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Milonis:Read the content. Don't judge a book by its cover |
I saw this and i feel its good to share YOUR CHILDREN ARE SEXY? ?? Few weeks ago, I was at the local airport and as I waited in the departure lounge, I noticed there were many children roaming about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday. One other thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc. The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time I noticed it. A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids. Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dress code. I noticed my son glancing around, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that. Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the hit songs of the season - these songs in my opinion should be rated PG 16. 4 - 6 year olds trooped to the dance floor, miming the sexually explicit songs and gyrating their bodies in the most sensual manner. They could have given Beyonce a run for her money. They ran their hands over their bodies, shook their booties hard while their parents cheered them on. The boys had their upper shirts unbuttoned and rapped along perfectly to gangsta raps while doing flawless break dance. Those who danced like actual children where shooed off the dance floor while the lewd ones were cheered on. As I watched, my child stared out of this circle looking longingly at the others dancing. I knew it was time to leave. As we left, we went to an eatery where I bought them ice cream and gently explained to them the concept of decency and dancing with decorum. Another time, at a game arcade for kids, I ran into a lady who had made-up her kids' faces like they were mannequins for Tara or Mac beauty products. Their skirts were so tight, that running up and down the slide was uncomfortable for them. So the question is, why are we sexualizing our kids? Why does your 4, 6 or 9 year old girl have to look like a chick? Why does she have to be hot or sexy? Should your 8 year old son go around with a comb in his hair and his pants sagged almost to his ankles? If your child wears bum shorts out of the house at age 3, why should she be expected to wear longer ones at 15? If she wears 2 rings and 12 bangles at 6, why won't she pierce a second ear hole at 17 and her bellybutton at 19? Why won't your son pierce his own ear at 15? Are you setting your children up to be immodest and indecent? What trend are you starting them on? That all these are fashionable or trendy doesn't mean it's ok. What happened to children wearing dresses. Children can look very nice and decent, they can be well covered and still look good. In this age, when children are being abused. Is it wise to make your child an object of anyone's sexual attention? When I hear some children belt out sexually explicit lyrics, I ask myself how they became exposed to these songs! As a parent, you can't play the CD of such songs and not expect your children to pick them up; the same goes for watching Mtv Base, Channel O, etc with your children. Studies have shown that children exposed to a high level of sexually explicit information tend to become sexually active early. Is that your goal as a parent? Being a parent involves sacrifice. You will need to avoid listening to such music where your children are. Most of those lyrics demean women and teach your daughter that she's just a intimacy gadget and her body is for squeezing. It teaches the boys that money is everything and women are things to be used to satisfy their primal urges. These music introduce them to a degrading pop culture. Our children have their lives ahead of them, let's set them on the right path by teaching them to dress decently and sing nice or age-appropriate songs. Let your children be children. Train up a child in the way that he/she should go and when he/she is old, he/she would not depart |
donofdons:This is what happens when a mere mortal who can't give the description of where and who he was a bundred years ago reads the scriptures blindly without the help of the holy spirit. |
May the sole of the diseased rest in piece. |
I won't believe this until:
A dollar equals a naira
Petrol becomes 40 naira a litre
The kids in primary schools eat three course meal for lunch
Garri is sold 20 naira a congo
3million jobs are created a year
Else, it's still campaign all the way |
Iku n b'omo rin, omo o funra |
One upon two. lol |
The man is at home. simple |
Vendoor:What feels good about this? When people can't cope with the hardship |
ElDaIllest:It doesn't matter who remembers you when u are gone, what matters is where you go when you are gone. |
And suddenly, the "mighty" Shekau stopped posting videos. And suddenly, "they" stopped fighting Nigeria, yet none of the thousands arrested during the insurgency have been charged to court for terrorism. And suddenly we all forgot to cry and weep for the return of chibok girls and suddenly everything starts working normally in the north east. And suddenly, our people stopped killing our people because our person is there. Hmmmm. Thank God nobody is making the north east ungovernable anymore. justsayingtho |
I feel people should start showing their birth certificate before joining nairaland. Can't believe a matured mind posted this |
his butt, his destiny. who butt implant help? |
sevenhundred:Can't believe some people are still blind to see the hand writing. Anyway let him keep working with people he trusts until everywhere is occupied by northerners. If possible he will soon install Hausa men as obi of Onitsha, oga of Benin, Ooni of ife and maybe Alaafin of Oyo because he needs those he can trust. SMH |
keypad1:In Oshiomole's voice "go and die" |
If this is true, then I need no prophet to tell me that there is a quantum spell on NPF officials who go begging on the street. |
Guy, today is the 30th of June, yet salary never show and u are here asking me which doctor wear red and which lawyer wear green or the teacher that wear yellow. Anything wey dem like make den wear |
captainjerry:lol no be "lap" coat he dey wear, na thigh suit |
agbonkamen:Nope she over ate |
ireneony:Lolz. put urs on display too let's analyze, compare and contrast. |
permanentgrace:I am afraid this your thought is not completely straight. |
why give preference to some states? are we not the same Nigerians? abi na so northern universities dey give preference to southern applicants? |
...but in the end, all is vanity |
I am 23, currently Studying in delta state..Simple English. Who are you? I didn't ask how old are u? |
I am 23, currently Studying in delta state..Simple English. Who are you? I didn't ask how old are u? |
This is what happens when a man allows his eyes to do the work of his brain. |
if I may ask, why did u "purnish" them? Why didn't you "punish" them? And BTW I hope you didn't teach them English? |
who are you? |
Estharfabian:Lol I fear u ooo. Na on top roof you dey live? |
oh! so we haven't drowned yet? Now that a ball of tomato goes for 100 naira? And a Kongo of rice 500+? pls what's worse than drowning? |
Buharism:sir, all those do not make u a Christian they only make one a religious fellow. the only reason why a man can be called a Christian is in Romans 8:14 "For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God." God bless u |
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