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TrapQueen77:



EX?

Abeeeg this 2017...getting back to ur ex is like picking a big rock and smash it against ur head.. and one more reason it's better not to go back to ur ex when u know he's wh0re.

There's plenty of fishes in the ocean joor...

@Trapqueen77 the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know. i just pray that the trap before your queen is not for trapping guys

Lastking147:
lool I no even read am sef
E too long I be lazy reader haha
why u Neva SLP for ds odd hour bros

This is my working hour. i will go to bed by 4am or so. i know you did not read the thread. i know you only came in to see what trapqueen77 said

fergieboy:

translate the words in your pic

Lastking147:
orisirisi

bro i dey hail, team eat and clean mouth , after finishing amebo you are claiming just passing . i love your strategies

ogoloray:
Hehehe... Somtin dey do u o

in this administration things are technically done eg defeating boko haram. you have technically done amebo . i dey troway salute

it is only on NL that you will boldly state: Ladies Only but guys will troop in. i troway salute to all those guys that are here for amebo

In my previous article i discussed about how to get your ex-girlfriend back and guys in the house were happy about the tips. today, all those ladies that still needs Tunde/Bello their ex-boyfriend, today "na your day just do shakara ".

Sometimes, we think a break up is the best thing after bread and butter when things go south in a relationship. Emotions are boiling, swords are drawn, words are exchanged and then we decide it is best we go our separate ways.

It is however surprising when you discover that the person who seemed to cause you pain is one your heart will not let go. The heart will always want what it wants. So, what if after a break up, you discover that you still love your ex-boyfriend? Forget what many people say (especially on nairaland). A modest figure of 60% of people in relationships have experienced break up at some time.

So why did they get back? Because the break up gave them time to assess themselves and showed them how valuable the relationship they had was. So, if you still love your ex, don't be shy about it or deny it. Even marriage will have its own issues, and you can't opt out because of it. No, you stay to fix it.

Getting your ex-boyfriend back is not an impossible task. It will just require considerable effort if your relationship was real while it lasted. Here are a couple of things you can do to get him back.

1. Is it worth it:

You need to really be sure if your ex is worth going back to. If he has serious issues like cheating or assault, kindly save yourself from unnecessary future pain and invest your precious energy in to other productive activities. That means it is pointless following the points in this article. If he is worth it, you may then proceed.

2. How did the break up come about:

The first step to treating an illness is accurate diagnosis. You need to know what caused the problem. Was it from your end or it was his fault? Many a time, we lay the entire blame for the failure of a thing on our partner simply because we are the alternative. Even if he was at fault, you need to see the role you may have played in it.

3. Work on yourself:

Rather than mope about, improve your character. Work on your attitude and let go of bad habits that you may have. Also, take out time to change your looks. Obviously, this is one way of attracting his attention since men are creatures of sight. Make a new hairdo, get yourself new outfits and engage in exercise if need be. Those two are absolutely important. While your looks may attract him, your new character will keep him with you.

4. What kind of man is he:

You stand a brighter chance of having him back since you know him. And the good news is, guys are basically single celled. I mean we are easy to understand and predict once you know us. How does your ex like you to relate with him? You should know your way. How does he like to have issues settled?

5. Mutual friends can come in handy:

It is will help if you let close mutual friends that you both share know about your intentions. However, you need to be choosy about who you approach. Not every friend that smiles with you roots for your relationship with him. Intimate them of your plans and get their advise on how to go about it. They are your invaluable asset here.

6. Agree with him:

Agreeing with him does not necessarily mean that he is totally right and you are wrong. Instead, it means you choose to see things from his perspective and acknowledge that his opinion is valid. Wherever there is a misunderstanding, you need to find the understanding that I missing. Be humble in your approach and gentle with your choice of words.

7. Apologize for your fault:

Since we already established that both parties have their share in the blame, apologize for your faults. If your ex is thoughtful, he will naturally feel obligated to own up to his wrongs. However, you need to take some time before you implement this stage. Rome was not built in a day. Don't try to rush the process.

all the best sister as you amend your relationship. feel free to ask questions or post your comments in the comment box.

My next article is not going to be funny for all the runs girls in the house. i will show you how to know that Funke/Amina is a runs girl so you can back out early .

afrokid:
Where are you bro, I wanna do a transfer for the book...

once you make your transfer kindly send your details as a text message. your success is my pride

unclezuma:
My alarm clock wants a pay raise...

you mean it is staging a protest ? guy you don enter one chance. you will never know anything like a sound sleep again

unclezuma:

why exactly are you not asleep ?

Bro, Experiencing a break up is not a pleasant feeling. It can even be more terrible if after the initial flood of emotions, you discover how valuable Ngozi/Aysha has been. Now you wonder if there is a way of getting her back because you know your life is better with her than without her.

First of all, I must admit that getting your ex-girlfriend back is not an easy task. Getting her back is a process that would take time and a little strategy on your part. You need to understand that there is no short cut to it. This is not the usual case of misunderstanding in a relationship, but one where the relationship supposedly has ended.

For all the "chop and clean mouth guys" please this is not your thread , this is for people who still have that humanly feeling of love in them.

What can you do to get her back?

1. Give yourselves a break:

You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her. Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is, the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks. Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you know it.

2. Analyze your break up:

What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These are important questions that you need to find answers to.

3. Work on yourself:

Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.

4. Be on good terms with her close friends:

In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats. Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging your efforts. Be on good terms with them.

5. Re-establish rapport:

After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as often as you can.

6. Engage her emotions:

This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.

7. Set the stage for your reunion:

This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet, it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up. Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely wants it that way already.

enolife2:
I have made a transfer of 3000 to you Gtbank accept

if you have sent your details, i have sent your pack. your success is truly my pride.

Estrada:
If I start today by downloading your ebook and with my laptop available, how soon can I get down to business and earning?

with free traffic within the first month. with paid traffic within the first week.

FreshPresh92:
Ok lemme rephrase my question... What I mean is, if I get your ebook, and then I have 500 naira for a domain, and I put to practice everything you have thought in your ebook, then I'll start seeing results?

exactly bro. the ebook is simplified, loaded and comes with an after purchase support. you can always keep in-touch with me whenever you have a challenge. your success is my pride.

feel free to ask your affiliate marketing related questions

AmuEwu:
Hello boss. I want to purchase your eBook tomorrow . I know its a risk, but I'm taking this as a leap of faith. Please I just sent you a pm let's talk privately before I send the money, as I'm not in Nigeria at the moment.

I hope and pray its worth it. Please reply my pm

i have replied to all pms. the guide comes with a 30days money back guaranty.. we are sure of the value we are delivering. so be rest assured that you are not risking anything.

willibounce1:
Continue deceiving yourself.

i just wish you will stop embarrassing yourself trying to show that you know too much.

FreshPresh92:
@importexpert, if I understand you clearly, as a student that I am, all I need is your ebook and extra 500 naira for a domain and I'll start making money from affiliate marketing, is that it?

bro if that is the type of the opportunity you are looking for truly you are only deceiving yourself. A map can never be detailed enough to take you an inch away from where you are. you must act on the map. just having the ebook with a domain will not produce a penny. you need to work on the teachings of the guide diligently to see results. so please do not allow anybody to deceive you. i wish you success bro.

carik:
Are you on any online chat platform

i am on all the chat platforms. as a non subscriber, you can only reach me via call or this platform. i have over a thousand messages on whatsapp. so please do not contact me via chat.

your affiliate marketing related questions are highly welcomed.

carik:
I hope your immediate response here will reflect after purchasing.
Thanks for expatiating.

you can always get my instant response through calls or flash.

Horlawoomey:
Thank you Jagaban for the swift response, I received my package yesterday and almost done with the main book, I hope I will have enough time to start it this month. My question is how easy is it to cash out ones commission, can I leave the $ to accumulate for some time or I need to get a third party first before I even start earning.

you can always accumulate your dollar. feel free to keep in-touch whenever you have challenges.

Eazybay:
Hey, I can vouch 4 d op!! Step by step and online support! You should be on ur feet in no time.. Na real Jagaban, no kidding

thanks sister. you d best.

carik:
#500 for free traffic is no biggie but other things like squeeze page, domain and set up won't come free i believe.
I was at the purchase page when I thought of this.

i discussed about how to get everything for free except for the domain that will cost you 1usd. i also discussed about how to do all the setup your self or how to hire someone on fiverr to setup everything for you for 5 or 10usd. leaving the page will only do you more harm than good. it can surely be a blessing to your life!!!

carik:
Nicely done affiliate Jagaban. I have come across your posts about the affiliate business multiple times on the front page. As much as it looks appealing and worthy of a try. My reservations are targeted at the nitty gritty of the business. After getting your book, how much will be required to set up and stroll easily in this business. What will be the demands after getting the books .

the backbone of affiliate marketing is traffic. i discussed about how to start with free traffic and how to start with paid traffic. if you are starting with free traffic the startup cost is 1dollar. that is cost of a domain and if you are starting with paid traffic the startup cost is 100usd. my advice is to save from free traffic and invest in paid traffic.

[quote author=carik post=52530881][/quote]just keep calm and look for an easy way to come and meet you. their is no easy way to get value but some ways are much easier and pays more.

having questions about affiliate marketing? feel free to ask your questions.

feel free to ask all your affiliate marketing related questions.

zicoraads:
Free advice...I honestly do think your site has too many colors. I sincerely found it discomforting. What I want is a book and help on places where I can buy laptops and laptop accessories that are very good, but their prices are OK.

thanks very very much for the advice. my guide that will help you on that aspect is currently out of sale. thanks for all your suggestions. i will look through it.

Pascalville:
don't quote me if u have nothing to say....can't u see I was making fun...I am joking

please always joke in the right places