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revived2:
I advise for your own safety fling her out of your house bruh

If shit happens , social media won't even hear your side of the story, you sincerely don't want to deal with all that fkups

Exactly what I'm doing, but she said she won't leave. The moment I found her lies, she got upset and all Hell let loose.

The drama is now bigger than I'm sharing. She has finally crossed her boundary today.

I can't wait for the friendship to end, but she doesn't want it to. I'll still find a way.

SultanOfAbia:
Then why did you foolishly allow a girl thst is not uour babe live under your roof for free.

Of course if she go hookup and die
Na you the stipid idiot that allowed her to live under you they will first arrest.

Us that have babe
Yet we are scared of allowing them sleep overnight incase something hapoen and they blame us.

All you foolish boys never learn
U keep repeating mistakes
Why wont the parents hold you fool
When you are co habiting with a laday that is not your wife.

Bunch of fools....Tueh

Rest. No woman will feel safe staying with you. You'll rape them.

This man that pays prôstitutes every single time before he can get sex. You're probably unappealing or not wise mentally and financially.

dhiqson:
The part he said
Should anything happen to her, he's the first person her family will Pick up
Did u skip that part?


You lot act all Macho and tough
But the num1 principle which is WISDOM una lack am
If someone' stays with me, it's my duty to know his or her movement!!!!!!!!


Make he go do bad thin come implicate me?

They intentionally ignored that part and want to act all macho. They thought they've found a loophole to attack and castigate me. "Missing person" is like murder case. With the rate at which evil men use girls, they don't want me to panic.

When she left her village, what did she tell her mom? "I'm going back to my besties' house." But she didn't come back, pick calls or reply. Isn't that scary?

I have already been implicated if anything happens to her. She has probably used coming to my house multiple times as an excuse to go visit a man. If one of those men had killed her, where would the investigation start?

Those attackers forgot that and focused on how they'd never call more than once. Who dem wan form alpha male for?

Who told them I even call people? Those calls are for my safety.

eventainment:
Under the hood you still have feelings, you are not feeling it too much cause she has been giving you more attention before now than her bf. Now someone is taking your spot and this person got more steeze than you. Lol

Lol

How can you date someone you've flagged as red flag since 2019? A SIMP will change his mind, but not me. If you're one of those men that ignore red flags, it's not me.

My pain is how she has started lying too much.

People like us who built 99% of their lives in honesty, we get hurt when we're lied to. Doing her thing doesn't hurt me, because what else is she supposed to do after refusing to date her for years? She's not a wood.

SultanOfAbia:
The funniest thing is this mugu thought he was playing game calling himself a Master

Him no know say the babe na MASTERKRAFT
The babe don dribble the mumu boy to the point the mumu boy come dey behave like a bitch.

Calling a babe 3 times is signaling that you are a bitch and she controls you by the balls. Na why she no dey feel you again.

Na woman job to call many times and panic about our saftey as men.
When you start calling her and worried about her saftey. You begin to behave like the bitch in the relationship.
When a grown man start acting like a bitch getting worried and calling woman up and down. The girl will feel like the man of the relationship.

Op don wear G string and bra for the relationship but him no even know. The mumu boy dey hype hinself calling himself Master

U neva see sumshin

Me i call once if u no pick i go ignore you even if na for 7 days straight i go ignore your existence.
If you like make pussy sweet pass honey.

IM TOO BUSY DEALING WITH 99 HOES TO BE WORRIED ABOUT 1 HOE.

You are even a bigger fool for allowing her stay in your house for free. Women do not appreciate nice gestures they see it a weakness

The fact that you are worried and angry that she didnt pick your call is proof that She is the boss
She go feel like say you can't live without her.

If you then finally see her and shout at her or complian to her why she didnt pick your call.
That will be the final nail in your coffin. She will realize she has power over you.
The see finish that you will experience will be stronger than 12 Russian ballistic missiles..

You're so daft. Did I tell you I'm dating her? Do I look like you that keeps dropping posts of how you paid hookup girls for sex? If you had invested those money in crypto, do you know how rich you would've been today?

Every SIMPs that pays for sex wants to act tough now. I'm just sharing a story, not telling you about who I'm dating. Do I look like someone who falls in love?

Do you know how much you've wasted jumping from hotels to motels? Someone like you isn't supposed to get involved in cases like this cuz you're not good at it.

Not that I don't know this, but I'll still share it for those who don't know.

After a day, she came back this morning and the gateman let her in. She called at least 50 times and I didn't pick. After an hour, I opened the door for her. She started explaining and the first lie was: my phone was bad and I had to fix it. The buttons were not working.

Where did you sleep? My boyfriend's house. I just laughed and told her I hope you know I'll never pick your calls again.

Since it was her small phone, I opened it and noticed the seal on the screws were intact.

Long story short, I told her to leave and go stay with him — since you can't pick my calls because of a man. Deep down, I know she didn't sleep in his house. This is a girl whose period is already 2 weeks late and she might be pregnant.

Anyway, no matter how honest a woman is, 80% of her honesty is a lie.

Trust me on this.

I followed up on this just to teach you guys a lesson. I'm not emotionally interested in anything with her, but to show you women will cheat, lie and betray anyone.

Lots of men are the same, but women are the best at it.

Hmm. This one our Chelsea is doing initial gragra for a small team.

I wrote about this some days ago about my female friend who got newly employed by a responsible man whom everyone respects and and can vouch for as a levelheaded man who doesn't womanize. Also, he happens to be a married pastor.

I won't lie, this girl is smart, a graduate, beautiful, big hips and ass and a firm giant breast. She hates her breasts and wants a small one. That is her major insecurity.

Why didn't I date her? I don't forgive red flags, hence we're just friends with benefits, but only friends for now. She loves varieties.

This girl is ageless beauty and forever young. At age 25 going to 26, even 17 year old boys approach her thinking she's in their age bracket. Na wetin wrinkleless ajebo kind of face dey cause.

On Monday, she went to work with my key and promised to come back by 12PM, but came back at 5PM. I was pissed.

I really have a lot to say, but no energy to narrate.

Two days ago, she came back complaining about her boyfriend and how she doesn't feel it anymore and blah blah blah. I knew the pastor is brainwashing her. Most pastors are pros in manipulation. He has already promised her a new house, phone and others. Me, I do dey promise women anything. Na just f*ck and clean mouth I sabi.

Even if I advise her to be faithful to her man and not sleep with the pastor, she'll do it behind my back and won't tell me. As partners-in-crime, I encouraged her to sleep with him and she was shocked and replied, "I can't believe you'll say this. The same you that always try your best to lead me on the right path and encourage me to be faithful to my boyfriend."

I said what I said because I knew she'll surely fall for him and won't tell me about it, so I wanted to make her feel free and open up when it finally happens because it must surely happen.

Throughout today, she has refused to pick my call. This is a girl that doesn't joke with my calls and practically worships me.

She followed her brother, a newly elected politician to the village and told me she'll return that same evening. Till now, she hasn't returned, picked call or reply chat. I know she went to work from home and the pastor has probably taken her on a trip. My instinct doesn't fail me.

I don't call people easily so if I manage to call you 3 times on all your 3 SIMs and you refused to pick or reply after 24 hours, I'll revenge.

I'm just analysing the type of lie she'll tell me. It should better be great and convincing.

I called her mom and she said she's not in the village. I just wanted to be sure she's safe cuz if anything happens to her, I'll be the first her family will arrest. I practically gave her a free room in my house and now she wants to start doing ashawo under my roof.

The only reason I'm with her, as a friend, is the fact that her p*ssy is too sweet (I have stopped knocking her) and I have taught her a lot about sex and how to grip a d*ck through Kegel exercise.

I have turned her to a dirty little expert in the game. I pity that pastor. If she rides him, he's going to spend millions on her just to have her again.

I'm not against how she lives her life, but ignoring my call is pissing me off. Nobody does that. You're now ignoring your master because of a pastor, abi?

These women get mind o!

She has a lot in common with this girl below.

motionarena:
U no dey shame every hour na to dey create thread for nland

You no get live ni

Life! Fixed.

Content creation or sharing your story doesn't require shame. If you can do it well, it'll feed you.

So, don't be ashamed of what you're good at as long as it's working.

Also, don't be ashamed of persistence. I'm a testimony.

Most people won't achieve much in life because they're constantly thinking of what others think of them.

Shameless people like us don't think that way. We just do and do more regardless of what they say or want.

I'll be creating another post soon. I'm annoyingly good at what I do.

Cerebellum:
Even though you talk too much

You're absolutely right.

When you're an author, you must talk too much, else your book will only be 5 pages. Without us, timid envious introverts like you have nothing to read.

You've been addicted to me for too long, even with your old monikers.

I'm not gay o! I know what you want. I have read your gay confession before.

Bmaster:
So you still have access to binance.
Sir,Are you in diaspora?

I use Binance in Nigeria with no VPN and no issues. Never had issues.

Yesterday, I was strolling with my boy when we decided to stop at a restaurant. On the road, near a newly built edifice, two girls walked out of the gate.

A man on a bike, carrying about six or more big bags of flour, got stuck as he struggled to adjust his almost-fallen bags in front of these girls.

They noticed he needed help but acted aloof as they gisted.

As real men, we had to save our gender. We got up to assist him, brought all the bags down, and rearranged everything. My clothes got terribly stained from head to toe.

While we were helping the man—who seemed to be around 46 years old—I said, "If to say na car you drive, you see our two, you no go gree help us o. Na women you go help. If na to give money or train stranger for school, na woman you go choose."

Those two girls started laughing because they knew I was talking about them. They tried to defend themselves, claiming they wouldn’t have minded helping him. In my mind, I thought, "What were you waiting for when he was struggling?"

Anyway, we helped him, and he drove off. I can’t even remember if he said thank you. I needed to change clothes despite buying water to clean the stained areas.

As we were heading home, we saw the man returning. I waved at him, but he seemed not to have noticed us. I guess he’s going through a lot in his family, so I won’t hold it against him. A lot of men are struggling to survive.

Despite all these struggles, these men are always willing to give everything to women. What is wrong with them?

Lesson: Women don’t care if you’re suffering or not—they won’t help you. They’d rather save their strength for sex or their money for wigs.

They couldn't stain their clothes for a stranger. Yet, these are the same women on social media always claiming, "What a man can do, we can do better."

Men, on the other hand, are always ready to help, but 90% of the time, the SIMPs among us prefer to help women only.

So, I can conclude that men are slaves, and some are b*stards.

We appreciate women, but please, learn to help men too—with your strength and your money. Whatever we can do, we know you can do better.

Please, be kind to men—even though we know you’ll still rub it in our faces, reminding us how you helped and fed us.

And for men, invest wisely! No one loves you after age 20 except for what you provide or the energy you radiate.

Until BTC dumps or pumps a minimum of 10-12% in a single day, don't do anything.

From the image below, it's 8% dump in a day. 2 percent more before you buy. If today ends and it refused to hit a minimum of 10% before it restarts, then wait till the day it'll do a min of -10%.

This rule is the secret of patience building in the cryptoverse.

DeeScan:
The 50 pussies be like wetin they pain op pass be that ..

But if these infections were invented, they should be able to get eradicated..

If you say all theses were done to have effect against us , how come they too now suffer from it ..

I mean most of everything written there the whites suffer from .. I guess the plan were not that perfect...

The 50 p*ssies is just for effect, though it happened. They thought they'll give us Visa restriction, but our African brothers found a way to their countries.

Someonetimes, a well-orchestrated plan can backfire after 50 or 100%+ years.

eastOFwest:
I like your narrative. But you forgot to add how they have now brought Trump and Elon Musk to help reinforce their western dominance

Even without those two people, they were still dominating and even more dangerous then. At least, Trump and Elon won't sponsor war or genocide in Africa and pretend to fight it like Obama and Biden did.

Africa will enjoy under Trump. How? He'll stop most AIDs and free money sent to our politicians and most African nations will stop being lazy and dependent on the West. A lot of people will die cuz of low medical supply from them but in the end, we'll grow and become self-sufficient like China.

This is one thing that pisses white men off and bruise their fragile egos. A white interviewer asked his white female guest what the best guy looks like in bed and before he could finish, she said "black guys" and you could see how he abruptly went flat.

This is one of the things they saw that made them destroy our marriage institutions. They wondered how 1 African could satisfy 50 women and they seemed so happy and none cheats.

If you were a white man, trust me, you'll be pissed too, so I don't blame him.

Technology destroyed marriage and who engineered it? Oyibo. I'm not saying tech is bad, but in the end, it reduced our lifespan and gave us virtual fake lives with terrible mental health.

Here is a reply I gave to someone in my previous post. https://www.nairaland.com/8347205/just-checked-wifes-phone-found#134223317

Letmecum:
I wonder who brought this useless idea of getting married. It just don't make sense. It supposed to be get pregnant for me and we will take of the child you can be flet with anyone you want likewise me.

The idea of marriage is good and I love it.

Here is how it got destroyed.

The sad thing about the white businessmen is, when something is good, they go behind and destroy it so that they'll start a business around it, pretending to have found the solution, but it's not free.

They came and saw how 1 African man was enjoying 50 p*ssies as wives and 100% peace at home with abundance of food + zero infection. Each family was like a happy company, but they didn't like it. Maybe, they got jealous and started planning. One good thing about the whites is the ability to plan long term be it for good or evil.

The wives go to farm with the daughters to provide food and the man goes for hunting with the sons to provide meat or fish.

The whites saw this and got jealous, then built a plan on how to destroy it and make money from it. At this point, there weren't things like HIV. They got animals to mate with humans and that's how they got different infections to push to Africa.

They wrote books telling us killing animals is bad, inhumane and evil. Why? Just to stop African men from hunting. These were the same people who killed lots of Africans, but now, they said killing animals for food is bad. Can't you sense something fishy?

They brought schools and told our men and women that farming is for illiterates and uneducated people that degree is the way.

To get this degree, you have to pay. Families that had graduates started bragging about how educated their families are. The other families that focused on farming felt ashamed and stopped.

The little they had, they spent it on making sure there is a graduate in the house to wipe off their shame. Having a graduate in the house became a flex.

When these men an women went to school, the men got introduced to things that'll destroy them like cultism, smoking, etc. and the women into próstitution, etc. It wasn't like this at first, but the white men knew it'll get to this. These people are visionaries.

Then, they introduced feminism to let the women know whatever a man can do, they can do better.

If he can marry 7 wives, she can sleep with 700 men. Pleasure is addictive, hence these women became addicted to multiple dicks.

Any of their female friends that refuses to sleep around like them, they'll mock her, isolate her and call her sister Mary. Sadly, most of the girls succumb and starts following the wayward ones to clubs and visit different men. Along the line, some got infected and kept spreading it with the mindset of "I can't die alone."

It didn't stop there. They invented séx toys for the women to use and some of these séx toys are way better than men and the list goes on.

The good ones that didn't want to spread this infection buy séx toys to continue their pleasure while spending millions buying drugs produced by these same white men to treat it. Now you can clearly see it's a business all along.

When white men want to annihilate other races, they don't rush — they draft a 100 year blueprint and work slowly and even smart people, especially Africans won't notice. Even if they do, their puppets, they politicians that are working to uphold white men's businesses in Africa will come after you and jail you.

The school was a business. The invention of infection was a business. The destruction of African men's polygamous happy family was a business out of jealousy. Stopping African men from hunting was a business so that they'll come to Africa and carry all the animals to put in a zoo in their countries and people will pay to see them, etc.

So, the whites intentionally destroyed marriage and this was planned 100+ years ago.

Now, the 50 pussies our great grandfathers used to enjoy without being cheated on and all of them are loyal is no longer attainable. Every woman now has a séx toy produced by the whites.

China saw what the whites were doing to Africans and decided to focus 100% on production so that they'll take 90% market share from the manipulative whites, hence the West hates China and tries to ban most of their products or accuse it of being fake.

I have a lot to say, but I'll stop here. Marriage is beautiful if we can go back to the days when the whites hadn't inferred. But now, they've destroyed it for their selfish interest "business." They have manipulated our men to become SIMPs. If you disagree with a woman today she says you're not a real man or you're insecure. Who caused it? The businessmen of the European nations.

At least, Fela, Ned Nwoko, 2face, Isaac Fayoshé and a host of other real African men refused to listen to the whites.

If you mess up, they dump you and get a new woman who will worship them as our women used to do 100+ years ago before the whites came and destroyed the peace with religion, democracy, and other businesses they brought to Africa.

Do you see how China blocks 95% of American social media sites and TV stations? They are smart. It's to protect their people from social engineering and destruction of morality from the West. They've already succeeded.

Have you tried sleeping with a Chinese woman? You'll see the innocence and naivete. These are the things men love in African women back then and not the overexposed white and African women of nowadays with boreholes as p*ssies and have banged almost every big rod in their neighborhood, her Church, school, NYSC camp, etc. And Saida Boj is their role model.

The whites are ready to go to war or destroy humanity just to establish a business, then turn around to sell medicine, guns, drones, etc. after the war. They planned the destruction of African women and family values and they still want to pretend they have the solution.

Since we're all going to die one day, don't your think abundance of food and a happy home/marriage is more important than 80 million degrees or careers that are not based on creations/invention, but importation and consumption?

Food for thought.
The whites won.

But we still have
A chance to revive
Ourselves like China
And finally stop the
Blame game.

What did you learn from that short video?

White Man Confesses What They Did to Africans in Africa

I made a post of how the whites invented infections to kill Africans and how they systematically destroyed our marriage system and our females. Below is a Tiktok video confession.

Please, it's a must watch no matter how lazy you think you are. Watch it and you'll thank me later. It's for awareness. That MB you always use to watch porn or comedy, use it and WATCH this video. It's a must.

What he confessed to is exactly what our fellow Nigerians are doing to Nigerians, but in this scenario, by manufacturing fake and poisonous food, drinks and medicine. It's all about making money and killing Africans, then pretend to be the saviour and solution providers.

You must be vigilant!


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7473843711093361927/

effixxyguy1:
Good day ilegendd. I have been following your post back to back. One thing i like majorly about your post because they are more detailed. I need your idea on what a man must have achieved before is 30's and before planning of marriage with kids. I'm 29 rn. When i asked a typical africa man they told me to hold God tight and worship he says if have God i have gotten greater achievement than everything on earth but still i have to be candid with him that i was not satisfied with his response. So i need you to put more light to my question in real detailed. Thank you waiting to hear from you soon.

Back in the day, you must have 3 things.

1. A land for farming (given to you by your extended family)
2. Hunting skill
3. Wrestling strength

In modern day, the land for farming is now academic certificates. The hunting skill is now digital skills like AI, coding, trading, graphics, motion, editing, content creation, etc. The wrestling skill in now confidence, public speaking or social life where you're in command and not a pushover by both men and women.

So, do you have the modern version of those three I listed? You should have at least 2, the degree might not be that important anymore if it's theoretical, except it's practical, which we'll classify as skill.


I tell men that they'll be loved from age 0 to age 20 and love stops there. From age 20, don't expect love from a woman — she's there for her selfish interest, it could be your looks, riches, or the comfort and amazing sex you give her.

So, from your 20, you should focus on using option 1 or 2 to generate income.

How much you have before departing the 20s club is not quantifiable. Even if it's just lots of knowledge about finance and skills you have, no problem, as long as it's a skill that'll change anyone's life in 5 years of the person is dedicated.

The last skill, wrestling, now confidence, is what you need to avoid being a push over by family members or women and have a judgment of your own in difficult situations.

Those, my dear, are the 3 things you need to have.

I have a reason for not mentioning money, house and car.

richmond500:
this isn't about real men, I don't check a woman's phone.
The best way to catch a woman is not to check her phone or become suspicious

Catching is medicine after death. By then she has already infected you. If you had checked, that period she was planning to go meet the guy you would've known and avoided sleeping with her raw as you used to.

So, there is regret at the end of your strategy. You'll break up with her and spend a lot trying to cure yourself.

If it works for you, I'm fine with it.

One day, we'll all agree there is peace for the wicked, but no peace for the weak.


The idea of going to Heaven and never attempting reprisal when you're hurt, but leave the fight for God is orchestrated by the white to weaken the Africans who'll believe in it and strengthen Africans who won't.

These are both humans. The difference is orientation. One believes in conquering and by any means possible and the other believes in leaving things to God and acting peaceful.

All I know is, being too peaceful in a deadly world is weakness and you'll pay the price.

Even in marriage or relationship, do you see how women easily dump the peaceful men? Kaka, the footballer, Pep Guardiola, the coach, etc. These men are seen as weak, even though they probably aren't. The only crime is: They're too obsessed with their careers just the same way Christians are too obsessed with forgiving wicked people so they can make Heaven, which may not even exist in the end.

I pray it does. Christians have been through a lot and realizing in the end that Heaven or Hell doesn't exist will cause a meltdown. I pray it REALLY does.


RIP to the dead.

Lalami3232:

None of these is as painful as been told "I didn't tell him he was the father of our son, he just assumed he was the father"

Ah! I'll run mad. Nedu Wazobia's case.

richmond500:
Which kind scenerios be this?

I go with number3
I am Richmond, Rich and goodlooking and I dont have time checking my womans phone cos I value my sanity and peace of mind

You're funny. You created your own happiness by inventing number 3.

These women hate condom. I hope when she cheats and infects you with an incurable sickness, you'll forgive her? Because some of you say real men don't check or react.

Zooboy:
This number 1 light of Africa
Fit b eejo like that

What's eejo?

Which of These 2 Situations Is More Hurtful for a Man?

Situation 1:

You're a rich guy called Nedu and you checked your woman's phone and saw a text with her bestie discussing you and she said, "I'm just with him for his money."

Situation 2:

You're a good-looking man called Timi, but broke and you checked your woman's phone and saw where she told her bestie, "I'm dating Nedu just for his money, but I love my boyfriend Timi."

One situation makes you feel you're not good-looking enough but your money is enough cover up and the other makes you feel poor, but at least, you're good-looking.

Which of these situations would you feel hurt more? And which would you rather be in if you're forced to choose one in an exam hall.

annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?

Read this: https://www.nairaland.com/8347205/just-checked-wifes-phone-found#134225094

Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VWwEThmjjw?si=1escfNQNrYhDi5vU

Omoawoke:
lol, even when you posted this here… you can see the low engagement. But just post anything on yansh, bbnaija, and other cruise and see the way people will rush in.

Even when you give people the formulae and some deep knowledge of life to their face for free, they will step on it and pass… such is the way it is suppose to be my brother

The road to congregational and national growth is boring, but the road to individual pleasure is fun.

That is the battle they're facing.

For someone who has access to lots of money, I feel it'll be great to be among the 10% intentionally innovative and smart and at the same time, sponsor the 10% foolishly talented just to keep the 80% waywardly disorganized stagnant as they try to be like the 10% foolishly talented.

This way, you generate lots of money to spend on the 10% innovative.

If you ignore this money, other smart people like Elon, Mark, Jack Ma, etc. will make it. So, it's good not to leave a dime on the table from the 80% confused and 10% foolishly talented.

This is the reason a certain billionaires wanted to buy Nairaland.

Today, it would've become a multiple purpose site. One side for directionless people to argue and fight all day about politicians and celebrities, another side for e-commerce, ePayment, etc.

I no longer care about the 80%. No matter how hard you try to show them the way, it's just boring to them.

If you forgive her, she'll conclude men are always weaklings and will do more.

If you punish her to the point she thinks of suicide, she'll respect and fear men more or totally stay away from hurting a man.

Weak people think forgiving evil acts is a flex. This is exactly why Nigeria will never get to China's level.

China doesn't forgive crime, be it in politics or real life, hence even their scammers run to Africa to perpetrate their evil.

Be ruthless in your dealing with wicked people. Forgiveness in Nigeria is the reason everyone wants to be a politician.

CheedyJ:
How do you prepare for a betrayal when you don't know when exactly it will happen especially when you're really into the said partner. Is it by keeping multiple partners or not getting emotionally attached, will that make it less of a pain if the betrayal does happen? Just asking though..

I'm an author. When I reply people, I do it as if it's a chapter of an unfinished book, hence I'm detailed.

Let me answer you.


If you're a man, you need to put your ancestors first before any imported ideology.

What is the ideology of your ancestors about marriage?

1. One man to multiple women (Are you obeying it? No. That's failure 1).
2. You need to be in charge and no one else is above your order in your family, including her pastor, your pastor, your father, mother, her father, mother, etc. (Are you in charge like that? If no, failure 2).

Failure is not a bad thing or the end of the world, but are you prepared to rise again when it comes?

The two things you listed are actually how you prepare for betrayal and to achieve it, you need money.

In the olden days, you could achieve them without money, but your hunting or wrestling skills. Now, you must have money or come from a family where money is not a problem.

Men don't need love, but respect, peace of mind and loyalty. Na stupid men dey look for who go love them and these men are always emotional when they don't get loved by the woman they love.

For me, I just want her to be as beautiful as I want, as smart as I want, as respectful and loyal as I want, but she should keep the love for our children, not me because I'm also keeping my own love for our unborn children.

If we happen not to marry each other, my love for my unborn kids is still intact and I move on to the next women. When you don't show sign of love, but you're protecting and providing, women tend to become addicted to you until you profess your love, but don't. D

Look at Ned Nwoko's beautiful wives. They don't need to love him neither does he love them, they just need to obey and worship him and give him cute smart kids. That's all.

It's the good-looking smart children Ned is after, not love from his wives. If any of them cheats, she's out and a more beautiful and younger one takes over. This is the power every man must have, else you're not a complete man.

You won't live forever, so try and live in your terms and program yourself to handle betrayal by being less emotionally involved, have options and have money, simple. Men can't be short or ugly, they can only be broke.

Aki and Pawpaw are not short as long as there is money or fame. Ned is not old or ugly as long as there is money or fame.

How do you start in controlling your emotions? Let's Assume you love Ronaldo, Davido and Real Madrid passionately.

When there is an argument where people are talking down on one of those three above, don't react or be bothered. Feel the insult or pain and allow it to subside. At a point, even when Madrid loses by 6-0, you won't be bothered except you're a gambler. Do this until you're emotionally detached.

Back in the day when people used to abuse me in the comment section, I used to get upset, but now, it's just cruise and I feel nothing.

Let try an experiment.

If your mom is still alive and you love her so much, when your woman dumps you, ask yourself this:

A. Losing this relationship with girl and
B. Losing my mom to death...

...which would I prefer? Immediately, you'll realize you prefer losing the relationship to losing your mom.

One thing I also do to trick my brain is: I trade crypto and when I lose, I remind myself that at least another man in another country won, so my gender is getting richer. It's a win win.

I also tell myself that 50-80 years from now, I'll be dead and gone, hence all these money I'm making or losing is nothing but vanity.

This same mindset is what I use in relationship. As long as she's f*cking another man and didn't switch to lesbianism, my gender won.

I want my fellow men to always win, even if it's against me. So, I use gender war to trick myself into feeling better. Deep down, I love it when men succeed because I know he'll spread love and help people, especially the women in his family, his mother, etc.

I won't forgive you for cheating on me, but at least my gender won and I'm happy for him. The p*ssy still belongs to us, the male gender.

These are some of the tricks I use and they work. Your mental sanity and peace of mind is the most important, so find as many tricks and you can to protect it, else pay the price for being defenceless.

Love is for babies, teenagers and great-grandfathers of 80 and above. These are the people that need to be loved. From 20 to 70, you need money, skills and progress, not love.

Most men don't know this, hence they spend their 20s, 30s, 40s, to 70s searching for who will love them for who they are. Even with your money, you won't be loved, they can pretend to love you though. The respect, peace of mind and loyalty is all you'll get and maybe, fake love.

Know this now and know peace and act accordingly and you'll never anticipate for what does not exist for your age bracket.

The moment you embrace this mindset, you'll see how more confident and less expectant of love you'll become. GUARANTEED!

Na the love wey we play for primary, secondary or even uni dey decieve us. We want to replicate those fantasies and fun moments with a woman how has received more than 80 dicks before she became 18. She's already used to varieties.

After age 30, there is no love for you as a woman. After age 20 there is no love for you as a man, it's fake. She'll cheat on you. It's all games and manipulation. If you don't play it, they'll play it against you. Even if you don't want to play it, at least, be vigilant or stay away from relationship or marriage for your sanity.

From age 80 is when you'll get love again from your children or grandchildren, only if you're a rich and caring grandpa that always buys them gifts and celebrate their birthdays.

You see? Even as a grandpa, your playfulness and spending is the reason they love you. Some stingy grandpas, all their children and grandkids have deserted them.

A man must pay for something for him to get something in return.