I'm curious about something: Why didn't you walk away when she told you she's committed to someone else? How did you get a boner to initiate a shag[s] in the know of the aforementioned?
smile......you are so funny, anyway I will tell you, you see....as for me I don't just give up like that, most expecially a lady of my dream and class, if you have what I want in a lady, I will not give up sir, I will continue to make my request known to you always, she said something that she has not see any guy dst she love d way she love her guy, but me prove her wrong , and we dated for 1and half years, but she married, still now we are still connected in mind and soul.
Keals: Wait, before I respond I need clarity, okay?
You said you dated a girl (for a year and half) whose hooked on to someone for 6 years and still got married to him?
yes, thought I will be able to change her mind, NYSC even post us together too, but she redeploy back home base on some issues....when we are dating she told me that she can't leave dat guy for no reason....Dan we move on.
kenzysmith: Met this beautiful girl at shoprite, I approached her and we exchanged numbers. After a week, I began asking her out she told me she had a serious boyfriend and she doesn't double date or run paro. I said no problem and I never disturb her.
3 days ago she called me that she needed to do one month sub that her sub has finish. I told her to tell her boyfriend na! She said she was too shy to ask him for cards. It look some how that it don't want to look like she was bothering him. I said OK no problem that I can't access my account at the moment that am at offshore in the middle of a sea that she should send me #200 naira mtn so I can call my bro to sub for her, she send me the card and I text her thank you very much for the card that she is a nice person.
After like 6hrs she called to tell me my bro has not send her the card. I told her I DONT have one kobo to send to her and cut the call.
Did I do wrong my fellow nairalanders
you are na idiot, those of you are the kind of guys that allow ladies to see us finish, since you know you don't have money to send to her, why do you ask for her to send you a card that is nonsense! in the first place if you have exercise patience and you continue talking to her as a friend, she might consider you are the end of the day, that she's in serious relationship doesn't mean she will not consider your request, you really f***** up.....I've been in this kind of things before, I met a lady and she told me she was in 6 years relationship very serious, that will lead to marriage but as time goes on, she later consider my request and we dated for almost one-and-a-half years before she l get married to d some guy,... in your mind now you will think you scam her or you have sense.... no bro you f***** up!!!!
agbolahan1991: Her husband has been away for almost a month, I feel pity though have been having a crush on her right from before she got married, now she has a shop beside our office and I can't get my heart off her each day I see her....
Am a married man too but my wife gives me hell, with her anger, bad mouth and ojukokoro Am not happy as a married man and I really need someone I can talk to, open up to and someone that can relieve the pain in my heart..
ole, fi iyawo oniyawo sile...face your home and make things right oga Ade.
neonly: Am not good writer please trying to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you Where did I get it wrong sef We use to be good friends before church matter enter Now she does nothing in the house I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones
All she is interested now is her own career What my fate when I grow old Is this not a red flag for me What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on But my children what will be their fate
To me I will say that, God hates divorce, I mean separation, you've been living together for 15 good years, you should have understand the kind of woman your wife is, jumping out of the marriage now is not the answer to your problem, all what you need to do is to wake her up in the middle of the night, trace where the problems comes from, talks about it make her understand that taking care of the family is our primary responsibility, that job and others are secondary, try and listen to her views, let her speak her mind out, then both of you will come together and sort it out, as a man you need to come down and protect your marriage, if not because of your wife but because of your childrens, divorce or separation is not the right decision, the devil we have known 15 years is better than the Angel you just know, come down be tolerant, God will help you.
Mikelarteta: There is this yoruba saying that if you pound yam in a leaf or prepare a soup in the shell of a groundnut, whoever’s stomach that has to be filled, will be filled. What that simply tells me is that the Grace of God is our sufficiency. When Gods Grace is sufficient for you and your family, you could be earning 30k a month but getting gifts or things worth over 100k. That’s the Grace we talking about and I pray that as you are reading this, the Grace of God will be sufficient for you and your family.
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon. Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.
I have always read on here about people asking for business plans and looking for ideas to enable them manage the resources they have for a particular business.
I am in my late 20s. My Mom had me out of wedluck and ever since the pregnancy my dad never showed up as both were teenagers.
Life has been from Pilar to post and from hand to mouth. Though through the help of aunties and uncles I was able to get educated and I have served as well.
So just last week my mom (who later got married) called me and told me that my Dad reached out to her and she gave him my phone contact.
He called me yesterday and after we talked for the first time in my life he told me to get a business i could do with 300,000
Pleases guys I know he wronged me by running away and he hasn't set his eyes on me since I was born, but I sure do need this money.
Nairalanders come in and help me with business suggestions and ideas pls.
open barbing salon bro, you will never regret it for life, and you will come back and thank me here, you can learn it for just 3 months Dan open your own Dan as you go on you will be knowing it more, or look for someone you can Barb well put him there Dan be there to learn more.
GeneralKoko: I have been a victim of disrespect over the years from mainly my friends. I don't know if it is because I'm too free or too playful but I hardly gain the respect of people.
Please I need tips on how to gain the respect and loyalty of my friends. Thanks
my brother, when you respect yourself, people will respect you, Dan get money and see what follow...
24brains: No woman, no cry. A girl that barely said yes to me yesterday is demanding 60k from me for wardrobe allowance.
Giving her the money is not the issue. but i fear a relationship built on such ground will collapse in no time.
What happens when hair and feeding allowances enters? i sometime wonder if having a girlfriend is worth it because almost all of them have multiple boyfriends whom they cash out from. i see no difference between them and olosho. petronizing olosho gives much rest of mind than a girl who is yet to be your wife.
Nairalanders, how do you people cope with girlfriends palava in this present state of Nigeria?
Your husband shouted at you in public during a ceremony because you mistakenly broke the screen of his phone worth #20k.
Surprised by his reaction, a man got up and gave you #80k and ask u to buy a new phone for ur husband in the presence of everyone including ur husband.
The man gave you his phone number asking you to call him in case the money is not enough so he can add more.
��♀ *As the ️woman, would you take this money and the phone number from this gentleman?*
�� *As the husband, what would you do in this situation?*
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ultiabaz36: Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.
The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.
But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.
Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.
my brother, that is not the kind of lady that you can marry, pls let her go, so that you can have plan for yourself, and be ready to wait and look for another one who can help in keeping the little one you have with you, a good woman will not be damanding money from you always, she will not be after materials things now that you are not yet stable financially, she after your money and noting more, I want to ask you, what development and value as she added to your life since you know her? If noting buy Dan asking you money always my brother pls move she not the one.....God bless you.
Speeddial: Yes he signed a contract, and he has about 1 or 2 years to stay with them before leaving.
But they were not fulfilling their own part of the contract. And it was really affecting him because he was not able to take care of his family.
Than there is nothing to talk about okay, he is still under a contract, so they have the right to take him to anyway they like, that is a private company for you, as far as he is still in contact with them, hmmmm, let him go and finish his work there with him o, coz he will continue to spend d money he doesn't have. ..... contact is contact ok my brother.
ogbiwa: A moment of class from Thorgan Hazard proved enough to knock out holders Portugal as Belgium continued their pursuit of a first major title by reaching the quarter-finals of Euro 2020.
The Borussia Dortmund winger's swerving drive from 25 yards arrived late in a cagey first-half and carried Roberto Martinez's side into a mouth-watering meeting with Italy on Friday.
Portugal - who again only introduced Manchester United's Bruno Fernandes from the bench - will look back on key Diogo Jota chances, a Ruben Dias header that was saved and a late Raphael Guerreiro drive that struck the post.
Kevin De Bruyne's fitness may dominate headlines in the build-up to the Italy showdown in Munich after he limped off moments after half-time, and Belgium also lost Eden Hazard to a complaint late on.
The world's highest-ranked side may have key holes to fill but again they have showed they possess the grit to complement their undoubted quality.
Martinez punched the air and shouted "yes" on the sound of the final whistle while Ronaldo crouched and beat the turf in frustration at Seville's Estadio de La Cartuja.
His side had perhaps shown their best football of the tournament in the second 45 minutes, amassing 15 of a lofty 23 shots on the night.
Jota fired a snap-shot over, Dias warmed the hands of Belgian keeper Thibaut Courtois with a point-blank header, Guerreiro found the foot of the post and substitute Joao Felix dragged a late effort wide.
Manager Fernando Santos may well be asked where such a second-half display has been hiding.
SpringofLife: I don't know if this is the right place to post this but permit me to go ahead regardless.
How I end up washing people's poo as a graduate with 2:1.
Growing up, I used to admire graduates a lot especially the way they do things, conduct themselves and the rest. You see them living in a good house and in the morning, they dress up properly, go to work and return in the evening. Non-graduates of course used to jealous graduates a lot as it were. Fast forward to today, the table has sharply turned 360°. Now, graduates have not only been ridicule but reduced almost to nothing. Non-graduates who learnt one skill or the other are the ones kicking money bags to the bank.
Well, I finished university 3 years ago and couldn't find a job despite aggressive job hunting due to obvious reasons. Being the first in the family, the pressure was/is already much on me. The aged parents have tried within their powers thinking the best they could do for me was training me to acquire a university degree but in today's Nigeria, it's glaringly not enough.
Let me not bother you all with long story but I don't see myself continuing with this kind of life any longer because it's not what I envisaged.
According to the heading, I graduated with second class upper division which of course is a good grade considered very employable according to society standard and labour market. Despite this, I searched for job in every nook and cranny I could but to no avail. Everyday I have to eat food, rent expiring, bills piling up, parents looking up to me and younger ones who are already in school every now and then would call and ask for assistance and which I didn't have. Out of no option, I accepted an offer to work as a laundry man in a hotel for 15k/month. That's how I thought I have at least got something doing. Frankly speaking, I didn't have an in depth knowledge of the job description.
Obviously, this would be a long story but let try and shorten it. Do you know that I have drained so much from my body in the course of this work physically and health wise? Practically, I wash between15-25 bedsheets/duvets everyday as the hotel does not have washing machine....parked since it got spoilt. Consequently, my pams have developed thick skin which is now very tough, rough and scratchy.
However, the above might not just be my only anger. More annoying is that, some guests are so inhumane. Is it because you paid money to lodge in the place that's why you believe you have to do wickedness? Why I'm writing this is because of the very one that happened few days ago. Actually that wasn't the first time. It's been happening over and over before. Could you believe a guest used the hotel bedsheets and defecated on it, folded it and kept it and checked out. As a laundry man, of course it landed on me and I was the one who washed the poo off. Oh God! Like I said, that wasn't the first time although other ones only used the bedsheets to clean their buttocks (for whatever reasons because I believe tissue paper is always there) after defecating but this particular guest 'pooed' fully inside the bedsheets, folded it and dropped it for whoever to come carry it and wash. I'm not writing fiction here please. This is 100% real of what I'm going through in the supposed 15k/month job. How wicked? When toilet was there?
Moving forward, equally, I can't count the number of times I have washed menstrual blood from bedsheets. These men bring even women who are on menses to sleep with them and end up pouring menstrual blood all over the bedsheets and I would be the one to wash it. God why?
Most annoying of all is, the management pays salary on the 26th of the following month. How inhumane some people can be? In other words, I have to work 2 months to get 1 month salary or simply put, 15/2=7500. In reality, that is the salary I'm receiving as a graduate. When I picked up the job, my plan was to raise up to 50k within the shortest possible time and move to something else, but unfortunately, I don't even know what I'm doing now. I have been in the job for 6 months now with nothing to show for it. This is why I said I can't continue with the present condition. The situation is beyond the one people say 'hold unto it. At all at all, na him bad pass". This one is worst than "at all at all".
Before I end it, just a few questions. Dear Nigerians with good job, abeg where una dey see diz good job after graduation? Abeg where una dey see money do business after school? Where una dey see money chop food and live life? Me still dey very hungry as I'm typing this. Abeg na beg I beg una, make una put me on abeg. Make una be my God father/mother. I don taya for this life. I be una brother o. Help me and help the society by extension. Thank you.
I can understand what you are passing through my brother, this is all what I thought about during my nysc service, that prompted me to go learn hand work...Barbing which I still rely on up to now, so much responsibility on me, but what will I do! rather you just have to move on, look for a better job at least that will be fetching you something, so that you can live on, and I wish you can learn hand work, also look for something to learn at least b4 six-seven months, you'll be able to stand and survive too, so that you can put bread on your table, may God help us all.
ezenwaez: The N-Power Physical Verification stage is the process of physically verifying the Age, Gender, Residential Address, Local Government Area (LGA), Academic Qualification, and NYSC (for graduate category) completion of N-Power Batch C applicants.
N-Power Batch C Physical Verification will commence soon, please all N-Power Batch C applicants should take note of the following facts and guidelines.
1. An N-Power Batch C applicant's Physical Verification Center is the N-Power Batch C applicant's Residential Local Government Area Secretariat.
2. All N-Power Batch C applicants that were shortlisted are expected to partake in this N-Power physical verification exercise.
3. All N-Power Batch C applicants are to follow instructions at their centers. If the instructions at your centers conflict with anything we have posted here, the information posted here supercedes.
4. All N-Power Batch C applicants should be orderly and be courteous
Before an N-Power Batch C applicant steps out of the house, the N-Power Batch C applicant should ensure he or she has the following:
a. All documents required for N-Power Physical Verification. Please see attached image. At the Residential Local Government Area,
1. An N-Power Batch C applicant should not pay money for anything to anyone. The N-Power Physical Verification exercise is totally free.
2. All N-Power Batch C applicant should NOT give anyone his or her BVN slip even if they request for it. Please tell them N-Power says NO.
3. All N-Power Batch C applicants should report anyone asking for money, using the N-Power NASIMS self care portal.
4. An N-Power Batch C applicant should report any Batch C applicant giving money.
5. If an N-Power Batch C applicant is certain he or she was pre-selected and did not see his or her name at a particular LGA of residence, the N-Power Batch C applicant can check other LGA’s he or she might have written down.
6. An N-Power Batch C applicant should disregard anyone who approaches him or her that they can help you make it to the final selection, they are lying and will scam you.
After you have concluded the N-Power Batch C Physical Verification Exercise, always check your email or NASIMS N-Power Self Service Portal for updated information.
..... Is like there is no hope or room for stream 2 anymore
Metrix147: At least two snakes were on Wednesday killed by some workers at Emelogu Street around Waterside area near popular Orji Uzor Kalu Bridge Aba, Abia state.
Residents who spoke with ABN TV said they have always lived in fear as a result of activities of the snakes.
They said they have lost their domestic animals especially fowls and goats, saying the snakes sneak out in the dead of the night to consume them.
Our correspondent gathered that the state government is currently clearing and expanding the Aba river from Okpulor Umuobo to Azumini to make it easy for flying boats to ply.
The snakes were identified as cobra and python.
The residents further appeal to the state government to fumigate the area popularly known as 'Good Morning' market to save them from possible attacks from other hiding snakes.
how will this kind thing get to the front page self? This days something that are not educating in nature that are not contributing to the situation of things now is always making front page! I don't understand! the admin of this room they are bias, please you guys to tell me the requirement I need to have to make front page!!!
mugnmuffin: Dear Nairalanders, I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.
Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.
At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...
my dear sister, God as done you the best, by giving you the man who will love you forever, but you can use your own hand now to throw him away, let me tell you that is spiritual life is low is not an issue, that is why you are there by his side to pray along with him, you can only see few men that their spiritual life is very high, most especially before they get married, but has a wife you'll be able to do that along the line, thank God you are not complaining about his character or he is or he is or that, the only thing you what are complaining about is his spiritual life, so is something both of you can pray about and your character your behaviour along the line will also help him to grow spiritually, knowing fully that you can't change a man, pray to God for God to touch his heart, so you can't just cut off the marriage or maybe there is something you are not telling us like maybe you've seen someone else now,God will bless you and you will have a beautiful home on Earth.
I am a certified Educationist with a great drive for excellence, enthused by the demand for increasing mental capacity to learning new things, I have an interest in contributing to human capacity development, consulting, helping people to discover and optimizing their potential and proffering solutions to societal challenge now and one to comes....I'm a product of UNN, where I read political science/education, and am done with my youth service, and for forward to get a job, so that I can survive and take care of my junior once coming, pls I will appreciate any form of assistance and helping hand, thanks in advance.
Please I need advice on this. I was given fasting and praying which is supposed to end today but yesterday night i was not feeling alright then I visited a doctor who gave me some medications and placed me on drug, I'm suppose to use some this morning but I'm afraid I might spoil my fasting.
PLS I NEED ADVICE
Una happy sunday
... please don't take drugs into an empty stomach and then thank God the fasting will be ending today, you can now take the drugs, start from this evening, don't die outof ignorance and make sure that you completed that fasting and prayer because you might not tell the reason behind it.
ijebuwoman: An upcoming comedian know as mc freedom got more than he bargained for when a prank went horribly wrong in Ibadan.
In the skit, he dressed as a native doctor and said he needed to use a young lady who was a virgin for ritual purposes.
All efforts by him and his camera crew to convince those around him that it was a prank fell on deaf ears as the market women and passers-by pounced on him.
He was beaten mercilessly and received deep cuts inflicted by a machete as the crowd descended on him and he almost got lynched in the process.
These so called pranksters need to be careful as the current security situation in Nigeria means no one is in the mood for these type of so called pranks.
The video is indeed graphic and has been blurred out in parts.
Looking way back in the year 2014, immediately when I finished my NYSC service, I was eager to look for a promising company that is organized and has a good service as well. Less I forget I studied accounting in Edo University Iyamho, before moving to Lagos to serve and plan for my future.
Back to my story.
I shared my c.v to some of my highly connected friends to help out in securing a job for me, which I waited for several months with no positive feedback from anyone of them. I was forced to connect with an HR company to get the best job, which I paid 10k for registration with an agreement of getting 10% off my salary for the first 6 months of my resume in office. They said the money will be used to check, monitor and secure my activities in the office including but not limited to health and any other problem I come across in the company. Sounds protective you will say!!
Of course I agreed, paid and signed the agreement form that was giving to me with a big smile on my face, I submitted my documents having believe of working in a big company. It’s over 3 months with no positive feedback call or text from the HR Company. All this while I have being staying at home doing nothing, rather been asked by my neighbors if there is NEPA light since morning.
I gave myself an extra 1 week before visiting to know the state of my job hunt. On getting to their office I was told the person in charge of my job search case is not on sit, is either I come back next time or wait for some minutes for his arrival. I had to wait knowing fully well there is nothing for me to do at home, I took a sitting position and sat for some minutes, I was bored so I took a nap, about an hour later I requested for the person in charge of my job hunt, immediately someone stepped in and introduced himself as Mr. Vincent “Infarct I just finished sharing some copies of your document to 8 companies that are actively seeking to recruit new workers, which I assure you will bring forth a good result, you don’t have to worry yourself coming over to check I will personally give you a call”. I was happy to hear this, so I requested for his mobile number in case of any question from my end, which he gave me without any second thought. Feeling excited I head home hoping to get the best job within few weeks or month.
Now it over 2 months after my visit with the HR company, I remembered collecting Mr. Vincent mobile number so I quickly gave him a call and immediately introduced myself and asked for my job search result, then he started saying things I don’t understand “Mr. Sunday I was about to call you now the Lord sees my heart, we’ve tried all the company within our reach, but they’re not actively employing for now. Don’t worry there are other company locations outside our reach which we have connections to other agencies that will effectively get you your dream job, I only need you to send me 10k to be able connect with other agencies around”. That right there got me angry I had to hang up the call to avoid insulting an elderly man. With the pain in me I had to take a walk round the street, thinking of what next to do if I don’t get a job soon.
This is really getting serious there are lots of thought going on in my heard right now that I cannot pick out the exact one. Walked straight to the field where many of our community youths come together to play and have fun. I sat alone on a bench far from the goalpost trying to figure out the right thing to do, after some minutes right there I made a stupid decision that I believe would work.
I stood up and held my thought strong believing it will work out fine, so I went back home took some money, went straight to the closest market bought two black polo round neck then went to a printer shop to print on the cloths. This was what I wrote on them “Am a graduate and I’m in need of a pleasant job”. Funny you say? But I did it.
Early in the morning am always at the bus-stop with my cloth on, waiting to take a bus that will lead me to a populated company location where I will start walking round in search of any office job opportunity. I did this for over 3 months without any good result, I thought of giving up this plan but I just spent 5k buying and printing on my cloths.
Then I tried the second week of my fourth month of searching for a job, on my way to an unknown location, an elderly woman well-dressed stopped me and asked, if what was written on my cloth was just for fun or am I really in search of a job? As a sharp guy I quickly answered her, I am in need of a job and I got lots of experience in accounting plus am a graduate. After long chat, she gave me her business card for an interview in her work place very early next week Monday, with a great smile on my face I said “Thank you ma” and she walked passed me.
Got to the company very early in the morning like she said, then I was directly interviewed by unknown men, they were four in number and very intelligent in asking questions. To cut the long story short, within 3 working days I was called to start work on Monday for the position of financial secretary with a monthly salary of 120k.
Guess what!! The woman that stopped me and gave me her business card is the current and forever the CEO of GoldStripe Company Limited.
Thank you Bogger for sharing my story.
How was your Job search like? Kindly share your story.
A bigger congratulations my brother, God that did your own will do mine, was shedding tears while going through your story, I'm just imagine what you might have been through, but all is well, is not your efforts that take you there o, but is Grace that have spoken for you,many did more dan all this still they are still at home, thinking maybe God as forgotten them, pls always give him thanks, and remember to always pay your tithe. Congratulations ones again.
Romance › Re: This Is What I Did To A Young Lady Who Told Me She Was In A Serious Relationship by Ingredient88(m): 12:20pm On Oct 16, 2021
that is nonsense! in the first place if you have exercise patience and you continue talking to her as a friend, she might consider you are the end of the day, that she's in serious relationship doesn't mean she will not consider your request, you really f***** up.....I've been in this kind of things before, I met a lady and she told me she was in 6 years relationship very serious, that will lead to marriage but as time goes on, she later consider my request and we dated for almost one-and-a-half years before she l get married to d some guy,... in your mind now you will think you scam her or you have sense.... no bro you f***** up!!!!
