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AllBlack:
What exactly were you expecting the girls to do about the 6 BAGS OF FLOUR?

You did well by helping out according to your ability. Or you wanted the girls to come sing for you while you helped?

Meanwhile. has the pastor finished with your babe?

Lol. Not my babe, but friend with benefit.

Of course, they're supposed to sing praises to me. When that man was in his 20s and 30s, who do you think enjoyed most of his money? Women. Look at him suffering today looking helpless just to feed another woman (wife) at home.

Men need to be wise financially as early as age 15 or at least 20.

Daniiel:
I really learnt a lot from you ..... She is just frustrated you that you discovered her deep secrets

The frustration started when I refused to commit despite how lots of men wanted her and marriage proposals were coming, but she wanted me, the sex machine who isn't ready for love, to be loved or to be committed.

That thing women can't get is what they want the most "commitment." The moment you give it to them, they feel like they've won and conquered you and start looking for the next guy to conquer. This is when they start cheating.

I made her get into other relationships, but she still cheated on all of them with me. Most times she'll be riding while speaking with her man on phone. This made me know that if I forgive her red flags and date her, she'll cheat on me with those exes, hence I kept her as just a knack buddy. 99% of women are the same. The best they can do is pretend not to be good girls.

For me, I just wanted the sex and the pretty face and body, but she wanted the sex with commitment and to be the one and only girl, but I refused. Also, she's just too popular for me. Everywhere we go, every man and woman knows her, since she's into modeling and has won it before and this is a recipe for cheating.

Dating a model is a no-no. They cheat a lot. Now that she has added weight in all parts of her body, she quit the modelling but still has a pageant business.

Our aspirations don't match — it's just the sex that does and trust me, most men

No trust women o, especially Nigerian women. I have never dated a Nigerian woman since I was born. I prefer to be the side guy who she begs for commitment and tells everything about her main guy.

See, the moment you become the side guy, you'll never want to date. This is the position to be if you want to study and master female manipulation against men.

tweakstar:
Very unintelligent of a woman who has regard for body to stoop so low to this point. What was she thinking that she has to first find herself in such a tight corner before sensing it?

She may have to pay heavily for her naivity and carelessness.


That aside, why have you decided to keep off the Crypto thread after many pleaded that you don't succumb to your detractors? You have been missing for some time now and your posts are unique and have always been helpful especially to newbies.

Oh, I forgot one thing. No woman has respect or regards for her body. It situation and conditions that made them to pretend. When that condition or situation is removed, you'll be shocked. A certain gospel singer said his wife sends nûdes to men.

Now that pastor Chris and his wife are not together, do you know how many Christ Embassy fine boys she must've knacked by now?

So, what's holding them back to pretend to have regards for their bodies is situation or condition.

SuperOnyi:




Wow, oh my God, but I'm not surprised. I remember reading about this same person on some of your threads. Please stay safe, boss 🙏🏽. That part about violence scared me for real, I know I don't know you personally but Africa needs you please.

My ex has been calling and texting but I have made up my mind to not pick up or text back,and even if I decide to, I will be very careful and avoid exchanging words with her.

These women get very mad when they lose a man they know his future is bright.

Women are dangerous, but we just need to find a way to cohabit with them. If you try to be peaceful, they'll bring violence, so it's better you're the violent one.

I just don't like prison that's why I controlled myself. The type of beans I like, they don't serve it in jail. My violent childhood character almost resurfaced, but I managed to control it because of the consequences.

I'm really proud of myself for such restraint.

SuperOnyi:




This is absolute rubbish and trash—I didn't bother reading everything. Is there any paragraph he claimed to be her boyfriend? So, showing concerns for someone you've known for years is now prohibited?

I think he intentionally chose to ignore that part to sound like a boss.

haybhi1:
Comrade, you've spoken well. Please change the headline to something more decent. This needs to reach the FP for wider audience and public enlightenment.

You have a point, but I'm not really into the politically correct language realm. I just blurt it out based on how I feel.

revived2:
Share more updates bro

I always enjoy your real life scenarios

A lot! Abuse, name-calling and violence got involved. Threat to stab me was involved if I dare slap her and I did give her two dirty slaps. She ran to the kitchen to get a knife, but...that's why every man needs to hit the gym.

It can't be fixed. Maybe, after 2-5 years of not seeing each other, we can laugh about it.

I just deleted the full page I wrote to narrate everything with the lessons I learned, but I feel I should keep this part private or not share it now.

The two phones she uses were two of my spare phones. She formatted them and gave them back to me. I didn't ask for them, but I collected them. She has gone to work without a phone. I know her pastor sugar daddy will quickly get her an iPhone.

Maybe, when the spirit leads me, I'll retype everything that happened.

Summary: Women are like stomachs. No matter how you feed it, few hours later, it'll tell you I'm hungry. If you ask: But I just gave you food a few hours ago. The stomach will tell you that is in the past and whoever will give it food "now" is her Messiah.

Also, a woman wants you to believe her lies and not investigate and failure to do that, she'll call you insecure. If you believe her, she'll gist her female friend of how you're a mugu and whatever she tells you, you believe.

My finding is, women are selfish and they love toxicity and in the end, claim victims. Years later, after dating nice guys, they'll miss those toxicities and go back to cheat.

So, for men, never fall in love, but you can enjoy the p*ssy if it gives you the best feeling compared to other girls, but don't love o. I won't warn you twice.

Even if she pushes you to reciprocate the love she has for you, don't or just fake it till the day it ends.

Women don't love — they sick only comfort and safety in a man. You too, as a man shouldn't love. Just enjoy the sex and also allow other men to enjoy.

Even if you're the richest, the greatest alpha male, the tallest or finest, a woman will still cheat whenever she wants and if you catch her, she'll cry and ask for forgiveness or get violent for not trusting her.

Just know that a woman is always using you even if she's the one spending. You can't use them — they're too wise to be used. They're born that way. Even after using you, she'll still make it look as of you used her and world will blame you for everything.


Everyone is blaming 2face for leaving Ani. Yul Edochie's wife left him, but who are they blaming? Yul. Mohbad's wife probably cheated on him but majority are not blaming the wife for his death, but chose a man, Naira Marley. Nedu's wife got impregnated by another man. Who do they mock for being a weak man? Nedu.

The list is endless. Women will use you, but you'll still take the blame, so whatever you do for a woman, don't do it out of love, but because you're capable of losing such without feeling regrets. That is how I have been since I was 18 till this day and it's the best decision ever.

My only regret is how I taught her sex secrets that if you sleep with her, you'll become addicted and want more.

Anyway, I'll still share the main gist if I have time.

obinna58:
The op is a drama guy who thinks he’s a player, you kept a girl in same roof you are with the knowledge of her parents.
You’re acting as husband to olosho with her parents knowledge and under your protection she runs her discreet affairs yet you think you’re winning

Your opinion counts, even though it's out of point.

Malcolm21:
Guy stop deceiving yourself you still have feelings for the girl, unfortunately you may not even be aware of it

Calm down. Sex is good, but whoever ignores even 1 red flag will regret. I know if you're in my shoe, you'll ignore the red flags because of sex. I'm not like that.

revived2:
I advise for your own safety fling her out of your house bruh

If shit happens , social media won't even hear your side of the story, you sincerely don't want to deal with all that fkups

Exactly what I'm doing, but she said she won't leave. The moment I found her lies, she got upset and all Hell let loose.

The drama is now bigger than I'm sharing. She has finally crossed her boundary today.

I can't wait for the friendship to end, but she doesn't want it to. I'll still find a way.

SultanOfAbia:
Then why did you foolishly allow a girl thst is not uour babe live under your roof for free.

Of course if she go hookup and die
Na you the stipid idiot that allowed her to live under you they will first arrest.

Us that have babe
Yet we are scared of allowing them sleep overnight incase something hapoen and they blame us.

All you foolish boys never learn
U keep repeating mistakes
Why wont the parents hold you fool
When you are co habiting with a laday that is not your wife.

Bunch of fools....Tueh

Rest. No woman will feel safe staying with you. You'll rape them.

This man that pays prôstitutes every single time before he can get sex. You're probably unappealing or not wise mentally and financially.

dhiqson:
The part he said
Should anything happen to her, he's the first person her family will Pick up
Did u skip that part?


You lot act all Macho and tough
But the num1 principle which is WISDOM una lack am
If someone' stays with me, it's my duty to know his or her movement!!!!!!!!


Make he go do bad thin come implicate me?

They intentionally ignored that part and want to act all macho. They thought they've found a loophole to attack and castigate me. "Missing person" is like murder case. With the rate at which evil men use girls, they don't want me to panic.

When she left her village, what did she tell her mom? "I'm going back to my besties' house." But she didn't come back, pick calls or reply. Isn't that scary?

I have already been implicated if anything happens to her. She has probably used coming to my house multiple times as an excuse to go visit a man. If one of those men had killed her, where would the investigation start?

Those attackers forgot that and focused on how they'd never call more than once. Who dem wan form alpha male for?

Who told them I even call people? Those calls are for my safety.

eventainment:
Under the hood you still have feelings, you are not feeling it too much cause she has been giving you more attention before now than her bf. Now someone is taking your spot and this person got more steeze than you. Lol

Lol

How can you date someone you've flagged as red flag since 2019? A SIMP will change his mind, but not me. If you're one of those men that ignore red flags, it's not me.

My pain is how she has started lying too much.

People like us who built 99% of their lives in honesty, we get hurt when we're lied to. Doing her thing doesn't hurt me, because what else is she supposed to do after refusing to date her for years? She's not a wood.

SultanOfAbia:
The funniest thing is this mugu thought he was playing game calling himself a Master

Him no know say the babe na MASTERKRAFT
The babe don dribble the mumu boy to the point the mumu boy come dey behave like a bitch.

Calling a babe 3 times is signaling that you are a bitch and she controls you by the balls. Na why she no dey feel you again.

Na woman job to call many times and panic about our saftey as men.
When you start calling her and worried about her saftey. You begin to behave like the bitch in the relationship.
When a grown man start acting like a bitch getting worried and calling woman up and down. The girl will feel like the man of the relationship.

Op don wear G string and bra for the relationship but him no even know. The mumu boy dey hype hinself calling himself Master

U neva see sumshin

Me i call once if u no pick i go ignore you even if na for 7 days straight i go ignore your existence.
If you like make pussy sweet pass honey.

IM TOO BUSY DEALING WITH 99 HOES TO BE WORRIED ABOUT 1 HOE.

You are even a bigger fool for allowing her stay in your house for free. Women do not appreciate nice gestures they see it a weakness

The fact that you are worried and angry that she didnt pick your call is proof that She is the boss
She go feel like say you can't live without her.

If you then finally see her and shout at her or complian to her why she didnt pick your call.
That will be the final nail in your coffin. She will realize she has power over you.
The see finish that you will experience will be stronger than 12 Russian ballistic missiles..

You're so daft. Did I tell you I'm dating her? Do I look like you that keeps dropping posts of how you paid hookup girls for sex? If you had invested those money in crypto, do you know how rich you would've been today?

Every SIMPs that pays for sex wants to act tough now. I'm just sharing a story, not telling you about who I'm dating. Do I look like someone who falls in love?

Do you know how much you've wasted jumping from hotels to motels? Someone like you isn't supposed to get involved in cases like this cuz you're not good at it.

Not that I don't know this, but I'll still share it for those who don't know.

After a day, she came back this morning and the gateman let her in. She called at least 50 times and I didn't pick. After an hour, I opened the door for her. She started explaining and the first lie was: my phone was bad and I had to fix it. The buttons were not working.

Where did you sleep? My boyfriend's house. I just laughed and told her I hope you know I'll never pick your calls again.

Since it was her small phone, I opened it and noticed the seal on the screws were intact.

Long story short, I told her to leave and go stay with him — since you can't pick my calls because of a man. Deep down, I know she didn't sleep in his house. This is a girl whose period is already 2 weeks late and she might be pregnant.

Anyway, no matter how honest a woman is, 80% of her honesty is a lie.

Trust me on this.

I followed up on this just to teach you guys a lesson. I'm not emotionally interested in anything with her, but to show you women will cheat, lie and betray anyone.

Lots of men are the same, but women are the best at it.

Hmm. This one our Chelsea is doing initial gragra for a small team.

I wrote about this some days ago about my female friend who got newly employed by a responsible man whom everyone respects and and can vouch for as a levelheaded man who doesn't womanize. Also, he happens to be a married pastor.

I won't lie, this girl is smart, a graduate, beautiful, big hips and ass and a firm giant breast. She hates her breasts and wants a small one. That is her major insecurity.

Why didn't I date her? I don't forgive red flags, hence we're just friends with benefits, but only friends for now. She loves varieties.

This girl is ageless beauty and forever young. At age 25 going to 26, even 17 year old boys approach her thinking she's in their age bracket. Na wetin wrinkleless ajebo kind of face dey cause.

On Monday, she went to work with my key and promised to come back by 12PM, but came back at 5PM. I was pissed.

I really have a lot to say, but no energy to narrate.

Two days ago, she came back complaining about her boyfriend and how she doesn't feel it anymore and blah blah blah. I knew the pastor is brainwashing her. Most pastors are pros in manipulation. He has already promised her a new house, phone and others. Me, I do dey promise women anything. Na just f*ck and clean mouth I sabi.

Even if I advise her to be faithful to her man and not sleep with the pastor, she'll do it behind my back and won't tell me. As partners-in-crime, I encouraged her to sleep with him and she was shocked and replied, "I can't believe you'll say this. The same you that always try your best to lead me on the right path and encourage me to be faithful to my boyfriend."

I said what I said because I knew she'll surely fall for him and won't tell me about it, so I wanted to make her feel free and open up when it finally happens because it must surely happen.

Throughout today, she has refused to pick my call. This is a girl that doesn't joke with my calls and practically worships me.

She followed her brother, a newly elected politician to the village and told me she'll return that same evening. Till now, she hasn't returned, picked call or reply chat. I know she went to work from home and the pastor has probably taken her on a trip. My instinct doesn't fail me.

I don't call people easily so if I manage to call you 3 times on all your 3 SIMs and you refused to pick or reply after 24 hours, I'll revenge.

I'm just analysing the type of lie she'll tell me. It should better be great and convincing.

I called her mom and she said she's not in the village. I just wanted to be sure she's safe cuz if anything happens to her, I'll be the first her family will arrest. I practically gave her a free room in my house and now she wants to start doing ashawo under my roof.

The only reason I'm with her, as a friend, is the fact that her p*ssy is too sweet (I have stopped knocking her) and I have taught her a lot about sex and how to grip a d*ck through Kegel exercise.

I have turned her to a dirty little expert in the game. I pity that pastor. If she rides him, he's going to spend millions on her just to have her again.

I'm not against how she lives her life, but ignoring my call is pissing me off. Nobody does that. You're now ignoring your master because of a pastor, abi?

These women get mind o!

She has a lot in common with this girl below.

motionarena:
U no dey shame every hour na to dey create thread for nland

You no get live ni

Life! Fixed.

Content creation or sharing your story doesn't require shame. If you can do it well, it'll feed you.

So, don't be ashamed of what you're good at as long as it's working.

Also, don't be ashamed of persistence. I'm a testimony.

Most people won't achieve much in life because they're constantly thinking of what others think of them.

Shameless people like us don't think that way. We just do and do more regardless of what they say or want.

I'll be creating another post soon. I'm annoyingly good at what I do.

Cerebellum:
Even though you talk too much

You're absolutely right.

When you're an author, you must talk too much, else your book will only be 5 pages. Without us, timid envious introverts like you have nothing to read.

You've been addicted to me for too long, even with your old monikers.

I'm not gay o! I know what you want. I have read your gay confession before.

Bmaster:
So you still have access to binance.
Sir,Are you in diaspora?

I use Binance in Nigeria with no VPN and no issues. Never had issues.

Yesterday, I was strolling with my boy when we decided to stop at a restaurant. On the road, near a newly built edifice, two girls walked out of the gate.

A man on a bike, carrying about six or more big bags of flour, got stuck as he struggled to adjust his almost-fallen bags in front of these girls.

They noticed he needed help but acted aloof as they gisted.

As real men, we had to save our gender. We got up to assist him, brought all the bags down, and rearranged everything. My clothes got terribly stained from head to toe.

While we were helping the man—who seemed to be around 46 years old—I said, "If to say na car you drive, you see our two, you no go gree help us o. Na women you go help. If na to give money or train stranger for school, na woman you go choose."

Those two girls started laughing because they knew I was talking about them. They tried to defend themselves, claiming they wouldn’t have minded helping him. In my mind, I thought, "What were you waiting for when he was struggling?"

Anyway, we helped him, and he drove off. I can’t even remember if he said thank you. I needed to change clothes despite buying water to clean the stained areas.

As we were heading home, we saw the man returning. I waved at him, but he seemed not to have noticed us. I guess he’s going through a lot in his family, so I won’t hold it against him. A lot of men are struggling to survive.

Despite all these struggles, these men are always willing to give everything to women. What is wrong with them?

Lesson: Women don’t care if you’re suffering or not—they won’t help you. They’d rather save their strength for sex or their money for wigs.

They couldn't stain their clothes for a stranger. Yet, these are the same women on social media always claiming, "What a man can do, we can do better."

Men, on the other hand, are always ready to help, but 90% of the time, the SIMPs among us prefer to help women only.

So, I can conclude that men are slaves, and some are b*stards.

We appreciate women, but please, learn to help men too—with your strength and your money. Whatever we can do, we know you can do better.

Please, be kind to men—even though we know you’ll still rub it in our faces, reminding us how you helped and fed us.

And for men, invest wisely! No one loves you after age 20 except for what you provide or the energy you radiate.

Until BTC dumps or pumps a minimum of 10-12% in a single day, don't do anything.

From the image below, it's 8% dump in a day. 2 percent more before you buy. If today ends and it refused to hit a minimum of 10% before it restarts, then wait till the day it'll do a min of -10%.

This rule is the secret of patience building in the cryptoverse.

DeeScan:
The 50 pussies be like wetin they pain op pass be that ..

But if these infections were invented, they should be able to get eradicated..

If you say all theses were done to have effect against us , how come they too now suffer from it ..

I mean most of everything written there the whites suffer from .. I guess the plan were not that perfect...

The 50 p*ssies is just for effect, though it happened. They thought they'll give us Visa restriction, but our African brothers found a way to their countries.

Someonetimes, a well-orchestrated plan can backfire after 50 or 100%+ years.

eastOFwest:
I like your narrative. But you forgot to add how they have now brought Trump and Elon Musk to help reinforce their western dominance

Even without those two people, they were still dominating and even more dangerous then. At least, Trump and Elon won't sponsor war or genocide in Africa and pretend to fight it like Obama and Biden did.

Africa will enjoy under Trump. How? He'll stop most AIDs and free money sent to our politicians and most African nations will stop being lazy and dependent on the West. A lot of people will die cuz of low medical supply from them but in the end, we'll grow and become self-sufficient like China.

This is one thing that pisses white men off and bruise their fragile egos. A white interviewer asked his white female guest what the best guy looks like in bed and before he could finish, she said "black guys" and you could see how he abruptly went flat.

This is one of the things they saw that made them destroy our marriage institutions. They wondered how 1 African could satisfy 50 women and they seemed so happy and none cheats.

If you were a white man, trust me, you'll be pissed too, so I don't blame him.

Technology destroyed marriage and who engineered it? Oyibo. I'm not saying tech is bad, but in the end, it reduced our lifespan and gave us virtual fake lives with terrible mental health.

Here is a reply I gave to someone in my previous post. https://www.nairaland.com/8347205/just-checked-wifes-phone-found#134223317

Letmecum:
I wonder who brought this useless idea of getting married. It just don't make sense. It supposed to be get pregnant for me and we will take of the child you can be flet with anyone you want likewise me.

The idea of marriage is good and I love it.

Here is how it got destroyed.

The sad thing about the white businessmen is, when something is good, they go behind and destroy it so that they'll start a business around it, pretending to have found the solution, but it's not free.

They came and saw how 1 African man was enjoying 50 p*ssies as wives and 100% peace at home with abundance of food + zero infection. Each family was like a happy company, but they didn't like it. Maybe, they got jealous and started planning. One good thing about the whites is the ability to plan long term be it for good or evil.

The wives go to farm with the daughters to provide food and the man goes for hunting with the sons to provide meat or fish.

The whites saw this and got jealous, then built a plan on how to destroy it and make money from it. At this point, there weren't things like HIV. They got animals to mate with humans and that's how they got different infections to push to Africa.

They wrote books telling us killing animals is bad, inhumane and evil. Why? Just to stop African men from hunting. These were the same people who killed lots of Africans, but now, they said killing animals for food is bad. Can't you sense something fishy?

They brought schools and told our men and women that farming is for illiterates and uneducated people that degree is the way.

To get this degree, you have to pay. Families that had graduates started bragging about how educated their families are. The other families that focused on farming felt ashamed and stopped.

The little they had, they spent it on making sure there is a graduate in the house to wipe off their shame. Having a graduate in the house became a flex.

When these men an women went to school, the men got introduced to things that'll destroy them like cultism, smoking, etc. and the women into próstitution, etc. It wasn't like this at first, but the white men knew it'll get to this. These people are visionaries.

Then, they introduced feminism to let the women know whatever a man can do, they can do better.

If he can marry 7 wives, she can sleep with 700 men. Pleasure is addictive, hence these women became addicted to multiple dicks.

Any of their female friends that refuses to sleep around like them, they'll mock her, isolate her and call her sister Mary. Sadly, most of the girls succumb and starts following the wayward ones to clubs and visit different men. Along the line, some got infected and kept spreading it with the mindset of "I can't die alone."

It didn't stop there. They invented séx toys for the women to use and some of these séx toys are way better than men and the list goes on.

The good ones that didn't want to spread this infection buy séx toys to continue their pleasure while spending millions buying drugs produced by these same white men to treat it. Now you can clearly see it's a business all along.

When white men want to annihilate other races, they don't rush — they draft a 100 year blueprint and work slowly and even smart people, especially Africans won't notice. Even if they do, their puppets, they politicians that are working to uphold white men's businesses in Africa will come after you and jail you.

The school was a business. The invention of infection was a business. The destruction of African men's polygamous happy family was a business out of jealousy. Stopping African men from hunting was a business so that they'll come to Africa and carry all the animals to put in a zoo in their countries and people will pay to see them, etc.

So, the whites intentionally destroyed marriage and this was planned 100+ years ago.

Now, the 50 pussies our great grandfathers used to enjoy without being cheated on and all of them are loyal is no longer attainable. Every woman now has a séx toy produced by the whites.

China saw what the whites were doing to Africans and decided to focus 100% on production so that they'll take 90% market share from the manipulative whites, hence the West hates China and tries to ban most of their products or accuse it of being fake.

I have a lot to say, but I'll stop here. Marriage is beautiful if we can go back to the days when the whites hadn't inferred. But now, they've destroyed it for their selfish interest "business." They have manipulated our men to become SIMPs. If you disagree with a woman today she says you're not a real man or you're insecure. Who caused it? The businessmen of the European nations.

At least, Fela, Ned Nwoko, 2face, Isaac Fayoshé and a host of other real African men refused to listen to the whites.

If you mess up, they dump you and get a new woman who will worship them as our women used to do 100+ years ago before the whites came and destroyed the peace with religion, democracy, and other businesses they brought to Africa.

Do you see how China blocks 95% of American social media sites and TV stations? They are smart. It's to protect their people from social engineering and destruction of morality from the West. They've already succeeded.

Have you tried sleeping with a Chinese woman? You'll see the innocence and naivete. These are the things men love in African women back then and not the overexposed white and African women of nowadays with boreholes as p*ssies and have banged almost every big rod in their neighborhood, her Church, school, NYSC camp, etc. And Saida Boj is their role model.

The whites are ready to go to war or destroy humanity just to establish a business, then turn around to sell medicine, guns, drones, etc. after the war. They planned the destruction of African women and family values and they still want to pretend they have the solution.

Since we're all going to die one day, don't your think abundance of food and a happy home/marriage is more important than 80 million degrees or careers that are not based on creations/invention, but importation and consumption?

Food for thought.
The whites won.

But we still have
A chance to revive
Ourselves like China
And finally stop the
Blame game.

What did you learn from that short video?

White Man Confesses What They Did to Africans in Africa

I made a post of how the whites invented infections to kill Africans and how they systematically destroyed our marriage system and our females. Below is a Tiktok video confession.

Please, it's a must watch no matter how lazy you think you are. Watch it and you'll thank me later. It's for awareness. That MB you always use to watch porn or comedy, use it and WATCH this video. It's a must.

What he confessed to is exactly what our fellow Nigerians are doing to Nigerians, but in this scenario, by manufacturing fake and poisonous food, drinks and medicine. It's all about making money and killing Africans, then pretend to be the saviour and solution providers.

You must be vigilant!


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7473843711093361927/

effixxyguy1:
Good day ilegendd. I have been following your post back to back. One thing i like majorly about your post because they are more detailed. I need your idea on what a man must have achieved before is 30's and before planning of marriage with kids. I'm 29 rn. When i asked a typical africa man they told me to hold God tight and worship he says if have God i have gotten greater achievement than everything on earth but still i have to be candid with him that i was not satisfied with his response. So i need you to put more light to my question in real detailed. Thank you waiting to hear from you soon.

Back in the day, you must have 3 things.

1. A land for farming (given to you by your extended family)
2. Hunting skill
3. Wrestling strength

In modern day, the land for farming is now academic certificates. The hunting skill is now digital skills like AI, coding, trading, graphics, motion, editing, content creation, etc. The wrestling skill in now confidence, public speaking or social life where you're in command and not a pushover by both men and women.

So, do you have the modern version of those three I listed? You should have at least 2, the degree might not be that important anymore if it's theoretical, except it's practical, which we'll classify as skill.


I tell men that they'll be loved from age 0 to age 20 and love stops there. From age 20, don't expect love from a woman — she's there for her selfish interest, it could be your looks, riches, or the comfort and amazing sex you give her.

So, from your 20, you should focus on using option 1 or 2 to generate income.

How much you have before departing the 20s club is not quantifiable. Even if it's just lots of knowledge about finance and skills you have, no problem, as long as it's a skill that'll change anyone's life in 5 years of the person is dedicated.

The last skill, wrestling, now confidence, is what you need to avoid being a push over by family members or women and have a judgment of your own in difficult situations.

Those, my dear, are the 3 things you need to have.

I have a reason for not mentioning money, house and car.

richmond500:
this isn't about real men, I don't check a woman's phone.
The best way to catch a woman is not to check her phone or become suspicious

Catching is medicine after death. By then she has already infected you. If you had checked, that period she was planning to go meet the guy you would've known and avoided sleeping with her raw as you used to.

So, there is regret at the end of your strategy. You'll break up with her and spend a lot trying to cure yourself.

If it works for you, I'm fine with it.

One day, we'll all agree there is peace for the wicked, but no peace for the weak.


The idea of going to Heaven and never attempting reprisal when you're hurt, but leave the fight for God is orchestrated by the white to weaken the Africans who'll believe in it and strengthen Africans who won't.

These are both humans. The difference is orientation. One believes in conquering and by any means possible and the other believes in leaving things to God and acting peaceful.

All I know is, being too peaceful in a deadly world is weakness and you'll pay the price.

Even in marriage or relationship, do you see how women easily dump the peaceful men? Kaka, the footballer, Pep Guardiola, the coach, etc. These men are seen as weak, even though they probably aren't. The only crime is: They're too obsessed with their careers just the same way Christians are too obsessed with forgiving wicked people so they can make Heaven, which may not even exist in the end.

I pray it does. Christians have been through a lot and realizing in the end that Heaven or Hell doesn't exist will cause a meltdown. I pray it REALLY does.


RIP to the dead.