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Writercruze:
Getting married is always very exciting in Nigeria. From meeting the bride’s parents, doing the official introduction, to the wedding itself, every aspect of it is beautiful.

But it doesn’t end in the celebration. The real deal is the marriage life. Anybody can get married, but it takes special commitment and patience to stay in a marriage.

Don’t allow anybody to deceive you. There’s no perfect marriage anywhere. Do you know that your marriage may be better than that of your friend, you envy her home? Well, now, you know.

If you want to judge marriage based on what you see on social media, you may be living in a fool’s paradise.

Let me tell you something you should know. Couples who are fond of sharing their marriage details on Social media will only show you the beautiful part.

It’s like an iceberg; they show you what they want you to see. But nobody will show you the ugly part of it: the physical abuse, the cheating, the heartbreak, to mention but a few.

Well, I don’t want to bore you with unnecessary details. Here in this article, I will be sharing with you 10 Ways Nigerian Couples Can Make Their Marriage work again.

It’s no longer a secret that some Nigerian couples are just there to fulfill all righteousness. Their marriage is sinking every day.

They now see each other as strangers. If you are in such a situation, you will be forced to ask yourself, what has changed? Is this not the same person who was always kind and caring?

I don’t know what’s happening in your marriage right now. But whatever it is, it didn’t just happen. It was an unresolved issue that escalated to where you are with yo spouse today. If you want to make your marriage work again, this article is for you.

How You Can Make Your Marriage Work Again

#1. Be More Realistic With Your Expectations

The unrealistic expectation is a cankerworm that’s eating the flesh of most marriages in Nigeria. If you want your marriage to work, give up all the fantasies you had about marriage.

Don’t expect to get the best partner; just learn to understand whoever you get married to. It will make things easy for you. And always remember that you can build whatever you want in your marriage.

#2. Don’t Always Try To Control Your Partner

The more you try to control your partner, the more obstinate they become, and it will affect the love you guys have for each other. Love your partner and let them see things from your perspective. Trust me; they will do what you want without forcing them.

When you try to force a person to become something else, it will eventually hurt your marriage. So, if you want to make your marriage work again, give up on controlling your spouse. Remember, they are soulmates, not your slaves.

#3. Don’t Be Possessive

Possessiveness is another cankerworm that eats the flesh of most marriages. The earlier you start realizing that you don’t possess your partner, the better for you.

It doesn’t matter how long you have been with your partner or the number of children you have together, never see them as your property. Instead, see them as your partner. Give them their space and a bit of freedom. Trust me; your relationship will be more beautiful if you stop seeing your partner as your property.

#4. Criticize Less and Appreciate More

There’s something you should know – nobody is perfect. Even if your partner does something wrong, you can correct them with love instead of criticizing them.

Furthermore, try to praise your partner for the little things they do. It will make them feel appreciated and want to do more. Trust me; nobody wants a nagging partner. It irritates more than feces.

#5. Don’t Try To Change Your Partner

Anything you couldn’t change about your partner during courtship, the chances of you being able to fix it in marriage are slim. If you focus on improving your partner at all costs, it will only cause serious issues in your marriage.

I don’t know if anybody has told you this before, let me repeat it here. Marriage isn’t about changing one another, instead, it’s about love, caring, and supporting each other. If you give up the urge to change your partner and focus on growing and improving together, your marriage will be beautiful.

#6. Free Your Mind and Don’t Be Too Jealous

Jealousy is often due to insecurity. Once you let go of your insecurity and low self-esteem, your over jealous behavior will be put in check. Trust me; if you give up jealousy in your marriage, it will become rejuvenated with love. Do you doubt me? Give it a try.

#7. Know That You Can’t Always Be Right

Most marriages are having issues today because both partners are always right. But you fail to understand that you are not in competition with your spouse. It doesn’t matter who is right or wrong in an argument; what matters is your willingness to make things work.

If you can apply these things in your marriage, you can make it work again. Remember, marital problems don’t start overnight. It’s usually due to some of the issues I mentioned above. But if you can start applying them now, your marriage could be beautiful again.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/7-ways-nigerian-couples-can-make-their-marriage-work-again/

Note: I don't have issues with bloggers copying my contents, but if you must do, try to reference the source.

There are no rigid rules that guide relationship study your partner and know what works for both of you. ..

In the same Nigeria where somebody somewhere is spending billions to found Boko Haram... Somebody tun le se, somebody dale ru

Leme sit here

Let this Little boy be na. Haba

mindful01:
But Ngozi nd Jumoke are already disvirgin in their parents room

But they didn't end up as Boko Haram wives. You are only trying exonorate the Northern leaders of paedophilia

How come the place dirty like This?

chenzen:
the following persons will receive heavy battering when my thunder is ready !!!

¹ilegendd

²GreenMist21

³anyone else that dosent represent #GREENPILL MOVEMENT

They have thunder arrester

Kidney is crying "save me"

I'm sure she knew you posted this

Rip

So make I go fry beans?

Hmmm

Breakingfamous:
Source: http://www..com/2019/10/video-ladys-wig-falls-off-while-doing.html?m=1

Radarada. While Qatar is Busy fixing air conditioners in Open places to cool down heat during 2022 world cup, Nigerians are busy doing meaningless things...

Guy drop the link here

solmusdesigns:
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Our debt to GDP is very fine, Our debt to Revenue is quite fine, all developed countries borrowed thier way to progress

Yes nigeria borrowed to complete Abuja-Kaduna rail, however its annual turnover and profit after expenditure is in the range of several billions

Our Infrastructural deficit stands at atleast $50 - $100 billion USD, if lagos to Kano rail cost $5.6billion, and Lagos - Calabar cost withing that range, rail alone needs 20 billion, while power needs $10bn, and roads, Ajaokuta steel plant and other project needs $30billion, 2.3 bpd crude oil sales with IOC taking 40% wont give us revenue fast enough to develop when our population growth is 3%

To the Dunce qouting me, why not suggest another financial plan for FG outside borowing, since our revenue is constant at 2.3mbpd crude oil sales we share with oil companies and our Population growth is 3% yearly

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Minister for finance or minister of finance, which one are you? We'll do



After baba done type English finish, e put "dunce" so person no go fit quote am...

lollybizzu:


You said if he knows person in Nigeria.
But what if he doesn't know someone?

E go tey for job market even with his first class

Jhaytee4all:
That's lower class.

Only God can favour you with that kind of grade... it is only through God you can find a good job with an average grade

That's in a sane clan. But in Nigeria, graduate with first class can't even get a private school job. Whereas those who didn't even have a first degree are working in choice places.

If you know person in Nigeria forget.

ipreach:
A social media user took to Twitter platform to share a weird thing that happened to him after sleeping with a female friend who he last saw two years ago.

In a tweet which has gone viral, @VictorIsraell:




CHECK HERE https://www.believespot.com/2019/10/see-what-happened-after-man-slept-with-her.html

I smell lies. Where is the pics of him and the girl he posted?

MiVida:
I recently rented a self-contain very close to school and I made payment when everyone was on holidays, so I didn't know the kind of people living in the compound but then, I believed it'd be inhibited by both male and female, so I paid and brought my things in the following week before school resumed.

There are 20 self-contain in the compound, 18 is occupied already. At first, I noticed my very next neighbor is a girl, greeted her and got friendly but I made sure I minded my business always. Then after a few more days after resumption, I noticed there was not a single male in that compound except me and I already paid 80k for the house. It didn't take long before the ladies started giving me attitude and got uncomfortably closer. First, my next door neighbor would say nasty things she does with her boyfriend, talking about how he sucks her pussy and bleeps her so well, that other ladies in the compound do hear her scream, asking me to loud my mini home theater whenever I hear her make those screams while at it. Almost all of them now cook and bring straight into my room without knocking, last night, 7 of them were in my room talking and dancing till around 12am and while they were leaving, only 6 left, you know what that means

The last one who was already on my bed stayed behind and the rest of the ladies noticed and she's the most calm amongst them all, didn't say a word during their fruitless discussion, didn't dance, nothing!

I had to ask her if she's not going to her room and she said the gate has been locked, I asked her to sleep in one of the girl's room and she said she's not close friends with any of them. (Am I now the person closer to her ni) Hmmm... I locked my door and joined her in bed but maintained my distance. Suddenly, she started tickling me and I can't resist it when someone does that to me, so I laughed and she gained more confidence to come closer to me but not long I told her I needed to sleep and had lectures today at 8am and she stopped with the play. 2hours later, she woke me up and bluntly said I want sex, I want you to have sex with me. I have condom in the house but I declined the offer abeg, I don't even know this girl, we barely talked, we don't even know anything about each other, I don't even know if I like her or not... Just first time meeting and she stayed over... Mba! I'm not doing! By 6:30am this morning,she left.

The smallest amongst the girls came this morning cos she has exams, asking about my night, you'd easily noticed she smoothened her voice to sound sexy asking me if she could come in and I obliged. She sat down, said nothing while sitting for 5 minutes while I went to the kitchen to do nothing lol... Came in and asked her if all's well and she said yes, that she wanted to borrow my pencil ✏️.. I couldn't believe my ears, she spent close to 10 mins in my room because she wanted pencil? Well I gave her one and wished her well in her exams and she left... There's no time they'd pass without checking if I'm inside, I don't know what to do, no space for reading, doing assignments or even calling my girlfriend, my parents or my real friends... It's really bad that I had to put in prayer that a guy packs into the remaining 2 self contain.

I'm tired already!

I think I've watched this same movie before Pls remind me the title

Oniro oshi

GEJDHERO:
I was never really happy with this BBC thing,if you look at the situation critically the Lecturers were set up.I was expecting to see a bona fide students of their respective schools in the video .But alas unknown persons paid to set up the lecturers.This is not fair.

I suspect you are a lecturer.

Hundreddegrees:
I'm not a hater but this guy is disgusting and not funny

If you call creativity dressing in trash cans and trying to make fun of what people wear then I'll pass

One man's bigi, is another man's sniper

When will a secondary school teacher be appointed as Commissioner for Education in Nigeria?

Ashleyeniwin:
Infrastructural developments in Ore excite residents, as leaders, residents laud Gov Akeredolu

The people of Ore in Odigbo Local Government Council Area of Ondo State have started witnessing an upsurge in economic activities as a result of the attention to infrastructural development of the town by the present administration in the state.

Ore is the gateway that connects Lagos, the nation's economic nerve centre with both the Eastern and Southern parts of Nigeria on a direct stretch.
The historical town also provides an adjourning corridor to the Northern part to the country.

The people, who spoke with journalists on Saturday said new investors are responding to the massive infrastructural interventions in the town, initiated by the Akeredolu administration.

While saying that the responses of investors to government deliberate infrastructural upgrade of a town are usually spontaneous, the people said the current rise in economic activities in Ore are exciting to them.

An entrepreneur, Mr Olawoyin Owolabi, who has lived in Ore for over four decades, said the commitment of the present administration in Ondo State has scaled up unprecedented socio-economic activities in the town.

For Prince Temidayo Akinbobola, who was born in Ore and had lived in the town for over thirty years, the ongoing construction of the first overhead bridge in Ondo State in Ore by the Arakunrin Oluwarotimi administration has begun to impact on the security and socio-economic lives of the people.

He said the people are happy that Governor Akeredolu is fulfilling his electoral campaign promises to the people, and believed that the vision of the State Government to turn Ore to a Megacity would soon be realised.

A commercial motorcyclist, Mr Abiodun Babafemi, said the ongoing Ore Interchange would in no small way guarantee the security of lives of all motorcycle riders in the town.

Also, the Chairman of Isero Branch of National Union of Road Transport Workers, NURTW, Mr Suleiman Murufu, said the people are already witnessing a turnaround in the economic activities of the town following the ongoing construction of the Ore Bridge.

Despite incessant rainfall slowing down the pace of work at the bridge construction site, 23 of the 30 Beams needed are ready, while other casting and earth fillings were ongoing.

Source:http://ondostate.gov.ng/Home/NewsItem/Infrastructural-developments-in-Ore-excite-residents--as-leaders--residents-laud-Gov-Akeredolu

All na because of next year election. Where was he all the while?

Yoruba people said okada business is bad, now we leave it t9 Hausa people. Now they have flooded everywhere. I only pray they don't have an ulterior motives

deepwater:
Lol

Hausas have overtaken bike business in lagos.

Every street in lagos has at least 20 hausa biker men playing the street knowing who is who and who leaves where and what time anyone in that street leaves and return from work, as well as the kids and wives of every household

Should miyati Allah give an executive order today those guys would overrun lagos in 24 hours.

My great fear

makinson2865:
gambari pa fulani .kole Jo ninu

I bet you are from ondo

Firstorderwizard:
Anything found inside water na water

Including fisherman's hook?

Things we see during first term. If it continues like this during his second term the he's an angel

I don't think it's real

Now that election is knocking

Yet nothing is heard about Zamfara Gold miners