Thess are mediocres who doesn't want to obay the laws and ordinances of kingdom. They complain about virtually everything that demands rules and obedience before they have access to the benefit of the kingdom, either of the darkness or of Christ.
Who is the fool that's making that comparison? Why should it even be conceived? This generation should be careful so that they can live long. What audacity? Fela is in the Micheal Jackson category. It will take 1000s of generations before we can have a resemblance of these men and women. Imagine!
Cherryediva: Hello everyone, sorry for the long post I got married at 22, my husband was 40 at the time. We have been married for 5 years and we have a child together.
My concern is that my husband is not able to satisfy me sexually at all, which is frustrating, I have talked to him about it nothing seems to change. Financially, he is struggling, partly because he gambles a lot. He also drinks alcohol heavily.
I work too but he doesn't want me to have my own money he is always collecting money from me. He doesn’t have clear goals, ambition, or a vision for the future, and this makes me feel stagnant in the marriage.
He is a good man in terms of character. He doesn’t cheat, he doesn’t abuse me at all, and he treats me well overall.
I’m confused because while he is good to me, I feel stuck and unfulfilled. I would really appreciate advice from y'all who have been in similar situations or who can offer honest guidance. Thank you.
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You didn't see all these before you got married to him? You don't enter marriage and begin to complain about your spouse. Just go down on your knees and pray for him and bear that cross until something change in him. And note all the those activities and conditions your hubby is also contribute to his performance.
Wxstudio: I’m about to start driving lessons and I’m unsure whether to learn manual or automatic. For those who started with manual, was it hard at first? How long did it take you to finally get hold used to it? Do you think it gave you an advantage later, or would you advise a beginner to start with automatic instead?
No need to ask, just wait until life demands for that skill.
Jerkbaba: Every morning, you see everybody running up and down like mad monkeys just to get one paper with a design on it. After all that work, you buy this and that and pamm, all the money is gone! It's crazy!
You repeat the same cycle till you're old and die. You carry nothing with you! All the things you worked soo hard to acquire, you carry nothing!
Hmmmmm What a stupid useless life!
The wisest man on earth called it vanity. The very reason I don't have worries. But I got a little secret that gives life a meaning, locate Jesus Christ. I did not say become a a Christian but locate Jesus Christ and thank me later.
Glimpsetv: A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her frustration after none of her friends bought her Asobi, just two weeks before her wedding. According to her, despite all her friends being part of the Asobi WhatsApp group since October, not a single one has purchased her Asobi. She shared, "Guys, see how wicked some people can be! My marriage is just a few weeks away, but these girls, none of them bought this Asobi. They’ve been in that WhatsApp group since October, and I even did Asobi for one of them!"
She revealed that almost 29 friends were involved, yet none have stepped up, leaving her feeling that her money has gone to waste. The post has sparked various reactions online, with some suggesting that perhaps the Asobi is too expensive, which might explain why none of her friends have bought it yet.
Hamachi: Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?
Don't marry physical beauty it will tire you. That's if you want to marry. Pursue your destiny goals with all of your might and strength and achieve them. Have a good financial knowledge and how to invest well before you hit 40.
seunmsg: I saw this very interesting question on Twitter.
“ So after burning us in hell what will God actually gain?”
What do you think?
I think the right question would be, what is my gains if I go to hell? Because you must understand responsibilities of choices. Nobody, not even God is sending you to hell. You do.
madridguy: The designer of the poster must be sacked and jailed.
What do you mean? Graphic designers work under instructions and materials sent to them and the brief the client present. Beside that, the client will vet every draft design, vet it before approval.
So, what do you mean by sack the designer? Please understand something before you air your views.
The Vice President, Kashim Shettima, has arrived in Kebbi State to meet with the state government officials and families of schoolgirls abducted from Government Girls Secondary School, Maga.
The aircraft carrying Shettima landed at the Sir Ahmadu Bello International Airport in Birnin Kebbi.
Shettima was accompanied by Director General of the National Emergency Management Agency, NEMA, Zubaida Umar, and other government officials.
Demetrix: Goodevening everyone My laptop's WiFi is turned off automatically, I tried to turn it on but to no avail—kept on showing network configuration stuff Below is what it keeps showing me
Check the system, it could be you have turned off the wireless button mistakenly. Some systems come with external button controller for wireless.
Vikto17: Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...
My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger... we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want... please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks
Hmmm, be calming down oo. Now you have the chance to choose younger person. Marriage is not for boys and girls o. Take the looks the way it is and shot your mouth and eyes from it forever or turn back.
natedensel: My mum died not long ago, and my dad has a hand in her demise because her marriage was a turbulent one and she died of HBP, now shortly after she died, my dad came along with one woman who is very bold and shameless, first off she already has children from another fling not marriage, and now she comes and sleeps over, infact she's not discreet about it she's bold, brazen and doesn't feel ashamed of what she's doing.
Recently she has gotten more relaxed , she used to mind her business, she comes and do her thing and leaves, now she overstays, and she's now meddling in our family affairs, trying to mom me and my siblings now, then turning our dad away from us, now my dad sponsors her and her child from another relationship but neglects us like he did our mom.
I could easily make life miserable for her but I am not interested because I'm moving out as soon as possible, but what about my siblings, she has taken over everything and now she's my father's voice.
Don't engage in what you didn't start. Wisdom is profitable for living. If you can move out and lift no finger to fight. Your siblings are not your sole responsibility, you did not bring them to the world. So do your best and leave the rest. Dey your dey and let your dad and his new found love dey their dey.
DrMB: Discover the top-performing governors of 2025 as recognized by Nairametrics! From Lagos to Kano, see who made the list in this exciting award announcement. Who will be crowned the best-performing governor based on this impressive lineup?
Where is the Ekiti Governor in the list? Remove all other governors and let it be just Abia gov and Ekiti.
breadtoaster: Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?
I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.
My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.
So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.
Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.
Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics? How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?
Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.
For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.
We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.
He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.
At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.
After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.
I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.
It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.
He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.
I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.
I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.
I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.
Instead of complaining, start dropping those vibes that are in your head because is like your single life is still getting hold of you. Awake to your marriage life. You need to move form lady to wife and from wife to a mother. Don't act as a girl or a lady in marriage, you won't survive it. Drop your boy friends and all those single friends of yours, you must reduce your contact with them because I see that they won't help this your condition. Wake up!
CommentatorPro: Nigeria is a country blessed with talent, resources, and resilience — yet it continues to struggle under the weight of bad leadership, corruption, and poor governance. From unreliable electricity to the rising cost of living, it sometimes feels like every sector is crying out for help.
Now imagine this: you suddenly become the President of Nigeria — but only for one week. You have full control to make key decisions, sign executive orders, and implement reforms. No bureaucracy, no political godfathers — just seven days to make a difference.
What would you fix first?
Would you focus on the economy, to bring down the price of food and fuel? Would you tackle security, ensuring that citizens can travel freely without fear of bandits or kidnappers? Or maybe you’d go straight to education, reviving schools, paying teachers well, and making universities work again?
Some Nigerians say they would start by cutting government salaries and reducing the cost of governance. Others believe the first step should be arresting corrupt politicians and recovering looted funds. A few even argue that constitutional reform is the only real solution to Nigeria’s endless cycle of problems.
Whatever your opinion, one thing is clear — most Nigerians know exactly what they want fixed; they just haven’t had the power to do it.
So, let’s hear from you If you had just one week as Nigeria’s President, with total authority to act, what’s the first thing you’d change and why?
Let there be light. That's all I can do in a day as a president.
Onetechnews: For many of us, bread is not just food. It’s comfort, it’s joy, it’s memory. Think about that first aroma of freshly baked agege bread in the morning; soft, warm, with steam still rising when you break it. Or the way you pair it with beans, butter, or even a bottle of cold Coke. Bread in Nigeria is not just a meal, it’s an experience. It fills the stomach, but more than that, it fills the heart.
But here’s the part we don’t like to talk about: that same bread, those same wheat snacks we crave every day, puff-puff, meat pie, doughnuts, might be the reason some people are constantly in pain without even knowing why.
This is where gluten allergy comes in.
What Exactly is Gluten?
Gluten is a protein found in wheat, barley, and rye. It’s what gives bread its stretch and softness. That chewy feel in meat pie crust or that fluffy pull of agege bread? That’s gluten at work. For many, it’s harmless. But for others, their body treats gluten like an enemy.
When someone with a gluten allergy or intolerance eats food with gluten, their system reacts badly. It’s like their body is saying, “This thing you’re eating is not good for me,” and it fights back.
Signs Your Body May Not Like Gluten
The painful part is, most people keep on eating bread and snacks without realizing their body is giving them warning signs. If you’ve ever noticed these after eating bread or wheat foods, it might not be “ordinary stomach trouble”:
Frequent bloating: that uncomfortable swelling that makes you loosen your belt.
Stomach pain or cramps after eating bread or snacks.
Unexplained tiredness, even when you’ve had enough rest.
Skin rashes or itching that come and go.
Constant headaches you can’t explain.
Diarrhea or constipation that seems to happen regularly.
These are your body’s way of waving a red flag.
The Emotional Battle of Giving Up Wheat
Let’s be honest, it’s not easy. Imagine someone telling you to stop eating bread. For many Nigerians, that’s like taking away a small part of daily joy. It’s not just food — it’s the smell that reminds you of mornings in Lagos, the taste that brings comfort after a stressful day.
But if your health is paying the price, it becomes a tough choice: continue enjoying bread for a few minutes or protect your body for a lifetime.
What You Can Do If You Suspect Gluten Allergy
Pay attention to your body: If you always feel sick after eating bread or wheat-based food, don’t ignore it.
See a doctor: Get tested. Sometimes it’s not just “indigestion,” it could be celiac disease (a severe form of gluten allergy).
Try alternatives: Today, there are gluten-free flours like rice flour, cassava flour, and even oat flour. You can still enjoy snacks, but with healthier options.
Food is joy, but health is peace. Bread will always hold a special place in our hearts, but for some people, it may come at too high a cost. If your body keeps crying out after every bite, maybe it’s time to listen.
At the end of the day, no meal should steal your peace or make you live in constant pain. Protect your health, because that’s the true comfort you deserve. A question for you can you stop eating because you have allergy to it?
I have not eaten bread since the beginning of this year and will never eat it again until I see the real bread and not this poison we called bread in Nigeria.
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