

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[color=#9900ff]Used to miss home terribly. Am over it.
Food is what i miss the most, but even that has lessened, i get to eat it here [/color]

topup:
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However, my main question deals with reasons why people refuse to commit. I believe these are the same people who realise that once they achieve whatever they set their goals on, eventually the ugly head of relationships will rear itself at them, my theory is that these people are check box types. Certain things MUST come first, now I have a checkbox, I think we all should, it has academics, relationships, marriage and children, in their rightful order, but I think what makes me different to the people I have described in my previous post is that, certain things can happen in my life, in which I will change the order, I mean what if I find my ideal guy in the first year of university, will I leave him behind, because I sorted that to come after my graduation No, that's not me, but that is what I believe a person who can 'block love' is able to do, basically we are dealing with people who are able to RATIONALISE EVERYTHING.
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[color=#9900ff]Some are goal oriented.  There is a 'masterplan'.  Like you said, certain things must come first.
I rationalize alot of things.[/color]

topup:
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In response to this, I believe the psyche behind it suggests that the person is very rationalistic but is quite synical, but also realistic too. He doesn't have faith in love or give it too much credit, because if all his efforts go into building a relationship, he believes he cannot put all his effort into attaining his career goals. This way if love just suddenly disappears or falls apart, he is left with nothing, vulnerable, and believes it will be harder for an older man/man of his age to find love with 'nothing'. He believes that at least if he builds himself up to be rich and successful not only will that increase the chances of women coming to him (not necessarily love, but he may believe so), that at least if they leave or if it breaks, he still has his empire to fall on, however, he must be extremely financially stable for him to bear the catastrophic effect of a separating relationship. He wants to know that even if she takes everything, he'll be able to stand on his own two feet.

What do you think of that analysis guys n gals?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]You see it more like all or nothing.  While it's true for some, i like to think people aren't defined by their relationships.   People who are in love with love, tend to block everything out and thus focus all their energy and passion into their relationship, leaving other things to be in limbo.  Hence once a relationship is broken, they feel lost because what was once their entire focus is no more.  It's important to think about what if this happens, what if that happens.  I don't mean worrying to death, but would be able to stand on your own once the relationship is no more? (and i don't only mean breaking up, people die) It's not entirely intertwined - being able to still stand and breakups _{at least not in my case}.  Sure would hurt but you still have a life.  [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I did alot of crazy things. . .still do alot of crazy things actually [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Combing this hair [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Once in a lifetime ~ Beyonce
I loff you J [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Once in a lifetime ~ Beyonce

_{You were worth waiting for
You the one that I adore
This kind of love you'll only find
Once in a lifetime}

For Johnny and D

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[color=#9900ff]Loved weezy right from when he started. . .
Birdman on the other hand [/color]

Remii:
Iice, can I meet you. No string attached oh, at least for now. Please no give me e-slap oor e-iso oh!

[color=#9900ff]And you are? [/color]

ifyalways:
na so Mr crackers take get special broom ?
@iice,Mukinatu and Ikamefa + aloib,compliments of da season.

[color=#9900ff]Season's greetings my dear

Laydee, twinny

Dri Advanced Merry Christmas

Ajad, Merry Christmas in advance [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Anyone seen the trailer of Xmen: Origins?

Gambit is in the movie!! _{i love him}
Hmmmm am not liking the pouncing of Sabretooth
I do hope it doesnt turn out as The Last Stand (Logan bluidly crying )


Ding ding ding. Judge Dredd gets a remake
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[color=#9900ff]I thought Journey to the Center of the earth was nice. A family movie.
I didn't think the The Happening was that bad _{but judging by Night's other movies, it sucked}.
If maybe the explanation about the trees wasn't so [/color]

vescucci:
Lawd have mercy. I almost had a heart attack. Especially when I saw Johnny Depp might have been jumped over. I say Thank God and really meaning it.

[color=#9900ff]For sure i wouldn't be seeing that version of Batman.

Eddie was cool back in those days. From that chubby rain film. . .it just went downhill.


I mentioned Billy Bob, i don't know if in this thread or somewhere else _{althou i'ved talked about him on Vesc's thread}. I like him alot, back then in the man who wasn't there. He was awesome! Still awesome in some movies [/color]

shotster50:
I think y'all are just spewing garbage you got from other websites, critics said the same thing when he first blew up, dissin the way he rapped and now its autotune,  for me, 808 is one of the best albums in '08.   You are just dissapointed he didnt rap in it period,  big deal get over it. You forget he is an artiste, he has refused to put himself in a box like majority of your favourite artistes who can't even rap for their lives.   

 If y'all wanted some rap then go cop souljah boy or some other wack ass rapper out there. Ye did what other artistes couldnt and can't do which is creating something new, trying to be different and damning the consequences. As much as people say they hate his album, 808 is one of the biggest albums of the year,  doesnt that say something

[color=#9900ff]Excuse you.  If you go scout, what critics say, who'ss to say the rest of us do?   We all have our opinions, likes and dislikes.  Your telling us to go get souljah boy is not going to change what some of us think or how we feel.  [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yikes, that much
_{i'll think of it later . . .gotta bounce, have to watch erhh Catch ya later}[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Cadillac Records

Good movie. For once i can see some acting skill in beyonce. She got the body mannerisms down but close up - still needs work with projection _{erhhhh. . .couldn't resist} Adrian Brody was awesome as always. Mos def
Back to the movie, i liked that they didn't focus solely on one musician, but worked around the beginner (first signed of the bunch) of it all. Thankfully it's not a musical _{That howling wolf guy is creepy}


Ex,
If i was in that movie i would have shot Officer Angela at the beginning [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Once in a lifetime - Beyonce[/color]

[color=#9900ff]no problemo
Yeah, am not done yet. . .but my brain is consumed with too much right now. Can't think about the others.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Not surprised either _{i dey go look for savage jare}
I like hugo, Tommy Athletics [/color]

[color=#9900ff]The Eddie Murphy etc news is rumour. A false one.


http://www.collider.com/entertainment/interviews/article.asp/aid/10194/tcid/1

They can't afford to make that kind of mistake _{*breathes freely*} [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Oh, oh well that could be too.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Link?

Tufiakwa.  Johnny Depp would have been better as the Riddler.  That's one of my favorite villains
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[color=#9900ff]Maybe 20 something in waist size [/color]

[color=#9900ff]A pedicure. . .
Maybe redoing my hair. . .have no time
Hmmmmm ughhhhh what was once a choice is now out of hand [/color]