₦airaland Forum

Lamasta:
My issue is why must you guys always include Obi or Tinubu in issues that does not necessarily involve them, that's my concern

LegendHero:
Maybe you don’t understand English much cos I’ve explained multiple times. Let me try to learn how to type in Igbo, probably that might help.

Lamasta:
Must you make it political everything Obi this Obi that wetin

Factcheck0001:
if not that u are an ediot
What makes u feel it's not even an Igbo?

LegendHero:
Nope, it is not.

People will low population can commit the highest number of crime per capital. This is a self evident truth.

Men for example commit the highest number of crime per capital, yet they are not statistically more (2x) than women in Nigeria.

Ibos commit the highest number of drug trafficking in Nigeria and yet they are not the majority.

Blacks are more in prison in USA but yet they are just 13% of the population.

Southerners have the highest number of internet fraudsters in Nigeria but yet we are not more populated than the North.

LegendHero:
I asked you about the bad thing and you said crime.

That does not depend on population. That was why I asked you for the other bad socio-economic statistics that we attribute to the Ibos in Lagos.

All what you mentioned is crime.

LegendHero:
Why do you attribute kidnapping in the South East to Fulani herdsmen but never attribute good thing to the Fulanis?

Not all bad thing are attributed to the Ibos in the SW. They have their own area of specialization.

Rituals for example is done by Yoruba in the SW. Drug trafficking by Ibos, baby factory by Ibos, kidnapping by Fulanis, fake drug by Ibos, and this is a fact!

If we bring our 10 news about any of the above in Lagos/SW beside ritual, Ibos will lead their categories and Fulanis will also lead their category.

It does not necessarily mean that have the highest population to maintain the lead. It’s just per capital.

LegendHero:
Yes they are right about the crime. Committing the highest crime per capital does not have a direct relationship with population number.

Blacks commit more crime and go to prison per capital in USA and yet they are only 13% of the population.

Fulani herdsmen commit more kidnapping crime per capital in Nigeria and yet they are less than 7% of the total population of Nigeria.

Ibos commit more drug trafficking crime per capital in Nigeria yet they are the third largest ethnic in Nigeria.

That’s why I said you should tell me the socio economic metrics you influence in Lagos that you can’t replicate in the SE where you have far more numbers.

LegendHero:
What ranking is blamed on the Ibos? Give me three example.

The only thing we call out Ibo for in Lagos is fraud, drug trafficking, and fake goods.

In terms of socio economic statistics, no sane person will blame Ibos for the numbers in Lagos. Give me three example of such cases.

AllenSpencer:
How can you say one is more irresponsible than the other when it’s glaring that both are irresponsible.

The MARRIED man who didn’t use a condom or abstain is more responsible than a lady who also did not abstain, use a condom or contraceptive.

There is no class of irresponsibility here. Call a spade a spade and stop designing irresponsibility’s. Both were irresponsible.

LegendHero:
Lol you guys and your delusion.

So Ibos also contribute to Ogun and Oyo that ranked second and fourth? I wonder why Anambra which is an Ibo populated states was not featured in top 10 and miraculously Ibos suddenly give Lagos the number.

I have always said it, Ibos don’t qualify to be called majority tribes. Only God knows what the founding father drank to suddenly say we have three major ethnic group. They probably counted the minority as Ibos too.

Lamasta:
What if he's an Obidient Call a thief a thief and stop being political about it

AllenSpencer:
I don is a preventive measure. He is a married man. In the first place, he shouldn’t be cheating, and since he has decided to cheat, he is liable for repercussions.

What are we debating here exactly again? That a married man cheated on his wife and got a lady pregnant, and that he shouldn’t be blamed for such?

It’s becoming a baseless argument! If he has abstained and used that energy for his wife alone, he won’t be fathering a child, and since that has happened, he should man up!

The lady could claim she calculated her ovulation period and missed too but it’s all stories. The did has been done. He is not the first and won’t be last. Nick Cannon still popped in 2022 and manning up.

AllenSpencer:
Stop over flogging issues and spamming with questions. I said I will not. I am not a doctor. If she demands family planning measures, she will see a doctor.

Condoms and Calenders are not even 100% safe. Ladies can testify to it. It does not stop pregnancy and only a counter measure. Ovulation period shifts and condoms rip. So what point are you trying to make with both measures?

AllenSpencer:
No. I will not.

Abstinence is the best form of prevention.

AllenSpencer:
What question is being dodged here. I have given you advice I will give to my daughter. So it is my responsibility to start telling her how to Joe and ways of preventing it. At what age do I need to tell all this?

My dad never sat me down to tell me when best to have sex. He always tell me, if I mess up, I will take cool responsibility.

So it’s awkward for you asking me what I will tell my daughter. That when she should always calculate her period when she fvcks, and if she does not, she should use Postinor quickly, and if that fails, she should opt for an abortion quickly.

Is that what you expect me to be telling my daughter? No one told me that, and won’t be telling mumu child. Biology would tell her all she needs to know.

rock003:
Check the pictures again

AllenSpencer:
What sincerity is demanded here. Do I tell my daughter how to hoe around? Abstinence I will always preach till she is ready. Anything out of that, she must be ready to bare responsibility.

So as a father, you expect me to sit my daughter down and start telling her ways to prevent unwanted pregnancy? I won’t do that.

rock003:
You didn't check before you posted. Tribalism and bigotry prevented you from using your brain

AllenSpencer:
Hello, Abstinence is the best which both did not do. So you expect me to blame the lady and pamper the man?

Any responsible parent always preach abstinence, the moment you void it, you have to take FULL responsibility.

Either of them could have prevented it and both did not do. So what’s the basis of shifting blame about who messed up.

The did has been done. It’s too late to start shifting blame.

Moreover, he is a married man. He should be the most calculative, not the woman. I

AllenSpencer:
Why did the man not pull out to be on the safer side. The deed has been done already, and no need debating.

The man should go for a DNA test- which is not even needed and man up if it comes out positive.

The fvcked each other and had a child. That cannot be erased. In Africa and anywhere else, A man bares responsibility for a child- wanted or unwanted. Your blood remains your blood.

He is not the first and won’t be last. Fvckers are still balling everyday and still getting married.

AllenSpencer:
Oh! It is not responsibility of a man to prevent pregnancy! I just learnt something new.

So what do condoms and vasectomy prevent?

AllenSpencer:
Begging for funds for the replica of a millionaire.

That’s not ballin. He should learn from his friend Davido.

I don’t have a problem with men who are promiscuous, I got them in my family too, but don’t run away when the chips are done. You have a right to DNA and when it’s confirmed, MAN-UP

AllenSpencer:
Both party’s are to be blamed for negligence, and now that a child is involved, they have to take FULL responsibility.

Real dogs do the fvck and stand with the repercussions. Nick Cannon, Durk, Youngboi and Tuface are good examples. They don’t deny but take charge.

AllenSpencer:
If you want to go that route, then you have to start from why he did not use a condom.

You think it’s that easy for a woman to opt for abortion!

If you cannot imagine yourself fathering a child from a lady then don’t fvck her!

…….and a DNA test is not even needed at these point🤣