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Family / The Imposter Is Not My Ex Please by Ineedtoheal(f): 10:28am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Hi people, After the thread I created last time, a lot of comments came in, some were encouraging, some called me unprintable names while others claimed I was a troll. I was deeply hurt that I decided to stay away from Nairaland and social media entirely only for me to log in today and see how much attention my post has gotten, a lot of dms and the worst of it all a jobless imposter named profDview1 who claimed to be my ex...wow! https://www.nairaland.com/5724496/like-said-she-lying-not Please I would like to state clearly that I am not a troll neither is that guy my ex. My ex maybe on Nairaland but definitely not that dude. I have never, I repeat, never hit him before in my life. I have never slept with any of his friends before. The guy I know will never forgive you if he smells any aroma of cheating around you. The guys post made me laugh all through coz the one I dated knows I don't chat with people I do not know online. He has my password so how then am I flirting online? The funniest part was the claim that he forces me to take contraceptives lol. Imagine him stating clearly he doesn't want me and I still stayed. Same guy that has been begging that I should stick with him. He said he gave me money to start my business...biggest joke ever. Dear imposter, kindly answer these questions to verify your claim 1. Where did we meet 2. Which school did I study and what course 3. Where do you teach, the department and your position 4. What date did you bury your father 5. How many hostels did I live in during my undergraduate days. 6. What's the nature of my business 7. When last did we meet and where 8. What's your favorite club name 7. What gift did I buy for you on your last birthday and what gift did you buy on mine 8. What's the name of our favorite spot 9. What channel do I love watching most and which do we like watching together 10. And lastly, how many sisters do you have. The poster is making it look like a script but God in heaven knows that everything I said in the first thread and this one is nothing but the truth. I wonder why people play with everything. He didn't state anything outside what I wrote in my first thread. If truly he's the guy, he would have at least given a little detail or say something else differnt from " I told her I am not ready for marriage". Some people should fear God o. Lastly I want to appreciate everyone who contributed on my first thread, I took some of the advice and I am doing better though it's not that easy but I know time is the greatest healer. Thank you all. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 3:43pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
GboyegaD:And some of you be acting so uncultured online hmm. Imagine this is offline and a lady tells her story and another lady who doesn't know her just walks in and start calling her names, what would you do. The problem is some of you act like your life is perfect online while offline you have issues making you gnash your teeth daily. What you type online is who you are in real life. And mind you, relationship issues doesn't make my life a mess. you are probably going through worse. 14 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 3:23pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
GboyegaD:Including calling someone she doesn't know a mumu? name calling isn't the right way... never! And someone is here supporting it... nawaa oo. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 3:16pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
healthserve:I never misplaced them in the first place ok. Anyways enough of the mention. I won't reply your mention again. I don't think you are any different from the lover of mine. |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 3:09pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
healthserve:Don't cry... you don't need to cry. |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 3:07pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
healthserve:I created a thread and you decided to show the whole world your true colours. Can't you be civilized? You can make a point while being civil too you know. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 3:02pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
healthserve:Audio fantastic lol. next time drink plenty water it helps a lot. Gracias! 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 2:34pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
healthserve:I don't talk to people with anger issues. You that threatened to beat me. In the midst of all these, I am still calm yet you are boiling like hot water. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 2:32pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
healthserve:And you think this made sense? Common sense indeed is not common. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 2:26pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:Everyone has a weakness, some even have more than one. including you that claims to be smart. The fact that I am weak in one area doesn't make me dumb. I know I will break free from it so the fact I tried to fight for love doesn't make me foolish. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 2:19pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:And you are smart? You don't go about insulting people in the name of being smart. it doesn't tell good of you. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 12:44pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
centboy123456:The indirect and direct insult and pressure your society gives, does the whites give it to their children? You people want to change everything overnight when you have not changed the African mentality. As if you are different from other Nigerians. What you men sometimes don't do is defining your relationship. State your intentions and don't go about deceiving people. 22 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 12:12pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
EliteDude:You are wrong, I feel great. |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 12:01pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
EliteDude:Ina akogheli nno 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:52am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Acidosis:pray for me in your closet. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:46am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Acidosis:My own case is totally different. My upbringing, people around me are great! All my sisters married good men and they are still married. I am the last and they are all surprised why I am still single till now. My problem has always been taking that bold step. Another thing is, when I love and haven't wrap things up, I can't love another person. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:37am On Mar 06, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:Funny enough I am not close to ugly. I am beautiful and light skinned.I can't post my picture here lol. My skin colour alone attracts people to me. My supervisors where I did my IT still calls me till date. both married and single. A lot of guys don't talk to me again coz I have cancelled numerous appointments with them. I look younger than my age even. I am independent and come from a good background. Not like I can't get another man but then I don't have feelings for them. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:24am On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:Again, what other strategies are you talking about |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:22am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Acidosis:Not like he's that hot. I have been the one helping him to stay fit if not his stomach would have been so big by now. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:20am On Mar 06, 2020 |
pocohantas:I know coz I have a man that all these years I have been dating this guy, has not given up. He says one day I will come to my senses and come to him. I even get tired of his complaints and calls. He came for my sister's burial even without me inviting him. he only saw the poster on my facebook wall. he dropped everyone that came from my village that day in town, took my mom home. he's ever ready to do anything for me. he's 31 now, a senior colleague when I was in year 1. the thing is I don't love him. maybe my problem is spiritual coz I tend to love the wrong people. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:13am On Mar 06, 2020 |
GraGra247:No he's not the juju type. regardless what he did to me, I can't speak ill of him. but then I rule the prayer part out. I will give it a try this time. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:11am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Acidosis: I'm tired of fighting. I have tried my best. |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 11:10am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:Lol this your comment made me laugh but then I get it all. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 10:14am On Mar 06, 2020 |
GraGra247:It has nothing to do with him being successful. I have other people more successful and ready to spend on me that I refused and haven't said yes to. I don't know what it is about him. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 10:12am On Mar 06, 2020 |
faithugo64:Maybe I forgot to add this, he said its a spiritual thing. That it didn't start with me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 10:10am On Mar 06, 2020 |
BLEMOSEDU:No one says it must lead to marriage oga. why keep what you don't need? If You really don't see yourself in few years time with someone, why waste their time? did you really read all I wrote? coz if you did, you wouldn't have make this comment. I have begged him on several occasions to end things with me if he knows we don't have a future together but he refused. Mind you, it's not just a Nigerian thing. you guys are so quick in calling Nigerian girls out. 95 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 9:56am On Mar 06, 2020 |
eduman365:I will try harder this time. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 9:55am On Mar 06, 2020 |
sisisioge:Thanks sis. I'm praying for the will power to do that. it's as if I am powerless when it comes to him. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 9:54am On Mar 06, 2020 |
thorpido:He's not my friend on social media except WhatsApp that we chat once in a while. Wait till evening and you see his texts and calls pouring in. I have blocked him on severally but once I forgive him, I will unblock him again. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 9:49am On Mar 06, 2020 |
LordIsaac:Pray not to be in my shoes someday coz even common sense will fail you. 67 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 9:49am On Mar 06, 2020 |
hopeforcharles:I wish he will let me be and not try sweet talking me into opening my heart to him again. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by Ineedtoheal(f): 9:47am On Mar 06, 2020 |
dawnomike:Thanks so much I will have to try this time. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
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