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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Help! Am In Love With Inked Nerd by InkedNerd(f): 2:32am On Apr 06, 2011
lol ah ah, leave bk.babe97y alone. We're old friends grin Anyway, I'm good. I'm still recovering from my cold, flu, or whatever it is that I have. How's work?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Everyone, Come In Plz! by InkedNerd(f): 2:29am On Apr 06, 2011
No I didn't. . . Casanova wannabe tongue
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Financial Burdens by InkedNerd(f): 2:27am On Apr 06, 2011
[quote author=BABE! link=topic=639701.msg8059724#msg8059724 date=1302035716]But that was how God planned it from the get go! That was how it was supposed to be!  cheesy

"But if any provide not for his own, especially for those of his own household, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an infidel." (somewhere in the bible, Timothy, I think.)
As a husband, your earnings are not your own but belong to your wife as well and your children.

So basically, all I'm saying is If a woman wants to depend on her husband financially, It's her right!
It's not a crime to choose to be independent or semi-independent either!. undecided

***Getting ready for a long speech from Inky***lol
***I have your time today***[/quote]God?!?! I don't think God has anything to do with this. Even before white people came to Africa and forced Christianity on the people of Africa, these notions of caring for a woman have existed long before. My comment wasn't meant to say that a woman shouldn't be dependent on a man if she wants to. If that is what she wants and her husband is ok with that then so be it. What I was pointing out was that as a society, we have gone overboard with the idea of a man caring for a woman. Some women have taken it to a whole new level and unfortunately some men have stupidly followed them to that level.

Oh hells no!!! I just realized what you wrote about me giving a long speech. I didn't even notice that part until I finished writing what I was writing grin

::[/b]Runs to go hide while BABE! responds embarassed[b]::
Nairaland GeneralRe: Everyone, Come In Plz! by InkedNerd(f): 2:19am On Apr 06, 2011
REALITY101:
Two of your questions don't worth an answer
Shaarap. Ya still mad because bingo is missin' or because I caught you cheating? Besides, I asked Araboy NOT REALITY101
Nairaland GeneralRe: Everyone, Come In Plz! by InkedNerd(f): 2:12am On Apr 06, 2011
[quote author=BABE! link=topic=638990.msg8060988#msg8060988 date=1302052227]@Araboy: If you don't mind me asking, why do always come after Advo has logged out, or gone for a vacation? smiley[/quote]Hey hey hey, one question at a time. I asked my question first angry grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Analyze nairaland Guys Here? by InkedNerd(f): 2:10am On Apr 06, 2011
Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]He's aitte, don't know much about his persona tho, red blood dude [/color] tongue
I can't even find his profile embarassed undecided
Nairaland GeneralRe: Everyone, Come In Plz! by InkedNerd(f): 2:08am On Apr 06, 2011
@Araboy: If you don't me asking, why do you and Advocator dislike each other so much?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Pan African Students Summit 2011- Accra Ghana by InkedNerd(f): 11:27pm On Apr 05, 2011
Cool, I'd love to come
Nairaland GeneralRe: Analyze nairaland Guys Here? by InkedNerd(f): 11:25pm On Apr 05, 2011
pinkrex:
Inknerd!!!huh! what about me jor?!!! wink
. . . I don't know much about you. Based on the few moments we've spoken, I don't even think you evn like me [which is fine] undecided
FamilyRe: Who Owns The Child by InkedNerd(f): 11:23pm On Apr 05, 2011
Crude Oil:
Why is everybody calling god?
Ask am o!!
FamilyRe: Who Owns The Child by InkedNerd(f): 9:24pm On Apr 05, 2011
Why are you guys even replying to the thread? The info provided is one sided. The OP hasn't given enough information to make an accurate decision tongue
RomanceRe: . by InkedNerd(f): 9:22pm On Apr 05, 2011
[quote author=BABE! link=topic=638495.msg8059617#msg8059617 date=1302034684]Pls I think any age is good to go, so far you are matured enough to know what love really is (relationships, sex and all that). Some people  who are 70+ year olds are still struggling to find love, so no big deal. Take for example Larry King, Seven wives and still going strong!   huh
So I think the young couple is good, I wish them Goodluck! smiley[/quote]Hehehe, does this council? >>> http://kabibi.com/lates-news/latest-news/3589-teacher-marries-grade-six-pupil.html#content grin
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Financial Burdens by InkedNerd(f): 9:19pm On Apr 05, 2011
@OP: What kind of women are these Nigerian girls? They sound like girls who might have had money in Nigeria and just arrived in the UK. Anyway, women like that annoy me. Sheesh!!! I see some Nigerian girls complain that guys don't give them money, gifts, etc. yet these are the same women who say they are independent. Its one thing to be in a relationship and buy gifts for one another, its another thing to expect a boyfriend, lover, partner, etc to pay for all your expenses because that is just what you expect of him. My Nigerian sistas, c'mon we seriously need to get it together. Stop claiming your independent and complaining about about someone not supporting you facially. As a whole, we as Nigerians have ourselves to blame for this. I know that Nigerian men are taught to take care of their women but I feel that in the thermocouple years, things have gotten out of hand both for men and women.

Thirst4Lif:
If the guy feels he is being taken advantage of by these women all he has to do is say NO!

It's not his responsibility to meet all of her financial needs.

If she leaves him, then fine. At least he knows what was most important to her, which wasn't him.

He should also start dealing with a better class of women. I'm not a Nigerian woman but it's

difficult to belive every Nigerian woman's sole intent is to use men for money.

It's odd this guy was raised by a Nigerian woman and grew up in a Nigerian home, but since

he's become successful he's unable to relate to them. He should just admit women from

Nigeria no longer interest him.
Yupp, agreed undecided
Music/RadioRe: What Are You Listening To Right Now? by InkedNerd(f): 8:53pm On Apr 05, 2011
"SHOKECE" by SON D AK

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tk8Wb3W_Q34&feature=related[/flash]
HealthRe: Can Skin Exfoliation Eradicate Stretch Mark? by InkedNerd(f): 8:44pm On Apr 05, 2011
@OP: Yes, exfoliating can help reduce or eliminate stretch marks. Here's a link to some info on how to exfoliate >>> http://skincare.lovetoknow.com/Home_Remedies_to_Exfoliate_Skin . Its not a spam site or anything so don't worry. Also, here's a link for ethnic skin care >>> http://skincare.lovetoknow.com/Category:Ethnic_Skin_Care
CultureRe: Colonial Alaigbo (Igboland) in Pictures by InkedNerd(f): 8:19pm On Apr 05, 2011
@OP: These pictures are lovely kiss
CultureRe: Do You Find The Word "nigga" Offensive? by InkedNerd(f): 8:18pm On Apr 05, 2011
olalekan91:
like me i don't know wot is the meaning but i think sincse people have been called "GUYS" i don't see the reason for not being called NIGGA
Oh so "guys" and "nigga" go hand in hand abi? Perhaps you need to do research before you even make a comment like that. If you don't know something then educate yourself.
HealthRe: Male Child Circumcision by InkedNerd(f): 8:15pm On Apr 05, 2011
Nekai:
At the time, my reasons for circumcising my sons was because I thought that they would face more complications uncirc'ed. I also thought that cosmetically they would look better. And I thought they would be cleaner.
Now, I know that complications can happen either way, and are more likely to happen when you mess with the natural way they were supposed to be. Cosmetically, I was very suprised to realize that they both look exactly the same when erect. As far as the cleanliness factor, the foreskin isn't designed to be pulled back until a couple of years down the road, so it wasn't like I thought.
Men have been circumcised for thousands of years without major incident, so I don't feel too badly about my boys, but I do wish I had researched more of this info before I made the decision. My research came about because I wanted to know if they were healing properly and all that. I kept coming across people with horror stories, and women that were proudly keeping their sons 'intact'. I even found out that some men elect to grow their foreskins back!
I don't have any experience with an uncircumcised partner. I was hoping to find someone who has experienced both could tell me if there was a major difference in their experience.
Oh ok, I see. Although I'm not a mother [yet], the topic has been on my mind for some time. I still wonder at it at times. Do you know of an actor named Mario Lope, when he and his wife Ali Landry were expecting their first child, the had a bit of a disagreement on whether or not to circumcise the child.
Nairaland GeneralRe: You Nigerians Should Feel Honored Today Because A Somali(me) Is Visiting Here: by InkedNerd(f): 8:04pm On Apr 05, 2011
Odunnu:
First we had to deal with the SAs who trooped in here after a 'kporakpor' meeting, then the Zimbabweans, now we have the war torn Somalians coming on here to ask us to 'honour' them. Choi! We don suffer
Lmao, didn't I say this was gonna turn into a forum war? grin. Na wa o!!!

Gee, I wonder who he next group of Africans will be after he leaves grin
FashionRe: What Are You Wearing Now? by InkedNerd(f): 7:56pm On Apr 05, 2011
I'm wearing my birthday suit. . . Just got out of the shower grin
RomanceRe: . by InkedNerd(f): 7:38pm On Apr 05, 2011
kandiikane:
The country she is living in the legal age to date any age and to marry is 16 so technically  she was not a minor
Hmmm, well in some states here in the US its legal to date and marry at 16 undecided

Well I guess if its within the law and her parents approve, then its ok.
Music/RadioRe: What Are You Listening To Right Now? by InkedNerd(f): 9:43am On Apr 05, 2011
"Be Easy" by Massari kiss

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkgA1dbVNdg[/flash]

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