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Phoenix990:
Wil You Spin This If Giving Opportunity

You mean at a ratio of 6:1, you will not spin the board? If you say NO, check, you may never be rich. you haven't understood life? Especially in Nigeria, every day present you with a slimmer option than what that board is offering and yet, you take it anyways. That board is more of a test of MINDSET than opportunity.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

Keep coping.

officialmario:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm writing this with heart full of sorrow because my life is really messed up.
For the past two years I have been taking hard drugs like tramadol and emzor.

I have lost my memory because of drugs, most times I forget things easily and it's really affecting my life, because I have lost a lot of things during the period of taking drugs..

The most painful part of it is that one of our female colleagues saw sachet of tramadol in my drawer and told my boss which he later fired me even after begging him.

Whenever I want to stop taking drugs I always feel tired, bored and sad if I don't take it.
Most times I always sell my things to buy drugs.
If I haven't consume 5 doze in a day I won't feel okay and I'm always angry with my family each time i don't take it.

Please I need your advice and opinion on how I can stop taking hard drugs,
Please I want anyone that has been in this position before to enlighten me on how to stop taking drugs..

Insults and abuse are welcome.
Please help me push to FrontPage for people to share their opinion with me
Thanks

Officialmario

You really think you can just wake up and stop habit that has been there for a long time? Do you think you are in charge of the habit? If you were in charge, now that you want to stop, why can't you stop it? Why are you struggling to let go what is killing you?

Wake up from your sleep sir. There is a power behind the habit and the power want to destroy your life. If you like believe it, if you like don't believe it. The demon in charge of that appetite won't let go easily because he will be queried by his master and he does not want to be queried. Moreover, it will be hard for the demon to find another body to occupy.

So what is the solution? Look for another stronger spirit and I will recommend the Holy Spirit to occupy that space. Surrender your life to Jesus Christ and invite Him in to your life. Do this and watch how things will turn. Unfortunately there is no way apart from this way. So if you want to get your control back, accept the Holy Spirit. QED!!!,

ItsTutsi:
I’m suffering from erectile dysfunction for about 2 months now, I was very active sexually, all of a sudden this early November, I lost all appetite for sex and can’t get an erection

This has made me very depressed and anxiety has made me lose interest in everything, weak and sluggish. I cant concentrate on anything

what could be the reason pls?

Worries, stress, what you consume, how you sleep, etc. Check on these things and balance your life.

kettykings:
The deductions are far more than the net pay . Why is this so.
I hope this is not what FIRS is planning for Nigeria

Go and study money rules and money games in these countries, you will know why you should maintain single job because more jobs takes more money from your pocket.

purples25:
Did he survive?

It's was a miracle, because it was someone who sneak in to our house to take water from the fridge heard a continuous banging coming from the bed side decided to check what that was. Lo and behold, it was my brother, full of sweet and choked almost to death. We received our portion of good koboko that day from our mum. Our dad was away. That's what saved the innocent and adventurous man.

We locked our brother in a book full of clothes and pushed it under the bed while playing hide and seek. This was his request. But we forgot him there and went to play outside.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

I don't understand, are you seeking for advice on what to do?

UncleAyo:
"JESUS CHRIST IS NOT GOD"

She wrote: "I don't like to get into religious conversations but I found it very wield that Lekki Cental Mosque has this in front of their gate"

If you want to know important you are check how much of free public ads you have. Someone paid a graphic artist, paid the printer and paid the one who will help him hang or took his/her time to post someone's success in a bid to make a point that really does not affect the person negatively, rather promote HIM. Imagine those who did not know about Jesus having this right in front of their eyes daily. My prayer point: O LORD make me so important that even my enemies will spend their resources to promote me in JESUS name. AMEN!!!!

dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/ghanaian-politicians-rarely-change-party-every-general-election-inec-chair/#google_vignette

This guy is still in INEC?

Yes. Anything that will make states to work is fine by me

I read, and I quote "People who are working in this INDUSTRY". Please I need more light on this industry product and what are their raw materials?

What do you expect

Tomorrow and we hear it this evening

OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmm, which kind nonsense reporting be dis, no location, just Lagos Ibadan Expwy, the writer needs to go back to school.
Btw, RIP to the lost souls

Quacks everywhere. Imagine such a reportage.

fergie001:
Rufai Oseni

Me, I will vote him, when I was shouting obedient they said I was IPOB. Now I am enjoying myself.

Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.

You can't forget. It's your responsibility to make sure that when the thought comes to your mind, you expel it. Remember parents are like vehicles that transport people to their destinations, but when you get down from the vehicle, you find your way home. According to your story, she wasn't a good driver but now you have options to drive, do the driving and you will surely get to where you were meant to be.

Bitterness is a seed of backwardness. It keeps you in the past when there are so many goodies in the future and today. Make Jesus your partner and let the Holy Spirit guide you. Love your mum even though she doesn't deserve it. Remember, you can only be different if you do the opposite of what she did.

Keep reading your Bible if you are a Christian and obey its instructions. Be blessed.

Racoon:
https://businessday.ng/news/article/nigeria-to-widen-tax-net-over-revenue-shortfall/

If all the current collected taxes go to the government, they won't need to borrow from anywhere or have concern of revenue shortfall which is the newest scam English in Nigeria by the government.

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

First, I want you to know that we all have our struggles. For me, you can't stop it on your own and the reason being that a force stronger than you is behind your ordeal. However, there is hope in Jesus. So first step, invite Him into your life and surrender all to Him.

2. After this, you will still struggle with the issue but don't worry about it. Just start to short down every window that's fueling the lust in your heart by making a conscious and intentional effort to daily do away with watching porn movies, etc.

3. Start reading your Bible every day. Just read and listen to message of God. Note you may still be falling into the sin but don't worry. Keep feeding yourself with the word of God daily.

4. Start to develop an attitude of prayer. Don't mimic any prayer points, just flow the way it is in your thoughts. God does not care about your fluent speech, but a broken spirit.

5. Look for a gathering of saints, spirit filled and not religious gathering Church and devote your time there. If you do all these, I can bet you with no time you will become a brand new creation. A point of note here is that you must not give up on these activities mentioned above no matter how often you keep falling back into your struggle. Note it is a war, it is a battle between 2 forces. Read Galatians 5 the whole chapter or from verse 10 down.

You are loved by God. Know this. Never you allow the lies of the enemy to overwhelm you. Be blessed in Jesus name. Amen. You can always reach out to me or dm me if you need more guidance on this matter. Take care of yourself and your family. Cheers!

All those poor politicians will not share these.

enemyofprogress:
Many people say it's absolutely inappropriate

One question is missing. Who is the husband?

Then passing through this road usually takes me 1hr or less. Nigeria!!!!

Congratulations and welcome to real life, the Life of Christ. I am looking for my post some years ago I mentioned something like this concerning her destiny. Can Naraland help me or was it on facebook?

uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?

Red flag. It means they don't know how to make money, waiting for someone to give her money before they can eat instead of looking for any credible thing to do, at least to feed. Every poor man is humble until they have money.

While owners are playing ethnicity games. Las Las na for FG Ministers to say that it is of low quality and that to import is better. Keep deceiving yourself.

Not the govt breaking baddest record

Fail government. They don't understand simple rules for governance.

Metrix147:
Read more at: https://abntv.com.ng/news/senator-kalu-advocates-for-part-time-legislature-to-cut-costs-video/

For the first time someone in the senate has made sense

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

Bible prophecy coming to pass.

WikeTheDrunk:
Stories.

It is only applicable when the federal government stops controlling the resources of the states. No governor will implement it and nothing will happen. Most African countries have very weak institutions.

It will work if the LGAs take any defaulter to court. LGA will definitely win in court and that was what was lacking before now.

Courtogracy. This new word should be added to the Oxford English directory. At least every Nigerian knows the meaning and even the world.

Man102:
Source : https://politicsnigeria.com/many-feared-trapped-as-rochas-okorochas-house-collapses-in-abuja/

You said the house "WAS", has it been moved from the location?