₦airaland Forum

We locked our brother in a book full of clothes and pushed it under the bed while playing hide and seek. This was his request. But we forgot him there and went to play outside.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

I don't understand, are you seeking for advice on what to do?

UncleAyo:
"JESUS CHRIST IS NOT GOD"

She wrote: "I don't like to get into religious conversations but I found it very wield that Lekki Cental Mosque has this in front of their gate"

If you want to know important you are check how much of free public ads you have. Someone paid a graphic artist, paid the printer and paid the one who will help him hang or took his/her time to post someone's success in a bid to make a point that really does not affect the person negatively, rather promote HIM. Imagine those who did not know about Jesus having this right in front of their eyes daily. My prayer point: O LORD make me so important that even my enemies will spend their resources to promote me in JESUS name. AMEN!!!!

dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/ghanaian-politicians-rarely-change-party-every-general-election-inec-chair/#google_vignette

This guy is still in INEC?

Yes. Anything that will make states to work is fine by me

I read, and I quote "People who are working in this INDUSTRY". Please I need more light on this industry product and what are their raw materials?

What do you expect

Tomorrow and we hear it this evening

OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmm, which kind nonsense reporting be dis, no location, just Lagos Ibadan Expwy, the writer needs to go back to school.
Btw, RIP to the lost souls

Quacks everywhere. Imagine such a reportage.

fergie001:
Rufai Oseni

Me, I will vote him, when I was shouting obedient they said I was IPOB. Now I am enjoying myself.

Ammmy:
Growing up, my mother did a lot of terrible things to me even till I became an adult. I'm 40 now and she's aged.

She's trying to be kind to me now and I've forgiven her or so I thought. My life didn't turn out well the way I wanted because of her curse and evil mind towards me.

She regrets everything now and I have moved on but the memories fail to leave me. I've tried as much as possible to forget those things but I can't and each time I remember them I feel this rage inside of me.

You can't forget. It's your responsibility to make sure that when the thought comes to your mind, you expel it. Remember parents are like vehicles that transport people to their destinations, but when you get down from the vehicle, you find your way home. According to your story, she wasn't a good driver but now you have options to drive, do the driving and you will surely get to where you were meant to be.

Bitterness is a seed of backwardness. It keeps you in the past when there are so many goodies in the future and today. Make Jesus your partner and let the Holy Spirit guide you. Love your mum even though she doesn't deserve it. Remember, you can only be different if you do the opposite of what she did.

Keep reading your Bible if you are a Christian and obey its instructions. Be blessed.

Racoon:
https://businessday.ng/news/article/nigeria-to-widen-tax-net-over-revenue-shortfall/

If all the current collected taxes go to the government, they won't need to borrow from anywhere or have concern of revenue shortfall which is the newest scam English in Nigeria by the government.

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

First, I want you to know that we all have our struggles. For me, you can't stop it on your own and the reason being that a force stronger than you is behind your ordeal. However, there is hope in Jesus. So first step, invite Him into your life and surrender all to Him.

2. After this, you will still struggle with the issue but don't worry about it. Just start to short down every window that's fueling the lust in your heart by making a conscious and intentional effort to daily do away with watching porn movies, etc.

3. Start reading your Bible every day. Just read and listen to message of God. Note you may still be falling into the sin but don't worry. Keep feeding yourself with the word of God daily.

4. Start to develop an attitude of prayer. Don't mimic any prayer points, just flow the way it is in your thoughts. God does not care about your fluent speech, but a broken spirit.

5. Look for a gathering of saints, spirit filled and not religious gathering Church and devote your time there. If you do all these, I can bet you with no time you will become a brand new creation. A point of note here is that you must not give up on these activities mentioned above no matter how often you keep falling back into your struggle. Note it is a war, it is a battle between 2 forces. Read Galatians 5 the whole chapter or from verse 10 down.

You are loved by God. Know this. Never you allow the lies of the enemy to overwhelm you. Be blessed in Jesus name. Amen. You can always reach out to me or dm me if you need more guidance on this matter. Take care of yourself and your family. Cheers!

All those poor politicians will not share these.

enemyofprogress:
Many people say it's absolutely inappropriate

One question is missing. Who is the husband?

Then passing through this road usually takes me 1hr or less. Nigeria!!!!

Congratulations and welcome to real life, the Life of Christ. I am looking for my post some years ago I mentioned something like this concerning her destiny. Can Naraland help me or was it on facebook?

uncleck:
You took her out on the 1st date and she refused to order anything, She asked you to give her the money instead so she could buy food as there is no food at home, What will you do?

Red flag. It means they don't know how to make money, waiting for someone to give her money before they can eat instead of looking for any credible thing to do, at least to feed. Every poor man is humble until they have money.

While owners are playing ethnicity games. Las Las na for FG Ministers to say that it is of low quality and that to import is better. Keep deceiving yourself.

Not the govt breaking baddest record

Fail government. They don't understand simple rules for governance.

Metrix147:
Read more at: https://abntv.com.ng/news/senator-kalu-advocates-for-part-time-legislature-to-cut-costs-video/

For the first time someone in the senate has made sense

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

Bible prophecy coming to pass.

WikeTheDrunk:
Stories.

It is only applicable when the federal government stops controlling the resources of the states. No governor will implement it and nothing will happen. Most African countries have very weak institutions.

It will work if the LGAs take any defaulter to court. LGA will definitely win in court and that was what was lacking before now.

Courtogracy. This new word should be added to the Oxford English directory. At least every Nigerian knows the meaning and even the world.

Man102:
Source : https://politicsnigeria.com/many-feared-trapped-as-rochas-okorochas-house-collapses-in-abuja/

You said the house "WAS", has it been moved from the location?

Fejoku:
The story makes no sense. How can one be parking a car and still get knocked down by the car? Until a family member who was at home at the time tells his/her story, this one sounds like a conjecture to cover up something.

Hmm, all these our reporters sef. She was parking her car and sudden mechanical fault made the car accelerate and ran over her. Haba!!! Make ona calm down ooo.

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Fear is a spirit and when it continues to build up, it create its reality in the physical realm. So, my advice, stay off? Even though that wasn't a threats, your fears will make it so. And by the way, what has your parent got to do with this? Who will feel the pains or the trial of your marriage? You or your parent? You better brace up if you want to go into marriage.

georgen2u:
I couldn't hold it anymore when I saw this post about 9 pieces of tomatoes being sold for 2000 naira vis this link

https://www.nairaland.com/8127292/see-tomatoes-pepper-bought-n2000


Things are hard these days I get it, yes inflation is so high but we Nigerians are either not helping ourselves or most of us are waiting to be roasted before we can do something about how to reduce our feeding expenses through some home gardening

These days urbanization has creeped into a lot of towns and villages there is no longer big space for crop

This is why a smart humble person who wants to be proactive should think out of the box in solving some needs for himself before things will stabilize ( if it will )

I am not a horticulturist, agronomists or any crop scientist but with the general knowledge I have in crop growing, I tested myself and the result is encouraging

This makes me wonder why people are not doing this

Is it either you are seeing things like this as poor man stuff or " I can not do this kind of thing life" especially now everyone is appearing on social media as Dangote and Otedolas

This is why I love the whites most of them despite how rich or poor have small gardens where they grow some basic herbs and vegetables.

Most times whenever we talk about gardening what comes to your mind is growing ornamental flowers or those beautiful flowers for beautification

Well here I am talking about having one or two pots or sacks where you can grow herbs, vegetable etc like scent leaves, curry, butter leaf, tomatoes, pepper, carrots, beets , water leafs, and other nititent filled crops

Last year I moved into a new neighborhood I have been desiring to have a little space where I can start a pot / sack garden

First my limitations were ; no big space and the floor environment is cemented so you can not plant directly on the ground

SACK FARMING TRIAL
Since I can not plant directly on the floor I decided to try sac farming to achieve this I sent my brother to buy me some cement sacks

He got about 20 of it then I went to a nearby semi dumping site paid one hausa boy to pack those black soils , he hired wheel barrow 300 naira

Then he packed soil and fill those sack each half filled a d brought it home so now I have like 20 sacks neathly arrange in front of my house

My neighbor were wondering what magic I am trying to do because they don't believe you can get something meaningful from little things like that

Next I sent my brother to go to one African shop since I can not buy those hybrids tomatoes there are options where they divided many in small small waterproof so someone can buy like 1500 instead of the whole package

So he got me tomatoe seed, carrot seeds, beetroot,

Also he bought me measured NPK 10:10:10 one mudu, half mudu phosphorus

Finally I got some scent leaves in the market finish using it and just put the stem in one of the sacks , same things with water leaf and curry
My tomatoes Nursing and Nursery

I took one of those sacks close to a shade , ensure I removed some big stones n dirts

I removed the tomato seed from the container and gently spread it scattered on the surface, then sprinkle soil on top before spraying someone water on it

Meanwhile my 15 sacks I spaced them half a feet each then don't forget I got half sack of poultry shit, from someone raising broilers around

My aim was to plant two per sack though according to what I read online it might be too congested but since I have no space I had to try it

At each end I dig UpTo 6 inch hole drill down , I carry poultry dropping mix it with small quantities fertilizers I got use it to fill it up and put a broom there before covering it because I want to know exactly the place to place my tomatoes when it's time to transplant

I did this because I learnt the poultry shit needs time to break down if you apply directly it might kill the plant meanwhile my sce t leave , curry n water leaf started regenerating after a week

In about 7 days my tomatoes have already started sprouting they were many Sha some died wilting but I have more than enough growing
I was watering them anytime am back from work or if I sense the soil is drying out

They stay there for two weeks and I latter bring them to sun ( this process is to harden them before I transplant) so they will be strong enough to withstand transplant stress


Meanwhile I water the 15 empty sacks without any plant once in two days

Now all the process of nursery to gardening took 4weeks for my tomatoes before it decided one late evening to do the transfer

We brought it out I watered the nursery soil to ensure I can scope the plants without breaking the roots, I also watered the sacks I wish to put them , at those places I place the broomstick I opened them like half 3 inches deep I can see those poultry shit heave change, no longer smelling looks like manure so I place the tomatoes there one at each end and two in a sack

Then I watered graceful lol I have come to understand what watering graceful means I will explain later

Then I started watering once every two days at first week of transplant it was looking like a joke , I said if this thing didn't flourish it will be embarrassing because everyone was observing what this grown up adults is fiddling with soil like a kid

After two weeks this started setting in another week I noticed that except during raining season which makes me less watering but during the time I started it was march you know in north Kaduna precisely rain can delay till end of May/ June

It dries out faster and it's affecting the tomatoes. Here was how I solved this issue infact it makes it feel like am using irrigation

The water needed to wet the soil slowing in order to release the nutrients and be well soaked unlike when you pour water directly slow dripping like rain or irritation makes more impact and won't drain easily

To solve this I got all these bottles water containers like those one litre ones

I use middle to give small hold on top and at the base

What I do now is every morning I pick them up go I lnside fill them up 15 of it put all in bucket carry it out place each on the sacks and they will be dripping slowing like for hours


Fertilizer application for my garden

I do my fertilizer once I two weeks here is how I achieve something

I took one of the bootke water use stone ground the NPK , I have some egg shells from the ones I used at home I added it, in the bottle put water and alliw it site for two days
The next day I divided them into 15 equal parts

Pour them into the bottle waters as I pour water to fill them up

I also sprinkle a handful of fertilizer to the base of each of the tomatoes

Everything started looking serious ( I forgot I had cabbage n cucumber too )

Everything was doing well there was a time I notice something like leaf diseases on few I bought Klein detergent and diluted it use one of my old perfume spat bottle and soapy on them

Also I once used backing soda in a soary bottle and everything came back good

During flowering I was putting banana peel and crushed egg shells around each of them , especially as in love banana alot

These process took less than 90 days my tomatoes was flowering and bearing seed aggressively this was my first time growing anything seriously out when we were kids especially in containers not directly on land

I noticed that the tomatoes flowered at same interval and didn't rip individually but once one stated ripening all of them follow suit

Then again the size was shocking me I got a tomato that was as big as the small size grain apples 🍏 sold in the markets

The yeild and tomatoes seeds per plant
From my measurements I don't know how many paint rubber that makes up a half basket but I got 7 paint rubber worth of tomatos from this 15 sacks ( 30 plants that is 2 in a sack) though due to lack of space most didn't flower because they were crowded

Since it's small garden I took my time to count tomatoes seeds on each plant lol oh yeah I did
I was seeing like 55-70 tomato fruit in average per plant


Then my cucumber, I didn't have space I interplanted it it tried a bit as some gave me like 6-7 cucumber and they were like few I didn't plant much because I don't really like cucumber it's not sweet lol

I planted cabbage too and carrots that one I can not even allow them matured everytime and doing salad I will come and uprooted carrots take cabbage go chop

As of last year I opened the yes of my neighborhood all those big madams and visitors passing buy turned me to tutor , they couldn't believe the outcome done were asking me if urs my field of study

But I put them through

Year 2024 relocation and restating

I finally moved away from my old apartment to a new one this time around the space is so small that I am wondering how to fit in so sacks I have small space between my apartment and the fence , I made sure I picked that one because I don't want to be sharing the end with any tenent

With my brother again to get a good soil here wasn't easy this place is more urbanized than the old place and finally got a place to get soil however I change my mind on cement back

It's too big I don't want to waste soil plus no big space I went to kasuwa market and got a place where they do customize sack and they use 2k to get like 10 small size sacks plus some other sack I have

I restarted my process again though at first it was funny because it was my first time to discover that hunger had led lizard to be eating tomato cucumber and other leaves ili was in shock haha

I had to cover the nursery then finally everything is booming again. At first the woman I paid monthly to be sweeping my house use to smile at me she told me she was thinking it was just flowers I wanted to plant but now she is in shock on how good and healthy the tomatoes are

also I made friends with some guys rearing broilers since I use to buy chicken from them I told them anytime they bring out the shit they should keep it in a bag I will need it , which solves my problem.

[/b]How I processed my last year tomatoes without spoiling and store UpTo 4minths [b]

Most times post harvest storage is what destroys tomatoes and make it scarce but I take no prisoners when it comes to storing my food items

I made some research and here was the outcome

After harvesting the tomatoes I was keeping them because I couldn't harvest all at once they were rippening In batches , to be honest the tomatos you grow at home taste better and can two weeks without spoiling than market bought .

I boiled them together in a big pot till the water drain it became so soft n shrinken I use my blender and blend

It started looking like tin tomatoes , after blending I put in the pot continue boiling on slow heat I used my hot plat but if u have charcoal pot it's the best

Next I got some old margarine bottle washed boil them in hot water latter scoop the dried tomatoes into it after filling up I pour small vegetable oil put waterproof on the cover and seal it up .

Put them back to the boiling water they heated up like 10 minutes bring them out allow it cool
Store in a cool dark place ( carton)

Ladies and gentlemen I used this tomatoe for 4 months without spoiling but once I open one I will put it in the refrigerator until I finish using it

This was how I solved my tomatoe needs without buying or shouting to the roof top

You too can make life easy and much better by doing you home garden imagine if every house hold had this, the price of tomatoes and most good items will crash

I think the Government too should distribute done hybrid seeds to civil servants, operation feed the nation in micro form

Here in kaduna they said a paint rubber if tomatoes goes for 6-7k and sadly it's not even reddish and fresh

I took my time to give this indepth information I hope it helps you especially the house wives and restive youth, out there , for anyone living within Kaduna metropolis since I move in to my new area I use vex got a big tomato seed that I can not even finish till it expire if you need improve seed I can share with you free for your garden

I have also set this up for three of my friends even the poultry people I buy birds from are now doing it .

The reason I said no need to cry for high cost of food in Nigeria. When I was a child we don't use to buy fresh pepper, tomatoes, pumpkin leaves, etc, we cultivate them in the garden just at the back of our house. So let go back to that culture. Nigeria is a great place.

Go to Kia shop for proper information.

Follow your lust. You are calling God incompetent? In the beginning HE created one woman for a man. Was it difficult for God to create 2 for Adam? I don't think so. If we streamline to the law of first mention, then we need to think deeply about this.

Besides, if we move away from marriage, you will notice that "Man" is not always satisfied with what he or she has. Always want another man's things even when he has so much. Always go for things his hands can't reach.

This is typical fallen nature of man. It is the spirit of the old man. So, it is normal to think and talk like this. Many people in churches who are struggling with the old man's nature has this same challenge. That is why to stay with one is war you must align with God's will to attain.

So calm down Kuti, we all feel like that but if we live by the dictate of our feelings, then the world will be in a sorry state.

I hope you get it.

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

Did you show her your 5m already in the bank?