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Smileall:
Very important message
If he abides by it then he needs not to worry about any imaginary redpiller

yes ooo

Zzor:
I pray he listens to his mom,the mom forgot to remind him of the demonic redpillers

Smile all join.

virginprincess:
Such an intelligent advise, all mothers are suppose to advise their sons this way before he gets married.

.... And even the Ladies too need it, have gain a lot from it, and will make use of it, when time comes.

Robert1da:
What's all this inconclusive BS?

....inconclusive BS ke?.... It for both, sons and daughters.

WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY
BEFORE HIS WEDDING.

Mummy’s boy, you are now a man. Tomorrow
you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her.

Love your new mum even more than you love me. Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words to guide you.

There was a day I was arguing with your father.

We were screaming, Tempers were high. I was angry and He was angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked,

He looked at me asking
how dare I call him that. Immediately I started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy; I called him all sort of name.

Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.

My Son, If your father had hit me and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here with me today? How will you regard him as your father?

Would you have been proud of him or would
you be blaming me for calling him names?

Never hit your wife! No matter the provocation
just walk away and things will be normal.

Whenever she offends you, think of this story I
just told you, it could have been your mum!

After he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day.

I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know he loves Pounded yam & Vegetable soup right?

After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.

There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hates her, it is your duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle Yusuf, never liked me.

But Ur father was always supportive until his perception changed.

There was a day your Father was going to host the owner of his company and friends. They were three of them.

That day I was in the
kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks.

When the table was set and food was served.

Everyone started eating. Then I
remembered I did not add salt in the food. I
was embarrassed.

Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body.

He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed!

The guests understood and he asked me to
bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt.

After the guest left, he went on his knees and
asked God to forgive him for lying.

Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don’t
know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!

Now let me talk to you about Sex. You see Sex
is a wonderful thing.

Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and need Sex more than you do.

There were days, I needed Sex more than your father and there were days he needed it more than me but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need you.

Don’t always think of your self.

There was a time things were hard and I
needed to do two jobs to support your father.
One night I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood. He try to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he needs me.

When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understand me better.
He stopped and then started telling me stories until I fell asleep.

My son, Sex is best enjoyed when the two
parties are physically and mentally ready for it.

Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.

Make it a habit to go anywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her.

If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife then be very careful.
Use wisdom.

I know you love mummy… I know you will tell me all your problems. But now things will be different.

Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.

When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately.

Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it.

Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.

Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me with
your wife every month!

I know you will have a happy home. You will always be mummy’s boy. God will bless tour home..

Abalado:
The same Fayemi that failed his own/my own state ,how can he not fail Nigerians,, Fayemi is such an ingrate challenging Tinubu,a man who made him to become he is today,, Fayemi a failure,,

Thank you my sis, can you imagine ooo, we don't know Fayemi in Ekiti b4, if not for Opeyemi Bamidele, who introduce him to baba, they now brought him to Ekiti o.....he go learn lessons soon.

Who is Fayemi self Forget say him na my state Governor, and chairman of thieves.... can him even win tinubu in primary elections.... where was he when APC was formed? Who know am b4?.... what did he knows concerning APC, if not for Tinubu who brought him into light line of politics in ekiti state..... let them continue to deceive themselves.

Mokason288:
Can you speak English?

If yes

Relax

so if I can't speak na I no go see babe

jeromedee:
Finally someone close enough. It's 8th of Dec here.. I guess either of us ought to have waited for some few hrs. Hope you wouldn't mind us being friends? Strictly on platonic level.

am December 7th.

chinwe1990:
December 2. Looking for a decent male 2b590493

hello am December 7th, can I meet you?.

Daviddreamz:
Hm..i see........Its ok not bad

and remember COVID19 we are all at home, I stay back at my PPA to work, coz I served at development center, so we were ask to look for a place to serve now so I went to filling station.

Daviddreamz:
250k during NYSC? I am not saying its not possible but lets be realistic in these hard economy we are in, u saved 250k in service.

Which state did u serve by the way?

Ebonyi state, at my PPA am been paid 18k, in which I do go everyday with something too.

Uyi213:
Sites like which and which. And can you drop telegram job vacancy channels Please

oga leave me alone pls.

PlsBanMe:
It is an open secret that university education in Nigeria has lost its standards. If you are however good as you claim, write aptitude tests of companies like KPMG and the likes.

Be active on the vacancies section of this website as well as other sites. You will laugh at last!

okay I understand where you are coming from.... Anyway, thousands of people must have written this KPMG tests and they pass it, so why my own will be different!, all this you are talking about as no mean, Make Grace speak for us all.....

tolugar:
Don’t Sit around and count time bro.

Let time work in your favor.

You need a smart girl and smart girls looks for successful people so devote your time seeking to be successful and every other thing will fall in place.

thank you. I appreciate.

PlsBanMe:
Your writing skill is very poor. However, all hope isn't lost. Don't start by wanting a six digit job. Get a job. Any job. You can start with teaching in a private school. You may even learn a trade. You will be broke and remain broke if you are too proud. Any job is better than no job. With time, you will get something better.

Some may graduate and write aptitude tests and pass. For you, if you are careful and hard working, you will make it some day. It is a difficult country.

....my writing skill is very poor ba! And that same writing skill that is poor to you now was the one i used throughout my school days and at the end I graduated with 2.1cgpa! All most 4point, In university of Nigeria o, hmmmm, anyway I do appreciate you, thanks a lot.

EVILFOREST:
He doesn't know dat he got Liberated wen dose girls left him. He really needs to focus now.
Most of them are Insurmountable Hurdles.
He should be prepared to dump as many as possible when he eventually emerges successful.
No MAN needs a Girlfriend to emerge successful.
Being a Man first, puts you on the success pedestal.
LADIES never compromise. Dey set dia standards high. Even the poorest slay queen has got her standards. Dey can perceive hard currency from a distance.
So, that Guy needs to wake up.
He should start with Handwork.

alright thanks

Freestainworld:
Just calm down, you will get a job, but government job now, you have to have an insider and some cool cash in case your u need to have your way, I personally paid 250k for my wife to get a local government job she's managing, so it's not easy.

thank you sir, I don't have option for now, I believe God will help me, at least that one dey reliable, govt work is very important, not now but later.....

Freestainworld:
Must you look for a job? why not create one for yourself, Nigeria is in big shambles now, you don't need to sit and look for job, even if it's trycle(Keke napep), you start with it and grow gradually to better things.

.... I was able to save 250k, durning my NYSC, in which I use 200k to open a salon shop, which I'm correctly managing in Ebonyi state now,... Noting past Govt work my brother, if you are able to get one bro, am trying to get one and when am back by 4pm will fall back to my shop.... That is my plan.

tolugar:
Immediately you mentioned “girl” I lost Interest in your story.


When you realize your life doesn’t revolve around any girl you will be more focused and you can achieve a lot.

you are right, but time wait for nobody, am not a kid anymore now.

Mozino007:
Loo ra lappy then wa client si kuwait!

God for bid, that is the last thing I will involve myself into....anyway thanks for your time.

My name is Biodun, a product of University of Nigeria, where I read Political science/ Education, Also political science/Social studies in one of the leading colleges of education (Ekiti state) in Nigeria,.... Am done with my NYSC now, but since then life has been somehow moving with me, but I want things to turn around, my girl friend Left to marry another Man, when she believe I'm not ready, Two of them like that, I'm tired, I can't even sleep well at night anymore, will just be thinking, I'm dying pls help me, I need a job, pls kindly help me b4 things get out of control, many things on me as the first son, I have 5 junior ones, pls help me, life is very hard for me.....pls admin, please help me move it to front page.

DonHummer:
many of the states you exempted have their own share of crazy events but they don't have much nairaland members there to report it.

Tell him o....pls how can I make front page

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

My brother, it not that easy okay,....is not what you can just let go let that, since you really love her, I was once in your shoe, for complete two years I was unable to let her go, but there is nothing I can do, when I heard that she has gotten married, I just have to calm down think about what next, then open my heart to love again, from there I was able to let go, even i do think of her sometimes, I believe she doesn't want me and I thank God today I'm ok and happy

First class students, studied very well and no their way too, why others don't studied well, they don't care, dey can't extra stress themselves, and they don't know the way too.

Ecstasy154:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/09/19/edo-decides-theyre-rigging-me-out-gov-obaseki-cries-out/

you never see anything yet, you go faint when you hear the outcome of this election

Hmmmmm..... they have come with their fallacy this morning......election never even start wellar ooo....shame on you!

weyreypey:
Breaking news on ait

PDP own TV!

SATANNIST:
SOMEONE NOT SOMEBODY

see your life out side.

SATANNIST:
this one that cant spell school is also advising someone about university

and you that can't even spell CAN'T, is also correcting somebody about SCHOOL"..... life no balance o

SkengRay:
Hi Guys I'm in 300 level I'm thinking of Transferring to a public or State University from a a private uni. Is it possible and please what are the criterias

Not possible bro, a friend try it but doesn't work at the end.

Ogbuu101:
This one that could only commission toilets.
Mtcheeewww
Desmond Ediot

The one in your constituency can you name what he or she has been commissioning for the past 2-3years now?? Oga Ade