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Tonero5200:
Hi.

Honestly speaking am really worried, have dated my fiance for sometime now. So we finally decided to tie the knot.
She suggested we do it this year November and I concurred, so we've been saving towards it ever since.

Last 2 months I made my intentions known to her family, that I will like to marry their daughter. Due to the conversations I had With her parents, I told them I wanted it small.. because am not financialy buoyant.

But To my surprise, her dad said I shouldn't worry about it, they are going to support me ( which is most likely Normal)

(They gave me traditional rite's, which I sorted out by myself)

With the traditional right drawing close, last month I learnt from my fiancee..her parents are planning to buy 2 cow for the traditional and white wedding. (I was surprised)

The following week, the hall she choosed for the reception of the white wedding, has already been paid for by her dad which was about 500k excluding the decorations which they also took care of ( even though I opted we could have done the reception in the church)

But my fiancee told me her dad is inviting alot of well-wishers home and abroad to come celebrate with us.both his fellow staffs and all.

* I bought 2 bag of rice and groundnut oils

* We paid for the cakes

* We paid for drinks

* We sorted things out (invitation cards, pre shoot photos)

But was surprised 2 days to the traditional marriage, more expensive drinks were rolling in.

On the d day of the white wedding, I realised, they cooked more than 8 bags of rice ( coconut, jollof, banga and fried) meats were surplused.
Alot of people came from her family's, while my own families were just there.. they did get the message.

Someone even said it to my mom face. THAT THIS GIRL PAPA TRY O.

please, I don't want to sound like am a bad person or I don't know good.
Offcus I appreciate her parents efforts, but am just a little bit worried.

As a man, won't this come to haunt me in the future?

You don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

The new universities have they to gotten approval of NUC? I hope they are not just fooling themselves.

According to Martin Luther, "he who loves not wine, women and song remains a fool his whole life long".

Unfortunately what we have on our hands is a failed state. We have become a mirror image of Somalia, with warlords controlling various territories.

Government is a continuum. It is churlish and inexcusable to think that with all the resources at its disposal the government is just making a discovery. They might as well tell it to the marines.

The mistake is a monumental blunder. It is unacceptable.

[A sad shocking news. May his soul rest in peace.quote author=Despirado121 post=98208777]Imo State Government has announced the death of the government house’s chaplain Rev. Msgr. Raph Madu, Igbere TV reports.

The governor Hope Uzodimma said in a statement posted to Twitter on Monday that it was a personal loss to him, although he did not mention the cause of death.

Msgr. Madu was the immediate past Secretary-General of the Catholic Secretariat, Abuja.

Last year, he celebrated his 37th ordination anniversary and dedicated service in God’s vineyard.



https://twitter.com/Hope_Uzodimma1/status/1351135130694406152?s=20[/quote]

Universities should resume. Undergraduates are young adults who should adhere to the C-19 protocols.