₦airaland Forum

Rextizz:
Nigerians don't know their rights

LuciferYaweh:
I'm confident the SARS operative will be released once Kolade Johnson's cult activities & affiliations have been exposed.

Live by the gun, die by the gun.


*spits

Olalan:
Why should wealth from unknown sources motivate any sane being? At last check there's no verifiable known source of his wealth.
BTW to everybody who hustle legitimately pls don't let peeps like this discourage you, there's going to be a pay day for you just keep doing it right.......

BrownRoofRep:

mytime24:
Which one b bata shoes again

CaptainFM1:
Oga, please allow people that wants to appreciate to appreciate. Let people that want to sing praises, sing praises. Everybody's view cannot be the same. I simply "thank you" matters in life.

EbukaHades10:
I like her bwest.

playboy19:
You guys need to stop being petty menh. Yes, as you said, they are doing what they are being paid for, yet it wouldn't be out of place to appreciate their effort. Even in the US and other western countries that you guys always cite as examples, people still appreciate such effort despite being paid handsomely. So, let's give appreciation where it's due, to encourage them to do more.

Yomboy4ever:
Oga director, thank you for a job well done is not a crime.
Saying thank you to people who render services doesn't take anything from us. If my 5 yrs bring water from the fridge and I forget to say thank you he always remind me.and I do that to him too and evryone around me. My way of life anyways

Satan66:
I hope Afonjas are listening!
Afonja and bad breathe is like pig and mud

victorian:
Oga, you are not tall dark and handsome. Talk true make devil shame.

Anyways I understand what she's going through. Cause I almost got myself entrapped in such kind of marriage but counselling with my Pastor saved me on-time.
I'm not saying u are a bad person, neither am I saying u are ugly but the thing is this : you can be someonelse dream man , perfect and Denzel looking to another woman except your wife. Your wife has the idea of how her ideal man should look like.
Not all women are tall, dark and handsome as their ideal looking man. Some prefer average height, natural for looks with a muscular or athletic body. That's why God created us in different shapes and sizes.
And your wife who got married in her 30s must have seen it all, got heartbroken by the kind of guys, she would have love to marry and settle down with. But reality dawned on her, such guys won't make A good husband to her. Then u strolled along into life, she realised u are serious with marriage. She checked herself, she's not getting younger, what da heck! Lemme marry. I will simply resign my self to this marriage as long as I have a family with him. Who cares about happiness and love. Most marriages sef are just there.
And with what friends will always ring into our ears everyday. Marriage is not about love, it's about marrying a man who is ready and capable to stay married. Just be humble and calm, have your kids and have a business or career going for yourself. That's all. We don't always marry who we wish to marry and here we are with our kids. You cannot be selective anymore, forget about falling in love and just Marry!
That's exactly how your wife feels. She's resigned to her fate with u. She cannot leave u, cos she's determined to stay married. Her happiness is irrelevant as long as she's Mrs.

What a life


In my own case, I stopped myself on-time from marrying the guy who proposed to me, after opening my heart to my Pastor. My Pastor said do I want to be lifeless in the marriage, I said no with tears almost running down my cheeks. He said good, then don't marry him, cos u will regret it. Tell him kindly u simply don't love him, which is the truth. There and then I felt so free and alive, I even felt like hugging the pastor with so much joy! Lol
I told the guy, I'm sorry dear, I can't go thru with it. And I don't regret it. I feel free and alive! . I don't care about my age. I just want to feel at peace wit my soul and being.