₦airaland Forum

netotse:
@iice
true, but i'm working under the assumption that the rude person wants to stay in the relationship, wot shld happen is that the rude person would realise that she stands to lose the guy if she doesn't change
its true u can't force someone to change but der r somethings that'll make u want to change sharpish!, trust me i know(for me it was life on my own for 4months after that i was singing john legends 'i can change')

Even if the rude person wants to stay in a relationship. . .change usually is just temporary. Not saying every1 but alot delude themselves into thinking they have changed or they have caused change in another. Like i said people can be hella deceptive. . .if one wants it bad enough, one can 'make' oneself the 'almost perfect' person True you can cause some effect but unless that effect is lasting, a person will still revert to who he/she was and may always will be

Bolarge:
How's a guy like mself dt grew up watching Baba Sala s'pposed t'know that?
T's u folks dt grew up on toons n' stuff dt prolly will.
. . t's a surprise exclamation for som'n who doesn't know u close by. ^{like u don't already know}

Sweetie wassup? missed u lots.