what their husbands paid hard earned cash for.

oookkkaaayyy

actually deep soul I would have to disagree that they have low self esteem. . . . I would venture to say that it would take high self esteem to wear what you want regardless of public pressure

Not to say that some dress the way they do to get lots of attention. . . . but u can show skin and still be classy and sexy.

why not show what your mama gave ya. . . . .

a nice v-neck with some apple bottom pants aint gonna hurt anyone, and if you have a flat stomach why not wear a shirt that shows that skin, it can be done very tastefully

Inked_Nerd:

A bride price shouldn't even exist this day in age!! At what point in time did I become property?!?! It is degrading to women.

Inked_Nerd:

Yes, I did type that. You read it didn't you?!?!

Its a shame that an african woman would vomit these comments

hey sistawoman, how are u,
its bin a while,

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hey sistawoman, how are u,
its bin a while,

This is not "a while", its ages. anyway wellcome!

What up with FURRY AZZ and MR.BIGGS?

Did someone pissed in your ice cream bowl? GOODNESS GRACIOUS!

@op. The ladies will tell u that it is called civilization. I will rather call it stupidazation. Near nudity is one of the negative effects of nollywood industry. Moreover i don't give a Damn @least i get free shots to the unknown, then decide ma nxt move. Furthermore a lil imagination will not murder me will it?

The ladies will tell u that it is called civilization. I will rather call it stupidazation.

the truth, the truth, so bitter.

"but the world rejected him because they loved the darkness rather than the light cos their deeds were evil"

the truth, the truth, they just love to argue blindly rather than listen to the truth and change for the better

9-11:

Its a shame that an african woman would vomit these comments

Oh well. If you don't like it then too bad for you.

Oh well. If you don't like it then too bad for you.

just know that our actions are always supporting the growth or decline of some social vices. people who talk like this are actually lending themselves to the increase of rape, premarital sex, divorce, unstable and unhappy marriages, the death and destruction of marriage as a whole in society and are very likely to bring up sexually immoral and socially deviant children. i hope you all are ready for the harvest you are planting

albridge:

just know that our actions are always supporting the growth or decline of some social vices. people who talk like this are actually lending themselves to the increase of despoil, premarital sex, divorce, unstable and unhappy marriages, the death and destruction of marriage as a whole in society and are very likely to bring up sexually immoral and socially deviant children. i hope you all are ready for the harvest you are planting

LMFAO, smfh .

anyone ever heard of "TO EACH HIS OWN" or the Nigerian say "ONE MAN'S MEAT. . . ANOVA'S BONE"

googles:



anyone ever heard of "TO EACH HIS OWN" or the Nigerian say "ONE MAN'S MEAT. . . ANOVA'S BONE"

Of course, for some when they hear it, it goes in one ear and out the other.

anyone ever heard of "TO EACH HIS OWN" or  the Nigerian say "ONE MAN'S MEAT. . .  ANOVA'S BONE"

thats the sort of rubbish i hear people say these days as if to say that anything goes. well my dear lets stop deceiving ourselves and accept the truth that somethings are just basic for the good of the human race. if something is wrong lets say it is rather than say things like "one mans meat is another mans poison". if a serial despoiler and murderer despoiled you (God forbid) would you condemn his actions and wish the slim ball would rot in hell or would you get on national tv and calmly say "well i guess he cant help it. thats just how he is" or would you say "he didnt do anything bad because despoiling me wasnt all that bad. i mean one mans meat is another mans poison." the reason why crime, despoil, and all other forms of negative social vices are on the increase is because no one condemns that which is wrong any more and reward those things that are right.  

albridge:

thats the sort of rubbish i hear people say these days as if to say that anything goes. well my dear lets stop deceiving ourselves and accept the truth that somethings are just basic for the good of the human race. if something is wrong lets say it is rather than say things like "one mans meat is another mans poison". if a serial despoiler and murderer despoiled you (God forbid) would you condemn his actions and wish the slim ball would rot in hell or would you get on national tv and calmly say "well i guess he cant help it. thats just how he is" or would you say "he didnt do anything bad because despoiling me wasnt all that bad. i mean one mans meat is another mans poison." the reason why crime, despoil, and all other forms of negative social vices are on the increase is because no one condemns that which is wrong any more and reward those things that are right.  

Hmm first things first i dont like wen pple quote me and in the same breath tell me its rubbish. . . dats not nice _{except its pple dat really type rubbish}

- if i wear watever is showing my cleavage it doesnt make me more of a sinner than those sleeping with themselves in church/religious gathering

- wat you are wearing does not make you. never judge a book by its cover

- wearing a cleavage showing thing is not a tenable excuse for r[i]a[/i]pe . . .besides I've seen cases where scarf-tying sisters have been ra[i]pe[/i]d

- I should wear wat i feel comfortable in. . . not wat you feel comfortable seeing me in

- before civilization we Africans used to go around na[i]ke[/i]d, butt and balls outside nobody complained then so why the complaints now. call it

semi-african way of dressing _{mixing the old with the new}

googles:


Hmm first things first i dont like wen pple quote me and in the same breath tell me its rubbish. . . dats not nice _{except its pple dat really type rubbish} 

- if i wear watever is showing my cleavage it doesnt make me more of a sinner than those sleeping with themselves in church/religious gathering

- wat you are wearing does not make you. never judge a book by its cover

- wearing a cleavage showing thing is not a tenable excuse for r[i]a[/i]pe . . .besides I've seen cases where scarf-tying sisters have been ra[i]pe[/i]d 

- I should wear wat i feel comfortable in. . . not wat you feel comfortable seeing me in

- before civilization we Africans used to go around na[i]ke[/i]d, butt and balls outside nobody complained then  so why the complaints now. call it 

   semi-african way of dressing _{mixing the old with the new} 

Nice points googles

oh my God there is a problem

albridge:

oh my God there is a problem

lmao

Interesting thread. Ladies, watever u decide to wear is entirely up to u. Just remember that the way u Dress determines how u'l be Addressed. Touché.

sexylogan:

Interesting thread. Ladies, watever u decide to wear is entirely up to u. Just remember that the way u Dress determines how u'l be Addressed. Touché.

Thanks sexylogan

Inked Nerd
Googles

Mobinga:

Inked Nerd
Googles

albridge:

oh my God there is a problem

Err sorry am a woman human rights activist. . . . i couldnt help it

If you were sitting next to your dad when you said this I'm pretty sure you'll be rubbing your cheeks by now.

well said

@Flashfast1: No, I would not be rubbing my cheeks. My father is fully aware that I am an opinionated and vocal about my views and he's ok with that. Even if he wasn't so what??

i am also very very opinionated and vocal!!!!!

but .lets not mix being vocal and all that with tradition

ladygaga:

i am also very very opinionated and vocal!!!!!

but .lets not mix being vocal and all that with tradition

Why wouldn't the two mix? Are we not discussing tradition? For me to discuss these traditions, do I not need to express myself?

@inked nerd
i never said u didnt need to express urself

just my own opinion too,

ladygaga:



@inked nerd
i never said u didnt need to express urself

just my own opinion too,

Ok