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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Where R These Nairalanders? by InkedNerd(f): 4:03am On Nov 05, 2016
I'm actually still around. I just don't post and rarely ever log in. Hope everyone's good though.

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Fashion / Re: No Pants Subway Ride Proves Passengers Need Better Underwear by InkedNerd(f): 5:46pm On Mar 13, 2013
lol I didn't know other cities around the world did that.
Fashion / Re: Skin Darkening Soap Or Cream by InkedNerd(f): 5:44pm On Mar 13, 2013
Chicolee: Please who knows any good darkening soap or cream. The price doesn't matter. Your suggestions are needed.

What do you mean by darkening soap or cream? Do you want to become darker?
Romance / Re: How Did You Think Babies Were Made Before You Eventually Found Out How? by InkedNerd(f): 6:53am On Mar 13, 2013
swizzle: How did you think babies were made before you got to know how they were really made? I can't really remember at what point I knew that something had 2 be inserted somewhere but I tot the guy had to pee inside the lady! grin. I had a friend that thought if u prayed u got pregnant! shocked. So people what did u guys think before life took away all the innocence?

Honestly, I don't know. I never really thought about it. To be honest when I was a kid, I actually used to think a woman could give birth to a child who was any age.
Romance / Re: Don't Want The Friends Zone No More by InkedNerd(f): 6:26am On Mar 13, 2013
ayodot: Hi @all. I don't know what I have been doing wrong lately and I need help seriously. After summon up the the courage to pour out my heart to a lady, we start getting along but before I know it I'm in the prison called 'Friend Zone'.
Maybe there something I'm doing wrong hence need your advice.
Abeg this Na serious matter oh.

For us to know what you're doing wrong, we'd have to know what you're doing period. So, what have you been doing with her?
Romance / Re: Who Is Less Faithful,a Guy Or Lady by InkedNerd(f): 6:23am On Mar 13, 2013
aiyeboy: some days ago why on a chat with a lady,which somehow led to who is more
faithful between a guy and a lady
as a good boy i supported the guys because i knew i was among and i never loosed an argument
we argued this for over 15mins
in which she finally said,most ladies who had become unfaithful were being poisoned by the guys
yea i held her down there..
if u were changed to a direction that will ruin u,will u follow?
they arent right ad they wanna settle down with mr right has their husband?
i ended by giving a fake analysisreason i dont loose arguments
which is 80% of the ladies are unfaithful
while 50% of the boys are unfaithful too.
so dear nairalanders what do u see to this, am i right or wrong?

Is it that you didn't lose or that the girl you were arguing with didn't have enough sense to dispute those bogus numbers you provided? How is it that you even came up with those numbers? Do you have any facts to back them up or do you simply like to believe that you've had your way in an argument?

I'm gonna be very honest. Both men are women are faithful and unfaithful (some more than others) but it is certainly not a gender based thing--it's a human thing.

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Fashion / Re: Fallacy About Acne(pimples) by InkedNerd(f): 6:21am On Mar 12, 2013
sauer:
Oh shhit! Didn't realize that. Don't give up on me, sweery. Okay, I'll buy you Agege bread. okay? We should talk, lest I vex and go star in a new version of Eat, Love, Pray. This time I'll be searching for you all over the place.

Btw, seeing my post in Times New Roman was kinda wierd, you know. tongue

Agege bread?!?! shocked kiss shocked kiss
lol @ you in Eat, Pray, Love.

Why's it weird to see my text in times new roman? Wasn't it like that before?
Fashion / Re: Fallacy About Acne(pimples) by InkedNerd(f): 4:18am On Mar 10, 2013
sauer:
**In Seth's voice** You bailed on me. sad And I thought we were friends.

No I didn't. I tried IMing you a couple of times after we last exchanged IMs but I didn't hear back from you so I just gave up embarassed cry
Fashion / Re: Fallacy About Acne(pimples) by InkedNerd(f): 8:46am On Mar 07, 2013
@EVERYONE: For those of you who use the Medimix soap, please be aware the company has changed the design of the soap box. It now looks like the image posted below. It's still the same so if you come across a box of the old Medimix design, you can still use it as well.



Osynan:

pls i need medimix too.hw can u help me get it?

One of the members on previously mentioned that they bought theirs at 26b, Olutunda Street, Ilupeju; Lagos--the name of d shop is "Shop Perfect". Aside from that, I have no idea as to where you will be able to purchase the soap. All I can say is to be on the lookout if/when you are shopping within the Lagos area. Good luck! smiley

Romance / Re: Ladies Do You Like Men With Dreads? by InkedNerd(f): 12:44am On Nov 15, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


Girl...he has plenty of brothers but they are hoes. grin grin

Thanks! Baby C got her daddy's nose. Arggggh. lipsrsealed

What happened to your husband? All of a sudden you have a boyfriend. Damn, I missed out on a lot undecided
Romance / Re: Ladies Do You Like Men With Dreads? by InkedNerd(f): 12:37am On Nov 15, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


Say hi to your niece. kiss kiss kiss Missed you too! Got me a Greek boyfriend. tongue

Awww, she's cute! kiss


Greek boyfriend?!

You been holding out on me? I demand that you direct me to his brothers (if he has any) angry grin
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Stripper? - Please, Be Honest by InkedNerd(f): 12:04am On Nov 15, 2012
pleep: ^ like 100% of male stippers are homos.

Smh, that's such a huge misconception tongue
Romance / Re: Ladies Do You Like Men With Dreads? by InkedNerd(f): 12:00am On Nov 15, 2012
Mrs.Chima:
i

Inkie!!!!! How far na?

Hey sis! Missed ya. Been gone for a while but I'm back now. What's up?
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Stripper? - Please, Be Honest by InkedNerd(f): 11:52pm On Nov 14, 2012
Sure I can. Especially if he or she is shakin' it for me and bringing home money for the two of us grin
Romance / Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by InkedNerd(f): 11:25pm On Nov 14, 2012
Idowuogbo:
Inkyyyyyyyyy!!!!! shocked

* In her Bronx accent* Gawd gal!! Wia u bin?
lol just been busy. Nairaland got kinda wack so I left. I was in class so I decided to kill time so I logged on to see what's new. What'd I miss girl? grin
Romance / Re: Ladies Do You Like Men With Dreads? by InkedNerd(f): 11:18pm On Nov 14, 2012
I'm totally open to being with a guy who has dreads. I was with one before and his hair was beautiful. It was curly and was light golden brown. I believe I mentioned it before on a thread once. I used to love playing around with his hair, especially when he'd get then re-twisted.
Romance / Re: People Of Which Tribe Are Least Likely To Marry People From Other Tribes? by InkedNerd(f): 10:52pm On Nov 14, 2012
Onuokwu:

No doubt you do. The question is from your observations which ones are least or more likely to marry outside their tribes/comfort zones.

Well nna, here's the thing about your question, though I am aware that as individuals of various ethnic backgrounds, cultural backgrounds, and religious backgrounds, I can't necessarily say that I would use objective observation as a means of "rooting out" who I'd be most or least likely to marry. There are things that I don't like about men of certain nationalities based on what I've observed but I never used it as a means of creating some sort of hierarchy as to who I'd marry. I've heard members of my family speak ill of a particular ethnic group but never in my life have I ever used that to judge a whole group. Yes, there generalizations (and I'm sure those generalizations stem from somewhere) and certain common characteristics but I wouldn't use that as a means of not wanting to get to know marry, or rank an individual. My response isn't written with the intention on being politically correct, it is written because that is truly what I think and feel.
Romance / Re: People Of Which Tribe Are Least Likely To Marry People From Other Tribes? by InkedNerd(f): 6:29pm On Nov 14, 2012
I have no personal preference, I love my Nigerian men all the same kiss

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Romance / Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by InkedNerd(f): 6:23pm On Nov 14, 2012
Personally, I'd say none of the above. The concept of marriage is one that tends to stem from social construct. Is it a nice felling to know that there is someone who will be with you through thick and thin? Indeed it is nice but you don't need an institutional, social, or religious (yes, I know religion wasn't mentioned) concept to really enable to have a feeling of personal higher existence.

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Romance / Re: Can A Man Still Get Loved Even If He Doesn't Spend? by InkedNerd(f): 7:09am On Jul 23, 2012
pro01: If you believe what a girl says about this money/spending issue, then you're on a looong thing. The ones that don't ask for cash outright are often the most dangerous sef. They lure you into a false sense of safety (as in, oh my babe is different oh, she is not demanding and money-conscious like the others, modupe fun Olorun oh). Na big lie. More often than not, those types expect you to use your 'church mind' (as the colloquialism goes) to 'support' them with cash where necessary, or buy them nice gifts every now and then, take them out to swanky places/ eat outs ever so frequently, etc (all of which still require varying levels of spending). If you fail to do those, she might not complain, but she'd sooner or later cave in to the pressures of more spendthrift 'alternatives' - in addition to the 'wise counsel' of her friends, sisters and whatnot - and manufacture a convenient non-spending-related reason to dump your broke/stingy/recession-hit azz for a more 'caring' and 'reasonable' guy.

For most Naija females (regardless of 'class'), while you might not have to spend to gain access to her 'love' (whatever that means to you), more often than not, you need to spend to retain/maintain/sustain/consolidate your access to that so-called love. . .as the case may be.

Like Wislet, there is a heaping load of bias within your statement. While there are bits and pieces of what you said that could make sense only in the minds of bitter men who feel that they have been "wronged", that's not to way that what you've said in its entirety is true. Newsflash, not everyone is out to get your menfolk. Perhaps if you'd take a step back and examine the culture which fosters such notions of a man spending on a woman to "show his love" then you might just see the intricate details in such occurrences. At the end of it all, no one can force you me, or any other inidividual to spend what you don't want to spend, nor can they force you to do what you don't want to do. If someone regardless of gender or motive has given you reason to believe that their reasons for wanting to be in your company may not be what it appears to be then I suggest you re-evalute your relationship with the inidivual.
TV/Movies / Re: What Are You Watching Right Now? by InkedNerd(f): 6:44am On Jul 22, 2012
@OP: Right now, I'm watching "Black house". The next movie I wanna see is Hara-Kiri: Death of a Samurai. I heard it's really gory grin tongue

Romance / Re: Can A Man Still Get Loved Even If He Doesn't Spend? by InkedNerd(f): 6:18am On Jul 22, 2012
acidtalk: Must money exchange hands on several occasions before a lady start to open her heart for a guy?

I keep hearing a lady say things like;

*If you love me then buy the phone for me.

*To prove you really love me, take me along with you on that trip.

*If you really care for me then send the flight ticket and so many others.

When I was younger, I used to be 'too' nice to both boys and girls. No one came to me with a problem and leaving without being half solved. This happened until my University days when a fellow course mate made a statement. She said "if you don't have money for lunch or transport to return home, always go and ask acidtalk". I felt most ashamed and considered myself as "father christmas.

Now the thing is, I still give though but seperates necessity from generousity as I have discovered people will also look at you as a weakling even though he just genuinely feel for their "sorry state".

My question is; Can a man still get loved even when he does spend? Or is love basically won by finances?

Yes, a man can still be loved if he doesn't spend. I have met guys who have been quite generous when it came to their finances but because of my feelings towards a guy spending money on me, I tend to shy away from things like that. When I was in high school, I used to spend money on my best friend all the time [my best friend is a guy by the way]--everything from going out to eat, buying him clothes, or paying for him to take his SAT and ACT. For me, at that time I never saw it as an issue and neither did he. It was always understood that my generosity towards him was based on love [like a brother and sister]. At this point, you're probably wondering what the hell does me spending money on my best friend have to do with this? My point is, I was raised with the idea that I didn't need s guy to constantly pay for things for me. Yes, I understand that I am very much a part of a culture that teaches men that one of many ways to show care or affection for a woman is to "shower" her with items of generosity but having a guy "shower" me with gifts isn't a bad thing but I do like the idea of being able to take care of myself. As a whole, it usually takes me a while before I can actually accept something from a guy. It's something that I tend to put off for quite a while or at least till that person and I have established a solid relationship.

For me, love isn't won by finances rather it is won by the character of the guy.

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Romance / Re: What Do You Enjoy Here In This Section? by InkedNerd(f): 5:51am On Jul 22, 2012
Mynd_44: So you are back for good?

Yeah, I'll try to post as often as I can.

bennyraz: @inked_nerd.. Welcome back grin

Thanks! kiss
Romance / Re: Who Would U Choose? by InkedNerd(f): 5:46am On Jul 22, 2012
freecocoa: Alrighty dear,you gat all the time you need,i missed you loads too.

Thanks! cool


Ranoscky: Inked nerd, u know "two HOT guys on here but u forgot their names...??

Ah! Nerd of all nerds, u ain't tellin the truth o, walai.

lol as odd as it may sound, it's true. I did tell one of the guys that he was handsome but the other one, I never mentioned to him that I thought he was a hottie. I may not remember his name but I remember the ethnic group he was from. . . I can't say though, because it might be a dead give away on who he is.

Mynd_44:
Leave her nah. She might be shy

lol, I wasn't shy--I just didn't see the need in doing anything else.
Romance / Re: What Do You Enjoy Here In This Section? by InkedNerd(f): 10:51am On Jul 21, 2012
pendo89:

But you are one of the posters who post sense. I truly enjoy reading ur fact based points.
if people like u go mia we are left with lefu to make us laugh nt inform.
come back.

lol, I'm not gonna lie as annoying as some Nairalanders can be I have missed this forum and the people on it. Being on this site is like being on a Nigerian version of the Osbournes grin

bennyraz: where hav u been?

I decided to stay away from Nairaland for some time. I let my emotions get the best of me and got emotionally involved to something that rubbed me the wrong way so I needed some time away from Nairaland before I came back. I'm back [again] though smiley
Romance / Re: What Do You Enjoy Here In This Section? by InkedNerd(f): 9:06am On Jul 21, 2012
@OP: Well, I used to enjoy reading people's perspectives on certain issues but now it just feels like everything is watered down tongue
Romance / Re: Who Would U Choose? by InkedNerd(f): 8:39am On Jul 21, 2012
Mynd_44:
What I fail to believe is that your throughout your whole yim here, you were not attracted to any character

lol of course I have some attraction to certain characters on this forum, that is something I most definitely will not lie about but among those I have had any inkling attraction to, it would most likely be someone/anyone who I think I'm compatible with. I did see two guy on Nairaland who were HOT!!!! But I don't even remember their names.

freecocoa:

You,you no dey try sha. angry

No vex sista. I've got some new to share with you. Missed ya but I'll explain everything, just gimme some time cheesy
Romance / Re: Who Would U Choose? by InkedNerd(f): 8:15am On Jul 21, 2012
Mynd_44: ^^
say the truth

lol as open as I have been on this forum, do you truly think I'm bluffing?

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