Chicolee: Please who knows any good darkening soap or cream. The price doesn't matter. Your suggestions are needed.

swizzle: How did you think babies were made before you got to know how they were really made? I can't really remember at what point I knew that something had 2 be inserted somewhere but I tot the guy had to pee inside the lady! grin. I had a friend that thought if u prayed u got pregnant! . So people what did u guys think before life took away all the innocence?

ayodot: Hi @all. I don't know what I have been doing wrong lately and I need help seriously. After summon up the the courage to pour out my heart to a lady, we start getting along but before I know it I'm in the prison called 'Friend Zone'.
Maybe there something I'm doing wrong hence need your advice.
Abeg this Na serious matter oh.

aiyeboy: some days ago why on a chat with a lady,which somehow led to who is more
faithful between a guy and a lady
as a good boy i supported the guys because i knew i was among and i never loosed an argument
we argued this for over 15mins
in which she finally said,most ladies who had become unfaithful were being poisoned by the guys
yea i held her down there..
if u were changed to a direction that will ruin u,will u follow?
they arent right ad they wanna settle down with mr right has their husband?
i ended by giving a fake analysisreason i dont loose arguments
which is 80% of the ladies are unfaithful
while 50% of the boys are unfaithful too.
so dear nairalanders what do u see to this, am i right or wrong?

sauer:
Oh shhit! Didn't realize that. Don't give up on me, sweery. Okay, I'll buy you Agege bread. okay? We should talk, lest I vex and go star in a new version of Eat, Love, Pray. This time I'll be searching for you all over the place.

Btw, seeing my post in Times New Roman was kinda wierd, you know.

sauer:
**In Seth's voice** You bailed on me. And I thought we were friends.

Osynan:

pls i need medimix too.hw can u help me get it?

pro01: If you believe what a girl says about this money/spending issue, then you're on a looong thing. The ones that don't ask for cash outright are often the most dangerous sef. They lure you into a false sense of safety (as in, oh my babe is different oh, she is not demanding and money-conscious like the others, modupe fun Olorun oh). Na big lie. More often than not, those types expect you to use your 'church mind' (as the colloquialism goes) to 'support' them with cash where necessary, or buy them nice gifts every now and then, take them out to swanky places/ eat outs ever so frequently, etc (all of which still require varying levels of spending). If you fail to do those, she might not complain, but she'd sooner or later cave in to the pressures of more spendthrift 'alternatives' - in addition to the 'wise counsel' of her friends, sisters and whatnot - and manufacture a convenient non-spending-related reason to dump your broke/stingy/recession-hit azz for a more 'caring' and 'reasonable' guy.

For most Naija females (regardless of 'class'), while you might not have to spend to gain access to her 'love' (whatever that means to you), more often than not, you need to spend to retain/maintain/sustain/consolidate your access to that so-called love. . .as the case may be.

acidtalk: Must money exchange hands on several occasions before a lady start to open her heart for a guy?

I keep hearing a lady say things like;

*If you love me then buy the phone for me.

*To prove you really love me, take me along with you on that trip.

*If you really care for me then send the flight ticket and so many others.

When I was younger, I used to be 'too' nice to both boys and girls. No one came to me with a problem and leaving without being half solved. This happened until my University days when a fellow course mate made a statement. She said "if you don't have money for lunch or transport to return home, always go and ask acidtalk". I felt most ashamed and considered myself as "father christmas.

Now the thing is, I still give though but seperates necessity from generousity as I have discovered people will also look at you as a weakling even though he just genuinely feel for their "sorry state".

My question is; Can a man still get loved even when he does spend? Or is love basically won by finances?

Mynd_44: So you are back for good?

bennyraz: @inked_nerd.. Welcome back

freecocoa: Alrighty dear,you gat all the time you need,i missed you loads too.

Ranoscky: Inked nerd, u know "two HOT guys on here but u forgot their names...??

Ah! Nerd of all nerds, u ain't tellin the truth o, walai.

Mynd_44:
Leave her nah. She might be shy

pendo89:

But you are one of the posters who post sense. I truly enjoy reading ur fact based points.
if people like u go mia we are left with lefu to make us laugh nt inform.
come back.

bennyraz: where hav u been?

Mynd_44:
What I fail to believe is that your throughout your whole yim here, you were not attracted to any character

freecocoa:

You,you no dey try sha.

Mynd_44: ^^
say the truth