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Many relationships of today are short lived because singles do not have correct mindset about relationship. If a person’s mindset is wrong, no conditions will ever be favorable for a lasting relationship. Below are seven wrong mindsets that people have today.

1. There is a Mr. or Miss Right for everyone

Fact: There is nothing like Mr. Right or Miss Right. What we call the right person is simply the person with whom we feel we are compatible. The thought that there is a right person tends to make singles put the success of a relationship on the incoming partner. Anybody can be your Mr. Right if both of you will only work on being a Right partner.

2. Relationship is about love

Fact: Relationship is more than a feeling. It is a decision. Feelings are temporal. They can vanish at any point in time. At such times, it is the decision to love your partner regardless that counts. And that decision has to be reinforced each day.

3. Mindset: A perfect relationship does not have problems

Fact: If you are having problems with your relationship, then you should be happy that you both are being real and there is no pretense. This enables the two of you to work on accommodating your differences. If you always quit relationships because of problems, you will most likely opt for divorce in future.

4. You can start a relationship anytime you have the feeling

Fact: It is better you do not rush in to any relationship if you want something that would last. We use approximately 15 years of our lives in school to prepare us to earn income. We spend weeks and months preparing for competitions. Shouldn’t you take some time to prepare yourself for a relationship? A relationship is more than what you should jump in to.

5. Your potential partner should be able to satisfy your needs

Fact: Even though it is important that needs of both parties are met, if your desire is to primarily get someone to meet your needs, you are not ready for a relationship. The important question is, what value can you add to your partner? Relationships that last have the partners looking out first for each other rather than themselves. It’s called selflessness.

6. Expecting a relationship to lead to marriage

Fact: While it is a good aim that relationships should lead to marriage, it is not always so. Having that mindset will put unnecessary pressure on you during dating and make you do things out of desperation. And you know one thing about desperation? It never ends well. Hope your relationship lead to marriage but don’t try to force it. ladies i understand that menopause is knocking but force and desperation will not solve the problem. just allow the wify material in you to reflect and hope it leads to marriage.

7. Everybody is doing it.

Fact: A lot of singles have ventured in to relationships because everyone seemed to be doing it. They do so because they could not handle the pressure of being different. Hasty move in to a relationship will make you prone to speedy break up. . Do not let anyone rush you. If you are not ready yet, take your time. Life is not necessarily about who did it first but about who did it well.

creamylicious:
yes ooooo..... in the quest to make quick cash, i fell for the marketing schemes of some cryptocurrency peer to peer donation that said I'd earn big in 3 days.... now my low income hard earned money is gone with the wind because i do not know how to market their group abi na link

sis sorry you learn your lesson the hard way. the unfortunate part is that it will take many Nigerians a lot of money to learn their lesson. always look out for real internet business that have been around for ages not the new hit and run strategies that are circulating the internet today.

Oyind17:
Go sleep with your sweet mouth you no dey reply person

can you please quote your question? i am really sorry. i don't remember skipping your question.

setumnu:
please how do I begin. I really want to start making money online.

sorry for the late response. kindly refer to www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html you will find the whole details their.

efilefun:
So funny how investment section of this forum which was always filled with ideas is now littered with various ponzi schemes and get rich overnight threads

Nigerians will suffer in the coming years. the most unfortunate thing is that Nigerians have started creating ponzy schemes for Nigerians. i see darkness at the end of the tunnel

Nathan2016:
Op you too much.. The number 4 got me... Anyone that spends much time online... Trust me does not have anything to offer to you... Making money online is all about time.... You can be busy from morning to morning.... Before i used to enter Facebook... Linda.... Instagram... Etc... But now obio all those things na waste of time....

those are the exact places many Nigerians want to locate their mentors and be thought. i sorry for them. thanks for the complement

cooluc:
Thanks Importexpert.

Your post is inspiring!!! Kudos.

thanks very much bro.

69MissedCalls:
Import expert can I add u on WhatsApp? I need to discuss with you

just flash or call me. please do not add me on whatsapp.

feel free to ask all your affiliate marketing related questions

69MissedCalls:
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PiuniMan:
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Nairalanded:
Really?

space booker how work ?

Noblesoul123:
Watching

association of nairaland space bookers i dey hail

shapman:
I am currently suffering from information overload.

two major problems I am personally facing are fluctuating electricity and poor internet network.
there are loads of avenues to make money online but one needs those two elements seriously...

for information overload, get someone that is already having d result u wish to hv n follow him diligently as if u know nothing. for light issue do not allow it to be an obstacle. schedule with a biz center or any public place that uses gen a lot to use their light n pay them peanuts. for internet try different lines n stick to d best in ur area.

feel free to ask your affiliate marketing related questions.

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feel free to ask all your affiliate marketing marketing questions on this thread.

As the Nigerian economy worsen, Nigerians are desperately looking for alternative sources of income both offline and online. For the past few years, crypto currencies, Hyip (high yield investment programs), ponzy schemes etc have clouded the Nigerian online business atmosphere.
Such businesses glitters enough to lure newbies into believing that their dreams are becoming true. Newbies go into such businesses with the hope of being millionaires or even billionaires only to come out poorer than they use to be. In the pages of the richest man in Babylon, one of the best books on finance of all time, people are advised to look for reputable people that have succeeded in whatever field a person wants to venture into. The typical example the author cited was that if you are thinking of making millions from gambling, how many gamblers have you seen in your neighborhoods that have actually made millions from gambling?
If you look very well into most of those make money online schemes, they are either new with no real life millionaires or somebody is persuading you to join because of the commission he will get from you. Truly, if ponzy schemes, Hyip and crypto currency are the Nigerian approach of making money online, Nigerians will hardly make real money online.
Below Are 5 Reasons Why Nigerians May Never Make Money Online

1. Heavens On Earth Investment opportunities

These are very common in the Nigerian atmosphere. People provide Nigerians with what they want either it will help Nigerians or not. Nigerians prefer investment opportunities that you will invest N1000, sleep and wake up after 30days to meet 100k or 1m in your account. I assure you if that is how you are thinking of getting rich; your poverty is just starting.

2. Sharp Sharp Cash

There are no money trees on the internet, if there are, I assure you that you wouldn’t have met them or you will only meet peanuts. Before your arrival and before we discovered the real way to internet success, we left no stone unturned in the quest of legitimate sharp sharp riches online.

People usually go online with the dreams of making millions in a month, bro it is possible in a day but you have to start with your first dollar and grow up. In my first 2 years in affiliate marketing, I made only 3 sales. Cumulatively it was 60usd. Although just too small but I didn’t give up. The story changed after I paid for a course on affiliate marketing. Today if I show people how I am making over N100,000 thousand naira in affiliate marketing in some days, they just head to google to learn about making money with affiliate marketing. Diamonds are about 14km below the earth surface. You must invest to get real value. My 2years of searching google yielded only 60usd. So, please do not waste your time on google.

3. Indolence

Nigerians are adamantly lazy with few exceptions. If a typical Nigerian that is really suffering gets a guide that will help him earn hundreds or thousands of Naira or millions within few months, I assure you that he will use no time as an excuse for not reading such guide. If I can go for 8-5 slavery just to be paid 40k monthly why cant I sacrifice an hour of my Night or midnight to explore legitimate online opportunities that can earn me millions within short period of time? Example of such opportunities includes Affiliate marketing and freelancing.

4. Information overload

Nigerians are some of the smartest people on earth. Unfortunately, most Nigerian brains have abnormally developed. I will liken the development with that of a dwarf. Head develops bigger at the expense of the body. A typical average Nigerian thinks he is too wise to acquire online courses. That is an abnormal development of the thinking faculty at the expense of value. Such Nigerians ends up reading free unfiltered information on google and start suffering from information overload within a short time.

5. Social Media
Many Nigerians today are searching for online coaches on social media. If you happen to find one and both of you spend the whole day chatting, you will be glad you have arrived at gold. Bro your time wasting journey has just begun. If they are making real money online they do not have the time to chat with you for 30 minutes. Mark my words. The longest direct communication I have made with my online coach was not more than 2-3 minutes. All others were not more than just a minute inquiry over phone call or skype. Most online earners are also professional coaches that calculate their earnings by time. For example, I attend to clients on 1 on 1 basis for 25k on a 3hour affiliate marketing coaching, but some students will want to chat with you for 3 hours in the name of making inquiry about getting an affiliate marketing ebook of 3k. bro, anybody that have forever to spend with you on social media is only helping you waste time.

Conclusion
The online business world is filled up with a lot of oppourtunities but unfunately, Nigerians that want to explore such oppourtunities look in the wrong direction.

I Will Show Some Nairalanders How To Make Legitimate Income From Affiliate Marketing.
See www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html

carik:
Bro morning,, the guys on fiverr seem not to understand me...
What will be required from me to give the fiverr guys and what will be done on my part..... From blogger to aweber and a dot com.

Please elucidate
Thanks
This is the only way I can reach you

kindly register an aweber account, a blog on blogger, a domain on 1and1 or godaddy and contact the freelancers. tell them you want customization on your blogger blog to make it plane white, then they should create a squeeze page on it and link the .com domain. see a sample squeeze page below.

SirdimayG:
Is the girl deceiving herself or not?? With an excuse "m not going into any relationship for now"

in other words, she is just telling you that she is yet to see any relationship that is worth going into.

Rays123:
Jst transfer the 3K cos I visit the website and shows the offer is still available. I did send the SMS and hopefully I did come here to give a testimony. One love. Nothing in this world goes for free...Invest. Invest. Invest. on how you could earn money and smile to the bank. This 3k I sent to him is the last amount in my account.....Each day is a learning process....Life goes on...

The Life changing Affiliate Jagaban Pack have been sent to your mail. you have surely made a great sacrifice. a sacrifice is forfeiting something valuable for something more valuable in return. i assure you that you will surely love this bold step you have taking. your success is truly my pride.

carik:
Bro I'm a bit confused as to the squeeze page.
Will a fiverr freelancer set up the blogger and a weber for me at the same time

yes he can do all the setup for you depending on your arrangement.

carik:
Bro still awaiting the package. I did a bank transfer to you

have u seen it? i believe i hv sent it

Lastking147:
cool Aboki dey nice na
pekus lol i mean girl by that
its my hood slang

bro frankly i do not feel their presence on NL. i always feel as if am with family or guys but not in d midst of ladies that are worth my attention . although that doesnt mean i do not respect them 3much. my business schedules kept me awake. i will take my time to learn all ur slangs

Lastking147:
lool thanks for the advice
so. which pekus u dey eye
I sabi say na y u no wan sleep b DAT.

i am a typical aboki, your "pekus" slang is confusing .

Lastking147:
I'd turn Instagram
na to dey follow her oh lool
Trapqueen77 was jus passing by na

bro yes truly she might be just passing but i am 100% sure you do not want to take chances so keep a watch on Instagram, fb, twitter and NL. if you see her on a similar thread again just start arranging reconciliation before it will result to stories that touch the heart

Lastking147:
This very one no fit break atal
There's Super Glue in Town if anything happen
abi I lie Trap

bro just watch your steps because i assure you that once broken even the glue factory might not be able to help u

TrapQueen77:


Hahahhahahaah... Bebe LastKing.. Abeeeg, don't listen to him..

sisi you are beating him and you don't want him to cry. you threatened him by coming here and you do not want him to listen to me. if i am lastking147 in the next few days i will follow you bumper to bumper coz my question will be what exactly are you doing here ?

TrapQueen77:


LastKing147 is my official BEBE

I love him the way I love my SELF MADE MEN

sis am happy for you. @lastking147 you know they have a very fragile heart so hold it very well coz when broken fixing it becomes an uphill tax

Lastking147:
lool bad Mindset
she's Bae She be my Persona Pesin

Hahhhhh i thought you came to see if she is planning to get her ex back . @trapqueen77 such threads are a treat to your baby so you are not allowed here

Silentscreamer:
Why would i wanna go back to my ex? He's already a history to me.

sisi this your username has already confused us, so we are confuse if your heart is inline with what you are saying. the name should either be loudscreamer or silentlady . sisi from the look of things you are already missing him. just say it lets put the devil to shame