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PlugKhalifa:
Lemme help you for 1k5

Ogamysamo:
if only we can be patient enough to wait for the right race before we start running, we shall surely win.


but imagine joining a plane that is meant for abroad when your own destination is national just because the national plane refuse to come in time.

or letting go the international plane that you are suppose to board and waiting for the national one because the international one is not as you expected it to be or rather because you didn't find someone you love and care for in it.

a wrong destination is a wrong destiny, and a wrong destiny is a destiny denied

reason or get missing

Polynek:
why your face de like Dix ?

Polynek:
I never said is a MUST am telling you my own plan if I reach that stage.
Bcoz Dix Day's Many girls hv destroyed there womb, so to avoid regretting, is beta u are sure dat you are not marrying ur folo man

Polynek:
Propose to her
Pregnant her den go and do introduction

Deborah98:
Mad ooooh what did you just write @donbachi uncle no wan hear stories. Well In order of sequence. Proposal comes first before introduction.

akus6060:
What skill do you have to give and not just saying you are a graduate . Like the OP has software skill to be able to work remotely so try to learn a skill.

Opexzy:
Hello Nairalanders..

I am a bit confused right now. I have two remote jobs currently, they both pay me 200k and 150k salary respectively. These two companies have been existing for over 3 years so they have built up structure that one could trust a little over time...

I recently applied for another full-time job, it's a startup that is just moving from ideation phase to implementation. And they are offering me 650k salary a month even though I told them my salary expectation is 500k a month. I will be working 2 days onsite, 3 days remotely.

I am enticed by this new salary and at the same time, my current jobs have built structure that I can trust.

Not to even mention that I occupy a very important position in these two companies: though not a big deal.

Please i am just confused... Just finanlized everything with the company’s management team.. I am meant to resume next two weeks.

UYEMDO35:
Am just shot of words, A word from an elder. Thanks sir! I think I will give into your words. I thought of dis before but i was so blinded to see it dat way. when I brought up the issue to her she was like before she could think of settling down it will take 5to6 year... Which I think is still very far.

UYEMDO35:
Hey guys! I need your advice on dis issue bothering my state of mind...My story goes dis way, I fell inlove with dis girl not quite long maybe close to 8month now. Am a prospective graduate to be. The girl in the picture just concluded her waec dis year. Though! I think I love her so much but my biggest fear is that she demands i see her parents in other for her to gain my full trust and to prove to her how much I really love her, and I don't buy the idea.
Am just considering dat she might want to trap me down or probably she is pregnant for someone else and want me to carry d full responsibility. Apart from that, I really don't know how to go about that becuz I don't know how her parents will react to it becuz she is still very young maybe 18years. My fear is that how do I drop the word to her parents becuz her father is a no nonsense man and am not ready to die yet.
Do u think is too early for that?

Her reasons for dis Is becuz she wants to gain my trust and for me to prove to her how much I really love her.

Mercychen:
Yes.
Go for rented wedding gown and suit. Shouldn't cost than 100k.

Reduce the number of invitees.

Book for drinks and water with at least 50k
Tell your fiancee to beg friends and family to assist with cooking so all you only need to spend for food ingredients will be like 150k including meat.

Venue: beg the pastor to allow you use the church premises or Inside the church for your reception.

Wedding cake, 50k

Renting of chairs and tables, highest 30k.
Mild decorations of Hall and couples seat like 30k.
That's a total 410.


Then use the remaining 90k for other little expenses like your rings. Which should not be more that 50k.

hilltop007:
My final year project supervisor called me to summarize my research work of 2 years for publication. He sent me a copy of one of his ex-student work that he published. It was only his ex student who did the work with guidance from my supervisor, but the published paper has two authors; my supervisor (main author) and his ex student. Only my supervisor's contact was also in the paper.

I strongly believe that's what he will also do with mine. Should I give him the go ahead? If I don't publish it, it will probably rot. Or is there a way for me to publish it myself?

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, it is better for you not to go into the marriage,damn getting there and started thinking of divorcing him, God hates divorce, a relationship or home that happened happiness is not there will never stand,I don't want you to think about what will happen if you call up the marriage or if you step down, but all you need to do is to think about tomorrow when you are fully in the marriage, happiness mattermost is the number one priority that somebody should look for while going to marriage, 3 weeks time you will make a decision that will hundred percent affect your existence, and in three weeks time you will make a decision that will determined, whether you'll be forever happy or not I think you should think carefully, don't rush into marriage that you are not happy with, please

placeofallure:
My hubby and I are from the same place. There wasn't any formal first visit to the family. We were dating and we pay each other visits. It's been sooooo long ago that I can barely remember my first visit. But I think the following suggestions should suffice.

Nothing much to get anxious about if you have been an A1 personality before, just be yourself.
Wow, thanks for this wonderful teaching, God will uphold your home.
Don't do anything overly to impress anyone, you may not be able to sustain that impression later on cause that's not you. Dress well, simple and decent, be courteous, don't be a chatterbox at first visit, don't take anything, no matter how trivial it seems, for granted. Wait to be offered anything before you help yourself to it. Be a good listener, respond well to light conversations. If you can afford it, you may bring along a lil gift for the family. Treat everyone with respect, no one family member is more important than the other one. In subsequent visits, things will fall in place. Good luck to you.

placeofallure:
My hubby and I are from the same place. There wasn't any formal first visit to the family. We were dating and we pay each other visits. It's been sooooo long ago that I can barely remember my first visit. But I think the following suggestions should suffice.

Nothing much to get anxious about if you have been an A1 personality before, just be yourself.
Wow, thanks for this wonderful teaching, God will uphold your home.
Don't do anything overly to impress anyone, you may not be able to sustain that impression later on cause that's not you. Dress well, simple and decent, be courteous, don't be a chatterbox at first visit, don't take anything, no matter how trivial it seems, for granted. Wait to be offered anything before you help yourself to it. Be a good listener, respond well to light conversations. If you can afford it, you may bring along a lil gift for the family. Treat everyone with respect, no one family member is more important than the other one. In subsequent visits, things will fall in place. Good luck to you.

ethicallyright:
I thought a pretty bi-racial girl was my future wife in secondary school.

She was the head girl and I visited her home during our penultimate long vacation.

I saw expensive cars parked in her father's mansion, their living room was State-of-the-arts standard and she had an exotic little pet dog.

She was the last child of her parents and only girl, her brothers were very friendly. They were undergraduates then.

We talked about how many kids we'd have when we get married in future during the visit

Life's realities don hit me O, since then I never revisit with my family

Realday:
Hey,give me bigi cola and gala

Keals:
Quite a lot.

Keals:
Hmm... Congratulations! You can rest now.
Thank you for your time.

Keals:
Okay.

Apologies if I appeal to your senses as extremely quizzical, alright?

So, how would you feel if your wife is emotional attached to her ex[es]?

The one thing that wets my pant is Lord Karma. How would you react when it comes knocking, seeing that you're pretty much content with your actions. How would you?

Keals:
Hm...
She married the same guy, right?
How about you, you married yet?