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Solofresh2:
I have noticed something over the years. Men are no longer chasing women like they used to. Not because they are shy. Not because they are scared. But because they are tired.

Tired of being used. Tired of being ignored. Tired of being an option while she keeps her options open. Tired of investing time, money, and energy into someone who does not even know what she wants.

Women are now asking: 'Why are men not approaching anymore?' 'Where have all the real men gone?'

The answer is simple: Men have learned. They have learned that chasing does not lead to love — it leads to being used.

Let me break it down


A man who has been through the fire knows that peace is more valuable than any woman who brings chaos

A man who is truly an option will eventually walk away. A man who is chosen will stay


A man with a purpose does not have time to chase a woman who does not know what she wants


Rejection is quick. Wasting time is slow death.

Women are not used to men walking away. And they do not know how to handle it.



This is not a hate thread. This is not a 'women are bad' thread. This is an observation. Men have changed. And women are noticing. The question is: what happens next?

Drop your thoughts below

gohf:
so if the Holy Spirit says something not agreeing with what man wrote what the Holy Spirit said should be tossed away?

Abeg do you know HOW MANY TIMES the SPIRIT OF GOD SPOKE AGAINST WHAT WAS WRITTEN AND SAID BY MEN

* HATE YOUR ENEMIES
* THE SONS OR PARENTS WILL SUFFER FOR WHAT THEIR PARENTS OR CHILDREN HAVE DONE
* DIVORCE HER FOR WHATEVER REASON
* GIVE TO GOD BUT DONT GIVE TO YOUR PARENTS, OR CLAIM WHAT YOU HAVE IS ALREADY GIVEN TO GOD

I can continue... Wash your hands, pray out loud etc

gohf:
thank God Jesus gave his disciples the Holy Spirit to teach and not a book to read

gohf:
first God, then a trusted elder in the house of God, who will then follow you to your spouse.

Don't approach a spouse with possible bitterness and unforgiving spirit alone o

Ttalk:
Politics without bitterness. That's what Omoluabi represents.

Reno probably has Yoruba blood running in his veins

Despite the greeting, Obidients will still have reason to abuse Reno. You can confirm this from post below by the Obidients

Richtaiwo:
Abia ranks last in VAT generation among the 36 states + FCT? Meanwhile, war-ravaged Borno generates more VAT than Anambra and Enugu combined and even surpasses the combined total of Imo, Enugu and Abia.

Some figures have a way of exposing narratives more effectively than arguments ever could. I'll leave it there, because the moment I dissect these VAT numbers, one overzealous mod will ban me and it will appear as if it is bot.

yarimo:
Eze finishing of agulu village Peter obi and Media attention are like 5 and 6

yarimo:
Obidients hope you guys can hear it loud

yarimo:
Politically peter obi is very dull

yarimo:
Because peter obi is nobody

yarimo:
Nawa oo so this is how Obidients OZO Mr peter obi will be buried chaiii

yarimo:
Nawa oo so this is how Obidients OZO Mr peter obi will be buried chaiii

helinues:
Wound and Injure them with progress and development news

Wetin concern us

escortafrik:
Hello guys, I really need your advice because I’ve been turning this over in my head and I don’t want to make a mistake.

So a bit of background… I’m in my final year at the university, just trying to finish with good grades and figure out what’s next for my life.

A close friend of mine introduced me to her cousin a few months ago. He’s doing really well for himself, stable, calm, and very intentional in how he carries himself.

We got along pretty quickly and things moved from just talking to a serious relationship faster than I expected, but it has been good so far.

Now the situation is this… he wants me to move in with him.

At first, I thought maybe it’s just excitement and love growing fast, but he’s been consistent about it and says it’s because he sees a future with me and wants us to start building our life together properly. I do like him a whole lot , and part of me likes the idea of us being together in that way, like a real couple sharing everyday life.

But I spoke to my friends and they are not having it at all. They keep telling me that once I move in, it might reduce the chances of marriage happening, that men can get too comfortable and stop seeing the need to “formalise” things. Even his cousin who introduced us is saying I shouldn’t as well but I’m quite surprised because this guy has been so good to me in every aspect of my life.

Now I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t want to act based on fear, but I also don’t want to ignore advice that could save me from future regret.

So I’m asking honestly… what do you think I should do in this situation?

Inspectorsuga22:
New business opportunity has been created for Fulani herdsmen kidnappers

Wotowotoman:
Which kind comment be this? When you work for Chicken Republic and they make excess cash, dem dey pass am to you? Please no lie. You pass WAEC Economics? 🤔

darc:
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