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Dtruthspeaker:
Was the consent given for rape? No
Did you marry your wife with a mind of raping her and you told her that your marriage includes you raping her? (Na only you fit answer this question?)

And this is The Law, no one can consent to a crime.

No part of my comment supports rape. Continue to twist things to suit yourself.

verifiablefacts:
But if it were to be the other way round, you'll be the first to jump on to the comments table.

Provide evidence or continue to lie.

Dtruthspeaker:
See you used the word "consent".

So you see, it becomes rape when that consent is not there.

"Not in the mood" is not the same as lack of consent. Not in the mood in marriage means implied consent. So uncle as every husband does, still has and enjoys the right to stimulate and put her in the mood while he is already in her after all the mood always kicks in when the match has started.

But this is different from the one that she says "No" and has closed her legs and run to another room where you pursue her and beat her and tear her clothes and pant and penetrate her, all with force. That is Rape!

The consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage. Stop twisting things unnecessarily.

No!

Acceptance of marriage means mutual consent to intercourse, both legally and religiously.

In marriage, the partners owe each other the responsibility of sexual pleasure. You carry out your responsibility as long as you are able (healthy and available) to do so, whether it pleases you or not.

A child that verbally expresses his or her anger towards his or her parents when the parents fail to feed the child or pay school fees for the child is not guilty of assault. But a child who verbally expresses anger towards an adult who is neither parent nor guardian to the child is guilty of assault. An adult that tells another person's child to wash plate can be found guilty of child abuse. But an adult that tells his or her own child to wash plate is not guilty of child abuse. A woman who takes a man's money without his consent is guilty of theft if the man is not her husband or father or guardian, even if he is her boyfriend or sugar daddy. But if he is her father or husband or guardian, she is not guilty of theft. This is exactly how a man who sleeps with a woman when she is not in the mood for sex is guilty of rape as long as the woman is not his wife, even if she is his girlfriend or sugar mummy or a prostitute. But if she is his wife, he is not guilty of rape when he sleeps with her when she is not in the mood for sex.

A woman saying she was raped by her husband just because he slept with her when she was not in the mood for sex is like a man saying that his family enslaves him because the struggles he goes through to feed the family do not please him.

But if a man can hold himself when his wife says no, it is very good. He should also be considerate to let the wife be when he knows that she is stressed out. One of the major problems with our society is that we want to eat our cake and have it. Morally, a man insisting on sleeping with his wife when she is not in the mood is better than he cheating on the wife. But to those who misunderstand the meaning of marriage, a man cheating on his wife is better than he sleeping with the wife when the wife is not in the mood for sex. The craziest part is that some women after claiming that they are not in the mood and denying their husbands sex will still persecute the husbands for meeting another woman. This paragraph is not trying to justify infidelity in marriage. This paragraph only tries to project the madness of our society.

Most of the women who believe that a man can rape his wife are still the ones cheating on their husbands. They claim it is because they still love the exes.

When I try to explain to people that sex is not part of love, they say I am crazy. Love is what you owe everyone including strangers. Love does not have types. Love is just one. Love is immeasurable. There is nothing like, "I love John and Peter but I love John more than I love Peter". Love does not come in degrees. People misinterpret responsibility as love. Sex is a matrimonial responsibility, not love. If sex is love, then it is right for every single person to offer sex to all the people around him or her.

Love alone cannot keep marriage. Being diligent in carrying out matrimonial responsibilities keeps marriage. Giving one's spouse sexual pleasure when the spouse needs it is part of matrimonial responsibilities.

Ikaeniyan0:
If nah Yoruba attack Hausas now, you will watch the video and start showing solidarity with the Hausas without caring about the cause

Present evidence or continue to lie.

Meanwhile, my comment was not about tribes but about facts finding. Before you condemn the comment, answer its question. What caused the fight?

I will comment when I know what caused the fight.

I won't watch the video because it cannot explain why the fight started.

wolero7:
Can you get a Land Cruiser 2024 for this price? Impossible. And the fact that this is Bullet Proof ooo.

The low price proves my point. In fact, it is overpriced.

What you call upgrade is actually destruction. That's why only that live a fake life go for such downgraded cars. Fake life always leads to destruction.

The solution is simple. Just report the matter to your husband.

The solution is simple. Just report the matter to your husband.

You are obviously enjoying the guy's attention. That is why you have condoned him for six years.

Any Nigerian upgraded car is automatically and totally downgraded.

What you call upgrade is actually destruction.

No be lie.

But one crime doesn't justify another.

Man's inhumanity to man.

How was this woman feeling during the act? Some humans mentor Satan.

This is a fiction. But it is passing a good message.

Dishonourable Honourable?

2Face and marital crisis... May his life get better.

An obvious sign of mental illness.

A banditry apologist.

Na kolo mental wan worry the poster.

One question.

Whom did you report to?

Air show with nothing to show as a progress against the land show of banditry.

What a senseless murderer!

During an interview with journalists in 2023 at the Rivers State Police Command Headquarters in Port Harcourt, Okoligwe denied the allegations. He claimed he had been ill when Justina visited and said he found her lifeless when he woke up. Okoligwe further alleged that he went to his brother’s house for treatment and returned three days later to dispose of her body. He also denied removing any organs, insisting her remains were intact.

Nothing justifies murder but don't twist things unnecessarily. Falling in love was never her crime. Being an unwise gold digger was her crime. It is impossible to date a criminal without sensing crime all around him, in his actions, in his environment and the kind of people he moves with. The girl in question saw all the signs but went into the relationship to enjoy what he got from other preys. She never knew that she would one day become the prey.

Jennyclay:
What a lovely news, finally Justice is served

May her soul continue to rest in peace, Her only crime was to fall in love

Wicked men.

SeeHim:
What Do You Think About The Judgement?

What do you think about the judgement?

1.
How old are you?

2.
Is she aware of the challenge?

Whichever, see a doctor. God knows why He created sex. Sex is essential in marriage. Even if you can't impregnate a woman, be able to penetrate and thrust...

Finding a happy marriage without a shaky bed is possible but very rare.

Oolalekan001:
Let me explain it better.
My sexual organ does get erected, but the problem is that I don’t feel the normal sensitivity or excitement that should come with it. The erection is there, but the sensation is weak — almost like my body isn’t fully connected to what’s happening.

Because of that, I struggle to maintain the erection for long or stay fully engaged during intimacy. It feels more like a mechanical response, not a natural, enjoyable one.

That’s why I’m worried — physically I can get hard, but mentally and sensation-wise, something feels off

Hmmm!

I have no idea what the problem could be.

I am yet to understand your complaint.

Is it that your sexual organ does not get erected?

He will use the money to do thanksgiving in church or mosque when God answers the prayer.🏃🏼🏃🏼🏃🏼

You cannot attract a girl that will truly love you when you have not understood yourself.

Try to analyse your personality. Don't underrate yourself but don't overrate yourself. If you overrate yourself, you will go for girls who will ridicule you. If you underrate yourself, you will go for girls that will accept you but cannot meet your expectations.

When you are able to make a balanced judgment of your personality, you will know the kind of girls that will truly want you and you will go for them.

A P C

All Promises Cancelled.

Uncomfortable in what sense?

Are you too big or too small for her?

Shamelessness and impunity personified.

As expected.

Things have fallen apart and the center cannot hold.

Time will reveal a lot like it did in the case of Madam 40 seconds who went on a media tour.

Just two years for ₦8.5b?

Crime is becoming juicy in this country.

With the big name?

Alpha what?