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nrexzy:
Should I laugh?

Lol you should.
Horrmorr the guy simply called the names of football players right?

I was screaming "thank you mods", "love you mods". 'Feels kind of stupid now

Wow!
'Would have doubted you but I have watched far more unbelievable transformation on Swan.

Pix not clear.

They are all looking like it's a normal thing for a lion to lunge at a baby. I ought to see terrified faces!?

multikolour:
dear believe me, saying it out on nairaland will not change peoples mind or orientation, if you read the OPs reply to peoples comments you will notice he open the thread just for trouble because of the way he attacks peoples reply, asking some one to Bleep of, bringing virgin Mary in to discussion etc.

And may I remind you their are girls and boys that are virgins but engage in all social vises, some girls have annal sex just because they want to deceive people in being a virgin.

My point is this, people choose to be virgins while others don't, a responsible lady will not tell her guy that she will not have sex because she is a virgin but she will tell him am not ready for sex and the guy may date her for four years without being knowledge of her virginity, because some guys will hunt and do anything just to deflower a lady.

be wise not every body you see is sane but some people are animals and devil incanet

Okay, I get your point totally.
Just don't forget that there are virgins who donot do anal sex or whatever other social vices you can think of. And these type of virgins, that I am talking about, actually do form the larger percentage of virgins.

Tallesty1:
@Op. I saw the other thread from one attention seeking b!tch and Ignored it because she's not worth the time it will take to reply her.

Any lady who's still a virgin in the real sense of it is an invaluable treasure.

1. She has absolute self control.

2. She's @least 80 free from STIs.

3. She's pure.

4. She has not joined her body with any man which means there's no ex to pop up from somewhere and spoil your marriage.
We all know that the first man is difficult to forget.

4. She's intelligent and thoughtful and that is why she saved it for that one person. If Am that person I will hold her close my heart because she saved her body for me even before knowing me. It shows that I mean the world to her.

5. It shows that she can be trusted during hard times and temptations because she endured when she doesn't know whom she's enduring for.

The list is endless but lemme stop here.

No virgins make great wives and husbands but they have Zero mental purity. Always fantasizing and comparing with one ex or the other.

The attacks on virgins by non virgins shows that we non virgins are not happy the way we are and we are insecure.

Thank you.
Speaking out is not for yourself but for future generations to come who may wonder and google "is virginity outdated?". They will see your reply and be encouraged to do what is right *I hope*

multikolour:
I am not going to tell you if am a virgin or not, because telling people about it will not add or reduce anything to me or my audience.

You need to reveal your status sometimes. Until these virgins started opening up on Nairaland, some Nairalanders made it feel like it's a curse or lack of some opportunity.
Virgins are the heroes here please.

*For everyone who lost it against their wish, God will comfort you, just don't sink.*

multikolour:
if you are responsible as you claim to be, you will not tell the world you are virgin rather, allow your spouse to be find out.

Why shouldnt he tell the world?
Other virgins need to know they are not alone, do you think the present world sysem is kind on virgins?
You shout them down and hail guys who "chop and clean mouth."

Beamborla true they may get depressed but they may also not. Virgins are not receiving encouragement from anywhere.The world shout them down and clap for the morally loose. Virgins should always speak up so that other virgins can know that they are not alone neither is virginity outdated. Kids stumble on these threads!

hustler anthem: incriz my luv

Hello..*waves*

@PureOhio Mwah!

Nice.

thegoodjoehunt: Wow, you really put your heart and time into this.
..your points made it clearer.
Your cool girl and I know hanging out with you will be 100% fun.
Thanks again.

Thanks..

hustler anthem: ..wats ur name?

My name's Incrizz..

bunmixtra: Skin toning means a thorough cleansing of the pores of the skin. This helps to rejuvenate the skin with more oily pattern. By toning naturally with Apple, apricot toners and intake of veg juices, the skin looks rich and healthy. Age too is a factor that requires toning for avoiding age marks and feeling the young effect and positive aura.

I love this definition of yours and wish toning will stay so BUT the bleaching toning creams on ground would not allow the truth in your definition shine.

lacreamilips: I remember those days in lag, wen yoruba gals were using TOPGEL tube cream to bleach dere skin but wen u ask dem RISIKATU sho bleach ni n dey wuld say noo mo tone ni

What d'ya think..the word "tone" is classier..lol

ejim blessing: You are all wrong!!!!! Toning simply means using products that make the skin tighter and firmer and less flaccid or saggy (eg: when you tone your arms/muscles/stomach, u make them stronger)whereas bleaching is turning your black/brown/chocolate skin to something that looks like roasted chicken!

Lol..roasted chicken huh?

Okay, so, I have a question then:

Why is it that when people stop using the toning cream, they get darker than they originally were?

If it is not same thing and if it is true that toning cream evens up skin tone, why does the face get BLACKER than the thigh after the toning cream gets finished and there's not enough money anymore to buy another one?
How come the work done by the toning cream is not permanent (if it's really true that it evens out complexion) and yields the same result a bleaching cream would, when usage of bleaching cream is discontinued??

Toning uses the PROCESS of "bleaching" to even out complexion.
Toning is mild bleaching.
Just the same way you can have a mild, medium and deep skin-peel.

Arlex: Nice to hear this from you.

lol..okay.

hustler anthem: hmm baby.i never knew u were a dating coach too..

lol..I am not at all..I just felt like talking writing

[quote author=lord_falcao]taaaa. guys don't ever take a gals word serious this gals will tell you A but. will want. you to do B last word: a gal that will leave you will leave you with or whtout sex[/quote]Oh well..

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Eeja Nla01: Incrizz I appreciate you,and really enjoyed your contributions,we don't mind if u can also drop some hints/points that turns you(ladies) on and off like d1 u posted earlier on visiting a guys house........you are our lady o pls don't go


My own prob is,I'm a kind of guy that has been perceived to be to be rich even though I'm not there yet,so I want to avoid being later dumped or. Changing their lovey attitude towards me when dey get to know I'm average....still an underG


Oga ted I also hail o!

*clears throat* This is the kind of thing I like, lol, so with permission from OP, I shall speak.

You see we the ladies have suffered too much in the hands of some of you guys. I am not talking about bad stuff and heartbreak and all what not; but about romance.

All we want is romance (from the guy we like)

And romance is so easy to achieve with a lady.

All you need is:

i Rapport (finally understood it form teddy's explanation)
ii Patience
iii WORDS

The third is the most powerful and easiest way to get to a girls heart. (Mind you not anyhow words duh)

Rapport:Like I said, I understood this after OP explained it. I do feel it sometimes but didn't know what is was or, put a name to it. This is the most important stage to winning a girl's heart.

(If you read page 1-25 of this thread, you will understand what rapport is.)

I will have to give an example to explain.

No guy on a normal day could have tried this with me, and get away with it (a prim and proper lady like me)

But he could, because he had taken the time to develop a rapport.

And like someone one mentioned earlier on this thread, it is very important not to just develop a rapport with a girl, but to also chip in from time to time that you wanna love her, or want her in your life or that you like her or whatever.. so she doesn't friendzone you in the rapport stage.

I once went to visit a friend at home.
My bladder was so full but I was not at all ready to use the ladies.

From time to time, I would wince in pain.
He would ask me what's up.
I would reply, "my bladder is full."
He would then say, "go and ease yourself" and
I would reply, "no." Lol.
This circle continued till about the third time.
As he asked what,
and I was replying, "My bladder is.."
I, suddenly, felt someone yanking me off the bed!
Pushing me into the bathroom!!
And, locking the bathroom door!!!
I was still trying to understand what was going on when I heard a voice demanding, "ARE you done??!!!"
All I could do was burst into laughter.
And I gave him full 10points in my heart
*That yanking off the bed help "opened my eyes", this guy's got strength!

So I think I can say that you can do almost anything you want with a girl, if you've got rapport with her

Patience:This is what I would like to call the key.

And by patience, I do not mean waiting till forever to speak to the girl so much so that, even when she's giving you enough green light, you still won't act up. Nah.

Even when guys are lined up behind her, "patience" is not waiting till the queue clears up.

Look at it this way:

You invite a girl you are feeling and, who you think is feeling you over to your house.

Do you know what goes on in our mind..?

First of all, know this, she was won over and has agreed to come to your house because so far, you have behaved yourself. Yes.
(As per you have not made any unacceptable overtures to her.)
So, she feels safe and she comes.

Now, the moment we are in your house, and there's even no body else at home, our guards go up! We become alert.
All this happens subconsciously.
But because you haven't misbehaved before, we try to relax, and laugh and chat along.

You are going to score huge points at this stage with your gurl, if you don't make any sex-ual attempts at her.
Do you know why?
Because that's what every other guy does.
They always make overtures when we go to their house. And, force us to try do stuff.
You acting different, would further break down her walls and cause her to relax and develop more feelings for you.

Now imagine doing this a third, fourth and fifth time of inviting her over to your house!!
Do you know what will happen..?

I'll tell you: she herself will pounce on you

If you play this patience game well enough, you begin to hear stuff like,
"You don't even hug me, why?"
"You don't even touch me, why?"
She would be the one leaving her chair to come squeeze herself in yours

Signaling that she's ready.
Erm..don't just wait for her to make this move duh.
Read her. Study her. Try to know your babe..not just for sex signals
If you think she's ready for a tight hug, you could open your arm to her.
If the rapport is strong enough, she'd walk into it.
Forget kissing.
Just concentrate on giving her a 5minutes hug.
That means a whole lot more to us.

That's is when you should begin to test what she is ready for: a hug? A kiss? A Smooch?
But never sex outright, okay. She may allow you have your way, but she would dislike you. And move on to the next guy she feels has enough love for her when she gets the next opportunity.

Sex never makes a lady yours. For a while she might be by your side because she is emotionally bound to you but it may wear off with time. If she's ready and your ready, then it's beautiful.
Work hard for your love.

It is very important to continue to pour out your heart to her and toast her even when your are trying your best not to touch.
And do you think we don't notice? We do. We know guys who respect us. And we score them or open the door of our heart further to them.

Mind you guys, I am not talking about a one night stand, or a fling. I am talking about that special gurl you feel you want to develop something real with.


Words:
Words are to a woman what seeing is to a man.

You know the way sight moves you concerning a woman?
That's the way words move us concerning a man.

That is what most players have. Words.

You are not a player.
Agreed.
But you got to use words to rap your gurl up.
I am talking about that gurl who is already feeling your swag.

BUT, that does not mean that every guys' words would move us.
( Just the way you are not pleased by the sight of every woman.)

It's very important you woo us. Woo as in toast.

And what do I mean by Woo/Words/toast ?

The most potent WORDS are how you feel.

For example;
If a gurl you've never talked to walks towards you,
and the first thing that caught your attention about her is her yellow hair band

saying what you are feeling at that point in time would score you huge points.

If you liked it that it made her look like a Chinese, saying something like,

"hello, I love your hair band it makes you look like a beautiful chinese" as she walks by without bothering to stop her, would score you points if you hope to chat her up some other time.

Because that's how you feel, she would feel it too.

We feel what you feel, when you say it in words.

And, we don't like it at all when you stand and beckon us to come to you.
It makes us feel like you don't have any regard for us, like we are not respectable persons.

But when you run up to us or walk up to us or walk with us at our pace, we notice and like you more.

There is a difference between getting a gurl to love you and getting her to fall in love with you.

Wooing is that difference
Wooing means telling a gurl how you truly feel.

You got to woo her with your feelings..with how you truly feel, even if it awkward.

Don't say, "I like you" when it's not like but lust that you feel.

A guy who has developed some rapport with me would score more points with me if he says,

"babes I desire you"
If that's what he is feeling (because I would feel it too), than just saying I like you.
But, I still won't go to bed with you just because I know you desire me and I am now dating you!!
(She got to be ready before you make that "sex-ual move"


But if I am not feeling that energy from you and you've got only an imaginary rapport with me in your head and you tell me you desire me, you are done for. Lol.

Words of how you truly feel to a lady, will connect you faster with a lady you have developed rapport with.

Just take things nice and really slow.






*I just have to add this comment for posterity sake.

How can you love a woman and not spend your money on her?
You must be joking o

Even guys, who are wealthy but pretended to be poor as their own way of finding the right one, gave to the women they professed love to.
They only just didn't give as much as they would have given if in their real identity.

You can't pay her tfare when she comes to SEE YOU. You go dutch, can't pick the bills when you go on a date, and you don't want her to leave you when someone else comes and treats her right??

It's not about loving money. It's the way we are wired. We are wired to be provided for.

Now whether she is working or earning a salary, or not is not the issue here.
When you love someone, you give.

And unfortunately for some guys. All we ladies know this.

"For God so loved the world that He gave.."

Thenk.

sirchris4u: After everything that went on that Sunday she finally agreed to be my babe

I am so happy for you..

Heyliesha: fu*kup i cant use does lines for u na........u go sabi all ma strategics.

Well, I feel this can be compared to a game of football. Everyone's taught the tactics by the coach, buh, skills or mastery takes you there. Keep dribbling like Messi or is it Okocha, and the goal is yours to score

Arlex: aiit, so wot are u here for?
I guess to prepare a counter attack for any guy dat tries to woo u,huh?

I guess because there's a lot of "feeling" in here everyone's talking from the heart how they feel about their girl..I am a sucker for such kind of things.
OP's tips are counter-attack proof.

thegoodjoehunt: Stay abeg, you bring a different feel to the thread

*Smiling hard* Wonderful is the best word to describe how I feel right now..

Arlex: spy, so u ve come to spy us right?

I don't spy..

I like it when a man is totally manly. Heels? A thumbs down for me.

They are one of my best kept secret lol..

Nairalane: No diff. Both leads to hell.

??

No difference whatsoever.

I always thought more than half of what he said was rubbish. I guess not..