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@Kelvinj, Dr finn, queeneve: Thank you for your compliments, I really appreciate it.

@Tusky44: Your reason(s) for being disappointed is beyond me. I don't understand nor do I care to understand why you are "disappointed". He [MOBO444] asked me [and several other women] questions and I answered them so what did I do that was so wrong? Since apparently you "respect" women more when they talk less about "equality" I guess your respect means nothing to me and yes I know you don't care that it means nothing to me. I didn't see you calling out MOBO444 when he was trying to be the poster child for the supposed inequality of the banking system within Nigeria. MOBO444 talks crap about women constantly yet the moment I say something to him then all of a sudden I'm "too hard". To hell with that. 

@--190-- : No, I don't hate you. Your just annoy at times.

@Saintp: With all due respect, I understand that you think that I shouldn't have responded to MOBO444's idiotic post, but I didn't really see the harm in answering. I know mama-gee wouldn't have answered, but her an I are two different people. If my response to you in this comment comes across as mean, then please forgive me. Those are not my intentions.

@everyone else: I know some of you think that in my response that I came across as bitter or angry, but I wasn't. I thought his idiotic post was assuming. I don't feel that I was harsh with my response to MOBO444.

@derolly:

derolly:
@inked_nerd

I luv your response to the above questions,
wow! am impressed at the age of 21 i think u've learned alot and got  a very sound knowledge in regard to few positive post u've made to several threads
on NL.
All the same wish u cld give me a chance to knw u more better
I knw hw protective u re about revealing your true identity on NL, me neither, i can assure u dat   i knw no one on NL merely got registered by june and only interested on fascinating topics
better still u can make it a platonic one with me thru YIM or FB

Thank you for the compliment. And yes, you're right. I am protective about my identity. I mean lets be honest, there are some really sheisty people on Nairaland. Some of the things that I've seen transpire on this site makes a gal think twice about wanting to befriend anyone outside of Nairaland.

Mobinga:
Inked Nerd
Googles

sexylogan:
Interesting thread. Ladies, watever u decide to wear is entirely up to u. Just remember that the way u Dress determines how u'l be Addressed. Touché.

Thanks sexylogan

albridge:
oh my God there is a problem

lmao

Hehehe, I'm liking the discussion already. I'll be back to this thread in a bit to throw in my two cents.

Omolola1:
@inkd, why dont u giv your opinion first. @topic, both are gud but sex education without abstinence is nothng.

I want to wait a while before I respond. There are a couple of things going through my mind at the moment about this topic.

googles:
Hmm first things first i dont like wen pple quote me and in the same breath tell me its rubbish. . . dats not nice _{except its pple dat really type rubbish} 

- if i wear watever is showing my cleavage it doesnt make me more of a sinner than those sleeping with themselves in church/religious gathering

- wat you are wearing does not make you. never judge a book by its cover

- wearing a cleavage showing thing is not a tenable excuse for r[i]a[/i]pe . . .besides I've seen cases where scarf-tying sisters have been ra[i]pe[/i]d 

- I should wear wat i feel comfortable in. . . not wat you feel comfortable seeing me in

- before civilization we Africans used to go around na[i]ke[/i]d, butt and balls outside nobody complained then  so why the complaints now. call it 

   semi-african way of dressing _{mixing the old with the new} 

Nice points googles

Hehehe, good question femmy. I wanna see how people reply to this.

Spyker:
Size of what (i feign Ignorance).

The size of your manhood "down there".

SA Goddess:
Mine has been relaxed but it is a mission to keep it looking good so I usually braid it. . . . . . this time around, I want to stay away from chemicals. . . . . . .

Good for you . I'm more into using natural methods of caring for my hair. For example, I don't use shampoo or conditioner and I make my own hair styling products. To wash my hair, I use black soap or castile soap. Then to condition, I use avocado and honey or extra virgin olive oil. For moisturizer, I use shea butter, and for styling it varies depending on what I want do with my hair. All in all, I try to keep it as natural and as simple as possible. It a lot cheaper and healthier than buying products that are loaded with tons of chemicals.

Gamine:
Why are you doing a second BC, I'm excited going for my first!

Well, over the past couple of months I haven't exactly been nice to my hair. While I was in London last year, I decided to cut my hair but my family freaked out and talked me out of it [lol] so because of them nearly having a heart attack, I postponed it. Now, I'm ready to do it again. Its grown quite a bit over the past couple of months and I want some change. Your gonna love it when you do the BC, trust me .

Yes, it is a bad thing. That sort of behavior will allow people to take advantage of you and walk all over you. There is nothing wrong with giving. You just need to so it in a manner that doesn't allow other to believe that you're some sort of push over. Hope that helps.

ice234:
everyone has different ways of wat classifing a wife material. i dont think eating out should be one, i thik character should be. girls eat out for so many reasons

Nice one

Marhoski:
nah, wanna catch all you

Hehehe

googles:


anyone ever heard of "TO EACH HIS OWN" or the Nigerian say "ONE MAN'S MEAT. . . ANOVA'S BONE"

Of course, for some when they hear it, it goes in one ear and out the other.

Marhoski:
you were shaking your head na, dint want it to fall off

lol, you go catch am.

albridge:
just know that our actions are always supporting the growth or decline of some social vices. people who talk like this are actually lending themselves to the increase of despoil, premarital sex, divorce, unstable and unhappy marriages, the death and destruction of marriage as a whole in society and are very likely to bring up sexually immoral and socially deviant children. i hope you all are ready for the harvest you are planting

LMFAO, smfh .

[quote author=Alusi_oji link=topic=510934.msg6724156#msg6724156 date=1284020745]@ inked Nerd

your mouth too sharp. u are always in defence of woman try & be neutral in your judgements.[/quote]

Marhoski:
hey its not what u think ^

And what is it that you think that I think?

Marhoski:
^^baby plz dont mind him, buh lets hook up so i'll give him feedback

looool, smh.

SA Goddess:
I am sure weaves and the likes work for people. . . . . . . . .I personally could never understand how one puts something on them that is so far from self, but hey, whatever blows their WEAVE back 

I like being real both internally and externally, it's worked for me so far!

Same here. Besides, I don't know how to take care of relaxed and weaved hair. The whole thing is just mind boggling.

REALITY101:
What is fast food

Definition of fast food:
1: of, relating to, or specializing in food that can be prepared and served quickly <a fast–food restaurant>

2: designed for ready availability, use, or consumption and with little consideration given to quality or significance <fast–food TV programming>

Some examples of fast food restaurants are Wendy's, Burger King, McDonald's, Taco Bell, and many more.

[quote author=s.ohiemi link=topic=510677.msg6723770#msg6723770 date=1284011695]@inked wat is asexual?[/quote]When I say asexual, I don't mean it in the biological sense as only one parent is involved in asexual reproduction [just wanted to make sure I differentiated]

An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction. Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are. Asexuality does not make our lives any worse or any better, we just face a different set of challenges than most sexual people. There is considerable diversity among the asexual community; each asexual person experiences things like relationships, attraction, and arousal somewhat differently. Asexuality is just beginning to be the subject of scientific research

SA Goddess:
Does our hair define who we are as women?  I have always had long glossy hair, the envy of many women as they think it is a weave, I have never put in a weave by the way, anyway, I cut my hair and people were really surprised, wanting to know "WHY".  Surely change is good for us all, a fresh start.  I am rocking a brush cut right now and shower time is the best time for me, no need to worry about a shower cap or the right shampoo!

Please share your views, would you ever cut your hair, if not why?  Are you more comfortable in weaves and hair extensions than your own hair, short or long?

Yes, I would cut my hair. I've done it before. About 2 ½ years ago, I cut all of my shoulder length hair off. It was a wonderful feeling because everyone was so used to me having shoulder length hair. I have natural unrelaxed/unpermed natural hair. In about a week and a half. I'll be cutting my hair again. I look forward to it. I've already made an appointment at a natural hair salon. I've never had a weave either. The idea of sewing, gluing, or bonding any type of artificial hair to my head is quite mind boggling. I never really understood why women [and some men] do it. Hehehe, I guess the way I look at weave is the same way that relaxed and weaved women look at me and my natural hair. I'm comfortable having my hair short or long. Either way is fine for me.

Omg, a natural hair thread . This is wonderful. I'm about to do my second BC in a couple of days. I'm so excited. Can't wait to BC again. Are there any natural haired women in this thread who are in New York?

Hmmm, I got nothing. They think I'm asexual. . .

Eating fast food does mean you can't cook. I eat at Chipotle once or twice [at the most three] times a week but it doesn't mean that I can't cook, I just enjoy the food there. Eating/enjoying fast food is based on a persons individual liking. It has nothing to do with whether to not you can or can't cook.

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=510057.msg6720990#msg6720990 date=1283965273]^^ and F-U do u have 2 go down 2 insults and self denial. G2H [/quote]Hehehe, having a hissy fit eh? How cute. My intention wasn't to insult you but if that's how you took it then oh well.

skillero:
Inked dear, I aasked how your day was? Need a low down please!!!

My day was fine. I wasn't able to reply because I was temporarily  stripped of my posting privileges.

Firearm:
we dont talk/show ourselves on NL.
we know were we meet.

am off!

Neither.